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Your moment: your identities, experiences & values
Based in Seattle, WA, Bill Hulseman is an accomplished officiant and ritual designer for every happy couple. Specializing in custom ceremonies, this professional will strive to create a ceremony that is rooted in your identities, experiences, and values. The officiant also provides a ceremony rehearsal to ensure that you and everyone involved in the ceremony feel prepared and confident on your big day.
bill hulseman consulting is led by owner and seasoned officiant Bill Hulseman. After studying at Fairfield, Harvard, and Columbia University and a career in teaching and educational leadership, Bill has developed the knowledge and skills to design a ceremony that looks and feels like you, whether it's secular ceremony, a ceremony that reflects particular religious or cultural practices, or an interfaith or intercultural ceremony that thoughtfully and appropriately weaves elements from different traditions together. He's happy to work with couples from any religious affiliation, such as Buddhism, Catholicism, Judaism, LDS, Shinto, or Quaker.
Bill's ceremonies are highly personalized and usually last from 10 to 30 minutes. He loves working with couples to develop vows that celebrate your commitment and reflect the values that will shape your life together. He's happy to officiate a simple ceremony or elopement or collaborate with you to design an original wedding, vow renewal, second wedding, or other ritual to mark an important moment or transition in your lives.
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Business Attributes
- LGBTQ+-owned Business
Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
- Baha'i Faith
- Buddhist
- Christian
- Hindu
- Interfaith
- Jewish
Wedding Activities
- Wedding
- Ceremony
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Bill receives glowing reviews as an officiant for weddings, with couples praising his professionalism, knowledge of various ceremony traditions, and ability to customize ceremonies to reflect the couple's values and vision. Reviewers appreciate his inclusivity, guidance in crafting vows, and attention to detail in creating unique and meaningful ceremonies. Bill's supportive and warm demeanor, organizational skills, and dedication to making each ceremony special contribute to his high recommendation as an officiant for couples seeking a personalized and memorable wedding experience.Review photos
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Bill is down-to-earth, kind, and an overall really lovely person to work with. He made sure our ceremony was authentically us and even educated us on the history of some ceremonial traditions. I would absolutely recommend Bill for your ceremony needs if you're looking for a beautifully curated, and uniquely YOU ceremony officiated by someone who is clearly passionate about what he does.
We absolutely loved working with Bill. He's extremely friendly, professional, and responsive to what you want as a couple. He's got plenty of suggestions if you want them and provides so much helpful guidance through the whole process of envisioning and putting together your ceremony in way that you really feel reflects you as a couple and your values and vision. As people who are very interested in creative expression, the history of other cultures, and philosophy my husband and I also found Bill's knowledge of the history of different kinds of ceremonies SO interesting. He helped us understand what was even possible, and how to get to the experience we really wanted. He was super open minded, whether it was to retaining as many traditions as we wanted or trying something totally new!
He also met with us more than any of our other wonderful vendors, and in a lot of ways helped us coordinate our plans as well as our actual wedding planner. The day of our wedding, he was super organized and friendly and even our other vendors remarked on how great he was.
If you go with Bill, I'm convinced you'll be glad you did. He's inclusive and empathetic, as well as super knowledgeable and professional. I think he's particularly good at grasping who you are as people, and helping that come through in the wedding itself. Our wedding was really perfect - even better than we'd hoped - and I attribute a lot of that directly to Bill being our officiant.
~Laura
Bill is such a professional, fun and trustworthy officiant! We proposed quite complex ceremony components, and we only met with Bill once to discuss them, but he was able to provide a thorough document that has everything. We only did a rehearsal half an hour earlier, and the actual ceremony went soooo well! Choose Bill and he won't let you down :)
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Bill was fantastic. Helped us create a wonderful ceremony. Very experienced and professional.
If you are looking for an officiant who will ACTUALLY officiate your wedding, Bill is not the person for you. On 12/23/2023, we locked him in for our ceremony on 6/15/2024. He appeared to be organized, professional, and meshed well with what we were looking for in an officiant, so I picked him over 3 other choices. A few hours before my wedding I received a text from Bill saying he was unable to make it – he was feeling sick. No Plan B, no one to cover for him, nothing. I would expect that the most integral part of a wedding, required to make the marriage legally binding, would have a backup plan in place in case of emergencies. We had family traveling from FL to WA for our wedding and we (the bride and groom) were left to figure out what to do 3 hours before our ceremony. Bill was very blasé in his text to us, stating “anyone” could use the script he had provided and “officiate” the wedding, Really? So why was I paying him $700 to do it? A word of advice – if you want to actually get married and not undergo a world of stress and have your special day ruined, DO NOT hire Bill!
