Tray’s Version
Circa 2018, I lived at an apartment in Tysons Corner, VA named Adaire. They always hosted events for the residents like Wine Down Wednesdays, holiday parties, etc. and I often attended. Many times, I noticed the group get excited to see this guy who was usually kinda quiet and intriguing. That guy was Tony and although we attended many of the same events, we never had even a smidget of a conversation (there were certain reasons why I couldn’t act on that interest at the time). Many months passed and it wasn’t until one day in DC when Tony was at the same club/bar as I was. I believe he was ordering a drink and watching the game by himself. With the help of some liquid courage and my friends (MOH, Jessica and Bridesmaid, Tyf), I made my way over to speak. Tony was friendly but clearly enjoying his time alone. So after some small talk I got the hint, or maybe he excused himself… I don’t remember LOL. But that was that! Fast forward some weeks later, the apartment complex had an event and I decided to invite folks over to my place after. To my surprise, Tony pops up! We played some games, exchanged laughs, libations, and conversation. I was immediately drawn to his wittiness and sense of humor! And THIS time he seemed more interested than me! From that night on we spent almost everyday together, even quarantining during a full pandemic! I wouldn’t have it any other way💕
Tony’s Version
I first recall seeing Trayanna at the Adaire in Tysons Corner, which is the building we both lived in back in 2018. There was a holiday party on the rooftop and I recall her coming up to the area I was sitting in to say hello to some of the people I was sitting with. I dont remember if I said hello or not, but she was dating someone at the time and was with him, and I was living the single life so I really didnt pay either of them much attention. Fast forward a couple of months, I was at a day party in DC, The Gryphon to be exact, and was rolling solo as I tended do to at the time. I was at the bar ordering a drink, and you know how you can feel the heat radiating from someone staring a hole in your face? Well yea, I felt that, and a few seconds later some short girl that was with a friend or two comes up asking Hey, do you live at the Adaire? Yes, I replied, recalling that Ive seen her briefly before at the building. She seemed pretty nice and we proceeded to make small talk for a few minutes. I knew I couldnt keep the rest of my fans waiting, so I think we ended by exchanging pleasantries and went on to enjoy the day party. The building we lived in was pretty swanky and hosted weekly Wine Down Wednesdays in the lobby. This was a great way to kick back after work and socialize with your neighbors while snacking on hors doeuvres and drinking cheap wine until it ran out. These events were usually scheduled for two hours, but once the drinks began flowing and the conversations got deep/heated, someone would often volunteer to keep the party going in their apartment. Now, Im not 100% sure if thats what happened in our case, but I recall being in the lobby one evening and someone saying were going to Trays apartment. Well, I didnt know who Tray was, or what apartment I was going to, but I remember walking in and there were several women in the kitchen, including that girl from the Gryphon. They were playing some type of game, which I wasnt interested in playing, but I had a drink and recall talking to Tray quite a bit more. I was going to my apartment, but knew Id be up for a while so I left her my apartment number and told her that she could swing by since she seemed pretty cool to talk to. We hung out that evening, and the day after, and the day after.....and well as they say the rest is history. Of course, there are probably some things Im forgetting, but this is how I recall meeting Trayanna.