Jamie & Richard

February 22, 2025 • Cape Town, South Africa

Jamie & Richard

February 22, 2025 • Cape Town, South Africa

Our Story

The Story of How We Met...

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This is a serendipitous story. A story about the Universe using its energy to manifest a soulmate connection. Every little circumstance had to be just right for us to cross paths... and it was. And we did.


Jamie:


My best friend Alex and her husband Caleb had moved to Lawrenceville, Georgia and I was antsy to go visit them after a rough few months. I stayed with them in their cute little place for one month. While I was there, I was using dating apps just as I was back home. Because, HELLO, I wanted to have some fun and see if Mr. Right happened to be in the South because he wasn't on the Central Coast, I knew that for sure after almost a decade of dating. But to my surprise, every time a guy read that I lived in California, he didn't want to pursue a date. So, after complaining about this to my friends, Caleb said,


"Give me your phone, I will find you a man"

to which I replied, "Good luck, I've been searching for the last 8 years, it's not that easy. But, have at it".


So, Alex and Caleb opened a bottle of wine, lay on their couch, and swiped through my dating app: Hinge. This lasted about an hour while making some funny commentary with a side of giggling. When the two of them came across Richard's profile displaying an array of photos of him playing rugby, with friends, and the crowd-pleaser shirtless photo of him and all his muscles - Caleb intuitively said, this is the guy 😉!


The next day, I was pleased to see Richard messaged me. I told him, "Full disclosure I don't live here, I'm leaving in a week, and I don't have a car". But he didn't care. He insisted he would come to me, we would go to a restaurant within walking distance and he just really wanted to meet me.


Richard:


I downloaded and deleted the dating apps many times and thought I would give it another go. I stumbled upon Jamie's profile and just her beauty alone was enough for me to hit the like button. She had an array of different photos but I saw one of her upside down on a zipline and thought “She seems like a lot of fun”. I got a message from her the next day and we spoke for a day or two before we moved our communication from the Hinge app to text messages. I wanted to meet this girl so we set up a very casual date. I didn’t really have a plan but I thought I would just “wing it”. Jamie didn’t have a car, but I offered to come pick her up and go somewhere. I had just got home from getting my lion tattoo, which took about 8 hours! I remember showing up in Lawrenceville and my GPS taking me to the wrong apartment complex parking lot. I had to call her to direct me to the right one. That was the first time we had spoken over the phone. Hearing her voice made me smile. I eventually made it through the gate and texted Jamie to meet me downstairs. I still remember to this day, her walking down that ramp in her jean shorts and a black tank top. I could not stop staring at her. It was love at first sight! I remember being nervous the whole night.


The Date:


It was July 2, 2021, and Lawrenceville was having a Fourth of July festival. We went for a stroll, chit-chatted while we waited for a seat at the restaurant, got cocktails to go post-dinner, and watched the fireworks, and at the end of the night, they both knew, this date was different from the rest. As a polite gentleman, Richard asked Jamie if he could kiss her at the end of the date. She giggled and eagerly said yes. We shared our first kiss on a grassy hill with cocktails in hand on the night of our first date. Neither of us was ready to say goodnight, but we made plans to see each other the very next day.


For the rest of Jamie's week in Georgia, we managed to see each other every single day. Jamie met Richard's parents, Aunt, and dogs. We spent the Fourth of July (just 2 days after our first date) on the lake with Richard's family. We went on a double date with Richard's best friends Jarrod and Megan and he finally got to meet the friends who hand-picked him on the app, Alex & Caleb.


It was the best start to the summer. We reconnected in November after Jamie returned from traveling and she surprised Richard for his birthday. In December 2021 we made it official, we were boyfriend and girlfriend.


After dating long distance for 2 years, traveling the world together for 6 months, and experiencing the lowest of lows and highest of highs together, Richard gave Jamie the surprise of her life. On September 15, 2023 Richard got down on one knee and asked Jamie to marry him. It was the best feeling in the world and the easiest question she'd ever had to answer.


We are best friends, lovers, and soon-to-be husband and wife and we are so excited to celebrate our love in the country we love most. Richard is from South Africa and we fell in love with Cape Town after spending 3 weeks there together. After driving along Champan's Peak drive at sunset and eating the freshest fish and chips of our lives right on the harbor in Hout Bay, we knew that one day we would like to get married there.


Thank you so much for believing in our love and sharing this special moment with us in such a special place. We promise it will be a trip of a lifetime and capture a place in your hearts as well. Here's to 2025, an amazing once-in-a-lifetime vacation, and to getting Richard and Jamie married! Cheers to the future Mr. & Mrs. SHORE ❤️ We can't wait to dance the night away with you all!

