First Unitarian Church of Pittsburgh

Wedding Day

Wedding

Ace Hotel Pittsburgh

Reception

Our Wedding

Jen and Brian had their first spark February 26, 2011, the night of American University's Founder's Day Ball. Jen was wearing a big, poofy, light-green princess dress and came to Solly's to meet up with some friends. Brian was seventh-wheeling with 3 couples. The group then went to Ben's Chili Bowl and when Brian got up to order food, Jen asked her friend Richard how to impress him. He mentioned that Brian is a big video game nerd. Jen mentioned a few games and that got Brian talking. They talked all the way back to their friend's house (Brandywine) where Brian was couch-surfing.At the house, they played Mario Kart. (Jen won the most games and Brian later tried to save face by demonstrating his Starfox Skills.) A few days later, Brian came to Jen's house (Porter) for brunch. After talking more at brunch, Jen invited Brian to her brother's house in College Park to play board games. They talked and listened to music on the way. They played board games, swung on swings, and Brian let Jen nap on his shoulder on the metro ride back, giving him the nickname of Nap Guardian.Jen went to LA, spending time with Anna, Caitlin, and Melinda, and texted, gchatted, or skyped Brian every day. On St. Patrick's Day, she met up with Brian in Adams Morgan to share some blueberry beer. Brian told her "If it's okay, I like you? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ... I was telling Dan about how perfect the date... er... the night we went to Tom's house was. I didn't think I'd meet someone as cool as you here." And Jen said, "Yeah, I'm surprised how much I liked you, how soon." Then after almost a month after their first spark, they shared their first kiss. Another month went by and they made their relationship Facebook official. Since then, Brian and Jen have shared countless adventures and have fought many battles side by side. They are excited to gather with friends and family to celebrate their big day.

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Anna has known&nbsp;Jenny all of her life! Not only is she Jenny's Lady of Honor,&nbsp;or LOH,&nbsp;but she is also Jenny's incredible sister. She is the A-LOH&nbsp;to Jenny's JLO.&nbsp;Anna lives in Pittsburgh, PA,&nbsp;works with children on the Autism Spectrum,&nbsp;and is a certified&nbsp;Yoga Instructor.

Anna Lotze

Green Bay, Wisconsin

Brett is all the things you wanted to be growing up: Police Officer, Fire Fighter, Pilot, father to a cool 'lil dude.

Brett Stauber

Pittsburgh, PAMac Lotze: Brother, DJ, former token white guy scotch dealer.&nbsp;His references are almost as&nbsp;out of control as his awesome VJ abilities

Mac Lotze

Caitlin (Spaitlin, Spaits) is Jenny's best friend and has known her since high school. They were roommates in college and shared an office while interning together at Jobs with Justice. Spaits lives in Seattle, Washington but plans to move back to the east coast very soon. She is a badass union organizer for UniteHere!

Caitlin DuBois

Boston, Massachusetts

If life is a game, Tom is probably the guy running around leaving secret clues to help you figure out where&nbsp;the next piece of the map is hidden (and making sure everyone is having fun while at it). Tom also once brought enough One Rings for his whole family to throw at a volcano! What a guy!

Thomas Lotze

Asra has known Jenny since Kindergarten. Asra was there for Jenny through all of the trials and tribulations of Shady Side Academy. They are both part of the first co-ed class of SSA Kindergarteners. Asra is a hockey player and lawyer in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.

Asra Hashmi

Last known location:&nbsp;Seattle, Washington

&nbsp;Dan Johnson will be the first to tell you for the price of three pizza a month, you could own a computer.&nbsp;Dan Johnson is sorry for partying.&nbsp;Dan Johnson once had a shack for sale and pretended it wasn't his when he finally had a buyer. (this may be John Dansky, though)

Dan Johnson

Melinda made Jen's college experience. She brought Jen into the infamous social justice "frat" called Porter. She also lived with Jen post-college in Reno House. Melinda lives with a small menagerie of animals in Washington, DC. She is a newsie (union organizer) for the NewsGuild.

