Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton

Rehearsal Dinner and After Dinner Drinks

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

After Party

Our Wedding

Our Story

They say love has a way of finding you when you least expect it. For us, that couldn’t be truer. Though we grew up across the street from one another for over twenty years, our paths didn’t truly cross until much later in our lives. It’s incredible to think that for decades, we lived just steps away from each other, unaware that our greatest love was waiting right there, just beyond the other side of the road. As time went on, our friendship grew naturally, built on laughter, long conversations, and the kind of effortless understanding that only comes with true connection. We always felt a pull toward each other, an undeniable bond, but life had a way of keeping us apart. Timing never seemed to be on our side—until it was. It all began with a simple request. Lisette, determined that this would be the final time she asked, invited Steven to hang out. And this time, he said yes. That moment unknowingly became the beginning of everything. What was meant to be a casual evening turned into something so much more. Yet, Lisette was convinced it was just dinner between “friends.” Looking back now, we both smile at the irony. That ‘not-a-date’ turned out to be the first chapter of our forever. It was in that moment—between shared stories, easy laughter, and the warmth of being in each other’s presence—that we realized we were exactly where we were always meant to be. Sometimes, love isn’t about the perfect timing but rather the perfect person. And for us, love was never far away—it was just waiting for the right moment to bloom. Here’s to love, to fate, and to the beautiful journey still ahead. With all our hearts,&nbsp;Lisette &amp; Steven

Photos

Stephanie Pence

Charissa Montoro

Michelle Bandy

Victoria Von Dran

Sophia Rueda

Rachel Gattuccio

Criselda Rann

Jason Gausephol

Kenneth Mau

Michael Marten

Michael Bayer

JC Aguila

Sid Sirvastava

Tim Pence

Wedding Party

Q + A

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Steven and Lisette's Wedding Weekend

Rehearsal Dinner:It's a pre-wedding celebration for Steven and Lisette.Only for the wedding party, family and out-of-town guests.Check your invite for all the details.&nbsp;Rehearsal drinks begins at 5:30pm. Dinner begins at 6:00pm in the Edenvale Room at Hayes Mansion Welcome Drinks in Atrium from 8:00pm-10:00pm Rehearsal Attire: Cocktail Attire/After-Five Attire: chic evening, polished but not overly formal.Ladies: A midi dress or jumpsuitMen: A crisp button up ( short or long sleeve) with tailored pants, paired with dress shoes or clean formal sneakers. Have questions? Contact:Charissa Montoro (650-804-4400) or&nbsp;Stephanie Pence (669-252-6322). Wedding Day - Ceremony:Where: Mission de Santa Clara de Asis at Santa Clara University.When: Kicking off at 3:00 PM sharp!Getting there: Shuttles will be running from Hayes Mansion to the church starting at:1st Shuttle: 1:30pm ( Wedding Party and Guests)&nbsp;2nd Shuttle: 1:45pm3rd Shuttle: 2:00pmAfter the "I do's," shuttles will take everyone back to Hayes Mansion for the party.Feel free to drive yourself or grab an Uber/Lyft if that's easier for you!

Wedding Day - Reception:Where: Hayes Mansion: Hayes BallroomWhen: Cocktail hour: 4:30-5:30Getting there: You may drive, use Uber/LYFT, or take the shuttle from Asis de Santa Clara Mission back to Hayes Mansion for cocktail hour.

☕🥐 Sunday Goodbye Brunch 9/28: Continental Breakfast Gathering8:00 AM – 10:00 AM located at the West Wood PatioBegin the morning with a light and inviting continental breakfast. Enjoy a selection of fresh pastries, seasonal fruit, yogurt, cereals, and a variety of juices, coffee, and tea. A perfect way to start the day together before the celebrations ahead.

Weekend Itinerary 

Registry

Please see the registry page; the cash option is listed there.

