Hiring Cancel Monday Band was the worst decision of my wedding. After many phone calls and emails confirming everything, the band messed up our intro and first dance. They had the ...schedule and notes months in advance (verbally, in email, and pdf formats). They were supposed to introduce us as the new Mr. and Mrs. and then play the first dance song. Instead, they decided to play the hora and we were just standing awkwardly on the side waiting for the band to start our song. I tried to let them know to play our song but they didn’t pay attention. They just mechanically kept playing, not realizing they messed up. I specifically chose to dance our first dance BEFORE the hora so that we wouldn’t be as sweaty for the pictures/video or our first dance.
Additionally, we paid extra for a DJ and were promised jazz music during dinner, but there were moments that the room was just dead silent without music during the salad course.
I made a specific note that the speeches should be under the tree, facing the bride and groom so we could make eye contact with our parents during their speeches. Instead, the MC decided to stand on the stage, which was the farthest point away from us and we could barely see our parents while they were speaking to us. This is a shame since we spent most of the time straining to see our parents instead of enjoying the speeches.
Throughout the evening, the band had sound issues and we were not happy with their overall performance.
We also paid extra for horns and we could not near them as we were dancing. In fact, I didn’t even know they were playing until I saw them in a photo later on. The band should have anticipated these sound issues ahead of time and corrected the problems before they started performing.
We heard Cancel Monday perform at my cousin’s wedding and they were fine, so it is a shame that they had such an off day during our wedding.