Great Marsh Estate

Wedding Day

Welcome everyone! We are both so excited to finally celebrate this day with the people we love most. This site has all the details you’ll need.. from when and where, to what to wear, and everything in between. More than anything, we just feel incredibly lucky to have such supportive friends and family by our side as we start this next chapter together. We can’t wait to see you and make memories that will last a lifetime. With love, Kyle &amp; John

Our Wedding

Kyle and John met on May 23, 2021, a lazy Sunday in Pentagon City, after chatting on Tinder for just fifteen minutes.Kyle had been in the U.S. for only one week when he walked from his apartment to Shake Shack in the sweltering D.C. heat. He was meeting a man he didn’t know, on what also happened to be his 27th birthday. That man arrived seven minutes late. What Kyle couldn’t have known was that John was frantically circling for parking, before sprinting to the meeting spot, and taking just a moment to catch his breath and wipe away the sweat.That chance meeting turned into hours of conversation. From the very beginning both of them quietly wondered how it could feel so natural, so effortless, with someone they had only just met. They were moved to discover how deeply their hopes, dreams, and vision for their futures aligned.In the four years that followed, Kyle and John grew together as a couple. That growth was not always easy, but through every challenge they built a love that proved enduring. They travelled near and far, met each other’s friends and families, and began to picture a shared future.On June 10, 2025, John made that future official. A few weeks earlier, they had been invited to a magic show, and John saw the perfect opportunity. With the magician as his co-conspirator, Kyle was invited onstage to “help with a trick.” What he didn’t know was that John had a trick of his own. In a flash of stage magic, an engagement ring appeared out of thin air, and John dropped to one knee to ask the most important question of his life.Kyle said YES! Together, Kyle and John are deeply grateful for the love and support of their family and friends, and they look forward to celebrating the start of their forever with you.

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We are beyond grateful to share this day with our family and friends. Here is a guide to the flow of our celebration so you’ll know what’s ahead as we say “I do” and celebrate together:

4/10/2026 7 PM to 10 PM - Welcome Reception *reserved for family and guests traveling from out of town*

4/11/2026 3:15 PM – Shuttle Pick Up from Hilton Garden Inn, Haymarket 4 PM – Wedding Ceremony 5 PM – Cocktail Hour 6 PM – Wedding Reception 10:30 PM – Last Call at the Bar 11 PM – Guest Departure

Itinerary 

Joe and John crossed paths in high school, but their friendship didn't begin in earnest until they'd graduated. John had already been impressed with Joe. He'd been class president, prom king, and had the easy charisma of a natural leader. That only made it more striking when John discovered that Joe was remarkably humble, carrying with him a palpable sincerity. He wore his heart on his sleeve,  and cared not only about the people around him, but the world at large. Since then the two have gotten closer every year. They've lived together, worked together, and even backpacked across Europe together. He continues to impress John with his ambition and dedication. When he's not running marathons he's using his personal time to develop professional skills. Joe is John's Best Man, because he's truly the best man John knows.

Joe Hanson

Amy came into Kyle’s life in 2022 and they have spoken every single day since. Their connection was instant, fuelled by Beyoncé lyrics, chaotic humour, and TikToks that only make sense to the two of them. At work they were mischievous partners in crime, the kind of pair who could set each other off with one glance and absolutely no words. Outside the office they levelled up, touring national parks, Universal Studios, and even Nashville into their own travelling comedy act. Wherever they go, chaos and laughter follow like a personal soundtrack. Even after Amy moved back to the UK, their friendship somehow got even louder. Amy is Kyle’s Gemini twin, his partner in mischief, and the only person who can instantly match his energy. She is his laughter, his confidante, and his forever best friend.

Amy McCoy

Oh how to describe our dear Meg? She has been in John's life for 25 years, oscillating between his confidant, his tormentor, his ally, and his stalker. Though they are six years apart in age, when they are together you'd think they were twins (specifically Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum). Despite decades of bickering and teasing, she has been a supportive and compassionate sister. They are always a source of strength for each other, and are still each other's first call when dealing with hard times. It's safe to say, he can't imagine his life without her.

Meg Dubbelde

Joshua isn’t just Kyle’s brother — he’s been a lifelong partner-in-crime. From growing up together, he’s the one who knows Kyle best. These days, he’s also responsible for keeping Kyle’s millennial self feeling hip by decoding Gen Z and Gen Alpha slang — reminding him that things aren’t “cool” anymore, they’re “rizz,” “slay,” or if you’re really lucky, “no cap.” Whether it’s family holidays, late-night laughs, or just being there when it matters most, Joshua has always been one of Kyle’s constants.

