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Our story starts long before our first date even if we didn’t know it at the time.We’ve known of each other since high school. We went to the same games, and saw each other at a few parties. But life had its own timing, and our paths didn’t truly cross until years later.In 2019, everything changed with a simple Instagram DM from Joel thank you, Instagram!What started as a message quickly turned into long conversations, laughs, and a growing connection. Just a few weeks later, we went on our first official date for ice cream. Something about that night just felt right. It felt easy, exciting, and like we had known each other much longer than we had.COVID hit not long after, and like many during that time, we found ourselves in a bubble. But for us, it only brought us closer. We were attached at the hip from the beginning binge-watching movies, trying new recipes, making memories out of quiet days and dipping our toes into what started our travel addiction, yes even with the world shut down! That time solidified something special between us.Since then, we’ve had the chance to grow and build a life together that we’re truly proud of. We have hit huge milestones both individually and as a couple.Kailea graduated college,Joel has received multiple awards alongside his Mom for their extremely successful Farmers Insurance agency, we purchased multiple homes, and we’ve been fortunate enough to travel to so many of our dream destinations. From tropical beaches to big cities to quiet getaways, our passports and hearts are full.We’ve also built a little family of our own with our three perfect dogs, Bali, Mazi, and Stormi!On October 22, 2024, Joel proposed in the most beautiful way, on a sandy beach in Hawaii. It was the most thoughtful moment that reflected everything our relationship stands for: love, intention, and a little bit of travel.If you know us, you know we balance each other perfectly. Kailea brings the energy, the ideas, and yes always the chaos. Joel is the calm in the storm, always ready to go along for the ride, no matter how spontaneous, wild, or unexpected the adventure may be.So when Kailea suggested a snowy winter wedding in the mountains of Colorado, Joel was of course on board even if it sounded a little bit crazy!And now, here we are planning the celebration of a lifetime in a place that feels like something out of a dream.We’re beyond excited to have all of our favorite people in one place, to celebrate a love that’s grown through seasons of life, and to begin this next chapter surrounded by the ones who have supported us along the way.Here’s to a lifetime of memories, adventures, and love.We can’t wait to share this special moment with you.See you at the alter,XO Kailea + Joel

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Kinley :If you know Kailea, it's guaranteed that you know Kinley. Kailea's true other half. A little wild (in the best way), endlessly loyal, and has been Kailea's backbone for over a decade now. She’s been by Kailea’s side through literally every single high and low from the loudest laughs to the hardest days, and everything in between. She’s seen every version of Kailea and loved her through them all. There’s no one who knows her heart better, and no one more deserving of a front row seat on the most important day of our life. From the first ice cream date, to  the “yes" moment in Hawaii and now, standing beside her on the biggest day of her life.
With the most pure heart, the best stories, and a champagne toast always ready, this wedding wouldn’t be the same without her.

McKinley Wilson

Logan: Joels best friend and Kailea’s partner in crime, and one of the most loyal people you'll ever meet. Whether it’s a spontaneous trip, a last minute idea, or a moment that needs backup, you know Logan will be there.

He’s been by Joel’s side through thick and thin, and his friendship has been a constant through all of life’s curveballs and celebrations. He’s the guy who shows up, keeps everyone laughing, and somehow manages to keep things chill and chaotic at the same time.
We’re so lucky to have him standing with us  there’s truly no one better to help lead the party.

Logan Reding

Danelle: Some bonds go beyond friendship  and for Kailea,  she is just that. Her older sister figure, her other half, her voice of reason, and her forever hype woman.
She’s been there through every chapter  guiding, supporting, laughing, and sometimes crying right alongside Kailea. Whether it’s big life milestones or everyday chaos, she’s the person Kailea has always turned to.

She’s more than just part of the wedding party, she’s part of the heart behind it all.

Danelle Torrez

Santos: Joel’s best friend since high school, he has been around for everything from late-night hangouts to major life milestones. He’s not just part of Joel’s story, he’s been there since the very beginning of Kailea and Joel’s story, too.

He’s shared in countless memories, supported us through every chapter, and according to Mazi is easily the favorite human of the whole wedding party. 🐾

There’s no one more fitting to stand beside us as we say "I do" and really get the party on the dance floor.

Santos Elizondo

Jaeda:  What started as a sweet friendship when she was still just a young girl and Kailea was in her 20s quickly grew into one of the most important relationships in Kailea's life.
Over the years, they have created so many unforgettable memories  from road trips and beach getaways to spontaneous adventures and late night talks that lasted until morning. No matter where they all are, Jaeda brings a calm, grounding energy that everyone around her feels… but she also knows exactly how to have the most fun and be the life of the party.
She’s always felt like Kailea's mini me, the little sister to both Joel and Kailea in every way that matters, and someone who’s been there for both the biggest moments and the quiet ones in between. Having her stand beside us on our wedding day is more than special it’s full circle.

