If you are flying to Hawaii, please fly into Daniel K. Inouye International Airport in Honolulu.
Hampton Inn and Suites is located in Kapolei, a 25-minute drive from the wedding venue. It is right by the Ka Makana Ali'i mall and a 15-minute drive to the nearest beach. A standard hotel room ranges from $150 - $200 per night.
Haleiwa and Waialua are safe and beautiful places to stay at. These towns are located on the famous north shore of Oahu - known for it's surfable waves and laid-back town. I've linked a page to air bnb's on the north shore ranging from $150 and above per night.
The negative of staying here is that it is about a 45 minute drive to the wedding venue, however, if you are looking to turn your trip into a vacation, the north shore is a great and safe place to stay!
This website has a list of cheaper accommodation options located in Waikiki. There are cheaper places to stay in Honolulu, but it is a 40-minute drive to the wedding venue. If you are concerned about costs then Honolulu may be a better option for you. Honolulu is the city, so it has more hotels or air bnbs for cheaper rates. You can visit the Airbnb website or look at the link of hotels in Waikiki to get a better idea.
The Ko Olina Resort is a high-cost accommodation on the west side of Oahu. If you are looking to make your trip a luxury vacation then this is a good option, as it has beachfront views and is a short drive to where the wedding will be in Waianae.
I have attached the website if you are interested in checking it out.
Here is a comprehensive guide to staying in and visiting the famous Haleiwa town! The website has many activities and recommendations for where to stay.
For close family and wedding party guests, we will have a place to stay at Surfing The Nations. I will contact you if this applies to you. This option will be cheaper and will be located in Wahiawa. You are not obligated to stay here but it will be an option for you!