What we most desire is to have our family and friends with us to celebrate our big day, but for those among you who want to uphold the tradition of wedding gift-giving, we've gone ahead and set up a "Honeymoon Fund" to which you may contribute. Our plan is to have a getaway in Spain as soon as possible after the wedding, and we will gratefully accept help to subsidize our participation in various vacation-y activities. But again, we stress that your presence is the present we want most.

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