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Our Wedding

Our&nbsp;story&nbsp;would&nbsp;never&nbsp;have&nbsp;begun&nbsp;without&nbsp;the&nbsp;persistency&nbsp;of&nbsp;Andy.&nbsp;On&nbsp;November&nbsp;27,&nbsp;2017,&nbsp;my&nbsp;friend&nbsp;(Rose)&nbsp;swiped&nbsp;on&nbsp;JSwipe&nbsp;a&nbsp;guy&nbsp;that&nbsp;I&nbsp;never&nbsp;thought&nbsp;would&nbsp;be&nbsp;my&nbsp;forever&nbsp;love.&nbsp;On&nbsp;November&nbsp;28,&nbsp;2017,&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;and&nbsp;I&nbsp;matched.&nbsp;At&nbsp;first&nbsp;we&nbsp;only&nbsp;spoke&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;app,&nbsp;and&nbsp;then&nbsp;texted.&nbsp;After&nbsp;messaging&nbsp;each&nbsp;other&nbsp;for&nbsp;around&nbsp;an&nbsp;hour&nbsp;or&nbsp;so,&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;called&nbsp;me&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;phone&nbsp;and&nbsp;that's&nbsp;where&nbsp;it&nbsp;all&nbsp;started.&nbsp;That&nbsp;first&nbsp;night,&nbsp;we&nbsp;spoke&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;phone&nbsp;for&nbsp;almost&nbsp;two&nbsp;hours,&nbsp;followed&nbsp;by&nbsp;another&nbsp;three&nbsp;and&nbsp;a&nbsp;half&nbsp;hours&nbsp;while&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;drove&nbsp;down&nbsp;to&nbsp;Hershey,&nbsp;PA&nbsp;for&nbsp;a&nbsp;week&nbsp;to&nbsp;visit&nbsp;her&nbsp;friend&nbsp;Megan.&nbsp;&nbsp;The&nbsp;conversation&nbsp;was&nbsp;deep,&nbsp;fun,&nbsp;interesting,&nbsp;and&nbsp;showed&nbsp;them&nbsp;both&nbsp;how&nbsp;similar&nbsp;they&nbsp;actually&nbsp;were.&nbsp;That&nbsp;night,&nbsp;they&nbsp;learned&nbsp;so&nbsp;much&nbsp;about&nbsp;each&nbsp;other,&nbsp;which&nbsp;continued&nbsp;through&nbsp;the&nbsp;time&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;was&nbsp;in&nbsp;Hershey.&nbsp;If&nbsp;it&nbsp;wasn't&nbsp;for&nbsp;Andy's&nbsp;persistency&nbsp;while&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;was&nbsp;in&nbsp;Hershey&nbsp;(he&nbsp;would&nbsp;send&nbsp;15&nbsp;text&nbsp;messages&nbsp;in&nbsp;a&nbsp;row,&nbsp;push&nbsp;to&nbsp;video&nbsp;chat&nbsp;and&nbsp;talk&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;phone&nbsp;-&nbsp;today,&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;is&nbsp;incredibly&nbsp;happy&nbsp;that&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;did&nbsp;this),&nbsp;we&nbsp;may&nbsp;have&nbsp;not&nbsp;been&nbsp;engaged&nbsp;today.&nbsp;From&nbsp;then&nbsp;on,&nbsp;they&nbsp;never&nbsp;stopped&nbsp;talking&nbsp;(and&nbsp;i&nbsp;mean&nbsp;never&nbsp;stopped!). On&nbsp;December&nbsp;6,&nbsp;2017,&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;and&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;went&nbsp;on&nbsp;their&nbsp;first&nbsp;date&nbsp;ice&nbsp;skating&nbsp;in&nbsp;Central&nbsp;Park.&nbsp;What&nbsp;an&nbsp;interesting&nbsp;date&nbsp;this&nbsp;was...&nbsp;Trump&nbsp;was&nbsp;plastered&nbsp;all&nbsp;around&nbsp;the&nbsp;ice&nbsp;rink;&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;was&nbsp;cursing&nbsp;him&nbsp;and&nbsp;apologizing&nbsp;for&nbsp;taking&nbsp;me&nbsp;to&nbsp;a&nbsp;place&nbsp;owned&nbsp;by&nbsp;Trump.&nbsp;This&nbsp;night&nbsp;consistent&nbsp;of&nbsp;lots&nbsp;of&nbsp;laughter.&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;learned&nbsp;that&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;did&nbsp;not&nbsp;know&nbsp;how&nbsp;to&nbsp;tie&nbsp;ice&nbsp;skate,&nbsp;learned&nbsp;what&nbsp;Andy's&nbsp;butt&nbsp;looked&nbsp;like&nbsp;(Andy&nbsp;showed&nbsp;some&nbsp;crack&nbsp;that&nbsp;night),&nbsp;and&nbsp;learned&nbsp;&nbsp;how&nbsp;random&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;was,&nbsp;he&nbsp;also&nbsp;randomly&nbsp;hugged&nbsp;a&nbsp;random&nbsp;British&nbsp;guy.