If you are considering working with Jackie and Cookie (About Joy Events) for your wedding, please read this. Our experience lacked basic professionalism, forced us to project-manag...e our own planners, and ended with them leveraging our explicitly non-refundable retainer to force a highly restrictive $25,000 non-disparagement agreement (NDA) to prevent an honest review.
When we initially asked for a standard business breakdown to justify their price, Jackie refused, unprofessionally stating the cost helped pay for a family member's tuition. We eventually signed a contract on April 7 for our August wedding, after pushing back on a clause granting them rights to our event imagery due to privacy. Jackie minimized our concern, claiming she "had little followers," before finally agreeing.
Communication breakdowns immediately followed. Jackie abruptly booked our venue walkthrough without asking our availability, forcing us to explicitly request she consult our schedules moving forward. Due to their immediate international vacation, the walkthrough was delayed to May.
At the May walkthrough, we had to repeatedly ask if our specific concerns were being noted. We never received a single follow-up or action item. Jackie also abruptly asked if we "owned our home"; when asked why, she stated she was "just being nosey."
Design-wise, there was a massive disconnect between what we requested and what Cookie presented. With the June invitation deadline approaching, we had to provide highly detailed instructions to steer the designs back to our requested theme.
She also failed to manage our digital event platform, pushing an app that lacked vital features and required us to unexpectedly pay out-of-pocket. As we fell grossly behind on sending physical invitations, we repeatedly asked for updates. They consistently blamed their other client obligations, with responses often involving complaints about her other weddings.
Now June with little time left until our August wedding, we asked for a basic timeline and project updates. Rather than addressing this standard request, it took Jackie exactly 20 minutes to abruptly terminate our relationship, blaming our "lost confidence" in them. Following this, she offered to refund our retainer, quickly discovering this was merely leverage to coerce us into signing a predatory cancellation contract acting as an NDA. This contract introduced an extreme $25,000 penalty if we, or third parties like family and friends, made negative remarks or online reviews about their business.
When we declined this predatory agreement, Jackie falsely cited a contract clause to withhold the refund, that it was contingent on us "not disparaging" her, and held our event vendor contact information hostage.
We refused to sign the NDA. Tellingly, only after this did Jackie finally email our final design mood board and vendor contract. We sent a final communication requesting the remaining items they claimed to be working on (walkthrough notes, invitation mockups, florist lists, platform fixes), stating a lack of response would confirm the work was never done. By the time of writing, we have received zero files or proof of work, confirming they retained our money for services never rendered.
Now, we are scrambling to find a new planner for a peak-season summer wedding. If you are considering About Joy Events, protect yourself: thoroughly review every document and be prepared for them to hold your money hostage to prevent honest feedback.