Joshua Duffy

John met Doug during a tumultuous freshman year in college, and ever since Doug has striven to encourage further chaos. Despite Doug heartlessly moving to the other side of the country, they have maintained a deep and meaningful friendship. The two have travelled together extensively; from Barcelona to Tokyo, sampling the local cuisines and indulging in the local libations. Doug is also the premiere curator of John's audiobook library. They've spent many precious nights discussing the adventures of Lock Lamora, Darrow of Lykos, and Kaladin Stormblessed. He is a gifted artist, a caring friend, and an invaluable advisor.

Douglas Fuchs

Kyle met Lauren in January 2025 and from day one they clicked in the most chaotic way possible. Lauren quickly became his partner in crime at work, his gym hype woman, and the certified Muscle Mummy of his life, fuelled almost entirely by white Monsters and Zyns.

They bonded over laughing until they cry at the silliest things, screaming music in the car, and turning every workday into a mini adventure. Lauren is the friend who can walk into a room and instantly change the energy, usually by saying something unhinged that Kyle finds far too funny. Together they have travelled from Texas honky-tonks to Yellowstone, the Tetons, and the bright lights of Vegas, collecting stories that will definitely not be told at the wedding. She makes every trip funnier, every workout louder, and every moment a little bit more chaotic. Lauren is Kyle’s country bestie, his constant source of energy and laughter, and the friend he is genuinely grateful to have by his side on the big day.

Lauren Hargreaves

Alex and John's friendship was crafted by Mr. Douglas Fuchs. He introduced Alex and John during Alex's short trips to visit him in Richmond. John was lucky to make an impression on Alex, because she proved to be one of the kindest most genuine people he'd ever met. Her patience and her wisdom is on display in every conversation one has with her. John sincerely hopes their friendship lasts a lifetime.

Alex Thornley

Kyle met Ben at the British Embassy in 2022 and has been pestering him for attention ever since. When they’re not hanging out in DC, Ben is usually giving Kyle a crash course in history (whether he asked for it or not). He’s the ultimate workday sidekick, a fellow Brit making the jump to the USA, and proof that every chaos-loving friend group needs at least one history nerd to keep things interesting.

Benjamin James

Trenton and John bonded in high school over their warped sense of humor. When others were shocked, confused, or dismayed the two of them would be smirking and shooting conspiratorial glances at the other. John even cast Trent in his one act play where Trent played a murderous cheesemonger. As stated earlier, confusion was a common response to their comedy. Today Trenton has grown into a brilliant empathetic man. John had the privilege to work with Trenton briefly, and he witnessed that in addition to his wit Trent has a meticulous dedication to achieve his goals. John considers it an honor to be his friend.

Trenton Sorensen

Kyle first met Abby in 2022 as John’s cousin, and every time since she has brought nothing but good vibes. Even though they have not hung out a ton, Abby has that rare superpower of making Kyle feel instantly loved, like a best friend and family rolled into one. It is giving wholesome, it is giving comfort character, it is giving “how have we not known each other forever.” Whether it is Thanksgiving, Christmas, a wedding, a random family gathering, or quick catch up, Abby shows up with the kind of energy that makes everyone’s day brighter. She always arrives with kindness, laughter, and just a bit of sparkle, like she personally refuses to let the vibe drop for even one second. Abby is basically the human version of Jonas Brothers confetti, and Kyle is genuinely thrilled to have her on his side of the aisle bringing joy, chaos, and certified good energy to the wedding.

Abigail Rizzo

Katie and John met like all the great thespians do, under the spotlight, the stage below their feet. Never mind the fact that they were background characters, and the stage was for their elementary school play. They became instant friends. Perhaps because up to that point they'd been used to people saying that they were too loud or too excitable, and suddenly they found someone that admired and encouraged that reckless joy. So despite the teachers scolding them, they were swinging each other in circles cackling like goblins before the rehearsal had even started. The two would remain friends for decades, planning a backpacking trip after college, doing arts and crafts projects, and even clinching the coveted Gingerfest trophy. She remains a source of joy and excitement, that John will always be grateful for. 

Katie Anderson

Kyle met Kelly in 2021 and she has been bringing kindness, laughter, and full brat energy ever since. Kelly radiates the kind of warmth that makes people feel safe and welcome within seconds. Together they have screamed into karaoke mics, wandered through Europe like unhinged travel vloggers, and spent far too many evenings proving that Kelly is the undisputed Quiplash Queen (she wins every single time and still reacts like she has just discovered fire). What Kyle loves most is how naturally funny, loving, and genuinely good she is. She turns ordinary moments into core memories, makes everyone around her feel lighter, and can make Kyle laugh so hard his whole face hurts. Kelly brings heart, humour, and loving energy to every space she enters, and Kyle is truly grateful to have her standing with him on the big day.

