Connor and Kara met on the Marquette University sailing team in 2016. Connor joined because his grandpa and dad were sailors and Kara joined she heard they were a "sailing team with a drinking problem". C & K took their first picture together at the Emma Biagoni regatta - the first race they attended together!
In winter of 2018, C & K talked the night away at Commodore's, the sailing formal. Kara got home that night and gushed to her roommates about how she'd met the love of her life - the perfect man! After some online stalking, they realized he was likely in another relationship... Kara was crushed.
Fast forward to April 2018 and Connor sends a message in their sailing group. His roommate was caught in the middle of a tomato exchange gone wrong at the campus grocery store - the delivery man was going to throw away a whole box when he ran into Jason. Jason and Connor had at least 50 tomatoes they needed to get rid of, and Kara is a girl who LOVES tomatoes.
Kara went over to Connor's apartment that day accompanied by her good friend John. Knowing Kara was coming over, Connor was excited because he had a pretty big crush on her. But when she showed up with her friend John, Connor assumed they were together and was crushed. **Please note that neither C or K were in relationships at the assumed times. These two were just too nervous to talk to each other!
February 02, 2019
Fast forward, C & K attended with separate dates, but still made sure to find each other at Honor's Ball in 2019.
"Dang! Kara looks good!" - thought Connor.
Flash forward almost exactly a year, and Kara gets her first text from Connor asking how she's doing. They strike up casual conversation over Snapchat... daily... and Kara is still under the impression Connor is dating someone else. She just assumed he had graduated and was lonely in Milwaukee - reaching out to a good friend for company and conversation. Little did she know... Connor had been thinking about her since that Honor's Ball and he was now single!
After a few weeks of chatting, Connor finally asked her out on a date to go cross country skiing and grab dinner. Unfortunately the first day they both had free was Valentine's Day... and awkward!! So they went out the day after - 2/15/20 and Connor convinced Kara to SKATE ski for her first try because that was "easiest". Kara does not like being bad at things and she certainly was not good at xc skiing - a testament to Connor's patience & Kara's comfortability with Connor. When they got in the car after a rather exhausting and cold first date (Kara drenched in sweat), Connor had a list of ~vegan~ restaurants ready to go and he had no idea how many points that would earn him.
April 05, 2020
C & K officially started dating in March of 2020 and were soon basically inseparable (both due to the pandemic & their shared love of adventure). This was their first picture together as a couple, taken at the "most scenic view of Wisconsin".
June 22, 2020
...and so they went off in search of better views! As a celebration of Kara's very anti-climactic pandemic graduation, C & K set off for 2-weeks of camping, backpacking and adventure in Colorado! And as you can see from the car - we had gained a Ripley-dog and Connor had gained the knowledge of Kara's chronic over-packing issues!
June 24, 2020
Kara and Connor's first backpacking trip together! They hiked the Continental Divide with baby Ripley over 2-days and Connor caught his first glacial cutthroat trout on a fly rod for dinner (Kara made her first vegan exception to give it a try)!
June 27, 2020
Ah, beautiful! Maroon Bells, where C & K both got scolded by the same elderly park ranger for different offenses within 10 minutes of each other. <3 "Oh, you two are together? How fitting." - elderly & angered park ranger.
August 10, 2020
In August of 2020, Kara got the unexpected opportunity to spend a year in Bethel, Alaska as a volunteer with the Jesuit Voluneer Corps Northwest. She was placed with the Orutsararmiut Native Council as a Natural Resource Technician (still a vegan!). She spent her first few weeks in Bethel getting to meet her new roommates, fishing and delivering fish to Elders, coordinating a moose proxy hunt, and facetiming/calling/writing letters to Connor every spare minute she had!
November 03, 2020
After 3 months apart, Connor made the trek to Alaska. C & K traveled around the Kenai Peninsula for snowy hikes, xc skiing, and sightseeing!
