Lakeside 54- Lake Club at Bear Lake Reserve

Rehearsal Dinner

Castle Ladyhawke

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Send off Brunch

Our Wedding

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Some love stories start with candlelit dinners or romantic getaways. Ours started with a soaked ceiling and a whole lot of water damage. After my apartment flooded for what felt like the hundredth time while I was studying for nurse anesthesia school, I was stressed, annoyed, and seriously considering moving into a canoe. That’s when&nbsp;he&nbsp;showed up—my maintenance tech, completely unfazed by the chaos. He fixed what needed fixing, cracked a few jokes, offered to help empty my entire clothing closest (which we all know is PACKED, not making it a simple task), and somehow made a disaster feel... manageable. What started with broken pipes turned into unexpected conversations, real connection, and the kind of chemistry you can’t plan for. Neither of us saw it coming—but we’re so glad it did. Looking back, it’s safe to say: love shows up when (and where) you least expect it. And sometimes, it tracks in muddy boots and carries a wrench.

Work Order-Complete ✅

Our Story

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From late-night study sessions to laughing until we cried in our college dorm room, Nikki has been by my side through it all. We met in college and quickly became inseparable—bonded by shared dreams, coffee addictions, and countless inside jokes that still make us laugh today. She's not just my best friend; she's family.

Her loyalty, wisdom, and unwavering support have meant the world to me over the years, and I couldn't imagine saying “I do” without her standing beside me. I'm so lucky to have her as my matron of honor—and even luckier to have her in my life.

Nicole 

Julia has been my best friend since childhood—the kind of friendship that’s truly once in a lifetime. From our early days cheering on the sidelines to countless hours spent perfecting routines at dance practice, we’ve grown up side by side, always lifting each other up (literally and figuratively!).

She’s been there through every milestone, every high kick, and every heart-to-heart. Her energy, loyalty, and fierce friendship have been constants in my life, and I’m beyond grateful to have her standing next to me as I take this next big leap.

We may not be in matching outfits for Twin Day or cheer uniforms anymore, but we’ll always be a team.

Julia 

Lexi has been part of my life for as long as I can remember.... literally Kindergarten. From childhood adventures and endless inside jokes to growing up together and becoming the women we are today, she’s been a constant and treasured friend through every season of life.

She’s the one who knows my roots—who I was before everything—and has always loved me for exactly who I am. Her loyalty, laughter, and genuine heart have meant the world to me over the years.

I’m so grateful to have her by my side on this special day, just like she’s been by my side for so many before.

Lexi 

I met Annie when we both started in the CTICU at Duke—aka the wildest, most intense crash course in friendship you can imagine. Between night shifts, code blues, our legendary Rotaflow elevator story, and enough caffeine to power a small city, we bonded over shared chaos, dark humor, and the kind of support only fellow ICU nurses can understand.

Whether we were calming hearts in the unit (literally) or laughing way too hard over stirring our caramel macchiatos, Annie quickly became one of my favorite people and best friends. She’s smart, hilarious, unshakably loyal, and always down for a dance break—even in scrubs.

Having her as a bridesmaid was a no-brainer. After all, if we can survive CTICU together, we can survive anything—including a bridal party group chat.

Annie 

Allie and I have been through it all—nursing school survival mode, CTICU chaos, and now CRNA life (because apparently we love a challenge). We met in nursing school and quickly became inseparable, bonding over Quizlet Flashcards, clinical drama, and an unhealthy reliance on caffeine.

We went from wide-eyed nursing students to ICU nurses to anesthesia, and somehow managed to keep each other laughing through every step. Allie is smart, driven, supportive, and always just the right amount of sarcastic—aka my kind of person.

I can’t imagine this next chapter without her standing beside me. If she can handle CRNA school, she can definitely handle a bouquet and a dance floor.

Allie

Dana is one of those friends who just gets you—especially when it comes to good coffee and even better company. Some of my favorite memories with her involve hopping from one cute coffee shop to the next, catching up on life, and spoiling her adorable pup with pup cups (he’s basically an honorary member of the bridal party).

She’s the kind of friend who brings laughter, calm, and a perfectly timed iced latte into any situation. Her heart is huge, her energy is contagious, and I’m so lucky to have her by my side for this special day—and every caffeine-fueled adventure to come.

