Dust off your dancing shoes and get ready to party. Just remember the Ceremony itself in a church and there will be monks present. Please remember the Abbey is their home and should be treated accordingly. For those of you less acquainted with attire recommendations, smart business casual means the following: Masculine wear: dress pants (yes khakis are okay), tie or jacket, no need to wear both unless you have a desire to do so. Feminine wear: bring out your cocktail dress, sundress, or stop them in their tracks Romper, no need for a ball gown unless you want to wear one. This is a late spring / early summer wedding feel free to wear fun colors, accessories and shoes. This is a croc friendly reception.