December 05, 2020
Back in Bethel, Kara froze in the tundra, caught her first pike manaqing (ice fishing), and volunteered in several dog sled races including the Kuskokwim 300...
January 05, 2021
...while Connor busied himself building an igloo up north at the cabin! C'mon, how impressive is this igloo!!
March 14, 2021
...50 letters and 10 gift boxes later, C & K (and Ripley!) were reunited in Utah for a month full of road trips. camping, and work remote from Salt Lake City :)
March 22, 2021
Even the Blacks made it out to visit C & K and the salt flats!
May 24, 2021
Back in Bethel, Kara survived April, a month-long blizzard, and was able to resume warm activities like fishing (smelting!) and birding. Connor clearly had a lot of influence on her with the fishing...
July 03, 2021
C'mon! Get a load of the views at Denali National Park!
July 05, 2021
The yummiest camp dinner we've ever had: fresh sockeye Connor had caught on a fly rod across the river from 2 grizzly bears earlier that day & Kara had filleted!
July 09, 2021
...and before long, Connor was in Bethel catching fish too! <3
July 12, 2021
It would be a crime to talk so much about Alaska in the summer without mentioning the constant mosquito battles. Much blood was shed berry picking in the tundra. :')
July 25, 2021
And just like that, it was time for Kara to come home <3
July 01, 2022
Since coming home to Milwaukee, C & K kept the adventures going in between full time jobs. Some of C & K's favorite things to do together are cook, garden, mountain bike, downhill & xc ski, CAMP, hike, volunteer, trail run, swim, fish, bird, stargaze, aurora chase, go tidepooling, try new breweries, drink coffee, travel, and laugh!! :')
July 15, 2022
Kayaking!
July 18, 2022
Mountain Biking!
July 30, 2022
Traveling for dance performances! This one took us to LA where Kara competed at the World of Dance!
August 06, 2022
National Park exploring at Joshua Tree!
August 12, 2022
More fishing!!
September 02, 2022
INDIA!
September 03, 2022
Sorry 1 more from India - these outfits were too beautiful!!
September 22, 2022
Teaching Ripley new tricks!
October 05, 2022
Backyard Gardening!
December 04, 2022
Travels to visit friends and hike sweet mountains!
January 20, 2023
Juneau to visit the sweetest friends :')
January 26, 2023
Skiing in our new favorite place, sweetest Juneau!!
January 29, 2023
Regular life, just as sweet as travels when these two are together :')
March 26, 2023
Even renovating Connor's duplex!
April 05, 2023
Wrapping up 2 years of travels, adventures, and just regular life together, C & K decided that nothing made more sense in the world like spending the rest of forever together. The best adventure was yet to come! <3
July 01, 2023
...and the best adventure begins!! Connor got down on one knee and asked Kara to marry him on a hike during their glamping roadtrip around the Olympic Peninsula in July of 2023. It was epic, dreamy, and best of all, Connor didn't drop the ring off the mountainside! <3
July 02, 2023
Connor even sketched their engagement spot for Kara!!
July 02, 2023
Also luckily, a couple hiked up Blue Mountain right after the proposal so we were able to capture this moment perfectly! :)
Now, they turned their vacation into a celebration!!
July 03, 2023
Now check out the ring! Kara wanted a ring that reminded her of outside - trees, dirt, moss, and camping with her favorite person :)
July 04, 2023
Sunsets at the beach :)
July 04, 2023
Early morning tide pooling!
July 06, 2023
Sandollar hunting!
July 22, 2023
Since getting engaged, C & K have continued adventuring and loving each other more and more every day. Connor always takes Kara camping to celebrate her birthday weekend and keep adventure alive!
September 08, 2023
Hiking and visiting Alaska (they've gone at least 1x/year since being together).
September 09, 2023
Berry picking even mid-Alaska-wedding!
November 11, 2023
And this is how they feel about getting to celebrate their most special day in July of 2024 with all of you. **Thank you for being apart of our lives, we love all of you and can't wait to marry each other and dance the night away!