The Thayer Hotel at West Point

Friday Welcome Drinks (8:30PM to 10:30PM)

Wedding Day: Ceremony & Reception

Wedding Day: After Party

Sunday Farewell Brunch (8:30AM to 10:30AM)

Weekend Pass to Military Academy Grounds

Fall

Our Wedding

Over a decade ago, Brittany and Danielle began living parallel lives as accounting majors at Fordham University in the Bronx. Though they shared mutual friends, their paths never crossed, until overachieving Danielle emailed overachieving Brittany asking for career advice. Their lives became intertwined as they interned together, took the CPA exam together, got their Masters together, and eventually started their careers at Deloitte together. Their friendship blossomed - they became work wives if you will - and on one fateful night before Brittany transferred to consulting, she told Danielle how she really felt about her. After some initial shock and months of unnecessary reluctance, Danielle finally asked Brittany to be her girlfriend on their first trip to Newport, RI. Since that special day in 2019, Brittany and Danielle have been on a challenging yet rewarding journey. They spent months quarantined together in NYC during the COVID-19 pandemic, traveled everywhere from national parks in Maine to beaches in Miami, then later took their talents to Philadelphia for Danielle to pursue law school at Villanova. They worked hard to achieve their goals and leaned on each other to get through difficult times. They also enjoyed their newfound passions for Villanova Women’s Basketball, and, to the dismay of their New York relatives, Philadelphia Eagles Football. They knew their lives were permanently intertwined and would never unwind. On August 13, 2023, Brittany took Danielle back to Newport, RI and proposed on the same bench where Danielle asked a different question years prior. Just a few days later, Danielle took Brittany to the Fire Island Lighthouse and proposed back, putting the cherry on top of Brittany’s Long Island summer, which, as she likes to note, also featured a middle hair part and aggressive driving. They can’t wait for all that 2024 has in store, including Danielle’s law school graduation, a big move back to New York, and a wedding at West Point, New York on the 21st night of September, just as Brittany put into all of her friends and families’ phone calendars shortly after she started dating Danielle. They highly encourage everyone to practice their dance moves to the famous Earth Wind &amp; Fire song in advance!

A Bronx Tale

Newport, RI 2019

Newport RI, 2023

Our Story

﻿All events are located at The Thayer Hotel.

Friday, September 20

8:30 pm - WELCOME DRINKS (General Patton’s Tavern)

Saturday, September 21

5:30 PM - WEDDING CEREMONY (Lawn Overlooking the Hudson River)

6:00 PM - COCKTAIL HOUR (Pershing Room)

7:00 PM - RECEPTION (The Martha Washington Ballroom)

11:00 PM - AFTER PARTY (Zulu Time Rooftop Bar & Lounge)

Sunday, September 22

8:30am to 10:30am - FAREWELL BRUNCH (The Grant Ballroom)

Weekend Schedule & Map

All wedding weekend events will take place at The Thayer Hotel. For your convenience, we have reserved a room block at The Thayer with the discounted rates listed in the table below. See website link for a description of the room options. Please CALL the Reservations Department at (845) 446-4731 and ask for the Tobin/DiGrazia Wedding Rate. Do not book on the hotel website as you will not be able to enter a code for our rates. We recommend reserving your room as soon as possible. The room block will close by July 19, 2024.

Brittany & Danielle