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Cate Barry
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AWARD WINNER (6X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Cate Barry Photography is a highly inclusive wedding photography company in New Haven, CT. Feeling seen and empowered isn’t a given for everyone. Most of us have a lot of anxiety about being photographed. Whether it’s body image, sexual orientation, race, gender identity, ability, etc., we’ve been taught that only some stories are worth being told--and ours might not be one of them.
I’m queer; my partner is a trans man. We’ve been together since before he transitioned. He and I haven’t been able to take for granted that just any photographer would see and represent us accurately. I know something about what it is to trust a stranger to document something as vulnerable as your love. Your identity. Your self.
As such, I focus on making my clients feel empowered and seen--and on making sure all kinds of people know they will be safe and honored in my presence.
Photography is my soul work. I’m not here for the transaction. I’m here to help you see yourself as an integral part of the tangled, messy, wonderful whole of humanity. I’m here to document your joy, your emotions, and your love.
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Cate Barry
Owner
I am a Connecticut-based wedding and portrait photographer obsessed with candid moments, real emotion, and the connections that give life meaning. I want my clients to FEEL THINGS when they look at their photos. (And I want them to look hot as hell, too. We can want all the things!)
I’m queer; my partner is a trans man. We’ve been together since before he transitioned. He and I haven’t been able to take for granted that just any photographer would see and represent us accurately. I know something about what it is to trust a stranger to document something as vulnerable as your love.
Reviews
5.0
out of 5.079 reviews
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Cate is a highly recommended wedding photographer known for exceptional talent, professionalism, and a warm, calming presence. She consistently captures authentic, emotional candids and portraits, delivers large, beautifully edited galleries quickly, and guides couples with ease. Inclusive and detail-oriented, she’s seen as worth the investment.Review photos
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Melinda L
5.0
12/31/2025
Cate is an exceptionally talented photographer. First, her composition, choice of lighting, attention to detail and final production work is outstanding. Second, Cate is extreme...
ly professional, punctual, kind, compassionate and acutely cognizant and respectful of social and multicultural dynamics. She photographed our family member's Korean wedding ceremony, bringing together families from diverse ethnic and religious backgrounds and ages. She navigated our schedule, family dynamics and needs with grace and ease. We highly recommend her work and hope to have her photograph family events well into the future!
Christopher F
5.0
12/30/2025
Cate was the first vendor we hired for our wedding, and in many ways the most important.
Signing our contract with Cate was the point at which we “locked in,” the moment the wedd...
ing became real. And that moment was terrifying: we had nothing else, not a venue or other vendors, just a date and a hope.
Cate was with us through every step of our wedding. We booked an engagement shoot with her (which we HIGHLY recommend). New York City is a special place for us and our relationship, and Cate met us there for our engagement shoot. We are both not the most comfortable with having our photos taken, but Cate has an ease and encouraging demeanor, and by the end of our time together we were sure we had picked the right photographer.
Then came the wedding day itself. Leading up, Cate provided us with a detailed list of questions that she used to plan our day out, and make sure we received all the shots that were most important to us. She and her second shooter were an incredible team, and guided us through everything. The photos we received speak for themselves.
Cate captured our family and friends as _we_ see them, open and honest and beautiful. Since receiving our photos, we have spent hours pouring over them, admiring their composition and their detail. Later, we printed hundreds of copies to share with those friends and family along with the thank you notes, so that others could share in Cate’s artistry. Those friends and family feel the same: these photos and the people that took them are special.
Cate’s incredible. She has an uncanny ability to capture the essence of a person, of a moment, and was kind and willing enough to share that talent with us. We’ve already decided that she’ll be the first person to call for the next major life milestone. We hope you do too.
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Julie C
5.0
12/23/2025
Cate is a wonderful photographer!! She made us feel really comfortable and knew all of the ins-and-outs of weddings that we didn't. My wife and I were pretty overwhelmed with the w...
edding planning process, but Cate made the photo-taking part feel really easy and low pressure. Not only was the process with her very pleasant, but she took photos that we loved. We have tons of them framed in our house!! Her photos don't feel too posed or forced--all the pictures captured emotion and seemed very natural. She's the BEST!
Olivia P
5.0
12/03/2025
Our dream photographers! We were so excited to work with Cate and her assistant Kieran. We had an absolute blast taking pictures on our wedding day! They made the process feel so n...
atural and easy—all we had to do was show up and be in love and Cate took care of the rest. They were both especially fantastic at always being in the right place at the right time to capture every planned and impromptu moment. They didn’t miss a single part of the day. And all of the photos are STUNNING. We were blessed with a beautiful fall day and Cate and Kieran knew exactly how to use that to make the pictures even more spectacular. We cannot overstate how magical working with Cate was and highly recommend using her for your any of your photography needs. The absolute BEST to work with and the most beautiful pictures you can imagine, guaranteed.
Kyle D
5.0
11/27/2025
Cate is simply the best, outside of just being a wonderful human, she is an extremely talented and experienced photographer. She was exactly what we needed as a wedding photographe...
r, she captured every bit of emotion and happiness on our wedding day. She was our biggest champion day of, making the entire process stress free. She is very experienced in wedding photography and just does so much in the background to take care of every detail of the day. Her photographs are AMAZING, she somehow manages to be everywhere at once, and all her shots are just raw moments, nothing feels posed or staged and as a result you are left with beautiful photos that just showcase every emotion of the day.