Kelly Sandberg

John became aware of the unstoppable force known as Miguel Bustillo in the year of our lord 2013. Even when he was younger Miguel had a lust for life. He would shout until he was hoarse, run until he puked, and play EDM music loud enough to blow out sound systems. The two kept in touch during college, and decided to live together after graduation. Miguel, John, and Joe were all living together when the Covid-19 Pandemic rocked the world, and upended all sense of normalcy. It was lucky for John that he had Miguel around, because no quarantine could be boring with Miguel "Busty" Bustillo sharing your living space. Whether it was 3 AM Rocket League tournaments, synchronized swimming in a 100 gallon kiddie pool, or brewing his own hard seltzer, Miguel always had a plan to keep the good vibes going. As the years have passed Miguel has remained a bold and passionate person. John feels extremely fortunate that he has Miguel in his life to inject joy and excitement into every situation.

Miguel Bustillo

Kyle met Laura in 2018 during Phase 2 military training, where their friendship began the moment she laughed at him for tripping while marching. From that day on they became inseparable. They have partied their way through more nights out than either of them could ever count, travelled across the UK and all the way to Ibiza, and caused more than their fair share of trouble at work. There were mornings when they were so hungover and late that they actually had to run to work in full panic mode, and the gate security staff at Royal Navy bases probably still roll their eyes when they remember the two of them charging through. Laura was also Kyle’s Covid bestie, the person who kept him sane through lockdowns, boredom, cocktail nights, and long walks. They survived it all together and somehow still managed to laugh through most of it. She has been there for every version of Kyle, through loud nights out, quiet moments of panic, hysterical laughter, and the kind of life chats that only happen at 2am. Laura is the friend who will celebrate with him and cry with him. Over the years she has gone from being someone he met in training to a true ride or die and one of the people who knows his heart best. Laura is not just a friend but a constant in Kyle’s life, someone he treasures deeply and is proud to have by his side on the big day.

Laura Chisholm

Megan and John started their journey in her sister Molly's car. The two kindly Lynch ladies were giving him a ride home after school. It didn't take long before Megan, despite being a year younger, realized that little John was naive to the ways of the world. Even though he was brash and startlingly loud, he was shy. From that point on her and her family welcomed him like one of their own. The two spent almost every day with each other, often terrorizing the drama teacher Ms. Nelson. Megan even joined John, Joe, and Katie on their European backpacking trip. John is so grateful that she will be standing by his side for his wedding, and he's very excited to return the favor as Megan's officiant for her wedding next year to her lovely fiancé Luke. Megan introduced John to most of the friends he still has today, and will always be a someone he loves, cherishes, and respects.

Megan Lynch

Kyle met Phil in 2024 and he has been like a big brother ever since. From the start they bonded over their shared ability to find trouble at work, laugh at absolutely anything, and turn even the most ordinary day into a story worth retelling. They have travelled together, from Yellowstone to the Grand Tetons and anywhere else that promises good views, good jokes, and maybe a little chaos. Whether they are exploring mountains, grabbing drinks, or just chatting nonsense, Phil brings the kind of steady, loyal presence that makes every moment better. He is the friend who feels like family, the person Kyle can rely on for advice, laughter, and the occasional reality check, and someone who has become a genuinely important part of his life. Kyle would not want to do life, let alone this wedding, without him.

Philip Sandling

Wedding Party

Hotels

* Hilton Garden Inn - Haymarket *

15001 Washington St. Haymarket, VA 20169 This will be the main hotel for the wedding party, and the location of the shuttle services to and from the ceremony. If you choose the Hilton please feel free to use the following link as we have negotiated a discounted rate:<a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/attend-my-event/iadhmgi-90h-12383faf-822b-4b15-b74f-67ce20de89fa/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.hilton.com/en/attend-my-event/iadhmgi-90h-12383faf-822b-4b15-b74f-67ce20de89fa/</a> Distance to Ceremony Site: 21.5 Miles ~ 30 Minutes

Hampton Inn & Suites Culpeper

18411 Gate Road Culpeper, Virginia 22701 <a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/book/reservation/rooms/?ctyhocn=MNZCVHX&amp;arrivalDate=2026-04-10&amp;departureDate=2026-04-12&amp;room1NumAdults=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Available Rooms - Hampton Inn &amp; Suites Culpeper</a> Distance to Ceremony Site: 18.2 Miles ~ 25 Minutes