&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;saw&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;slip&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;ice&nbsp;and&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;followed&nbsp;to&nbsp;fall&nbsp;right&nbsp;on&nbsp;top&nbsp;of&nbsp;her.&nbsp;We&nbsp;also&nbsp;learned&nbsp;how&nbsp;much&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;was&nbsp;already&nbsp;in&nbsp;love&nbsp;with&nbsp;Julie.&nbsp;On&nbsp;this&nbsp;day,&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;asked&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;if&nbsp;she&nbsp;would&nbsp;like&nbsp;to&nbsp;be&nbsp;exclusive.&nbsp;This&nbsp;was&nbsp;shocking,&nbsp;but&nbsp;did&nbsp;not&nbsp;put&nbsp;fear&nbsp;in&nbsp;her&nbsp;eyes&nbsp;(Julie&nbsp;was&nbsp;only&nbsp;thinking&nbsp;about&nbsp;all&nbsp;the&nbsp;other&nbsp;dates&nbsp;she&nbsp;had&nbsp;scheduled&nbsp;for&nbsp;the&nbsp;remainder&nbsp;of&nbsp;the&nbsp;week).&nbsp;In&nbsp;fact,&nbsp;this&nbsp;was&nbsp;a&nbsp;sign&nbsp;that&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;was&nbsp;into&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;and&nbsp;wanted&nbsp;to&nbsp;continue&nbsp;the&nbsp;conversation.&nbsp;Following&nbsp;their&nbsp;ice-skating&nbsp;adventure,&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;and&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;went&nbsp;for&nbsp;a&nbsp;long&nbsp;walk&nbsp;to&nbsp;96th&nbsp;street&nbsp;(if&nbsp;you&nbsp;don't&nbsp;know&nbsp;that&nbsp;is&nbsp;at&nbsp;least&nbsp;40&nbsp;blocks&nbsp;from&nbsp;Central&nbsp;Park).&nbsp;Along&nbsp;this&nbsp;walk,&nbsp;they&nbsp;had&nbsp;some&nbsp;crepes&nbsp;and&nbsp;had&nbsp;a&nbsp;lot&nbsp;of&nbsp;fun.&nbsp;They&nbsp;saw&nbsp;each&nbsp;other‘s&nbsp;personalities&nbsp;and&nbsp;truly&nbsp;understood&nbsp;how&nbsp;similar&nbsp;they&nbsp;were.&nbsp;It&nbsp;was&nbsp;only&nbsp;shortly&nbsp;their&nbsp;after&nbsp;that&nbsp;they&nbsp;decided&nbsp;to&nbsp;become&nbsp;exclusive&nbsp;&nbsp;(on&nbsp;December&nbsp;18,&nbsp;2017)&nbsp;and&nbsp;fell&nbsp;in&nbsp;love&nbsp;after&nbsp;2&nbsp;weeks&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;told&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;that&nbsp;he&nbsp;loved&nbsp;her&nbsp;and&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;told&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;that&nbsp;she&nbsp;loved&nbsp;him&nbsp;after&nbsp;her&nbsp;shoulder&nbsp;surgery&nbsp;around&nbsp;February&nbsp;11,&nbsp;2018).&nbsp;Only&nbsp;10&nbsp;months&nbsp;later,&nbsp;on&nbsp;October&nbsp;7,&nbsp;2018,&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;got&nbsp;on&nbsp;one&nbsp;knee&nbsp;and&nbsp;proposed&nbsp;marriage&nbsp;(need&nbsp;to&nbsp;specify&nbsp;as&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;got&nbsp;on&nbsp;one&nbsp;knee&nbsp;about&nbsp;two&nbsp;other&nbsp;times&nbsp;-&nbsp;1.&nbsp;to&nbsp;be&nbsp;his&nbsp;girlfriend&nbsp;and&nbsp;2.&nbsp;to&nbsp;promise&nbsp;that&nbsp;he&nbsp;will&nbsp;marry&nbsp;me&nbsp;with&nbsp;a&nbsp;promise&nbsp;ring&nbsp;on&nbsp;July&nbsp;19,&nbsp;2018).&nbsp;We&nbsp;both&nbsp;can’t&nbsp;wait&nbsp;to&nbsp;see&nbsp;how&nbsp;our&nbsp;adventures&nbsp;continue&nbsp;to&nbsp;develop.