Honestly, I cannot recommend Cate enough, she is one of the best in the industry.
Kim A
5.0
10/28/2025
Where do I even begin?! Our journey with Cate started in 2024 for our engagement's photos. I had a vision, and Cate suggested the PERFECT location, made our props come to life, and...
our love shine through! It was a no brainer to have her also shoot our wedding. Her patience, her kindness and creativity are simply unmatched. She is the BEST human with the most amazing talent. We would recommend her again and again! She will be the one we trust to capture all our memories for years to come!
Caroline G
5.0
5/03/2025
Cate absolutely nailed the vibe that we were looking for in our wedding photographer. She was such a kind and clear communicator, which was amazing when working with our chaotic fa...
milies! We had a somewhat unusual venue, and her photos truly captured the beauty of the place and the day. I was especially blown away by some of the candids she took, which were lovely and captured some of the most special moments of the day. Very grateful for her incredible work, and would highly recommend Cate in the future!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 05/20/2025
Thank you so much, Caroline!! I loved being part of your wedding and I'm so happy you're h...
appy with the photos!
Victoria M
5.0
4/26/2025
Cate is exceptional! From our first meeting and our engagement photoshoot to the big day, Cate has been an absolute joy to work with. Her professionalism is superb including listen...
ing to what you are looking for from your photos and delivering in a timely manner.
But more than that, Cate is also an awesome human to have by your side during the wedding planning journey. As two people who are a little shy in front of a camera, Cate made us feel comfortable and our best at both photoshoots. She guided us in a way that didn’t feel like pressure or judgement and we really appreciated that energy.
Cate truly listened to us throughout the process and delivered exactly what we wanted from both our engagement and wedding galleries. Specifically, we picked Cate as our photographer because she highly values authenticity and aims to capture a couple’s realness (which is hard to find these days with pressure from the wedding industry). We are so happy that we trusted Cate to cover our wedding because the gallery reflects us as a couple including stunning portraits, but also silly “personality” photos; you can tell it is Victoria & Ethan’s wedding, not just another generic bride and groom…
Our trust in Cate was rewarded and we highly recommend working with Cate Barry! You will not be disappointed and, even better, may have made a cool friend in the process :)
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 05/20/2025
Thank you so much, Victoria!! You know I adore you both and was so thrilled to be part of ...
your wedding. I loved your vibe from the second we met, and I'm excited to stay in each other's lives going forward. So thrilled you love your photos!!
K R
5.0
3/02/2025
My husband I decided to elope, planning the whole event in a week. It was important to me to get great photos to share with the friends and family who wouldn't be with us on the da...
y. As soon as I saw Cate Barry's portfolio, especially with the candid photos, I knew that she was the right person to capture the true spirit of the day.
Luckily, she was able to squeeze us into her calendar, and our preliminary meetings with Cate were fantastic: she made sure she understood our priorities—super open to who we are and what we care about—and she acted as friend, therapist, and wedding expert in a very frantic time. She even recommended a fantastic officiant who was exactly our speed.
On the day, the three of us met up for some outdoor photos before the ceremony, and while I was afraid my husband and I might be awkward or stiff, Cate put us at ease immediately, and we were smiling with natural poses in no time. Then at the venue, Cate both contributed to and captured the joyful, relaxed atmosphere of the day.
We got our photos in record time, and even when we first flicked through the images on my phone over pizza, we could immediately tell Cate had memorialized the magic of the day, from happy tears to spontaneous jumping up and down with our witnesses. It means a lot to have wonderful pictures to share with our loved ones, and we would work with Cate again in a heartbeat.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 05/20/2025
Thank you so much, Kailen!! I loved your wedding and am so pleased I've gotten the chance ...
to work with you!
Jane K
5.0
12/24/2024
Cate did an absolutely amazing job with our wedding. I would recommend her without hesitation to anyone. She was such a calming presence on an incredibly emotional day and we’re so...
in love with the photos.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 05/20/2025
Thank you, Jane. It was such an emotional and heartfelt day; I'm so grateful I was able to...
be there with you all to capture it. I appreciate your review!!
Snimar K
5.0
12/01/2024
Cate was an absolute dream to work with! She captured both our elopement wedding (10 guests at a beachside Airbnb in East Haven in early September) and a 1-hour couples’ photoshoot...
(early morning at the Yale campus in mid-October 2024). We couldn't have asked for a better experience! Her incredible skill, warm demeanor, and attention to detail truly set her apart. We spoke with many prospective photographers before deciding, but we just couldn’t look away from working with Cate after going through her brilliant portfolio and speaking with her on Zoom.
Cate made us feel comfortable in front of the camera. She has an amazing ability to put you at ease, making the entire process natural and fun. The photos she took are some of our absolute favorites. We love how she captured our families, wedding ceremony, and couple photos with so much emotion and authenticity!
One of the standout things about Cate is how prolific she is. She took and shared a delightfully ridiculous number of photos with us—over 2–3 photos per minute! Every single shot was excellently curated and edited, showcasing her skills as both a photographer and storyteller.