Dana 

Ladies and gentlemen, today I stand before you to celebrate a man who embodies selflessness in its purest form—my brother, Steele. I don’t use that word lightly; it’s a title earned through actions, not given by chance. Our story began not with a handshake or a shared laugh, but with a collision—quite literally. Picture this: a maniac driving down the road, trying to play chicken with me... Hits my Honda. Yes, folks, our friendship was forged in the chaos of crumpled metal and a few choice words I won’t repeat here.
That fateful day, introduced by our mutual friend Jackson, could’ve been the end of us before we began. But from the wreckage of that moment—my Honda’s fender a tragic casualty—sprang something extraordinary: a bond that has grown into a sacred tradition we call Tres Leches. Three milks, one brotherhood, an annual pilgrimage of laughter, reflection, and relentless growth.
Steele didn’t just dent my car that day; he left an indelible mark on my life. He’s the kind of man who challenges you to be better—not through words, but through his unwavering example. 
Steele, you may have wrecked my Honda, but you’ve rebuilt my spirit time and time again. You are the most selfless man I know, a beacon of loyalty and heart in a world that sometimes forgets both.


Steele 

Jackson—my untamed, golden-hearted renegade, the kind of soul who lights up a room like a supernova wrapped in a leather jacket. He’s the human equivalent of Tres Leches: impossibly sweet, richly layered, and utterly unforgettable. Our story kicked off in the chaos of an airport terminal, two kindred spirits united by a shared obsession with the open road and the thrill of motorcycles, plus a mischievous streak for some legendary tomfoolery. From that electric moment, Jackson became more than a friend—he’s my brother, forged in adventure and bound by loyalty. This man is the realest of the real: unapologetically honest, fiercely dependable, and always ready to ride or die. His friendship? It’s my north star, my anchor, my joyride through life’s wild twists. I wouldn’t trade it for all the treasures in the universe.

Jackson 

Rafael—my truest, most steadfast friend. From the wild days of nearly getting tossed out of Mr. Reed’s computer class, to the edge-of-expulsion antics at Camp Motorsport, and countless unforgettable adventures, Rafael has been my rock. Through every misstep, every moment I fell short, his loyalty never wavered. His unshakable friendship, even when I didn’t earn it, is a testament to his extraordinary character. Rafael’s heart and resilience are nothing short of inspiring—a true brother in every sense.

Rafael 

Johnson, one of Jackson’s brothers, drifts through life like a whispered secret, undeniably the most captivating of them all. This enigmatic wanderer spends his starlit nights chasing fleeting dreams and serenading the moon with a soft, untamed howl. Quiet as a shadow, reserved like the mist that lingers at dawn, he carries a spark of humor that dances like firelight, warming the hearts of those fortunate enough to know him. My cherished amigo, my compadre—a soul so radiant, you can’t help but watch, spellbound, as he moves through the world like a melody half-remembered. Keep your gaze on him, for he’s a vision that lingers long after the night fades.

Johnson 

Listen up—Jordan. This man’s a force. When you cross paths with him, don’t be fooled by his natural swagger; it’s just how he’s built, no cause for concern. Jordan’s the ultimate wingman, a walking arsenal of charm and wit. His razor-sharp humor and unshakable grin will crush life’s toughest battles before they even start. His counsel? Pure gold. His confidence? A damn blueprint I’ve always admired. Step up and take notice—this is Jordan.

Jordan 

Ladies and gentlemen, allow me to extol the virtues of Garrett, a paragon of valor and camaraderie, renowned as the finest tank operator this side of the mighty Mississippi! With unparalleled mastery, he commands the battlefield with the precision of a maestro and the heart of a lion. Yet, his talents extend far beyond the rumble of steel treads—behold Garrett at the grill, a culinary sorcerer whose sizzling creations could tempt the gods themselves!
 In Garrett, we find the embodiment of every quality I hold dear in a friend: steadfast loyalty, boundless generosity, and an unyielding spirit that makes him truly the salt of the earth, a rare gem among men.

Garrett 

Wedding Party

Q + A

This airport is approximately 3 hours from the venue.

