Please send your RSVP here on the website or by mail to our address (2 Riverside Dr., Apt 2A, New York, NY 10023) by March 15 so we can give our vendors enough time to prepare.

To give families freedom to stay where they want on their individual budgets, we have opted to not pre-book a block of hotel rooms. Staying in midtown Manhattan gives great flexibility for activities and travel. One option that seems more affordable at the moment is the DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel New York Times Square West. Another option for those wanting to stay close to the venue is The Graduate on Roosevelt Island, although it might make sightseeing slightly more complicated with going in and out of Manhattan. For budget options, we recommend staying in Brooklyn or Queens; you may be able to save $50-$100/night by adding on 20 minutes to your commute.

Our dress code is cocktail attire. Suit and tie, Little Black Dress, something elegant and springy, a nice jumpsuit, there are many options with cocktail attire! Here's more information on what that includes: https://www.brides.com/cocktail-attire-wedding-4844364

Yes, Abby will be a Boyd! However, we ask that monogrammed gifts not be given, as it does not fit the personal style of Abby or Brian.

We would love for all guests to be fully vaccinated, with booster(s) because there are many high-risk individuals who will be attending. If you are not vaccinated, we are requiring a negative rapid test result on the day of the wedding. Even if you are vaccinated, we encourage a rapid test on the day before or the day of the wedding. Please help us keep our loved ones safe and comfortable on this day.

The wedding weekend kicks off on Saturday, May 27th with an open meetup to exercise in Central Park, a possible brunch or Abby and Brian's go-to breakfast sandwiches, and the bachelorette party. The day before the wedding will be mostly open, with the rehearsal and dinner in the evening.

There is no parking at The Sanctuary, but Motorgate Parking Garage is a 7 minute walk or a 9 minute bus ride away. https://rioc.ny.gov/299/Driving

Our venue is The Sanctuary on Roosevelt Island. The address is 851 Main St, New York, NY 10044. It was a church built in 1924, recently reopened as a an event space as well as a bar and café. Here's the website: https://thesanctuaryri.com/

Our ceremony begins at 3pm. Please arrive approximately 30 minutes before, at 2:30pm to get settled.

Dinner will end around 6:30pm. We have music booked until later in the evening and hopefully some late night food from our venue's brick pizza oven, so feel free to stay, socialize, and dance until you're ready to go!