Jaeda Abeyta

Jorgie: Joel’s cousin but more like a brother, a best friend, and a constant in both of our lives. Jorgie is the kind of person everyone needs fiercely loyal,  always fun, and full of determination in everything he does.
To know Jorgie is truly to love him. He’s the one bringing the energy, hyping everyone up, and making sure no one leaves the party without a good story. But beyond the fun and laughter, he’s also the first one to show up, the first to check in, and the kind of friend who listens without judgment and loves without limits.
He’s been there through all the highs, all the lows, and every random adventure in between. There’s no version of this day  or our story  that doesn’t include him. He’s family, through and through, and we’re so lucky to have him standing with us as we start this next chapter.

Jorge Flores

Coco: Over 10 years Corrie has been one of Kailea’s oldest and most cherished friends a true constant in a world that’s always changing. No matter what life throws her way, she always shows up. Whether it’s a quiet moment when Kailea needs support or a big celebration worth partying for, she’s there with an open heart.
She loves hard and fiercely  the kind of friend who checks in just when you need it most, often before you even realize it yourself. Her presence is steady and comforting, a reminder that Kailea is never alone.
More than that, she’s been a protector through tough times, a guide when life feels uncertain, and one of the biggest fans of every success and joy Joel+ Kailea have had. Always down for an adventure, she brings laughter, light, and a fearless spirit that makes every moment together unforgettable.
Her friendship is woven through the best parts of Kailea’s life, and having her by her side on this day feels like the perfect way to honor a bond that’s lasted through everything.

Corrie Bradley

Isaac: From the days of running around outside as kids in California to standing proudly by Joel’s side at the wedding, he has been a staple part of Joel’s life and journey. He’s truly one of the most compassionate and hardworking people you’ll ever meet, someone who leads with kindness and shows up no matter what.
Growing up together, they built a bond rooted in shared memories, laughter, and countless adventures. Through all the twists and turns life has brought, he’s remained a rock always the first to lend a helping hand.
Whether it’s celebrating big milestones or playing video games until 3 am, his unwavering presence has been a constant source of strength. Having him with us on this day means more than words can say it’s a celebration of family, loyalty, and lifelong friendship.

Isaac Flores

Railey: One of Kailea’s childhood best friends who has been by her side for over 18 years. From the zoo as kids, to going to concerts together  as adults, their bond has only grown stronger with every adventure.
She knows Kailea better than most, understanding the little things and big dreams that make her who she is. She’s the person who always seems to have the right answers when life throws curveballs, offering unwavering support and love that runs deep.
Whether it’s a quiet night in filled with laughter and heart-to-hearts or a night out ready to getting a little to wild, she’s always there, a constant presence through every high, every low, and every unforgettable moment in between.
Having her share in this day means everything, because some friendships aren’t just for a season they’re for a lifetime.

Railey Rhor

Uriel: What began as Joel's sisters boyfriend, has become one of the most meaningful friendships Joel has. Joel’s brother-in-law, has become so much more than just family he’s someone you can always count on, no matter what life throws your way. Over the years, we have shared countless memories from early mornings  golfing together, to days filled with snowboarding down the slopes, and laid back evenings at home sharing beers and good conversation. Whether it’s adventure or downtime, he’s always the guy who brings good vibes and a steady presence.
But beyond the fun and the laughs, he’s also one of the best listeners, someone who’s there when you need advice, or support. Having him not only in our lives but also standing beside us on this special day feels incredibly special. It’s a reminder that family isn’t just about blood  it’s about the people who show up, who support you, and who become lifelong friends.

Uriel Zaragoza

Makena: Our Little Lu, a tiny soul with a heart so big, it feels like it could light up the whole world. She’s our little baby, the secret keeper who holds onto our stories and dreams with unwavering trust.
Through every laugh, every tear, and every quiet moment in between, she’s been a calm in the chaos and the glue that holds us together. Her kindness and gentle spirit remind us every day what family really means. She is Kailea and Joels world. A little fire cracker, and a true sour patch kids.
She listens like no one else, understands without words, and loves fiercely in the purest, most beautiful way. Whether it’s sharing whispered secrets or bursting into laughter at the silliest jokes, she’s the one who makes every moment feel a little warmer, a little brighter.
Having her by our side on this special day means the world  because she’s not just family, she’s the heart and soul of it all.

Makena Eddlemon

Meme: There are no words that fully capture the magic of Melia. Kailea’s youngest sister. She is, without a doubt, one of the kindest, most caring souls you’ll ever meet gentle in spirit, pure in heart, and deeply loved by everyone who knows her. To Kailea and Joel, she’s not just a sister, she’s their whole world. The one who brings warmth, light, and quiet strength to every space she’s in. Whether it’s a comforting hug, a thoughtful message, or just her peaceful presence, she has a way of making everyone around her feel safe and seen.
But don’t let her sweetness fool you  she’s also one of the hardest workers and a total badass athlete, with determination and grit that inspire everyone who watches her chase her goals. Having her stand with us on this day means more than words can say. She’s not just family, she’s a source of pride, love, and inspiration, and we’re so lucky to walk through life with her by our side.