The second date! We rode scooters along The 
Beltline to lunch in Piedmont Park and went to the rooftop at Ponce City Market. Arcade games, mini golf, cocktails, and a giant slide! We had SO much fun.

July 03, 2021

The second date! We rode scooters along The Beltline to lunch in Piedmont Park and went to the rooftop at Ponce City Market. Arcade games, mini golf, cocktails, and a giant slide! We had SO much fun.
Our third date was spent on Lake Lanier for the Fourth of July with Richard's family. The day felt so natural and Jamie fit right in!

July 04, 2021

Our third date was spent on Lake Lanier for the Fourth of July with Richard's family. The day felt so natural and Jamie fit right in!
The last evening together before Jamie left. We enjoyed dinner with Richard's parents by Lake Lanier. It wasn't goodbye, but see ya soon!

July 10, 2021

The last evening together before Jamie left. We enjoyed dinner with Richard's parents by Lake Lanier. It wasn't goodbye, but see ya soon!
The start of our rekindling -  Jamie surprised Richard for his 29th birthday by arriving at the ATL airport with a giant gold bow on her head. He had no idea!

November 18, 2021

The start of our rekindling - Jamie surprised Richard for his 29th birthday by arriving at the ATL airport with a giant gold bow on her head. He had no idea!
Richard's first trip to California! We explored some of what Cali had to offer over 5 days. At the end of the trip on December 21, 2023, we decided to make things official.

December 17, 2021

Richard's first trip to California! We explored some of what Cali had to offer over 5 days. At the end of the trip on December 21, 2023, we decided to make things official.
Our first New Year's Eve together was spent in Roswell, Georgia with all of Richard's friends. We had a blast dancing the night away!

January 01, 2022

Our first New Year's Eve together was spent in Roswell, Georgia with all of Richard's friends. We had a blast dancing the night away!
Nashville baby! This was the first time our parents met. We got one large Airbnb, Jamie's mom, Wendy, flew out to meet us, and we partied in Nashville for the weekend. This is also the weekend we said "I love you" for the first time 🥰

January 23, 2022

Nashville baby! This was the first time our parents met. We got one large Airbnb, Jamie's mom, Wendy, flew out to meet us, and we partied in Nashville for the weekend. This is also the weekend we said "I love you" for the first time 🥰
Now it's Richard's turn to do the surprising! Jamie's family were meeting up in San Fransisco and Richard had a rugby game in Atlanta that same weekend. Little did Jamie know, he was plotting behind her back with Wendy to jump on a flight post-game and surprise her. A broken nose and 6-hour flight later he showed up at the door for the ultimate reaction from Jamie and family!

March 06, 2022

Now it's Richard's turn to do the surprising! Jamie's family were meeting up in San Fransisco and Richard had a rugby game in Atlanta that same weekend. Little did Jamie know, he was plotting behind her back with Wendy to jump on a flight post-game and surprise her. A broken nose and 6-hour flight later he showed up at the door for the ultimate reaction from Jamie and family!
Richard's first trip to Beaufort, South Carolina where he met Jamie's grandparents for the first time. Jamie's great-grandparents opened a jewelry store on Bay Street and it still exists today. We stopped by for a visit (fun fact: we bought Jamie's wedding band here almost 2 years later!)

April 01, 2022

Richard's first trip to Beaufort, South Carolina where he met Jamie's grandparents for the first time. Jamie's great-grandparents opened a jewelry store on Bay Street and it still exists today. We stopped by for a visit (fun fact: we bought Jamie's wedding band here almost 2 years later!)
Celebrating our "meet-aversary" at the same restaurant we had our first date in Lawrenceville, Georgia. We were caught in a rainstorm on our way back!

July 02, 2022

Celebrating our "meet-aversary" at the same restaurant we had our first date in Lawrenceville, Georgia. We were caught in a rainstorm on our way back!
Our first international trip together celebrating Jamie's cousin, Cameron, & Chelsey's marriage in Cabo San Lucas!

October 01, 2022

Our first international trip together celebrating Jamie's cousin, Cameron, & Chelsey's marriage in Cabo San Lucas!
Celebrating Richard's 30th in style! Jamie surprised Richard with a trip to New York City with his friend Drew to see his favorite DJ, Oliver Heldens, perform in Brooklyn

November 17, 2022

Celebrating Richard's 30th in style! Jamie surprised Richard with a trip to New York City with his friend Drew to see his favorite DJ, Oliver Heldens, perform in Brooklyn
New Year's Eve Night where we rang in the new year in Atlanta together with all our friends!

January 01, 2023

New Year's Eve Night where we rang in the new year in Atlanta together with all our friends!
The start of our craziest adventure yet! The day we set out for our 6-month trip across the world (peep our passports!)