Cate went above and beyond, even while balancing personal challenges during her busiest season, to deliver a stunning gallery that exceeded all our expectations. She was also kind and thoughtful in all her communications with us and incredibly generous while photographing us for several minutes after our scheduled time had ended.
We wholeheartedly recommend Cate to anyone looking for a wedding or portrait photographer! She is immensely talented, professional, and a joy to work with. We not only found our go-to photographer for all our future needs, but also a kind friend through this process. Thank you, Cate, for capturing the most precious moments of our lives so beautifully—we are so grateful for your skill and compassion!
Susana N
5.0
10/14/2024
We approached Cate when she was doing a couple photoshoot in New Haven. The couple was having so much fun and laughing a lot. After a few months we decided to do our own to have th...
ese pictures in our history, and show the pictures for our next generations. We wanted pictures that captured ourselves, not just to share in social media and she made it beautifully. Cate made our photoshoot so fun and easy going, we laught so much and the time flied. Just received our photos and we loved. She is really talented!! We super recommend!
Juliana C
5.0
9/29/2024
She was perfect. Great pictures, great relaxed energy, very on top of her stuff; captured everything we would want her to capture in an absolutely beautiful way.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 09/30/2024
THANK YOU, JULIE!! I'm not crying, you're crying!!
Naomh R
5.0
8/25/2024
This review is for our wedding a year and a half ago – I just found the draft I’d written in 2023 and realized I never posted it anywhere:
Cate was great for our wedding! She unde...
rstood what my spouse and I were talking about when we told her about being a queer and polyamorous couple, and that our wedding wasn't going to have a lot of the traditional elements - it was a relief to get to describe what we wanted to a vendor who was part of the community and familiar with different kinds of queerness and relationships. She made sure to ask about who in our party was out and to what degree, just in case a sticky situation arose.
Cate managed to capture both formal portraits and nice-looking outtakes from in-between formal portraits; got photos of all our guests, and took a lot of candid photos from the dance floor without us even realizing she was there until we saw the album afterwards. She captured all of the detail shots that we had asked for, and innovated a couple of her own that were much appreciated. Both of us have terrible memories, and rely heavily on photographs to remember even really important events. Cate understood this and did a great job photographing things so that we would be able to remember them without worrying. We paid for six hours of just Cate working, which included time spent on the formal photographs, and resulted in just over 700 photos processed and sent to us far faster than we had expected! I think it took her a month or two less than her estimated timeline.
Her rate isn’t cheap, but she was absolutely worth it, and we were happy to have her working for us for the day! She's been enthusiastic the whole way through, great at adjusting on the fly, and stellar about following up with us.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 09/30/2024
Thank you so so much, Naomh--like you, I think I drafted this response after your wrote it...
and never hit submit!
Your wedding was so wonderful and cozy and fun and YOURS. What a dream to have been a part of it. Thank you both so much for trusting me with your love and your community. It was a joy to document!!
Gigi G
5.0
8/16/2024
Absolutely amazing experience working with Cate! I cannot recommend Cate enough to help make your wedding a special day! Cate is so talented and was very helpful as we went through...
the planning process and throughout our wedding day. Not only that- but the photos that Cate captured were authentic and absolutely beautiful!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 08/16/2024
Thank you so so much, Gigi--your wedding was so stunning, and working with you guys was su...
ch a joy from the very beginning. It was such a pleasure getting to know you a little better through the process and at your wedding! I'm so grateful for your review.
Allison E
5.0
7/24/2024
Warm, present, affirming, and amazingly talented - Cate and her team helped to make our wedding day run smoothly and ensure it was beautifully captured, too.
From our first phone ...
call, Cate put us at ease. Her presence at our wedding was seamless. She made us feel so comfortable and so good about ourselves during our portraits! The images are just perfect, too. She is definitely worth the investment!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 08/06/2024
THANK YOU, Allison. What a kind review. Working with you both was such an easy, fun joy, a...
nd your wedding turned out perfectly (in no small part to all of your incredible planning and impeccable execution.) Thank you so much!
Margaret C
5.0
4/06/2024
We can’t say enough good things about Cate and why she is simply the best photographer you could find. We are delighted with the photographs from our wedding. We received a huge ...
sneak peak just 5 days after our wedding. Cate’s photos beautifully capture all of the warmth and joy and wonderful moments of the day. More than that, Cate brings a great energy with her. She is an absolute professional when it comes to managing time and large, unruly families. She is also a fun, calming, easy presence to have around on a day with a lot going on. Her second shooter Kieran was equally professional and took some truly phenomenal photos of the groomsmen. Cate’s dedication to making wedding photography inclusive and comfortable for everyone truly shows through in her photographs. We can’t recommend her enough for your engagement shoot, wedding, or life moments.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 08/06/2024
Thank you so, so much for this gorgeous review, Maggie. It was such a pleasure working wit...
h you and Dylan, and your wedding was amazing and memorable. We had an awesome time!
Kelly M
5.0
3/12/2024
Working with Cate Barry was an absolute pleasure from start to finish. I reached out to Cate with a pretty last minute request and she promptly responded and was able to assist me....
I explained my vision to her for the event/ photos and the final product exceeded my expectations. She was able to really understand what I was looking for and captured our special moments so beautifully and naturally. I am so happy we were able to work together and I would highly recommend her for your photos.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 08/06/2024
Kelly!! I adored everything about working with you, from that first conversation through y...
our amazing, intimate wedding to delivering the gallery. I'm so grateful we found each other. Thank you!!
