First, please believe us when we say your attendance at our wedding is already an amazing gift, and we really don't need anything beyond that. So please don't feel obligated to also give a physical gift. With that said, if you would like to give something to help us start our married life, we didn't actually make a registry (we're lucky to have already acquired a lot of the essential kitchen/office/bathroom stuff over the years). But we are currently saving to one day buy a home together (we regularly daydream about a screened porch to sit on and watch Frankie birdwatch), and we're also planning to go somewhere warm/beachy/relaxing this winter as a honeymoon, so contributions to either of those goals would be incredible. And for those who would prefer to gift something else, we know we will cherish whatever you choose to give!