Victoria & Nick
November 27, 2026 • East Meadow, New York
201 Days To Go!
Victoria & Nick
November 27, 2026 • East Meadow, New York
201 Days To Go!
Q + A
Attire
Does "Black Tie" attire mean I have to wear black?
No! Black tie does not mean only black attire. We prefer our guests to dress in their most formal attire. Men may wear a tuxedo and women may wear a floor-length gown if they so wish to.
Some weddings do not permit guests to wear black. Are we permitted to wear black?
Of course! Any color (besides white) is acceptable.
Guest list
My invitation did not explicitly state my children are invited. How do I know if they are invited to the wedding?
If your invitation says "(last name) family," that means your entire family is invited. Otherwise, we please ask that you understand only names written on the card are to attend.
Do I get a plus one?
If your invitation says "(your name) + guest," you may bring a guest. Otherwise, we please ask that you do not bring a plus one.
I received a plus one but do not have a romantic partner. May I bring a friend instead?
If you received a plus one invite but do not have a romantic partner, we please ask that you do not bring a friend in place. You may respond as "1 attending" and state you will not bring a plus one.
Church
Am I allowed to attend the church ceremony?
Of course! Anyone invited is welcome to join the ceremony.
My children/partner/family/friends were not invited, but I would like to bring them to church. Is that allowed?
Yes! The church is open to anyone. You do not have to be invited to the reception in order to attend church.
I will not have the ability to bring my children/partner/family/friends home after the ceremony. Are they allowed to attend the ceremony under these circumstances?
If the guest(s) you would like to attend church is/are unable to find their way home/you are unable to bring them home afterwards, we suggest you do not bring them to church as they will not be able to attend the reception if not invited.