Janelle R
5.0
2/21/2024
We are so happy that we stumbled upon Cate and her work. She was the first vendor we booked and she set the bar SO high. We did our engagement photos as well as our wedding photos ...
with her. From the very first video call through our wedding, she made us feel at ease and was a steadying, joyful presence. As people who never felt really comfortable being photographed, we were so grateful for her reassurance, professionalism, excellent instruction and enthusiasm.
That's not to even mention the final results! Our photos are STUNNING and we could not be happier.
If you have any doubts, book Cate. You will be so happy you did.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 08/06/2024
JANELLE--thank you so much for this lovely review. It was a complete joy working with you ...
both. And thanks for making me ugly cry at your ceremony--words can't express how moving that was.
Hannah E
5.0
12/04/2023
Where to start. My now wife and I had Cate as our photographer for our 09/23/23 wedding in Madison, CT. We were introduced by Regina, our wonderful wedding planner who runs Wedding...
s by Regina Marie. After one meeting with us, Regina said "even if we don't end up working together, I think Cate would be the perfect photographer for you." Boy oh boy - was she right! Meeting Cate online was like talking to an old friend - one who sees you and helps you feel seen (even virtually, as we live in Denver and not CT). During our first conversation, I shared with Cate my hesitation around having my photo taken in general. We both wanted the day captured in an honest, candid, and warm way, but my mental health challenges associated with body image made it less than simple. Cate received this with open ears and arms. We felt overwhelmingly confident in our choice to book even before we had met Cate and even before we had seen the photos she would take.
Fast forward to the week of our wedding. Since we do not live on the east coast, we ended up having our "engagement shoot" a few days before the actual wedding. The experience was an extension of the first meeting - like spending time with an old friend who happened to have a camera. We laughed and told stories and left feeling calm and happy. In the days that followed, first off - Cate somehow managed to take these photos for us on Wednesday and have the final gallery to us on FRIDAY so that we could have them before our wedding. And even more importantly and as I told Cate, I had never felt more confident or beautiful than I did looking at those photos.
The day of our wedding, Cate and her second photographer were timely, flexible, and clearly so happy to be around while we got ready -- and of course, for the big event! It rained throughout the day and Cate managed to not only adjust plans on the spot to get us some beautiful outdoor photos, but also somehow became part of what kept us calm when we were feeling overwhelmed by the unpredictable changes of the day. During the ceremony and reception, she was somehow everywhere and nowhere at the same time. They fit seamlessly into the event and we were very sad to say goodbye.
Cate sent the sneak peak within weeks of the wedding and the full gallery only shortly thereafter. When I tell you that my wife and I sobbed our way through the galleries, I am not exaggerating. Cate and her team are absolutely spectacular at what they do. They captured the essence of the day, the love, the joy, the debauchery, and the connective moments with such clarity -- it feels like we are able to watch our wedding in stills. We will never not be grateful.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/04/2024
Good lord. (How do I end up with THE most special human beings as clients?? I don't know, ...
but I'm so incredibly grateful.) Your wedding was insanely meaningful, to me and literally everyone there. What an utter joy. Thank you, thank you, for inviting me into your orbit and allowing me to document this momentous occasion. I have so much love in my heart for you.
Meg B
5.0
11/21/2023
I will start my review with this: Cate is the reason we chose a wedding date and began to plan our wedding. The only thing I knew for sure we wanted on our wedding day, was Cate ph...
otographing us and she exceeded every expectation we had. From day 1, she put our mind at ease of her entire process and timeline. She made recommendations that 100% fit our personalities and vibe.
We are not people that know how to be photographed, we are awkward and silly. Cate celebrated the silliness and helped us not feel awkward at all. Before our wedding, we snuck away to take 1 on 1 photos, and it was such a gift she gave us. A few moments of peace and love before the real celebrating began. HUGE SHOUTOUT to her second shooter as well, they had such amazing attention to detail (caught that I had my hair tie still on my wrist LMAO)
After our posed shots on our wedding day, I feel l didn't see Cate or her assistant for a long time because they melded into the background and caught so many amazing beautiful candid photos that I treasure so much already.
Cate went above and beyond for us. She had fun with us, laughed with us, encouraged us when we felt awkward, and made us feel so special. She even knew how to capture the attention of our three dogs for a family pic.
Thank you Cate and team! If I could give you a million stars and planets, I would. <3
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/04/2024
MEG!!!! Your review, your wedding, your PERSONHOOD mean so, so much to me. What a complete...
joy it was, getting to know you and having the deep pleasure of documenting your love and your exceptionally awesome community. Thank you so much for trusting me.
Stefan M
5.0
11/19/2023
Cate nailed our wedding photographs. She matched her skills to our needs, and her energy with ours for a small ceremony in Connecticut and was a pleasure to work with. The final ph...
otos are grand, collaborating with her in the moment was natural and the preparatory and business work was swift and pleasant, coordinated by the photographer herself.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/04/2024
Thank you, Stefan!! What a gorgeous, unforgettable and intimate wedding you had. I'm so, s...
o grateful you chose me to document it. I'll never forget you two or your beautiful (pink, hazy) portraits.