First Date and Our Love Story

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Rose is my right hand! We work together, but that work relationship turn into much more really fast! There is no one in my life I talk more to a day, ( 5% work, 95% everything else) open up more too and just have fun with. I know that I can always count on her! Our relationship has been short, but I feel like we have known each other for years.

Rose

Arnold and Andy met in College and always have a great time chilling together. Ever since then he has great times discussing life, sports and politics with Andy. Arnold is a cop and will have a Andy's back.

Arnold

Julie’s best friend from Hofstra! She completes me! I never clicked so fast with anyone until I met Charlsie. She  is my best friend, my confidant, the one who tells me when I am wrong, the one who will support me and the one I can just be real with. We spent many years apart, but always remained close. So happy that we are back together!

Charlsie

Christine and Julie went to law school together.  Christine would get Julie out of the books and be a true friend that Julie could open up too about life, cry with and laugh all at the same time.

Christine

Adam is Andy's go to friend for food. If you want to know whether a particular restaurant is good, Adam is your man.&nbsp; Out of all of Andy's friends, he has known Adam the shortest, but he has become a close friend really quickly.

Adam

Julie’s best friend from high school. We have had many crazy moments in life together, but one thing that always happens when we go out together is that the world doesn’t exist when we hang out as neither one of us can stop talking.

Meghan

Julie’s best friend from law school! She helped me get through the torture from day one! She would get me out and about. Every time we hung out, there was always a new adventure from apple picking to maple syrup harvesting, to exploring a science museum to exploring liberty island, from riding on a horse and buggy on our first baby adventures together to making ice cream at turkey hill with two babies.  

Megan

Julie’s beautiful sister! I can’t live with her and can’t live without her. No matter what torture we hail on each other, we will still love each other

Brittany

Ian is a good friend of Andy. Andy and Ian meet towards the end of college. From the start, they hit it off. Today, Andy and Ian pretend to date each other and have a loving relationship. Sara and I are currently the sidepieces.&nbsp;

Billy&nbsp;is&nbsp;Andy's&nbsp;best&nbsp;friend.&nbsp;They&nbsp;can&nbsp;hang&nbsp;out&nbsp;for&nbsp;hours&nbsp;talking&nbsp;about&nbsp;sports,&nbsp;life,&nbsp;and&nbsp;music.&nbsp;They&nbsp;met&nbsp;in&nbsp;the&nbsp;beginning&nbsp;of&nbsp;college&nbsp;and&nbsp;have&nbsp;been&nbsp;close&nbsp;ever&nbsp;since.&nbsp;Like&nbsp;all&nbsp;of&nbsp;Andy's&nbsp;friends,&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;loves&nbsp;to&nbsp;joke&nbsp;around&nbsp;with&nbsp;Billy&nbsp;and&nbsp;vice&nbsp;versa.

