Step 1: Eat, drink, dance, and celebrate! Step 2: Have a gay ole time! (read: repeat Step 1) We are so excited to share our love with you all as we begin this incredible next step in our lives. We don't take for granted you being here, the support you've given us, or the fact that this day can happen at all. So sit back and enjoy!

We kindly ask you to be fully present for the ceremony and keep all phones and cameras safely tucked away until afterwards. Professional photographers will capture every big moment!

Your RSVP letter will include all the names of the people invited to the wedding. We are grateful to have so many friends and family in our lives to celebrate with, and appreciate you understanding that we have limited space.

Once you receive your physical invitation in the mail, you will be able to RSVP directly on our website!

Yes! You can park at the Monona Terrace for $5 on Friday evening and weekends. https://www.mononaterraceparking.com/

Cocktail attire.

Yes! We love Madison and hope you do too! Please note that the wedding takes place Labor Day weekend. If booking a hotel room through our block, please contact the hotel if you are looking to book additional days.

Your RSVP letter will clarify which events younger children are welcome to participate in. We are excited to celebrate with the little ones! Please note if you are bringing a small child that we do not have any planned child-specific activities, so we kindly ask you to coordinate any childcare/babysitting needs yourself. We want the adults to have fun too! The ceremony will be an intimate moment, so please ensure kids are on best behavior if they plan to be part of that special occasion.