Golden Hawk Golf & Banquets

The Big Day

Summer

Thank you for visiting our WE are Wed Wedding Website! We are so excited to celebrate our love story with you and include you in our BIG day. Take a look around our website for updates and information and we will see you soon! - Wes &amp; Em

Our Wedding

This relationship officially started on February 25th, 2019. Wesley, 17, and Emily, 16, met at Marysville High School. Wesley would pick Emily up in his Minivan and they would drive around just talking the night away. After a month of hanging out, Wesley finally asked Emily to be his girlfriend. Wesley after graduating High school then had to move to Bethel University in Indiana which was 4 hours away from their hometown. While Emily began her senior year of High school. They officially kicked off what would be the hardest part of their relationship, long distance. Wesley eventually transferred to Notre Dame (South Bend, IN) while Emily moved to Michigan State University (East Lansing, MI). They dated long-distance for 5 years, separated by 157.1 miles. After that, Emily relocated to Indianapolis Indiana to pursue her Master's degree, while Wesley stayed home (Marysville, MI) to work as a controls engineer. This change added another year of separation, increasing the distance between them to 339.0 miles. The most challenging separation yet. Despite the challenges, they stayed connected through FaceTiming, calling, and visiting whenever possible. Both Wesley and Emily believe that their faith, communication, and commitment to loving each other from a distance only strengthened their relationship.

Our Love Story

Love will go the Distance

Our Story

Engagement Photos

The Girls

Adri is my cousin by blood but my sister at heart! I can always count on her to laugh with me for hours!

Adrianna Greer

My new sister-in-law and not to mention the funniest and hardest working girl I know!

Alayna Bressy

My brother Ryan's girlfriend of six years aka my sister and one of my best friends!

Ashley Cotey

My cousin and my role model for my whole life! Couldn't imagine my day without her!

Brandi Cronkright

My best friend since kindergarten (16 years of friendship)! Not to mention my dance and carpool buddy for years!

Lia Turner

My college roommate and forever friend! She is always one to bring the energy and good vibes!

Jessica Apostol

My college roommate and forever friend! Skyler is the most reliable girl I know and my late-night talk buddy!

Skyler Murphy

The Boys

My best friend since birth who works hard at everything he does. He inspires me to be a better man and never fails to make me laugh. 

Logan McCulloch

The older of my 2 younger brothers. He has a huge heart for helping others. We watch nearly all sporting events together and love lifting together. 

Tyler Simpson

My youngest brother who is always joking around and has a sense of drive to win like no one else.

Truett Simpson

My new brother-in-law who has a huge heart for people and has come to be one of my good friends. 

Roy Zimmer

My new brother-in-law who is a great friend and a role model for working hard towards my goals. 

Ryan Zimmer

One of my oldest friends who I've grown up with. Always has my back and always makes others smile. 

Josh Hude

My best friend and roommate from Bethel University and Notre Dame University. We've shared many memories in college and share a passion for engineering. 

Jacob Ropp

THE BABES

Meet Ms. Madeline, the epitome of the next-generation IT girl, blending brains and beauty seamlessly! As Emily's first cousin once removed, she is doing us the honor of being our flower girl. She will sprinkle flower petals down the aisle, symbolizing the beauty and fragility of love. She will be traveling all the way from Florida to fulfill her position!

Madeline Hughes

Fun fact: Madeline's mom, Chelsea (Emily's first cousin), served as the flower girl at Emily's parent's wedding 28 years ago! So it is an honor to have her in our wedding!

Emily's nephew, Mr. Mav T, will be entrusted with the task of carrying the symbols of our love down the aisle. We're honored to have Maverick play this important part in our wedding, surrounded by love and cherished by all who attend. Please feel free to ask him about monster trucks, the sand dunes,  or anything construction related as he is an expert in all fields :)

Maverick Tolliver

The ushers

One of Emily's good friends since high school! Luke never fails to make us laugh and will have the biggest smile to greet you all! 

Lucas Chase

Wesley’s new brother-in-law from Brazil. He works extremely hard and always lifts up those around him!

Luan Bressy

Wedding Party

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Where and when is the wedding?

Both the wedding ceremony and reception are at: Golden Hawk Golf Course9861 Meisner Rd, Casco, MI 48064 When:June 28th, 2025 Time:The ceremony starts at 5:00 pm, we ask guests to please arrive by 4:30 or earlier if possible- see you then -

What is the RSVP deadline/ How do I RSVP?