Charlotte Douglas International Airport

This airport is approximately an hour and 20 minutes from the venue.

Asheville Regional Airport

Another airport option. This one is approximately 2 hours from the venue.

Greenville-Spartanburg International Airport

This will be the only location with shuttle transportation to and from the venue. <a href="https://www.ihg.com/redirect?path=rates&amp;brandCode=EX&amp;localeCode=en&amp;regionCode=1&amp;hotelCode=DSBNC&amp;checkInDate=15&amp;checkInMonthYear=092026&amp;checkOutDate=17&amp;checkOutMonthYear=092026&amp;_PMID=99801505&amp;GPC=TCW&amp;cn=no&amp;adjustMonth=false&amp;showApp=true&amp;monthIndex=00" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Room Block Link </a> Cut off for booking is September 15th, 2026 ﻿Information from the Hotel:&nbsp;Guests are required to provide their own form of payment for room charges.Reservations may be canceled 48 hours before arrival. &nbsp;Hotel room rates are subject to applicable state and local taxes. All rates are net and non-commissionable. &nbsp;&nbsp;Any “No Shows” are subject to the fee of one night’s lodging plus applicable taxes. Remaining nights will be released.&nbsp; &nbsp;Specific room types and special accommodations may be requested but are not guaranteed. &nbsp;Check-in 4:00 pm. Check-out is 11:00 am. Early arrivals and late departures are not guaranteed.

Holiday Inn Express & Suites Sylva

Bear Lake Reserve is a lodging option for our wedding. The wedding party will be staying here! The minimum night stay is 2 nights, and you will receive a 10% wedding discount. To request current availability andbook a home, please email Bear Lake Reserve at <a href="mailto:Makenzie@bearlakereserve.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">vacations@bearlakereserve.com</a>. Please use the subject line “Lodging for the Civale-Tighe Wedding.” They will need to know your check in and check out dates, number of adults and children, and if you prefer pet friendly options. There will not be a shuttle from these homes to the venue.

Bear Lake Reserve

Another option. No shuttle will go directly to this location.

Comfort Inn Sylva - Cullowhee

Alternate Option. No shuttle to this hotel.

Hotel Sylva

Travel

Jackson County offers 494-square miles of fun.&nbsp;Explore waterfalls, go fishing, hiking, biking, or even rafting! It's all available in Jackson County so check out their website for more details. Their website also features an abundance of food/drink options. Check it out here: <a href="https://www.discoverjacksonnc.com/food-drink/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.discoverjacksonnc.com/food-drink/</a>

Jackson County 

Nearly 850 miles of trails and free entrance help make Great Smoky Mountain National Park a popular choice for hiking, waterfalls, camping and more. Three parking tag durations will be available for purchase for all vehicle types and sizes:Daily – $5Up to 7 Days – $15Annual – $40 Parking tags will be per vehicle, not per person. Parking tags will not be location specific. A parking tag will be required to park in any designated parking spot anywhere within the boundaries of the Smokies. Operational details, including how to purchase parking tags, will be posted on the park’s website. CONTACT INFORMATION1194 Newfound Gap RdCherokee, NC 28719 OUTDOOR LOCATION DETAILSCoordinates: N 35.51, W -83.30

Great Smoky Mountains National Park

Located in Asheville, North Carolina, Biltmore was the vision of George W. Vanderbilt.&nbsp;Designed by Richard Morris Hunt, America’s Largest Home® is a 250-room French Renaissance chateau, exhibiting the Vanderbilt family’s original collection of furnishings, art and antiques.&nbsp;Biltmore estate encompasses more than 8,000 acres including renowned gardens designed by Frederick Law Olmsted, the father of American landscape architecture.&nbsp;Today, Biltmore has grown to include Antler Hill Village, which features the award-winning Winery and Antler Hill Farm; The Inn on Biltmore Estate, a four-star accommodation; Village Hotel on Biltmore Estate; Equestrian Center; numerous restaurants; event and meeting venues; and the company’s licensed products division. To learn more about Biltmore, go to&nbsp;www.biltmore.com&nbsp;or call 877-BILTMORE.&nbsp;

