Wedding Prep

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Breakdown 

Our Wedding

Our Love Story

As Tom always says “we met the old fashioned way - online”. However the part that makes it special is that we met two days after I joined Zoosk and just before he had planned to end his membership. When I read his profile there was something very authentic that shined through. The connection, trust, ease of conversation, it all came so naturally. Tom’s wit, humor, work ethic, and love of his family all were apparent instantly. Within a week and a half I had invited him to a very prominent board dinner (in my 20 years attending this event I had intentionally NEVER brought a +1). But with Tom it was different because I knew not only would I be proud to have him by my side but I also knew he would be in my life for years to come. I just knew. Learning how close Tom was with his family, and in-laws, said something loud and clear about his character. I have been blessed to have felt seamlessly woven into all aspects of his life, and he in mine. My family also knew right away Tom was a keeper! As we wed I am proud to have one of his sisters-in-law by my side to symbolize the joining of our three families and to thank all for making me feel loved and welcomed. What is so special about our relationship? It is how well we collaborate. We enjoy camping and travel but we are just as fulfilled at home doing projects together. Even when words aren’t spoken we are striving for the same end goals. We just fit. I feel so blessed to finally experience what my folks have had - a true lasting partnership. I am not someone who likes to ask for help and I’ve had to do things on my own for many years, but having Tom by my side is natural. He is the piece of my puzzle that has been missing all these years. As we wed, in the same place he proposed, I am grateful to blend our families. I thank his children for embracing me and I thank my children for seeing how happy Tom makes me & welcoming him in our lives. The best is yet to come!

From her perspective 

I could barely imagine love would find me again so unexpectedly. Yet, in 2023, Lisa entered my life like a ray of sunlight. Our connection was instant. We quickly blossomed into a deep bond, built on shared laughter, conversations, goals, and an unspoken understanding that we were meant to walk this path together. Lisa’s kindness, wit, and unwavering support rekindled a joy I was yearning to regain after loss. We were soon inseparable, even with distance, dreaming of a future filled with love and adventure. From the moment I introduced Lisa to my family, they embraced her with open hearts. My children saw her radiant spirit and welcomed her warmth. Her wonderful children have warmly accepted me. My extended family, too, is captivated by her genuine care and vibrant energy, often remarking how she so easily fit perfectly into our lives. Family gatherings became brighter with Lisa’s presence, her laughter mingling with ours as if she’d always been part of our story. Their love and acceptance have been a gift, affirming that our union is not just ours but a shared joy. As we prepare to say “I do” on July 6, 2026, we’re surrounded by a family that cherishes together as their own, ready to celebrate the beautiful chapter we’re writing together.

From his perspective 

Our Story

Photos ❤️ Our Journey

Wedding Party

Q + A

The wedding will be at this campground. The reception will be at the Rec Center also located at the Lake Siskiyou campground. Note if you are not staying at the campground we believe there is a $3 per person day use fee to enter the campground. Cash or cards are accepted.

Lake Siskiyou Campground

A potential option for those needing logging. 

The Inn at Mount Shasta

Another option for those not staying at the campground.  We drove by and it looks cute.

Strawberry Valley Inn

Best Western Plus Mount Shasta

Mount Shasta Ranch Bed & Breakfast

Travel

We will be bringing some paddle boards and other water toys for all to enjoy. 

Water Sports

Consider a short drive to Castle Lake.  It’s only a few miles from Lake Siskiyou and there is a nice nature path to walk round the lake.

Castle Lake

An enjoyable hike to the upper falls from the lower falls.  It’s a moderate hike but we encourage bringing water and a hat.  Have fun!

McCloud River Falls

Things to Do

Registry

We fully appreciate our union came after tragic loss.  We also dearly miss parents, grandparents, and all those who have helped mold us into the individuals we are today.  As we enter this new chapter we still hold love for those who will forever be in our hearts.  During our reception candles will burn in their honor. 