Julia A
5.0
11/15/2023
Cate is incredible! She photographed our wedding in June of 2023 as well as our engagement shoot in May of 2022. Two of the main reasons we hired her were because of her intense in...
clusivity of the LGBTQ+ community and her candid photography style. She was not uncomfortable at all with us as an LGBTQ+ couple in front of the camera, which made us more comfortable too, and she was able to capture such special moments throughout the day that photographers who focus on posed and “traditional” wedding shots wouldn’t have.
Our engagement shoot was the first formal photoshoot we had ever done together as a couple, and once we told Cate this, she did such a good job at giving us direction on how to pose and where to look. She even has certain prompts of things that, for example, she had one of us whisper into the others’ ear to elicit certain emotions. Our top priority in our engagement shoot was variety, since we wanted to use the photos for our save the dates, our website, etc., and Cate took that priority very seriously. We shot at a park with a ton of different backgrounds/vibes and even did an outfit change mid-way through.
The day of our wedding, Cate came prepared with notes and a plan. She arrived on time and stayed on time throughout the day. She captured all the shots we asked her for specifically, plus a lot of special ones we weren’t expecting. She did an especially good job taking the large family photos we asked for, even with a whole bunch of people running in different directions! She also brought on a second shooter who had an incredibly similar style to hers, which was great for consistency across our photos from the day.
If you’re looking for a calm, passionate, detail-oriented photographer with a knack for catching the small, intimate moments throughout your wedding day (in addition to the big, exciting ones of course), Cate is your person!
Sara S
5.0
10/06/2023
We loved working with Cate and highly recommend her as a wedding photographer!! Something we really appreciated about her right away was that she wanted to get to know us both as p...
eople and really wanted to understand our vision for our wedding. We had an engagement photoshoot with her, which also gave us a chance to get to know each other and she gave us lots of prompts and creative ways to feel comfortable in the photos which made the session really fun! On the day of the wedding, Cate and her assistant Mimi were so supportive, flexible, and fun to work with! They captured intimate and emotional moments of our wedding as well as the general landscape/ layout of the wedding, which was exactly what we wanted. Something we really appreciated about Cate is her ability to capture the emotions and interactions among people and we really like that she took photos of the typical wedding moments (first dance, etc) as well s the more unique moments (the kids playing, the flowers, guests emotional reactions, etc). She also sent us a sneak peek video slideshow of the wedding photos only about a week after the wedding which we enjoyed sharing with our guests. Many of our guests have commented on how much they like the photos and also on Cate’s positive and unobtrusive presence during the wedding. She is not only a highly skilled and creative photographer, but she is also a genuinely caring and very inclusive person who strives to capture all people authentically and joyfully through her photographs.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/04/2024
Sara--what a joy you are. Everything I adore about you is here in this review. Your though...
tfulness, kindness, generosity of spirit, and attention to detail made you SUCH a pleasure to work with. I'm so happy for you and Brian and beyond grateful I got to be part of your beautiful, intentional day. Thank you so much!!
Nathan R
5.0
9/18/2023
I would give 6 stars!
Cate and her team were more than I could hope for!
I am not one that enjoys posing for pictures. She made it so easy and fun. Her team was not intrusive durin...
g the wedding, and we received such great photos back.
My wife and I were so happy with the entire experience!
Nicola D
5.0
4/02/2023
Hands down the best photographer I've worked with. A year before my wedding, I was a bridesmaid in my cousins. That's where I met Cate. I knew as soon as the sneak peak came in, I ...
had to book her! She went above and beyond for our special day. From the engagement session to our crazy wedding day, she and her crew were there EVERY step of the way. She helped with time line and suggested photo ideas. She captured everything we could have asked for. Typically, I'm the family photographer/videographer so choosing someone was very important to me.
*side note* three days after our wedding my dad passed away. I contacted Cate asking for a few pictures for his funeral video and within minutes she sent me a handful! From the bottom of our hearts we were so grateful to meet Cate and share the wedding experience.
*Since the wedding, I have also used her for personal portraits too!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/04/2024
Thank you, Nicola!! What a dreamy review and what a total joy, working with the two of you...
and your beautiful families. I'm so honored and humbled I got to be the one to document that VERY special day.
Kevin V
5.0
3/07/2023
Cate and her assistant Kieran were an absolute joy and made us feel like superstars. Very LGBTQ friendly and easy to work with. Cate was flexible with the packages, quality shows s...
o it’s worth it highly recommend.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 03/24/2023
Thank you so much, Kevin! You guys were such a dream to work with and your wedding was ama...
zing. Such a joy. I really appreciate your kind review!
Dan M
5.0
2/15/2023
I cannot possibly say enough good things about Cate and her team. Throughout all of the chaos, stress and changes of plans with the wedding itself, Cate provided me and my wife a s...
ense of comfort and peace. She has such a calming, yet confident presence which reassures you that everything will work out as it should - allowing you to relax and enjoy the magic of your day. From the initial meet to planning sessions to the delivery of the completed photos, everything was absolutely perfect. If you don't book with Cate, you're missing out!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 03/24/2023
Dan!! This review makes me so happy. You know how I feel about you two... It was such a tr...
eat getting to work with you and document your stunning selves getting married. Love you, love your friends, love your wife.