Melinda Fiedler

Warshington, DCNotorious tax policy rock and roll icon&nbsp;Richard Phillips has testified before congress more times than most Americans.&nbsp;

*Not THAT&nbsp;Richard Phillips, (but he is my captain). Also not Phillip K. Dick in reverse.

Richard Phillips*

Rachel counseled Jen through many, many potential missteps while living together in Porter and Reno. She is righteous, loving, and sassy. Rachel lives with Jen's close friend and financial advisor, Ethan Miller, in Washington, DC. She speaks for the trees at the Sierra Club.

Rachel Mandelbaum

Part time Bee Keeper, full time friend.&nbsp;Cowriter of the acclaimed Broadway musical "Midler of the Streep". His musical interludes sooth the ears and the soul. Loves Blackberry Schnapps.

Adam Margulies

Tea is Jen's most wise and deeply rooted friend. They were Jen's pseudo-roommate at Reno. Tea has always been there to actively listen to Jen and provides the best advice and guidance. They live in Chicago, IL and spend their days and nights teaching young people how to community organize.&nbsp;

Tea Sefer

Mary and Jen shared a wall in Porter and remained friends through Jen shorting out the power several times in the house and Jen's messy habits. Mary and Jen had an amazing picnic on the main quad at AU, no ants were allowed. She lives in Chicago, IL and works in affordable housing development.

Mary Donoghue

Valerie has the distinct privilege of being Jenny's roommate in high school. She dealt with Jenny at her most angsty and taught Jenny how to be honorable and have uncompromising integrity, even in the face of teenage hormones. She lives in Columbus, Ohio and is a lawyer for Southeastern Ohio Legal Services.

Valerie Vodrey Hendrickson

Green Bay, WisconsinJoe and Brian have been friends ever since their parents left them to fend&nbsp; for themselves&nbsp;in the hard knock life of the daycare of Western Bowling Lanes.

Joseph Fredrickson

Washington, DCMaster planner,&nbsp; expert programmer,&nbsp;greatest of friends.&nbsp;

Andrew Metcalf

Priyanka met Jen on the first day of&nbsp;high school and things escalated quickly. Their friendship continued into D.C. where they built pillow forts, threw parties, and saw great shows to their hearts' content.&nbsp;Priyanka is the original tenured professor of Jenny's heart. She is a Director of Engineering&nbsp;in NYC.

Priyanka Venkatesh

Washington, DCAn all around good guy, with zero h's in his name.

&nbsp;Jon Staal may or may not have gotten Mono from Brian and that may or may not be his own fault.

Jon Staal

Jolie is the second child of Jenny’s cousin Matt and his wife Lindsay.&nbsp; She is 3, lives in Rochester, NY with her sister Madelyn and brother Ethan.&nbsp; She loves the color orange, Rapunzel, and break dancing.

Jolie

[Usher:]Yeah, yeah, yeah! Yeah, yeah! Yeah!Yeah, yeah, yeah! Yeah, yeah! Yeah!

Jackie Arnoso

Everett&nbsp;is Brian's nephew and lives in Green Bay, Wisconsin with his parents Brett and Kimberly. Jen is excited for him to visit Pittsburgh, especially given his love of Daniel Tiger. Jen will likely try to indoctrinate him into loving Pittsburgh and its not-to-be mentioned football team. But we all know where Everett's loyalties rest.

Everett

Cassie lives in&nbsp;Milwaukee, Wisconsin* and ooh boi don't get that wrong!&nbsp;

Milwaukee has certainly had its share of visitors. The French missionaries and explorers were coming here as early as the late 1600s to trade with the Native Americans.&nbsp;





In fact, isn't "Milwaukee" an Indian name? Yes, it is. Actually, it's pronounced "mill-e-wah-que" which is Algonquin for "the good land".



*Since the writing of this, Cassie moved to Appleton, where Brian originally thought she lived. By principle, he's&nbsp;not changing it back.