May 01, 2023

The start of our craziest adventure yet! The day we set out for our 6-month trip across the world (peep our passports!)
Celebrating Jamie's 30th birthday with a month-long trip to her dream destination, Bali, Indonesia.

May 12, 2023

Celebrating Jamie's 30th birthday with a month-long trip to her dream destination, Bali, Indonesia.
We got tattoos together in Bali! 222 - if you know, you know!

May 16, 2023

We got tattoos together in Bali! 222 - if you know, you know!
Thula Thula - a truly special place in South Africa. Home of the most beautiful gentle giants, the African Elephants. (Be sure to read "The Elephant Whisperer" based on Thula Thula Game Reserve)

June 09, 2023

Thula Thula - a truly special place in South Africa. Home of the most beautiful gentle giants, the African Elephants. (Be sure to read "The Elephant Whisperer" based on Thula Thula Game Reserve)
Chapman's Peak Drive- The day we fell in love with our future wedding destination, without knowing it! A lovely stranger caught this moment of our sunset car picnic and was kind enough to share it with us!

July 06, 2023

Chapman's Peak Drive- The day we fell in love with our future wedding destination, without knowing it! A lovely stranger caught this moment of our sunset car picnic and was kind enough to share it with us!
Egypt - Jamie's Egyptian friend, Nadine, and her family hosted us for a week! Standing in front of the Egyptian pyramids was a moment we'll never forget (as well as how extremely hot it was)

July 18, 2023

Egypt - Jamie's Egyptian friend, Nadine, and her family hosted us for a week! Standing in front of the Egyptian pyramids was a moment we'll never forget (as well as how extremely hot it was)
Spain - We explored Malaga and Seville and fell in love with the culture (& lots of sangria)

July 30, 2023

Spain - We explored Malaga and Seville and fell in love with the culture (& lots of sangria)
Portugal - A country we absolutely fell in love with. We explored the beaches, and the city, and embraced the lively lifestyle. We look forward to returning to finish what we started there as our trip was cut a bit too soon.

August 06, 2023

Portugal - A country we absolutely fell in love with. We explored the beaches, and the city, and embraced the lively lifestyle. We look forward to returning to finish what we started there as our trip was cut a bit too soon.
Dinkey Creek - the first trip after Jamie's dad, Jim, passed. A very special place for Jamie and her Dad. We scattered some of his ashes and felt his presence our whole weekend there. We plan to make this trip a new yearly tradition.

September 09, 2023

Dinkey Creek - the first trip after Jamie's dad, Jim, passed. A very special place for Jamie and her Dad. We scattered some of his ashes and felt his presence our whole weekend there. We plan to make this trip a new yearly tradition.
He popped the question & she said YES! Richard proposed on Islay Hill in San Luis Obispo by setting up a surprise photoshoot with their friend Sabrina. Jamie had NO idea!

September 15, 2023

He popped the question & she said YES! Richard proposed on Islay Hill in San Luis Obispo by setting up a surprise photoshoot with their friend Sabrina. Jamie had NO idea!
The Cotswolds, United Kingdom - where Jamie met the rest of Richard's family. We had the best time exploring the UK together!

September 28, 2023

The Cotswolds, United Kingdom - where Jamie met the rest of Richard's family. We had the best time exploring the UK together!
London - Richard's first time seeing Big Ben! We got the official JLB Tour (shout out to Jessica Lee Ball)

September 30, 2023

London - Richard's first time seeing Big Ben! We got the official JLB Tour (shout out to Jessica Lee Ball)
Italy - we explored Lake Como with Jamie's mom, Wendy.

October 23, 2023

Italy - we explored Lake Como with Jamie's mom, Wendy.
Amsterdam - we explored with Wendy and Richard's cousin Jessica. It was a fun and interesting trip, one for the books!

October 28, 2023

Amsterdam - we explored with Wendy and Richard's cousin Jessica. It was a fun and interesting trip, one for the books!
Austria - our last destination of our trip around the world. We explored Innsbruck with our friend Lindsey and we timed our visit perfectly. We could see the changing of the seasons, fall to winter, right before our eyes.

November 01, 2023

Austria - our last destination of our trip around the world. We explored Innsbruck with our friend Lindsey and we timed our visit perfectly. We could see the changing of the seasons, fall to winter, right before our eyes.
Our engagement shoot with our future wedding photographer, Kami Arant! We enjoyed our beachy morning on Santa Monica beach and pier, loving on each other while celebrating that we were ENGAGED

February 03, 2024

Our engagement shoot with our future wedding photographer, Kami Arant! We enjoyed our beachy morning on Santa Monica beach and pier, loving on each other while celebrating that we were ENGAGED