After connecting with several officiants, Bryan and I setup a Zoom with Bill and both knew when we ended that call that Bill was the officiant for us! Bill understood our vision of a non-traditional ceremony as he himself had a non-traditional ceremony (although he performs all types). Through our sessions, Bill shared other examples of ceremonies so we had some base structure to mold to our liking but we weren't left in the dark on building our ceremony. Bill helped us build our customized ceremony and even helped us fine tune our vows which made our wedding day so unique and special. Bill added a special intro that was unique to the location of the wedding which really added a special touch. We got many compliments on our ceremony and vows and Bill was a huge part in that. Bill promptly mailed off our wedding license as well. My only regret was that we forgot to get a picture with Bill in it!! So sad!
Would highly recommend Bill!!
We started working with Bill 6 months before our wedding and we did the vows workshop with him. Bill was so supportive and helpful throughout the process! My spouse and I decided to create a custom ceremony that blended our different religious backgrounds into something that represented us; in our case, this blend was non-religious and Catholic. We worked on creating religious undertones but making sure the language fit us in the present. It took some back and forth as well as navigating pressure and emotions from our families. However, we were in good hands because Bill is masterful at this! On our wedding day, he did an expert job at creating the right atmosphere. He made us so comfortable standing up there in front of everyone. My husband was nervous about this, since he's very introverted. Bill put him at ease and directed the energy in the room to join us rather than watch us. Our wedding would not have been the same without him, the ceremony is still our favorite part to remember.
We couldn't have asked for a better officiant for our wedding. Bill was not only kind and well-prepared but also incredibly patient. Despite our friends being late, he waited in cold without a hint of complaint, showing remarkable understanding and support. His professionalism shone through every step of the way, from our initial meetings to the ceremony itself. Our ceremony is simple setup and different from the traditional one. Bill took the time to truly understand our vision for the ceremony and crafted a service that was perfect for us. His words were heartfelt and meaningful, making the moment even more special. Throughout the entire process, he remained calm, reassuring, and dedicated to ensuring our day was everything we hoped for. We are grateful for his unwavering patience and support, and we can't recommend him highly enough to anyone looking for an officiant who not only performs their duties flawlessly but also brings warmth and understanding to the occasion.
The most professional and friendly officiant you could ask for. Bill was always on time. Efficient and organized. He was respectful of what we wanted and gave suggestions when we were clueless. He lead us to write very powerful vows that tugged on everyone's heart strings. Bill officiated our non-religious somewhat non-traditional wedding. He also handled the marriage licence for us. -A&M
We could not have asked for a better officiant for our wedding. We were looking to have a unique ritual style wedding, and Bill brought that vision to life. We had requested a small list of things we wanted to incorporate in our ceremony and things we wanted to exclude, and not only did he do that for us but he was able to seamlessly add elements that tied everything together perfectly. He was extremely professional, warm, and helped guide us through what we needed to do from beginning to end. Thank you so much Bill! 10/10
We met Bill when looking for an officiant for our wedding and we couldn't have been happier with Bill's work throughout the wedding process. From the start, his organization helped us understand how the ceremony would play out along with his flexibility to cater to our needs. This allowed us to collaborate and create a ceremony that works best with our style since we wanted some elements that were traditional and some that were more modern. Throughout the wedding planning and day-of, the ceremony played out perfectly with the guidance from Bill.
Additionally, Bill is very thoughtful when working with us as he would check-up with us during the rehearsal and wedding day on how we were feeling. This act of support helped alleviate some stress as I felt Bill would be there for us if needed. Bill also ensured to the crowd the focus was on the bride and groom as he expertly narrated throughout the ceremony that even our parents who doesn't understand English can feel the professionalism and care from him.
Overall, we will recommend Bill to anyone needing of an officiant or support throughout their weddings as he has been great a pleasure to work with.