Cassie McDonald

Wedding Party

Registry

Q + A

Ace Hotel Pittsburgh makes its home in a century-old former YMCA building at the heart of East Liberty. We're surrounded by a community that, through grassroots support, has helped to create a place both by the neighborhood and for the neighborhood.

DISCOUNTED GROUP ROOM RATES&nbsp;





Ace Hotel Pittsburgh - Stotze/Stauber Wedding - USD





Fri -&nbsp;8/17/2018





Small Guestrooms&nbsp;149.00





Medium Guestrooms&nbsp;159.00 





Suite Guestrooms&nbsp;179.00 







Sat -&nbsp;8/18/2018





Small Guestrooms Rate&nbsp; 169.00 Medium Guestrooms&nbsp;179.00 Suite Guestrooms &nbsp;199.00





METHOD OF RESERVATIONS
Individual Call-In: By calling Hotel's toll free Reservation Line, 412-361-3300., individuals can make their own reservations.
For individuals to receive the established Group rate, they must identify themselves as members of the&nbsp;(Lotze /Stauber Wedding block) group initially when making the reservation. All&nbsp;reservations&nbsp;must be received by the group’s cut-off date. Reservations made after the cut-off date will be subject to&nbsp;availability and the most available rate. 







GUARANTEED RESERVATIONS
All reservations require a major credit card guarantee at the time of booking by each guest.








CUT-OFF DATE
Reservations by attendees must be received on or before&nbsp;the cut-of date, 7/18/2018. At this Cut-Off Date, the Hotel will review the&nbsp;reservation pick up for the Event, release the unreserved rooms for general sale, and determine whether or not it can accept reservations&nbsp;based on a space- and rate-available basis at the group rate after this date.

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Will there be transportation from our hotel to the ceremony and from the ceremony to the reception?

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Yes! We will have a shuttle to the ceremony from all three hotels (The Ace, The Indigo, and Spring Hill Suites). There will also be shuttles from the ceremony to The Ace for the reception. Shuttle to Church Pickup Times: Please meet in the front of hotel 3:10-3:20 pm Springhill Suites 3:20-3:40 pm Hotel Indigo 4:20-4:30 pm Ace Hotel 5:00 pm Ceremony First Unitarian Church of Pittsburgh 605 Morewood Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, 15213Question





Should I bring cash?





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Please bring cash to tip our wonderful bartenders.&nbsp;



Also, Jen and Brian will be fundraising during the reception for Bread for the City, a social services agency in Washington, DC.





Donate in cash or at&nbsp;<a href="http://bit.ly/kiss4bread" target="_blank">bit.ly/kiss4bread</a>





$1 for Jen and Brian to give each other cordial handshake





$2 for to give each other a little kiss





$10 for a kiss and dip



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Where's the...?









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All wedding locations (hotels, ceremony, reception)&nbsp;and recommended museums, restaurants, and more can be found here:&nbsp;<a href="https://drive.google.com/open?id=1cWMJKmUZL06s1ox9O0bsNKcSfskVP_s8&usp=sharing_eil">Jen and Brian's Wedding Map</a>&nbsp;Click on the descriptions for details on each location.















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What's the hashtag and where can I share my photos?









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Use the hashtag #stoked4stotze and/or add your photos to this shared google photos album:&nbsp;<a href="http://bit.ly/AUG2018" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/AUG2018</a>











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When should I take pictures/videos?





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At any time except for the ceremony.&nbsp;There'll be a&nbsp;pro there taking pictures – we asked them to come. Please rest your cameras&nbsp;as our ceremony only needs one!



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Who did the art for the invitations?











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Our friend, Khiem! Anyone who is interested in an art commission or photoshoot you can contact him through email&nbsp;- creativekhiem@gmail.com or instagram - @instakhiem. 









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Who did took the photographs for your save the dates?











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Our friend, Caitlin! Check out her website here: <a href="http://caitlinfaw.com/" target="_blank">caitlinfaw.com</a>

















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What should I wear?

















