About this vendor
Arenlace Bridal Boutique is located in Oceanside, CA. We specialize in creating personalized Bride, Bridesmaid, Bridal Party apparel and gifts. We carry a selection of personalized rhinestone bridal robes, Bridal party hoodies & wedding party tank tops & shirts. We also carry engagement, honeymoon and wifey shirts We also have tanks for that special Flower Girl, Bling Bearer or Junior Bridesmaid in your life. Our products can be customized to fit your wedding or bachelorette party needs. Our 5 years of experience has allowed us to provide excellent customer service to all of our brides. At Arenlace we love to treat your wedding as if it were ours! Contact us to and let us know you found us on TheKnot!!
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Business Attributes
- Woman-owned Business
Gifts & Favors
- Bridesmaid Gifts
- Flower Girl Gifts
- Gift & Favor Assembly
- Gift Wrapping
- Gifts for the Bride
- Gifts for the Groom
Awards and Affiliations
Reviews
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4.8
out of 5.020 reviews
If I could give zero stars, I would. Hiring Arenlace — and specifically working with Michelle — was genuinely the worst experience of my life. Michelle wasn’t just a terrible planner — she was by far the most unprofessional, incompetent, inconsiderate individual I’ve ever had the misfortune of working with - outright rude, snide, dismissive, and cruel to us, our families and guests.
She failed at the most basic responsibilities. Despite being paid for full-service planning, I ended planning most of the wedding myself. On wedding day, I found myself repeatedly asking her to fix things , instead of enjoying the day I spent over a year planning. I never imagined I’d have to write a review like this, but I feel a responsibility to protect other brides from Arenlace Events. If you are reading this while planning your wedding, please — I am begging you — keep looking. Michelle was hands down the rudest, most dishonest, and emotionally negligent person I've ever encountered.
Here are just a few of the many horrific failures:
I was left to clean up my own ceremony. Over 1,000 petals that should’ve been handled by her team were left scattered. This was HER job, and she just walked away. The seating chart fell ON ME. Literally, the bride. It was taped to an easel, clearly put together very last minute, and kept falling. She didn’t secure it properly, didn’t apologize for it falling on me. The flowers were nothing like what we paid for. Our flower quote was over $8,000 and what arrived was sparse, cheap-looking, and incomplete. Promised 24 grand aisle arrangements? Got 6 or 7 weak ones. The candles were wrong — she swapped the real ones we paid for with fake LED candles, never told us, and kept the money. She failed to communicate with vendors, sending the timeline 3 days before; vendors were calling me the morning of the wedding asking for the venue address. She told guests the wedding cake was pistachio — it was key lime. This misinformation was dangerous. Multiple guests didn’t eat the cake due to nut allergies. That could have been a medical emergency — all because she didn’t care enough to get the facts right. This happened repeatedly throughout the night, she gave false information to many guests. Michelle constantly denied her own mistakes even when we had receipts, emails, and photos. She gaslit us, argued, and twisted facts instead of taking ownership. For example:
We paid extra for a specific tent style, confirmed with her multiple times. She changed the order without telling us and then insisted we never discussed it. Only after I dug up the original invoice did she realize this — but still wouldn't admit to her mistake & offered no apology. She forgot to forward us a $9,000 invoice until literally the day before it was due. She repeatedly failed to forward critical information in a timely manner, only sending it when I asked for it. We had a $300 cigar bar setup — cigars, cutters, matches, custom boxes — all discussed in detail to be set up for the after-party. Instead, everything was gone. Guests said they never saw it. We never saw them. Nothing was ever found. When asked about timing, events, or the layout — she shrugged. When we asked for help, she scoffed. To make matters worse, she lied about how many weddings she takes simultaneously. She promised ours was her only focus. In reality, she posted on social media doing a wedding every single day of the week — including 2 weddings on our wedding day. There were so many other things that went wrong... After the event, rather than apologize or try to right any wrongs, Michelle began harassing me at my workplace. She sent accusatory emails, tried to rewrite history, and offered zero accountability for any of her actions. She acted like the victim — while I was still mourning my grandfather, cleaning up her mess, and trying to salvage memories of my wedding. If you value peace of mind, professionalism, and respect — run the other way. I wouldn’t wish this experience on my worst enemy.
Please — protect your day, your heart, and your family. Look elsewhere.
Where do i start???!!! Michelle Coto Arenlace Events THANK YOU THANK YOU FROM MY HUSBAND AND I!!!!! I am so happy that we found you to help us with our DAY OF COORDINATION! I was hesitant at first to get a day of planner since i am not great at handing over the riens- you made me feel at ease and were just a text away when i was having last minute meltdowns! You were able to bring all the details I had put together and make them bloom on our special day! I was able to pull off my surprise for my hubby! THANK YOU so much for everything- YOUR AMAZING! I would also like to thank Hanna also who we had the pleasure of meeting at your gorgeous Brides and Bubbly Event! She was there during the wedding as well and jumped in to help as well. If anyone if looking to find someone who can pull together or put together a beautiful dream wedding come true MICHELLE and HANNA are the ones we highly reccomend!
Michelle, Owner & lead Planner at Arenlace Events.
Hanna, Wedding Day Assistant at Arenlace Events
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Arenlace Events
Oceanside , CA 92058, USA🥰🥰🥰🥰
Working with Michelle was amazing! My photographer recommended her to me for my elopement day. I traveled from Nee Hampshire to San Diego with my husband to elope, and Michelle made sure that everything went perfectly and I didn’t have to worry about a single thing! She was so helpful in the months leading up to the big day, and was quick with all of her responses to my many questions. Thank you so much Michelle!