Richard B
5.0
2/08/2023
Cate and Kieran were absolutely amazing. They made two introverts feel so comfortable and perfectly captured our wedding day. Highly recommend to anyone!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 03/24/2023
Rich, this is so so kind of you. I adored working with you both from the first zoom call. ...
From one introvert to another, thank you so much for trusting us with your big day.
Lauren D
5.0
1/14/2023
Cate was awesome. She was so nice and easy-going. She took her time when we spoke about our ideas and she really made us feel like we were on the right track during planning, which...
is super helpful during a time of a lot of decision making.
We were lucky to hire Cate for two nights. She came to our rehearsal dinner and took big family photos, which came out amazing. Then, the next day she shot our wedding. Cate and her staff were wonderful. They were professional and so kind.
Getting the engagement photos taken was also a huge plus. It was great to meet Cate in a more relaxed setting beforehand. She even traveled to Boston, where we live. I highly recommend Cate to anyone who looking for a wedding photographer. She was easily our favorite vendor. Amazing photos and really awesome person!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/14/2023
Thank you so much, Lauren!! I absolutely loved working with you both and will never forget...
that weekend.
Matt W
5.0
1/11/2023
Cate is amazing!! My wife and I booked her for our wedding and we honestly could not have asked for a better experience. She was so easy to work with from day 1 and she did such a ...
great job of making us feel comfortable and confident in front of the camera.
Her photos are stunning and she absolutely captured all the emotions of the day, all without anyone noticing she was even there. Our family and friends were equally impressed! She helped make our wedding day exactly what we wanted and looking at her photos puts us right back in that moment. We would 100% recommend!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/14/2023
Matt--thank you so much for the review! I adored you both and had such a lovely time with ...
you during your engagement session and on your wedding day. One of the best planned, least stressful days I've ever been a part of. Thank you again!
Michelle B
5.0
12/26/2022
Cate is truly talented, from her warm personality to her artistic eye, she’s everything you need to capture the biggest day in your life. When choosing a photographer it is so impo...
rtant to pick someone who you feel comfortable with because they’re essentially spending the whole day with you, and from our first phone call I knew she was the one! You won’t find anyone more passionate and thoughtful than her. Even when we had a small blunder at the venue she stepped in and helped us out without hesitation. She captured the essence of our day and I’m so happy with how our wedding album turned out. I would hire her again in a heartbeat!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/14/2023
Michelle--felt connected to you right away, and I'm so happy I got to be a part of this da...
y with you guys. Thank you so much for the review!
Regan K
5.0
12/14/2022
Cate really was a dream to work with. I am camera shy and really wanted to keep the posted photos to a minimum. She was able to help me make sure I didn’t miss any shots with fami...
ly and still enjoy myself. The pictures are so perfect and she really captured how happy of a day it was.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/14/2023
Regan--thank you for your sweet words! I so enjoyed being a part of your wedding. I apprec...
iate you!
Casey P
5.0
12/12/2022
It's hard to put into words how amazing Cate and her team was at our wedding in July 2022 and throughout the whole process. From the first zoom call with Cate we knew she was the p...
hotographer for us - she was warm, inviting, genuine and really wanted to get to know us. From there we never looked back. Cate was open to helping with all "problems" during wedding planning, we definitely leaned on her for advice related to photography and not because she has seen it all. I cannot thank her enough for listening to our silly ramblings, offering advice and helping to iron out details to make sure our day ran as smooth as possible. I even included a thoughtful piece of advice she gave us in my vows because it was that meaningful. The actual wedding day was a complete dream. I'm sure Cate makes all of her clients feel like superstars but from the moment she arrived she was my hype woman - I already felt great about the day but Cate just took it to the next level. Her entire team made our day absolutely perfect. Cate had such an impact on us that by the time we got to the wedding we could not imagine her not being there, she truly rounded out the day and gave us the best gift of all - pictures that we will treasure for the rest of our life! I would not hesitate to hire Cate again for any of life's big occasions and I hope we are able to!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/14/2023
Oh, Casey. Where do I begin??
I will never, ever forget working with you both. What a joy...
and what a wild ride it was. You touched a special place in my heart, and I am so freaking thankful I got to witness some of your story and play a small role in your wedding. What a privilege it was. So, so grateful for your generosity, openness, attention to detail, and kind spirits. Thank you for your wonderful review.
Matthew K
5.0
12/12/2022
Cate and her crew were phenomenal! We met Cate and saw her work firsthand at a friend’s wedding. The photos came out so well that we hired Cate for ours, and they came out great ...
as well. Cate is an incredibly kind and warm person with a great eye. Not only did they catch the right shots, but the post-processing was really great too. Cate has an eye for contrast and color. At our wedding, two of our dear friends are professional sports photographers and they were commenting very positively on everything Cate was doing too. You can't go wrong - THANK YOU!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/14/2023
Matthew--this review means so much to me! What an honor it was to be a part of your big da...
y. It was stunning and you guys were so wonderful. Thank you again for trusting us!
Priya B
5.0
12/04/2022
Working with Cate was one of the best decisions my partner and I made while planning our wedding, and we absolutely could not have asked for a better experience. Cate completely un...
derstood what we wanted and worked with us to create a plan to ensure we captured the moments that were most important to us.
