NO. No sir. No ma'am. NOPE. Negative Ghost Rider. IT IS NOT.

Five Days of SuperFunStuff with us (Friday through Tuesday), but no traditional wedding business here. Tuesday evening is the UNwedding - which will have all the best parts of a wedding (in our opinion): precious family & friends, a badass destination, beautiful sunset/skyline/ocean views, an open bar, elevated exciting food with great presentation (by the former manager of a Michelin-starred restaurant!), 🎨a live watercolor painter to capture all you beautiful people, champagne servers🥂, happy music, fun stories ('reflections' that make us who we are), the most unique 'Guest Book' EVER..............just allllll the good, fun things!! 🤍🤍WE CANNOT WAIT TO SHARE THIS TUESDAY WITH YOU🤍🤍

October 22nd (2021) is the anniversary of the first time we spoke on the phone. Tracy says he knew the minute he hung up that this was different. (I just thought he was fun to talk to! lol)

Tuesdays are an inside joke we've had forever about how much fun we have together: "It's just another Tuesday" - so when we saw that Oct 22, 2024 was on a Tuesday, it was a no brainer for the UNwedding date.💙

ABSOLUTELY! 🥂 Your reply card (DUE BY AUGUST 31) has a place to RSVP for each event: ✔️Friday ✔️Saturday ✔️Sunday ✔️Monday ✔️Tuesday ~ And while we check reallyreallyreally want you to check ✔️YES to all five days of fun with us, it is a multi-day celebration so please come to any events you can! (scroll down the Home page to see details for each day's event)

🚫🎁NO GIFTS PLEASE - We genuinely consider it the Best Gift that you would take time out of your own life and make the effort to come celebrate with us in person!💙🥂💙

Okay fine, here's what we want: (#1) YOU. In person. (#2) PLEASE bring a story to share at Tuesday's UNwedding, such as: how you met us, a funny -or- sentimental -or- fabulously impressive story about one (or both) of us, why YOU think we are the Best Couple Ever (ha!), you get the idea. ~~So have an idea in your pocket, because it would genuinely mean the World to us if you will share something on Tuesday~~ (#3) If you can't be here, please donate to a suicide-prevention charity in our name. Don't know which one? Start here: https://socialimpactguide.com/journal/best-charities-prevent-suicide/

As stated under Tuesday's Event (scroll down the Home page to see details for each day's event): 🤍 Please wear ALL WHITE on Tuesday evening 🤍 Dressy or casual, whatever you like 🤍 Sorry, but pointed (ie sharp-ended) heeled shoes are *Prohibited* on our rooftop, due to the protective flooring around the pool. 🤍There will be a basket of flip-flops provided at the entrance to the rooftop if you need to swap shoes for the rooftop part of the evening. 🤍Wedge heels, platform shoes - or *any* shoes that have a Flat surface against the floor - are Okay to wear.🤍