Biltmore

Explore downtown Asheville! Here,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/things-to-do/attractions/arts-culture" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">art</a>&nbsp;can be admired from sidewalk cafes and renowned&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/things-to-do/arts-culture/museums" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">museums</a>.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/things-to-do/music/music-venues" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Music</a>&nbsp;comes alive on street corners and in iconic&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/things-to-do/music/music-venues" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">venues</a>. And mountain vibes always set the pace of life. Brimming with eclectic&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/things-to-do/shopping/shopping-districts/downtown" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">indie shops</a>, thriving&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/things-to-do/arts-culture/galleries-studios" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">art galleries</a>, beloved&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/eat-drink/breweries-cideries" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">breweries</a>, and award-winning&nbsp;<a href="https://www.exploreasheville.com/eat-drink" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">restaurants</a>, and shopping Asheville’s vibrant downtown is at once iconic and ever-evolving.

Downtown Asheville

The grounds of ABG are open daily all year round from sunrise to sunset for the enjoyment of the community. We do not charge for admission or parking but do encourage donations to help with maintenance.&nbsp;&nbsp;We hope you enjoy your time at Asheville Botanical Garden!Our mission is to promote and showcase the value and diversity of plants native to the Southern Appalachian region by serving as an educational resource and urban destination for nature study and enjoyment.

Asheville Botanical Garden

Whether you enjoy sipping a smooth golden ale, a refreshing and hoppy IPA or a dark and robust porter, Jackson County’s breweries have you covered. North Carolina boasts more craft breweries and brewpubs than any other state in the southeast and Jackson County shares the state’s commitment to providing quality local brews. Head down to Sylva’s Historic Main Street to experience over 100 different brews on tap and the flavors of Sylva’s thriving brewery scene. Along the way, there are great restaurants to grab a bite, antique shops and more. Each craft brewery offers flights (samplings of many beers), pints, growlers and either have food on-site or allow you to bring your own.

Jackson County Brewery Trail 

The historic Great Smoky Mountains Railroad Depot sits in the heart of Bryson City, North Carolina – a favorite regional attraction for family fun. A round-trip on the train is an ideal way to see extraordinary places that you can’t get to by car. Get a front-row view of the Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Nantahala National Forest, Fontana Lake, extraordinary trestles, pristine mountain rivers, historic structures, and stunning foliage.Choose from steam-powered trips with the official “Steam of the Smokies” or climb onboard an excursion powered by diesel locomotives. A variety of passenger round-trip train options and special event trains – including THE POLAR EXPRESS™ Train Ride – make this the perfect attraction for creating family memories and experiencing classic Americana.Climb aboard for your next unforgettable adventure today!

Great Smoky Mountains Railroad

Things to Do

Registry

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Song Requests

What Is Cocktail Wedding Attire?

Cocktail Dresses to Add to Your Cart ASAP

What Guys Need to Know About Dress Codes

We kindly invite guests to dress in cocktail attire—elegant, stylish, and festive!For women, this can include cocktail dresses, midi or knee-length dresses, chic jumpsuits, or dressy separates. Heels, wedges, or dressy flats are all great choices, and we encourage fun colors or seasonal patterns.For men, a suit or blazer with dress pants is recommended, paired with a button-down shirt. Ties are optional but welcome, and dress shoes such as loafers or oxfords complete the look.Our celebration will include time outdoors on grass, so please plan your footwear accordingly—block heels, wedges, or flats are great options to stay comfortable and avoid sinking into the lawn.We suggest avoiding overly casual items like jeans, sneakers, t-shirts, or athleisure wear. Instead, think of something you’d wear to a nice evening event or upscale celebration.We want you to feel comfortable, confident, and ready to celebrate with us!

Dress Code

Please arrive at Castle Ladyhawke by 4:30 PM; the ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00 PM. The ceremony will be phone-free—please silence and stow all mobile devices before the start. Shuttles from the Holiday Inn will depart at 4:00 PM and will return guests to the Holiday Inn beginning at 9:30 PM after the reception. Please see the menu below.

Rachel & Patrick

Rachel & Patrick

R&P

Wedding Day

5:00 PM

Ceremony

5:30 PM–10:00 PM

Reception