Honeymoon Fund

✨ Wedding Week in San Jose (Wed 9/24 → Sun 9/28) Big Day: Saturday, Sept 27, 2025 Think sun‑splashed afternoons easing into lantern‑soft evenings—California’s September at its best. Highs live in the upper‑70s, nights settle into the low‑60s, and rain chances hover near nil. Pack light layers, sunglasses, and your dancing shoes—then let the week roll out like a series of postcards. 🟡 Wed 9/24 — 79° / 62°,&nbsp;Sun‑washed &amp; breezy The look &amp; feel: Pavement glows a mellow gold; jacaranda shadows scallop the sidewalk; a warm, lemony light lingers on porch rails.Evening vibe: Air turns feather‑cool—perfect for patio toasts and unhurried conversation.Evening wear tips: Dresses: a soft cardigan or cropped denim jacket.Suits: unlined blazer or light sport coat over a breathable shirt.Shoes: sandals or dressy flats; consider a blister pad if you’ll wander. 🟡 Thu 9/25 — 79° / 61°,&nbsp;Polished blue sky The look &amp; feel: Crisp blue dome overhead; sun flickers through tree leaves like confetti; the day hums contentedly.Evening vibe: A gentle, friendly coolness—no shivers, just a reason to drape a shawl.Evening wear tips: Pashmina/shawl pairs beautifully with cocktail silhouettes.Unstructured blazer or cardigan for a tidy, relaxed finish.Minimal accessories: sunglasses for golden hour, lip balm for the dry air. 🟡 Fri 9/26 — 77° / 60°,&nbsp;Rehearsal‑night perfect The look &amp; feel: Sunlight softens at the edges; tables catch a warm gleam; the breeze is more whisper than wind.Evening vibe: The first hint of autumn in the air; music carries easily outdoors.Evening wear tips: Dresses: silk wrap or light knit.Suits: breathable shirt; tie optional; pocket square for flair.Bring a compact tote: mints, mini sunscreen, phone charger. ✨ SAT 9/27 — 78° / 61°,&nbsp;Wedding Day Radiant The look &amp; feel: Camera‑ready light all afternoon; golden hour paints cheeks with honey, glassware with sparkle, and the dance floor with a warm glow.Evening vibe: Cozy‑cool (not cold). You’ll feel awake, comfortable, and ready to dance beneath string lights and a clear sky.Evening wear tips (pin these): Dresses: pashmina or cropped jacket; consider sheer tights if you run cool.Suits: airy shirt + unlined blazer; lose the tie after photos if you want.Footwear: wedges, block heels, or polished loafers—stable for lawn &amp; dance floor.Little luxuries: travel‑size deodorant, blotting papers, and a spare hair tie for late‑night spins. Photo cues: Couple framed against sun‑lit leaves; veil catching light like a comet tail.Hands clinking glasses at twilight; silhouettes under twinkle lights.Wide shot of guests as the sky fades from apricot → indigo. 🟡 Sun 9/28 — 78° / 61°,&nbsp;Brunch‑bright &amp; easy The look &amp; feel: Fresh coffee steam curls into clear morning air; the city blinks awake in soft light.Evening vibe: If you linger, it’s the same gentle cool—just enough for one last fireside chat.Evening wear tips: Light layer again; loafers or flats for strolling; keep sunglasses handy. 🎒 Quick‑Pack Checklist (Evening‑Ready) 1–2 light layers (pashmina, cardigan, unlined blazer)Sunglasses + mini sunscreen for golden hourComfortable dress shoes (wedge/flat/loafer; blister pads just in case)Compact umbrella optional (rain odds are tiny, but you’ll look prepared)Hydration + lip balm for dry air 📣 Ready‑to‑Post Captions (pick your vibe) Romantic: “Golden hour, open air, and twinkle lights on repeat. Wedding day this Saturday—sunny skies and soft‑cool evenings. Bring your best smile and a light layer. ✨🌿🥂” Playful: “Forecast: 100% chance of dancing. 78° by day, cozy 61° by night—perfect for a pashmina, loafers, and joyful chaos on the dance floor. See you Saturday! 💃🕺☀️” Elegant: “A week of California light—warm afternoons, lantern‑soft nights. Saturday’s set for vows under a clear sky. Dress to glow; layer to linger. ✨🍾” The Takeaway Sunny days, cool‑comfortable nights, and a Saturday built for vows, photos, and all‑night joy. Pack a layer, polish those shoes, and get ready to step into the kind of evening where every cheer rings a little brighter under the lights.

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Steven & Lisette

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