On the day of, Cate ensured that everyone (my partner and I, our friends, our family) felt comfortable, calm, and seen in front of the camera. Not only did this make the whole experience feel more enjoyable, it resulted in gorgeous photos that capture genuine warmth and joy.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 01/14/2023
Priya,
It was truly lovely working with you guys. Your laid-back energy and kindness truly...
made it a joy. Loved your wedding and an so glad we got to be a part of it. Thank you so much for taking the time to review!
Katy C
5.0
11/28/2022
Cate is absolutely amazing. We worked with her for our engagement and wedding photos and I highly recommend her. We also had the pleasure of a second photographer, Kieran, for our ...
wedding, They are top notch photographers. They were punctual, got every shot we asked for and more, and are both so easy to get along with. We hate getting our pictures taken, but Cate makes it so fun that we are eager to book more sessions with her in the future. She is especially amazing with the LGBTQ+ community, which was so important for us. If you are looking for the best photographer, she is the one you need.
Hillary A
5.0
11/20/2022
Hiring Cate is the best thing you can possibly do for your wedding. Throughout the entire process Cate was incredibly personable, warm, and fun -- while being extremely professiona...
l, competent, and very very good at what she does. My wife and I feel so fortunate that we have such beautiful photos that really capture all of the moments and feelings at our wedding. We are already trying to figure out another excuse to have our photos taken so we can work with Cate again!
Alex S
5.0
2/26/2022
Oh where to even begin!!! From the moment we met Cate we felt immediately comfortable and deeply connected. Right out of the gate we laughed so hard and felt like we had know her f...
orever. Cate took the time to get to know us individually and as a couple and made us feel seen and celebrated in a way that is so rare. Cate is a genius at evoking genuine emotion and capturing moments of connection. During our engagement shoot and at our wedding she was able to document the full spectrum of our experience in a way that made the ordinary become transcendent. Every one of our wedding photos rekindles a feeling. Cate noticed and photographed moments between guests or aspects of the day that we didn’t get to appreciate at the time because we were, ahem, focused on getting married. Going through the wedding album allowed us to relive that day from so many different perspectives. What a gift! Cate is one of the best humans we have ever had the pleasure to meet and her work is beyond anything we could have hoped for. Working with Cate will be something you remember and cherish forever- we guarantee it!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
Thank you, dear, dear human. I'm so grateful we met. YOUR WEDDING WAS MAGICAL and so is yo...
ur love. Big, big hugs.
Ian B
5.0
2/04/2022
I truly can’t recommend Cate highly enough. When my wife and I were looking for wedding photographers I kept thinking that so many of the pictures looked either like stock photos o...
r the Goodfellas poster, and Cate perfectly matched the exact opposite of that energy. We literally rescheduled our wedding around her availability and would do it again in a heartbeat. She was a delight to work with; if she weren’t photographing the wedding, we probably would have invited her as a guest after the first few times we chatted over Zoom. And the pictures, of course, were incredible—both in quality and in sheer numbers.
Five stars, 10/10, no notes.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
You are hilarious and SO sweet and kind and I adore you both. THANK YOU.
Clinton F
5.0
12/30/2021
In addition to being a wonderful photographer, Cate has an extraordinary sensitivity and empathy that allows her to bring out the best from all of her subjects. They simply shine ...
in the photos Cate takes. It was a GREAT experience working with her (and we did so over the course of over a year given Covid postponements). We cannot speak too highly about Cate.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
THANK YOU SO MUCH, Clint. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate your review. What a gorg...
eous wedding that was, and what an amazing family you all are.
Diana F
5.0
11/30/2021
I could not be happier with how my photos came out. As a 2021 bride, I had both a small, intimate ceremony and a reception full of friends and family. Cate captured both in such a ...
way that when I look back at my photos I get to experience all of those emotions again. So professional and easy to communicate with! I cannot recommend Cate and her team enough.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
DIANA--I adore you and I'm so, so grateful we connected. It's been such a privilege to doc...
ument a bit of your journey together. Big hugs.
Molly N
5.0
10/17/2021
Cate accommodated us with very short notice (a month!) and I honestly wouldn’t have wanted anyone else. She was so incredibly kind, calming, and perfect for the couple whose not us...
ed to being in front of the camera. Her sneak peek gallery brought us to tears and we will book her for future sessions in a heartbeat. AMAZING!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
Thank you so much, Molly. I'm SO glad I did, because meeting you both was such a highlight...
of 2021. Can't wait to see the next legs of our journeys!!
Michaela G
5.0
9/30/2021
Cate is AMAZING! I literally could not recommend her more highly. Cate takes wonderful photos (honestly one of my friends described Cate's photos of our wedding as "magazine qualit...
y nice photos") and she's also a true delight to work with. I'm not typically very comfortable being photographed (especially when professional photographers and poses are involved). So when my partner and I started talking about wedding photography, we knew we had to do some research to find a photographer who would make us feel comfortable. Thanks to the wonders of Google, we found Cate and we are SO glad we did! Cate made us feel so comfortable during our entire experience with her - from the introductory phone call to the engagement shoot to the wedding photos. Cate made us feel fully seen, heard, and respected throughout all of our interactions with her and even made the photo shoot process FUN (something I never thought I'd say about the experience of having a photographer take lots of photos of me). On top of that, the final photographs that she captured (especially the candids!) were incredible. Thank you, Cate!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
Michaela, you are so kind, warm, and generous of spirit. Your wedding was a complete joy, ...
and getting to document it a rare treat. THANK YOU. THANK YOU. Big hugs.
