Your presence is present enough, says every wedding site ever. That really is very true though. We know what an ask it is and how many of you are making a lot of effort to be with us and that blows us away. That said, we will accept cold hard cash if you're so generously inclined. We're blessed that we don't need much in our small apartment but we do hold dreams of a relaxing honeymoon or the pipe dream of one day owning a home and would very much put any gift to good use here.