Billy

Lenny and Andy met while Andy was working at Park Slope Day Camp.&nbsp; They have deep meaningful life conversations and every conversation is filled with amazing stories.&nbsp;

Lenny

James is Julie's Matron of Honor's husband. Over the course of Andy and Julie's relationship, James and Andy have become really close friends.

James

Abdul was one of the first friends Andy met in College. He is a cool dude who brews his own beer. He is down to earth and has always been there for Andy.&nbsp; Andy can count on him to always be there. He is another one of Andy's man crushes!

Abdul

Mike&nbsp;is&nbsp;Julie's&nbsp;Favorite&nbsp;and&nbsp;Only&nbsp;Brother.&nbsp;He&nbsp;has&nbsp;gotten&nbsp;to&nbsp;know&nbsp;every&nbsp;part&nbsp;of&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;(probably&nbsp;every&nbsp;single&nbsp;part&nbsp;lol)&nbsp;and&nbsp;has&nbsp;watched&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;and&nbsp;Andy's&nbsp;relationship&nbsp;blossom&nbsp;from&nbsp;the&nbsp;start.&nbsp;&nbsp;Over&nbsp;the&nbsp;course&nbsp;of&nbsp;our&nbsp;relationship,&nbsp;Michael&nbsp;and&nbsp;Andy&nbsp;have&nbsp;become&nbsp;close&nbsp;friends.

Michael

Oh&nbsp;Kelly!!&nbsp;Kelly&nbsp;very&nbsp;quickly&nbsp;became&nbsp;one&nbsp;of&nbsp;Julie's&nbsp;closest&nbsp;friends&nbsp;when&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;started&nbsp;at&nbsp;Sobo&nbsp;&&nbsp;Sobo.&nbsp;&nbsp;Kelly&nbsp;taught&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;so&nbsp;much&nbsp;while&nbsp;Kelly&nbsp;thought&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;was&nbsp;a&nbsp;handful.&nbsp;Instead&nbsp;of&nbsp;pushing&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;to&nbsp;the&nbsp;side,&nbsp;Kelly&nbsp;made&nbsp;the&nbsp;decision&nbsp;to&nbsp;befriend&nbsp;Julie.&nbsp;This&nbsp;decision&nbsp;made&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;do&nbsp;happy!&nbsp;Julie&nbsp;cannot&nbsp;Invision&nbsp;walking&nbsp;down&nbsp;the&nbsp;aisle&nbsp;without&nbsp;Kelly&nbsp;by&nbsp;her&nbsp;side.&nbsp;Kelly&nbsp;has&nbsp;very&nbsp;quickly&nbsp;become&nbsp;one&nbsp;of&nbsp;Julie's&nbsp;best&nbsp;friends!!

Kelly McCartney

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Registry

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Unfortunately Covid has forced the Hilton Westchester to go out of business. Due to these unforseen circumstances, we are currently in search for a new hotel block. We will email everyone with a new link for a new block once we lock one in. Sit tight!

You can take MetroNorth from Grand Central to Rye and hop in a quick Uber from the train station.

Metro North

A&nbsp;shuttle&nbsp;bus&nbsp;will&nbsp;be&nbsp;provided&nbsp;to&nbsp;and&nbsp;from&nbsp;the&nbsp;hotel&nbsp;to&nbsp;the&nbsp;castle&nbsp;for&nbsp;hotel&nbsp;guests&nbsp;in&nbsp;the&nbsp;block.

Red Oak Transportation

If&nbsp;you&nbsp;are&nbsp;staying&nbsp;at&nbsp;the&nbsp;hotel,&nbsp;a&nbsp;shuttle&nbsp;bus&nbsp;will&nbsp;be&nbsp;provided&nbsp;to&nbsp;and&nbsp;from&nbsp;the&nbsp;castle.

If you decide to drive to the Castle, your car will be parked by a valet. Please come earlier to provide extra time to allow the valet park your car.&nbsp;

Valet Parking

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