Melia Eddlemon

Janet: Has been by Joel’s side since day one quite literally. As his sister, she’s known him longer than anyone and has been a constant presence through every season of life.
Though quiet by nature, don’t let that fool you she is fierce in all the best ways. With a huge heart, a strong drive, and a calming, nurturing presence, she’s the kind of person who may not always speak loudly, but her love and support are felt deeply by everyone around her.
She’s endlessly helpful, always dependable, and the type of person who just shows up always, simply because that’s who she is. She’s been there for Joel through every high and low, and now, standing with him on one of the biggest days of his life, there’s no one more fitting to be by his side.
Having her here means the world a quiet force, a gentle soul, and a forever part of this story.

Janet Payan

Cobe: He isn’t just Kailea’s brother,he’s her first best friend, adventure buddy, and one of the most caring, kind hearted people you could ever meet. Being close in age meant growing up side by side, sharing everything from inside jokes and wild childhood adventures to unforgettable memories that helped shape who they are today.

He’s the type of person who’s always down for anything spontaneous lake days, new experiences fishing on the beaches, or just a good laugh over something completely ridiculous. His humor, warmth, and unwavering support have made him not only an incredible brother, but also someone both Kailea and Joel are so proud to have in their lives.
Having him be part of this day is more than just tradition it’s a celebration of a lifelong sibling bond, built on love, laughter, and the kind of friendship that only siblings like these two could understand.

Cobe Eddlemon

Bode: He may be the youngest, but he holds one of the biggest spaces in Kailea’s heart. He’s her baby brother, her walking heart on earth, and one of the sweetest, smartest, and most incredible souls you'll ever meet.
Don’t let his age fool you, he’s wise beyond his years, thoughtful, and grounded in a way that surprises everyone who meets him. With a heart bigger than most adults and a mind filled with every football stat imaginable, he somehow balances being the sweetest guy in the room with being an absolute class clown, and beast on the football field. Truly a badass in cleats.

Whether he’s giving the best hugs, making us laugh with his quick wit, or rattling off  NFL facts like a pro, he brings a warmth and joy that’s impossible to miss. He may be the “baby” of the family, but the love and pride we feel for him is enormous.
Having him here with us on this day means everything because he’s not just Kailea’s little brother. He’s one of our favorite humans on this planet.

Bode Eddlemon

Leslie: Like an aunt to Joel but truthfully, she’s become a guiding light in both of our lives. She is one of the strongest, most steady and soulful people we know. Her calm presence has a way of making even the hardest days feel lighter, and her heart is filled with wisdom, grace, and love.
She’s the person who always shows up no matter the time, place, or circumstance. She never judges, always listens, and makes everyone around her feel seen, heard, and truly cared for. Her encouragement to walk in faith, stay grounded, and trust in the bigger picture has helped carry us through so many seasons.
Whether it’s offering advice that somehow hits exactly when it’s needed most, praying over our dreams, or just being a steady part of our daily lives she’s someone we lean on more than she probably even knows.
Having her with us on this day means more than we could ever express. She’s not just family, she’s a safe place, a source of strength, and a forever part of our hearts.

Leslie Uribe

Radix: our nephew the most adorable, wild-hearted, hilarious little guy you’ll ever meet. At just 4 years old, he’s already got a personality way bigger than he is.
He’s sweet, adventurous, and just the right amount of crazy  the kind of kid who keeps us laughing, keeps us on our toes, and brings so much light to our lives. Whether he’s dancing, exploring, or telling stories that don’t totally make sense (but make us smile anyway), he’s truly the heart of every room he’s in.We’re so lucky to have him be part of this day  and if we’re being honest, he might just steal the whole show.

Radix Torrez

Orie: She may not be your typical flower girl, but she was never going to have a typical role in this wedding  because to know Orie is to know she's anything but ordinary.
She is someone who’s walked beside us through every high, every low, and every messy, magical moment in between. The friend who always calls, always checks in, and always somehow knows just when she’s needed  without ever having to be asked. She listens with her whole heart, loves without condition, and shows up every single time with loyalty, grace, and kindness that runs deep.
She’s been a protector, a safe space, and one of the most consistent, grounding presences in Kailea's life, she’s helped carry Kailea through more than she knows.
Having her walk ahead of Kailea as our flower girl is more than just a fun twist  it’s symbolic of everything she’s been all along: the one who helps set the tone, leads with love, and brings beauty into every space she steps into. Her role may be unconventional, but so is her impact unforgettable, irreplaceable, and deeply woven into the story of our lives.

Kailea & Joel

Kailea & Joel

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