Yes.

If your guest name is listed on your invite and when you RSVP, then yes! Otherwise, we are limited by our venue capacity and we can only accommodate the guests listed on your invitation. We may consider extenuating circumstances, but we make no guarantees and reserve the right to say no to additional guests. Thank you for understanding!

Ummm you’re an adult and allowed to make your own decisions but just know that it’s Luke and Kathy’s special day so don’t act a fool. But in reality, this is why we are only serving cocktails and non-alcoholic drinks during cocktail hour, and beer, wine, and non-alcoholic drinks for the remainder of the evening!

Somewhere between casual to formal as explained by this below link :) If you need an actual tag, let's say "dressy casual". Some have also asked about wearing a Vietnamese traditional áo dài (pronounced ow yigh). The majority of folks wearing áo dài will wear it during the tea ceremony the day prior, however we invite you to wear one if you would like!

The best bet would be to buy one from a US store, e.g. Ao Dai US, Ao Dai by CuteSass, Ao Dai Sumo, Ao Dai in NC USA, or Etsy (please note if you do this there are certain customs with colors and designs, and also very particular sizing, so please consult me/another Vietnamese person if you choose to go this route!).

If you'd like heels, you can get these shoes called Pashion where you can remove the heel so you can dance in them. I am getting as my wedding shoes, however their customer service is terrible and they arrived so much later than expected. So if you want these shoes and aren't worried and trust everything to be ok, they're fun. But if you might need any contact with them, they're awful. Anyway, here's 25% off if you want with this code: WGLUKEFINALLYNGUYENS https://pashionfootwear.com/