Q: What's the dress code?

A: Dressy casual with a bohemian flair! Think garden party meets adventure-chic — flowy dresses, slacks, button-downs, blazers, vests and earthy touches. The ceremony is outdoors, so plan for comfortable shoes. A shawl or wrap is a good idea for November 1st temperatures in Charlotte.

Q: Is the wedding outdoors?

A: Yes! The ceremony will take place under the pergola by the lake at Colonel Francis Beatty Park — it’s a stunning natural setting. The reception will follow indoors at the Lake Pointe Hall. We recommend comfortable shoes and a light jacket for the November weather.

At the end of the ceremony, our ushers and wedding coordinators will guide guests to form a line along the path, each holding a stem of pampas grass. Kevin and I will walk back through the arch you create — a symbolic and heartfelt close to the ceremony before we head into the celebration.

Q: What time should we arrive?

A: The ceremony begins at 3:00 PM sharp. Please arrive between 2:30 and 2:55 PM to allow time for parking, mingling, and finding your seat.

Q: Will there be food and drinks?

A: Absolutely! Cocktail hour runs from 3:30–4:30 PM, featuring beer, wine, water, tea, lemonade, and hors d'oeuvres. A buffet dinner will be served from 5:00–6:00 PM, with delicious food, dessert, and both alcoholic and non-alcoholic options.

Q: Is there assigned seating?

A: Yes, we’ve created a thoughtful table plan for the reception. Look for your name at the welcome table when you arrive. If you need help, just ask — we’ve got you!

Q: What should we know about the park venue?

A: There’s plenty of parking at Colonel Francis Beatty Park. Follow the signage to the event space — The Lake Pointe Hall building is deep in the park. It’s a gorgeous tree-lined drive that should be especially beautiful this time of year. Come a little early and take it all in!

Q: Can we take photos?

A: We’ll have a photographer capturing all the moments! During the ceremony, we kindly ask for an unplugged experience so everyone can be present with us. Afterward, feel free to snap away and tag your pics with #realloveisrael.

Q: Where should we stay?

A: Check out the Travel page and Things to Do page on our website for lodging suggestions, plus local eats and fun things to do around Charlotte!

Q: Is there a rain plan?

A: Yep! If there’s light rain, we may still hold the ceremony outside. If needed, we’ll move everything inside by the fireplace. Rain or shine, the celebration goes on!