Tempo By Hilton Manassas

9849 Discovery Blvd Manassas, VA 20109 <a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/hotels/iadmapo-tempo-manassas/?arrivalDate=2026-04-10&amp;departureDate=2026-04-12&amp;numRooms=1&amp;numAdults=1&amp;numChildren=0&amp;room1ChildAges=&amp;room1AdultAges=&amp;displayCurrency=USD" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tempo by Hilton Manassas Hotel</a> Distance to Ceremony Site: 17.5 Miles ~ 28 Minutes

Shuttle Information

A complimentary shuttle will be provided on the wedding day between the Hilton Garden Inn Haymarket and the venue. This service is intended to ensure everyone can travel safely and comfortably to and from the celebration. When completing your RSVP, please indicate if you plan to utilize the shuttle service so that we can accommodate all guests accordingly.

Hotels & Shuttle info

Registry

Logistics What time should I arrive?Guest should arrive no later than 345 PM and be seated at the ceremony as soon as possible. Please plan ahead for traffic and travel time.Where is the venue located?The full address of the venue is Great Marsh Estate, 6105 Great Marsh Pl, Bealeton, VA 22712.Is there parking at the venue?Yes, there is car parking at the venue, and you will be directed to the parking area upon arrival.Is there a nominated Hotel where the wedding party will be staying the night of the wedding?Yes, the flagship hotel will be Hilton Garden Inn Haymarket (15001 Washington St, Haymarket, VA 20169) We will include a link to discounted rooms on the Hotels &amp; Shuttle Info tab. There is also a list of other hotels if the Hilton Garden Inn is fully booked, or out of your price range.Will transportation be provided?Shuttle service will be provided to and from Hilton Garden Inn Haymarket (15001 Washington St, Haymarket, VA 20169) at estimated 315 PM for those guests staying at this hotel or in the Haymarket area. Return shuttle will return you back to this location upon completion of the event. Please annotate on your RSVP that you will be using this shuttle service so we can make sure there is space for you.When should I RSVP by?Please RSVP as soon as you receive your wedding invitation.Can I bring a plus-one?Your RSVP will annotate if you have a plus-one option for your invitation. Please annotate your plus-one’s full name on the RSVP.

Attire What is the dress code?The dress code is formal / black tie optional. The colour theme for the groomsparty will be hunter green. Please do not wear full white or full black colour dresses.Will the ceremony/reception be indoors or outdoors?The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outdoors, so please keep an eye on the weather and dress comfortably. The reception will follow indoors.Will there be any outdoor walking or uneven terrain?Yes, parts of the venue include a mix of concrete and gravel pathways. We recommend dressing comfortably and choosing footwear suitable for walking on both surfaces.Will heaters/tents be provided if it’s cold or rainy?Yes, heaters, umbrellas, and tents will be available if needed. We will assess the weather closer to the date to ensure everyone is comfortable throughout the celebration.

Food &amp; Drink
 
What are the meal options?
Meals options for all guests will be options on your RSVP.
How do I let you know about dietary restrictions or allergies?
There will be a question on the RSVP to inform us of any dietary restrictions or allergies.
Will there be an open bar?
There will be an open bar from the Cocktail Hour (5:00pm) until last orders at the Reception (1030pm).
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Extras Can I take photos during the ceremony?We kindly ask that guests be fully present with us by keeping phones away during the celebration. Please leave the photos and videos to our professional photographer and videographer. What should I do if I have questions on the day of?A day-of wedding coordinator will be overseeing the entire celebration. If you have any questions about the schedule or need assistance during the day, please connect with them directly. Do you have a physical registry?Yes, there will be a locked card drop box located in the Manor before the ceremony. Please place any cards inside, and we will take it with us at the end of the evening. Will kids be welcome?While we adore all of your children, we kindly request an adults-only celebration, with the exception of our three nominated teenage guests. Will pets be welcome?While we adore animals, our venue does not allow pets, so we kindly ask you to make arrangements for them at home. Can we request songs for the reception?We’d love to hear one song you’d enjoy on the night.. you can share this with us through the RSVP form. After that, we’re leaving the music and flow of the evening entirely in our DJ’s hands, so there will be no requests taken during the reception itself. This helps keep the energy seamless and the dance floor full. Thank you for understanding!

Kyle & John

Kyle & John

K&J

Wedding Day