Jeff and Michael's first official date! Michael takes Jeff on a city hike then for beers. Jeff get's asked if Michael is his Dad, no wait, his brother?? PRO TIP: Say yes to Daddies!

We go on our First HIKE hike PRO TIP: Take notes on your Science learnings

We take our first weekend excursion out of SF to Arnold, CA. PRO TIP: Check if the cabin has heat before booking

We visit Mexico City, our first international trip! This will be where Jeff's nickname "Pootah" crystallizes, a combo of a southern drawl and the Spanish "la puta". PRO TIP: Bring spandex pants. CDMX is ALL about food

Jeff takes Michael to Hawaii for a pediatrics conference. PRO TIP: Don't eat passion fruit off the ground

Jeff meets Michael's family for the holidays in Chicago and is loved by everyone PRO TIP: Trailer Trash Tammy Christmas sweaters are a family hit

Our first drag experience, we slay the house down with Tom Grothe, doing our rendition of Dolly Parton's "Backwoods Barbie" at the Golden Gate Men's Choir's talent show. PRO TIP: Wear in your heels

Julia, Irish, and Karim visit the Bay and Wine country. It is clearly a deep love. Pro Tip: Deon wears the best lipstick. Check it out.

Jeff and Michael ride 545 miles from SF to LA with AIDS Lifecycle, a fundraiser for HIV treatment and research. PRO TIP: ALWAYS MORE BUTT BUTTER!

We go on our first camping trip together and fall even more in love the Sierras. FUN TIP: The hidden gem of Sardine Lake is magical.

Our Annual Halloween tradition continues on as we compete for the best group costumes at the local Guerneville bars PRO TIP: A dance and a song help your chances of winning

We explore Portugal with the Golden Gate Men's Choir (GGMC) and have a fabulous time with our choir community. PRO TIP: Airbnb experiences private sailboats are the way to go

We celebrate our meeting place for Holiday tradition with the Golden Gate Men's Choir holiday performances. PRO TIP: Jeff looks HOT in a suit

We enjoy the holidays in Jeff's homeland of Jacksonville. Little does he know that Michael is asking permission to propose from Julia and Deon. Deon shares Jeff father's rings for our proposal Pro Tip: Be prepared to cry

The pickleball itch begins with Julia and Karim Pro Tip: The louder you swear the longer you keep the court

The families join together on a Caribbean Cruise for the holidays. Jeff ask's Michael's parents for permission to marry him and in return his is told that he has to kiss my father's ring. Pro Tip: If you knew Jim, you kissed the ring

We LOVE the outdoors. We fall in love with cross country skiing, sledding, and snowshoeing. Pro Tip: Go to chickadee ridge in Tahoe. The birds land on your head!

Michael PROPOSES to Jeff. (or should we say cries to Jeff) With the help of family and friends Jeff goes on a scavenger hunt across SF to end up home to a man crying. Pro Tip: Surprise parties the next day really do work

Jeff REPROPOSES his own way. He loops in our Hawaiian friends (Jessica, Tim, Alex, and Trevor) to pull a fast one and gets him on a helicopter. Pro Tip: Hawaiian leis are stunning

YUBA BABY!!!! Our calm, happy nature land Pro Tip: Water shoes come highly recommended

We file for our marriage license at San Francisco City Hall. BOTH giddy in love Pro Tip: You can literally walk in and have someone marry you at any time and then sign a license. WHO KNEW!

JAPAN WITH JULIA!!! Pro Tip: GO NOW while it is affordable

More Japan! Pro Tip: Book this spot early

KYOTO!!!! Note how tall we are Pro Tip: Make Kyoto your base. We did some amazing hiking!!!!

WE GOT LEGALLY MARRIED OVER PRIDE WEEKEND!!! Pro Tip: Always throw a gigantic pride party right after

Visiting Rachel and Patrick in Pismo Beach magiccccc Pro Tip: The lady next door can sense the Wi-fi, so be CAREFUL

Make lemons out of lemonade as we miss our flight back from Chicago! Pro Tip: Alcohol

Enjoying "Sun Downers" at the river in Guerneville Pro Tip: It's always better with wine

Our friends joining us for a HOT, GAY wedding cruise. Pro Tip: Be there or be square