Wedding Day

Ceremony

Delta Diamond Farm Event Center

Reception

Our Wedding

We met in 2014, during one of our performing arts classes at school. We met as teenagers and were friends— well, flirty friends— through high school and beyond. While the timing was never quite right back then, there was always a spark between us. Years later, in our early 20s, that friendship turned into something real, and the rest is history.

Back Then, Not Yet… But Always You. 

One of our earliest memories together goes all the way back to high school choir class. In 2015, we were partnered for a project and decided to practice in a quiet room tucked away from the rest of the school. What we didnt realize? The room was soundproof. Isaac brought his guitar (of course), and what started as a quick rehearsal turned into an hour and a half of music, laughter, and getting completely lost in each other’s company. Before we knew it, the bell had rung, the next class had started, and we were blissfully unaware. Our teacher gave us a hall pass and a knowing smile — and that’s when the rumors started. People said we liked each other. We just weren’t ready to admit it yet.

The Soundproof Room (2015)

After a beautiful dinner at an Italian restaurant for a birthday celebration, Isaac had one more surprise up his sleeve. He brought me to a quiet, hidden bridge in Nashville, overlooking a peaceful little pond. There, with no one around — he asked me to marry him. It was simple, intentional, and so full of love. It was perfect.

The Proposal

One of our most beautiful memories came with the arrival of our son, Brooks. From the moment we found out we were expecting, Isaac stepped into full-on superdad mode — especially when it came to cravings. Whether it was gummy worms at 3am or something oddly specific and hard to find, he never hesitated. He made sure I was taken care of, comfortable, and never without exactly what I wanted to eat. The night our son was born was the most emotional, life-changing experience we’ve ever shared. Holding him together for the first time - just the three of us — was a moment that made everything before and everything after feel complete.

The Greatest Chapter: Being Mom and Dad

Our Story

Photos

Alexys Blankenship

Roman Wallace

Alyssa Martin

Daniel Wallace

Jalynn Quarello

Andrew Osterdock

Lux Sisco

Lucas Primgaard

Jamie Reifenheiser

Leo Barlow

Brooks Wallace

Lily Wallace

Wedding Party

Q + A

Air &amp; Train Travel: Oakland and Sacramento airports are the closest, and usually Oakland flights are far better priced. San Francisco will have the most non-stop flight options. If you can time your flights to avoid driving in Bay Area commute times, that is a good idea. Both San Francisco and Oakland offer BART train transport that goes to Antioch with a transfer or two.&nbsp; Sacramento Airport (SMF)- 50 miles to wedding location in Isleton- 72 miles to our hotel in Oakley- 77 miles to Kathy &amp; Chuck's Antioch house Oakland Airport (OAK)- 64 miles to wedding location in Isleton- 49 miles to our hotel in Oakley- 49 miles to Kathy &amp; Chuck's Antioch house San Francisco Airport (SFO)- 76 miles to wedding location in Isleton- 60 miles to our hotel in Oakley- 63 miles to Kathy &amp; Chuck's Antioch house Long Distance Train Travel:- Amtrak has a stop in Antioch. Let us know if you need a ride from BART or from the airport, etc. and we will see how we can help. Call Phoebe's mom, Kathy (925) 584-4637 or Isaac's stepmom, Tanya (925) 664-6361 if you need advice or help. Once you make your plans, definitely let us know when you will be in town! Hotel Accommodations: Best Western Plus Delta Hotel5549 Bridgehead RoadOakley, CA 94561(925) 755-1222 Traveling in for our wedding? Or maybe don't want to drive far after our celebration and best of all stay near family and friends? A block of rooms has been reserved at a discounted rate at the Best Western Plus Delta Hotel, that is approximately a 20 minute drive to our wedding location, and close to Phoebe's parent's house. Please call directly to the hotel at the number above and make your reservations with the room block name "BARLOW WALLACE WEDDING."&nbsp; More information: Group Name: Barlow/Wallace WeddingRoom Block Available fromSeptember 17, 2025 - September 22, 2025&nbsp;(You can book for any time during this period) Our Discounted Room Nightly Rates:All rooms include breakfast. The hotel also has a swimming pool, spa &amp; fitness center. All reservations may be cancelled as late as 4:00 pm on the night before your stay is due to start. Check in time is 3:00 pm and check out time is 11:00 am.&nbsp;All rooms are 100% non-smoking. - Single King Bed $139.99- Single King Suite $149.99- Two Queen Beds $145.99- Two Queen Beds w/Sofa Bed $159.99- Two Queen Beds, Accessible $145.99- Single King Bed w/Whirlpool Tub $179.99- Two Queen Bed Specialty Suite $179.99- Two Queen Bed Specialty Suite w/Separate Living Space $179.99 Call Phoebe's mom, Kathy (925) 584-4637 if you have any questions about the hotel arrangements.

Travel

Things to Do

Registry

We're so excited to celebrate with you! Your love and support mean the world to us, and we truly have everything we need. If you'd like to give a gift, we'd be so grateful for contributions to our honeymoon fund - helping us create unforgettable memories together as newlyweds. You can contribute here:  <a href="https://www.honeyfund.com/site/barlow-wallace-09-20-2025" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Phoebe &amp; Isaac's Honeyfund</a>

Honeyfund (Registry)

Phoebe & Isaac

Phoebe & Isaac

P&I

Wedding Day

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