Our RSVP deadline is April 28th, 2025. We kindly ask that all RSVPs be submitted by or before this date to ensure we have an accurate headcount for the celebration. You can submit your RSVP using the "RSVP" tab on this website! We appreciate your prompt response and look forward to celebrating with you!

How is Parking

There is plenty of parking available for all guests attending the wedding ceremony and reception. Vehicles may be left overnight if needed.

Will there be transportation provided to and from the venue?

We will have a FREE shuttle service to and from the TownePlace Suites to the venue all night to encourage safe drinking. Please visit the "Travel" tab for more information about booking with the hotel!

IS THE CEREMONY OUTSIDE?

Yes, our ceremony will be outside so please plan accordingly!

Can I take photographs during the ceremony?

We are planning to have an unplugged ceremony to make sure we are ALL living in the moment! This means we ask that you please silence and put your phone away during our ceremony. With a professional photographer on hand to capture every precious moment, let's cherish this special day together without the distraction of screens!

What should I wear?

We can't wait to celebrate our special day with you, and we want you to feel comfortable and fabulous. Our dress code is Formal or Black-Tie Optional, which will set the tone for the day and evening. If you have any questions or need further clarification on the dress code, please don't hesitate to reach out to us. We want everyone to feel comfortable and confident on our special day.

Wondering what colors to wear?

If you are trying to avoid matching the color of the bridal party: here are some color palettes we recommend that would go beautifully with our color scheme for the wedding! You are not required to wear these colors but we would love it if you did!

CAN I BRING MY CHILDREN?

We are thrilled that you will be joining us on our special day. Unless specifically noted on your invitation, we kindly request that our wedding be an adults-only celebration. We want this celebration to be an elegant and peaceful atmosphere for us and for YOU, we hope this advance notice will allow you to plan ahead for a child-free evening.

CAN I BRING A GUEST?

To ensure we accommodate all our loved ones, we kindly ask that guests attend solo unless their invitation explicitly mentions a plus one. Your understanding and cooperation mean the world to us as we prepare for this joyous celebration.

What Hotels do your recommend?

Please visit our "Travel" tab to learn more about hotels and discounted rates!

Will there be dietary options available for guests with food allergies or preferences?

Yes, we're happy to accommodate any dietary restrictions or allergies. Please inform us of any requirements when RSVPing through the website. We'll promptly notify the venue's staff, ensuring a special plate is prepared for you. Simply approach the buffet as usual, but do notify the chef, and your customized plate will be waiting for you!

Who will be celebrating at home?

Our VIP guest (very important pet), Ophelia. As we joyfully prepare for our big day, we couldn't imagine the celebration without our baby cat. While she won't be walking down the aisle, Ophelia certainly will be cheering us on from the comfort of home!

Do you have a hashtag?

YES!! Please use the hashtag #WEareWed so we can see your lovely photos and memories from our Big Day!

Is the venue accessible for guests with mobility issues?

Yes, the venue is wheel chair accessible!

Can I contact someone if I have further questions?

If you have any further questions feel free to email us at wearegettingmarried2025@gmail.com ! See you soon!

Q + A

The Wedding Party is staying at theTownePlace Suites Chesterfield~ We would love to have you stay with us! ~ We will have FREE shuttle services to and from the hotel to the venue all day and night to encourage safe drinking. If you are looking for a fun getaway for the weekend, please feel free to stay with us and celebrate all weekend long! Or reserve a room for just the night of the wedding! Either way, we would love to see you there! Please call to make a reservation under the Zimmer-Simpson room block. For discounted rates NOTE: The block is ONLY available until 6/7/25 so make sure you book before June 7th to secure a room!

TownePlace Suites Chesterfield

If you are looking to stay in St. Clair! Call St. Clair Inn's main line at (810) 289-6209 and ask for the Zimmer-Simpson wedding block for the block rate. Reminder you will have to provide your own transportation to and from the venue (Uber will not work in this area)! NOTE: Guest rooms are ONLY available until&nbsp;5/28/25, So make sure you book before to get a room!

St.Clair Inn

Travel

Things to Do

Gifts

Registry

Thank you for visiting our Gift Registry Tab! Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. Should you wish to honor us with a present, we have created a registry to help make our new life together extra special. Your generosity and thoughtfulness mean the world to us. - Wes and Em

Click here to visit our Amazon Registry: 

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Wesley & Emily

Wesley & Emily

Engagement Photos