If you’re looking for an officiant to make your wedding day meaningful, well thought out, and celebratory, I highly recommend working with Bill. As a person who finds a lot of meaning in words, especially finding importance in crafting vows, Bill has a wonderful selection of examples and references to cater your day to showcasing the most important part: the love you have with your partner. Bill read a beautiful passage that really illustrated that for me and my partner. His work and presence added so much meaning and dimension to our big day. It’s the moment of getting married you look back on as one of the biggest milestones in your life, so having Bill by our side as such a wonderful representative to express that made the moment all the more special. He is not just an officiant that only cares about pleasing a crowd, he’s one that will care for you and your partners’ needs and plan around that—he’ll work hard to make sure your day is about you and your partner. I’d recommend him to everyone I know.
Bill worked with us for months leading up to the wedding. He helped us stay on track and make sure that our ceremony really felt like it represented us and the commitment we were making to each other. Bill is a wealth of ideas and education on wedding traditions.
On the weekend of the wedding, our coordination team remarked on how well the rehearsal was handled, and we heard from so many guests how impressed they were with Bill's handling of the ceremony.
When planning a wedding, so much of the focus can be on the reception and event planning details. We are so grateful to Bill for helping us prioritize the important part--the vows & ceremony--and at the end of the day, the ceremony was my favorite part of the weekend.
Bill was absolutely AMAZING to work with! He helped us design a fully customized and unique ceremony, and put in so much time and effort on our behalf to make it something that was fully us, and absolutely beatiful. He listened to us, got to know us, and I absolutely feel like we went with the right person!
So many guests after the ceremony commented on how beautiful and touching the ceremony was. Bill was just fantastic to work with, and started working with us around 10 months in advance to create this custom event. Everything was so organized, professional, and yet still entirely heartfelt. You can tell how important it is to Bill to make a truly memorable ceremony, and he succeeded!
Bill submitted our marriage license packet to the state for completion and, a few weeks after our ceremony, we also received a copy of the ceremony used on our wedding day with a lovely letter wishing us all the best in the years to come. Best officiant!
My (now) husband and I made the decision to elope on a rather tight timeline, and choosing an officiant who we trusted and felt comfortable with proved pretty difficult...until we found Bill! Bill has a magnetically peaceful and warm energy about him; we were immediately at ease from the moment we had our first Zoom call. In just over a month, he crafted our ceremony and vows into something truly beautiful- even though it was going to be just us and our witnesses, he treated our wedding with so much care and detail, and not once made our elopement feel small or diminished. He met with us over Zoom about once a week leading up to the ceremony and was incredibly helpful and receptive to us and our ideas. Bill even (unwittingly, perhaps) provided some counseling to us in our planning! The thoughtful and caring questions he asked to help write our vows led to some deep and wonderful conversations between my husband and I. On top of all of the design work he did for our ceremony, his work as an officiant on the day of was outstanding: that same peaceful, warm energy was an absolute godsend for our wedding jitters, and he had us and our witnesses laughing and joyous throughout. It's been a few weeks since our wedding, and my husband and I are still over-the-moon about every aspect of that day- and we owe so much of that to Bill. We are forever grateful to him for making such an important day in our lives so magical and would enthusiastically recommend him to anyone and everyone. Thank you so much, Bill!
My husband and I have so much gratitude for Bill and the role that he played in helping us design a beautiful ceremony that felt deeply personal. He helped us think outside the box and create a ceremony that truly reflected our values as a couple. Bill is funny, intelligent and warm and put as at ease which is saying something as we were both nervous about the ceremony. We felt relaxed and present and were able to soak in the love from our family and friends. I highly recommend Bill!
Bill was amazing and the cherry on top of our wedding day. He went out of his way weeks ahead of the wedding to make sure the ceremony was completely planned out and walked us through every step. Bill made us feel so comfortable and really showed our unique story and allowed us to share that with our friends and family in the best way on our big day.
We can't thank Bill enough and HIGHLY recommend him to officiate your wedding.
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Bill Hulseman designs rituals and facilitates dialogue and reflection. Now an independent consultant, he previously served as a teacher and administrator in independent schools.
Bill holds a BA in Religious Studies from Fairfield, an MTS in the Comparative Study of Religion from Harvard, and an EdM in Private School Leadership from Columbia University.
His interests include architecture, travel, pop culture, social justice, and advocacy for underrepresented groups. Bill and his husband live in Seattle, where they maintain an Instagram account for their 13 year old rat terrier, Stella.
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