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Suggested attire is semi-formal or cocktail attire. People of all genders are encouraged to wear any of the following (from The Knot): A suit and tie. (Lean toward lighter grays or blues in warmer weather). A cocktail dress or dressy suit or jumpsuit or dressy pants/skirt and top.

















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Is the venue air conditioned?

















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Yes! It will likely be very hot outside but both the ceremony and reception will have air-conditioning.

















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Will there be childcare?

















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No, childcare will be at the parents discretion.This website may help:&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://www.urbansitter.com/find-babysitters/pa/pittsburgh-metro-area/pittsburgh" target="_blank" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.urbansitter.com/find-babysitters/pa/pittsburgh-metro-area/pittsburgh&source=gmail&ust=1530125704431000&usg=AFQjCNFJumnUv-t9_8SgJJTRwEi2IhjU9g">https://www.urbansitter.com/find-babysitters/pa/pittsburgh-metro-area/pittsburgh</a>

















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What should we do Saturday morning?

















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Jen grew up loving the museums in Pittsburgh and the amazing places to eat. Her top choices are the Carnegie Museum of Art and Natural History and Pamela's (make sure to go early because there is usually a line and bring cash). Other nearby highlights are Phipps Conservatory, The Nationality Rooms at The Cathedral of Learning, and Primanti's. See a detailed map of all wedding activities and local recommendations here: <a href="https://drive.google.com/open?id=1cWMJKmUZL06s1ox9O0bsNKcSfskVP_s8&usp=sharing_eil">Jen and Brian's Wedding Map</a>































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If we are flying in, how will we get from the airport to our hotel?















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We recommend using Supershuttle or Uber.&nbsp; Here is a link to Pittsburgh's Supershuttle: <a href="https://www.supershuttle.com/locations/pittsburghpit/">https://www.supershuttle.com/l...</a>













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How will we get around without a car?

















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We recommend using Lyft and/or Uber - You may even get a driverless Uber!&nbsp;The Hotel Indigo and The Springhill Suites by Marriot each offer a shuttle to use within a 3-mile radius, on request.&nbsp;There are also many walkable places near the hotels.

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DISCOUNTED GROUP ROOM RATES King Leisure Non-Smoking: $139 2 Queen Beds Non-Smoking: $139



 METHOD OF RESERVATIONS Individual Call-In: By calling Hotel's toll free Reservation Line, 412.665.0555, individuals can make their own reservations. For individuals to receive the established Group rate, they must identify themselves as members of the&nbsp;(Lotze /Stauber Wedding block) group initially when making the reservation. All reservations&nbsp;must be received by the group’s cut-off date. Reservations made after the cut-off date will be subject to&nbsp;availability and the most available rate.





GUARANTEED RESERVATIONS All reservations require a major credit card guarantee at the time of booking by each guest.



 CUT-OFF DATE Reservations by attendees must be received on or before Friday, July 27, 2018. At this Cut-Off Date, the Hotel will review the&nbsp;reservation pick up for the Event, release the unreserved rooms for general sale, and determine whether or not it can accept reservations&nbsp;based on a space- and rate-available basis at the group rate after this date.

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METHOD OF RESERVATIONS Individual Call-In: By calling Hotel's toll free Reservation Line, 1- 800-MARRIOTT, individuals can make their own&nbsp;reservations. For individuals to receive the established Group rate, they must identify themselves as members&nbsp;of the (Lotze /Stauber Wedding block) group initially when making the reservation. All&nbsp;reservations must be received by the group’s cut-off date. Reservations made after the cut-off date will be&nbsp;subject to availability and the most available rate.



GUARANTEED RESERVATIONS All reservations require a major credit card guarantee at the time of booking by each guest.

CUT-OFF DATE Reservations by attendees must be received on or before Wednesday, 7/18 /2018.&nbsp;At this Cut-Off Date, the Hotel will review&nbsp;the reservation pick up for the Event, release the unreserved rooms for general sale, and determine whether or not it can accept reservations&nbsp;based on a space- and rate-available basis at the group rate after this date.

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