Jessica L
5.0
9/17/2021
Cate Barry is AMAZING at what she does! Her photos are so beautiful, and she truly has a talent for capturing real emotion and moments of connection between people. On top of that,...
she is so kind, genuine, and fun. My husband is not at all comfortable when cameras come out, and hates having his photo taken. Through her own brand of magic, Cate was able to get so many photos of his real smiles and expressions, and he felt relaxed and comfortable the whole time. When my husband and I look at Cate's photos of us, we can see and feel all the emotions we had in those moments, and we're not in the standard or cliched poses, we just look like us, having fun and being in love in a gorgeous setting. If you are looking for beautiful candid photos that center emotion and show you authentically, and a photographer with crazy talent, true professionalism, and infectious enthusiasm, I would 110% recommend Cate Barry!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
UGH JESSICA YOU ARE SO KIND and your wedding was absolutely stunning and unforgettable. So...
, so happy we met and that I had the great honor of documenting a bit of your journey together. So, so grateful. Thank you.
Mel M
5.0
9/17/2021
Cate is an absolute gem of a photographer and of a human! Our wedding photos came out absolutely stunning! The entire process was very easy-- we had a few different planning calls ...
and all payments were all online. She was incredibly responsive throughout the whole process.
Most of all, Cate helped to make us feel absolutely at ease and comfortable on our wedding day. It's easy to feel out of place as an LGBTQ couple navigating the wedding industry, but she made everything feel natural and effortless. So so glad we went with her. Would recommend her to any couple.
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
Mel, your wedding was one of my all-time favorites. Kieran and I still reminisce about it....
THANK YOU for inviting us to be a part of it and for writing this lovely review. I appreciate you both!!
Kayla C
5.0
9/14/2021
The best thing you can do for your wedding is book Cate! I think she might be a witch, she's that good. She put everyone at ease (even those most reluctant to be photographed), and...
is just such a delightful human. And the pictures she captured were MAGIC! We couldn't be more in love with them. Since she focuses so much on joyful candids, it's priceless to see our friends and families reactions in the moments that we couldn't see in person. All of my bridesmaids from Florida want to fly her down to do their future weddings. My dad (who hates being photographed, and almost never smiles for them) said he wants her to do his funeral - that's a compliment, trust me, even though it's a very weird one. Cate, you are the absolute best!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
You, my dear, have written one of my favorite ever reviews LOL. THANK YOU for bringing me ...
into your lovely wedding day. It was an absolute joy working with you both. BIG HUGS.
Danielle G
5.0
9/09/2021
My wife and I can't say enough wonderful things about Cate Barry. To say she is a dream, would be a total understatement!
We found Cate in the most serendipitous way, after a yea...
r of COVID cancellations and back and forth vendor rescheduling we connected with Cate and quickly realized that she was absolutely the person we wanted to capture our most special and intimate day. We spoke to Cate multiple times leading up to our wedding. It was instant chemistry and we both felt that she just "got us".
The day of our wedding was both stressful and exciting and Cate and her amazing assistant really put Jessy and I at ease with their calm demeanor. She was able to expertly navigate our formal photos as well as make sure we were able to enjoy our day with our guests, making everything seamless.
Next came the photos, we were absolutely blown away at the amount of amazing pictures Cate was able to capture throughout the day. They are memories we will cherish forever and we are forever grateful to have found such an amazing photographer!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
Um, you're amazing and your wedding was stunning and I adore you both. Thank you so much f...
or taking the time to write this. Can't wait to see the next step in your journey together!
Matt O
5.0
8/23/2021
TL:DR - Cate is the absolute best wedding photographer and she was a joy to work with every step of the way.
As anyone reading this review already knows, looking for wedding vendo...
rs is not an easy task. Not only do you have to find folks that are available, but you need to navigate the waters of having the right fit to capture your special day. We originally had contracted with another vendor to do both video and photography, but thankfully that vendor double-booked us and bailed.
When Cate first reached out I could tell that she really cared about us. She asked about us as a couple, what this day meant to us, what our story was, and what our vision for the day was. Most vendors we spoke with got right to business talking about pricing and packages, and it was all very transactional. Not once did we ever feel like Cate cared about anything more than helping us make the right choice to capture the day.
Working with Cate was a delight from start to finish. She was organized, on-time, and always calm + collected during some of the more hectic moments. Not only did she help us get all the family pictures we wanted, she kept us so efficient that we even had time for more photos we didn’t think we would have time for. Cate was gracious with her time and even more gracious in her follow through. We received our photos quickly, and they were nothing short of perfection in every single way.
I cannot recommend Cate enough, and want to thank her so much for being such a wonderful person to work with. Thank you so much, Cate!
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
Matt, you truly have been one of the kindest souls I've had the privilege of working with....
Thank you, for every single step of the way, and for this beautiful review. Can't tell you the level of gratitude I feel for having met you both.
Gale B
5.0
8/15/2021
Cate did excellent, unique work for my sister's wedding in a vineyard
Response from Cate Barry Photography on 04/05/2022
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this!!!
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