Michelle and her team were very helpful the month of and the day of our wedding. Michelle is very sweet and soft spoken and calm. She listens to your needs no matter the ask and will try and accommodate them as best she can. She will definitely ease your stress on your big day!
Gosh, where do I even begin? Michelle was amazing throughout the whole process. We had a different wedding planner to begin with and she scammed us. Less than 5 months before our wedding I was searching for a new planner and I luckily found Michelle. She took over right away and picked up where our old planner left off. She went above and beyond for us. Our wedding day was way more than I expected it to be. It was so perfect and beautiful! Michelle and her assistant handled everything, so I was able to sit back and relax the whole day. We had the best day ever and it couldn’t have gone as smoothly as it did without Michelle. All of our guests loved the wedding and can’t stop talking about it. Thank you so much for everything! You are a life saver and a wedding god! ❤️
Michelle at Arenlace (and Hanna on the big day) were amazing! I hired Michelle a year before the pandemic and even through two wedding postponements this past year (and technically two weddings), she has been the most supportive and helpful resource through it all! She made my wedding the most stress-free and fun experience ever. I felt completely guided and taken care of and had the best wedding day ever and couldn’t have done it without her. Her professional fun personality and trustworthiness make me want to get married again just so I can plan another wedding with her. Thank you again Michelle! 100/10 recommend for all your planning needs!
I had just began to plan my wedding when everything shut down last year. I was frustrated and overwhelmed with trying to navigate planning while in the middle of a pandemic. The list of "to do's" seemed so daunting. When I met with Michelle she broke everything down on paper to help me see what I already had accomplished & what I still needed. There were several detailed things I hadn't even realized I would need & she helped me figure that out. I was able to complete each "task" one at a time which helped give me peace of mind. She was always a text or phone call away when I had questions. On the day of my wedding, I felt completely relaxed, I had total confidence she was taking care of everything. I had the most amazing wedding, better than I could have imagined. Friends and family are still telling me it was the most fun and joy filled wedding they'd been to! I absolutely recommend Arenlace Events!!
Great ETSY store to shop on. I loved their customer service. I originally ordered 2 robes for my fiance and I. When I received them my fiance robe was a bit short. I reached out to Arenlace Bridal and within minutes I got a reply. They provided me with a replacement robe for my fiance at no extra charge. Talk about great customer service. The robes are just gorgeous. I can't wait to wear them on our honeymoon! You will not be disappointed shopping at Arenlace Bridal.
I found Arenlace Bridal on Etsy. I needed shirts made for my wedding party for my bachelorette part. I had a vision of what I wanted so I sent it to them. They captured my vision exactly how I expected. They were so professional and the quality of their work is amazing. I am actually using them again for my brother's fiancé's wedding party shirts. Please use them for all your needs you will not be disappointed
I had such a great experience with Arnelace Bridal! Not only did I LOVE the two tank tops that I ordered, but the customer services was top of the line!!!! I would absolutely recommend Arenlace to any of my bride friends!!!
I had shirts made for my bridesmaid and they turned out amazing! My girls loved them! Arenlace Bridal did a great job getting me the shirts in a timely manner. I would order from them again, no doubt about it!
I contacted several shops to find someone that could make me an off shoulder Bride sweater in less than a week. Not only was ArenLace the only shop to write me back quickly but I already had my order placed with her by the time I heard back from most of the other shops. She listened to what I wanted, accommodated my very short time frame, and had AMAZING customer service every step of the way. A total life saver and I'm very grateful to have found such a wonderful shop! Thank you for going above and beyond!!! Great quality shirt, sizes are accurate and gold glitter Bride was extra shiny! I have washed my shirt several times and it is still in excellent condition
Arenlace is a great little shop to get bridal party gifts, grooms gifts and after the wedding gifts. I absolutely love my Happily Ever After tshirt that is very comfortable and fit perfectly. Being Plus Size I worried that the tshirt wouldn't fit but I was reassured it would be perfect and it absolutely was. Everyone should shop Arenlace!
I couldn't imagine getting married without Arenlace outfitting my peeps! Thank you Michelle for your outstanding customer service & beautiful line! Cheers to beautiful threads made with love!!!
I loved using the bride robe from this online boutique for my wedding day! The materials used in everything I have from this boutique is great quality and a great value. I will continue to recommend this site to all my friends who are getting married or friends looking for a gift to buy for someone that is getting married. The shipping was quick and any questions I had I would get a reply right away.
I ordered 4 shirts for my bridal party. Material is very soft. Great quality of product. Fast shipping. Awesome communication with seller. Would definitely recommend. Everyone in my bridal party loved their shirts.
Ordered a top for my wedding renewal and it was perfect! Great quality and super cute. Gots lots of compliments!
ArenLace helped make my best friend look stunning on her wedding day. With their fast and impeccable service, my friend was able to get ready in a beautiful white satin bride robe. It not only looked great in all the pictures, but it helped my friend feel comfortable and special on her big day. In addition to the great robe, those at ArenLace are very responsive and thrive to make sure you are getting the best. They even follow up to make sure their products are exactly what you wanted and that your day was all that you hoped for. Would definitely recommend ArenLace and their products to all!
I love our shirts my husband and I purchased for our wedding photos! She created new shirts for me that she actually did not offer at that time. They are awesome! We still wear them!
I got a shirt from arenlace! It was beautiful and comfortable!!! I'm a jeans a tshirt kinda gal, and I wore my miss to mrs shirt to my rehearsal dinner! I didn't even look dressed down! It was so cute! The quality was excellent and the shirt was so comfortable!! Arenlace was so kind and excellent to work with! Fast shipping too!! :-)
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Arenlace, Oceanside, CA | San Diego
Arenlace Bridal, Bridesmaid & Wedding Party Apparel