A New York State of Mind With a French Twist
151 to 200 guests
AWARD WINNER (9X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
The Chateau Coindre Hall is an enchanting wedding venue located in Huntington, NY. This medieval-esque, French-inspired haven was built in 1912 and is a slice of European elegance in the heart of the US. This majestic mansion is the ideal location for a memorable occasion.
Modeled on the style of classic French chateaux, this 80,000 square-foot fairy tale is situated in Suffolk County Parks. The Chateau Coindre Hall is a part of the renowned Lessing’s Hospitality Group. This intergenerational family-owned enterprise is the definition of American innovation and excellent customer service. It is no surprise then, that this venue offers newlyweds an idyllic backdrop complete with stellar hospitality. The estate comprises no less than 40 rooms, a grand ballroom, a breathtaking circular staircase, and a spectacular veranda.
The faux chateau exterior features medieval details. These include a rust-red roof, arched window awnings, and two large conical towers framing the main entrance. The building is a National Historic Landmark. The ambiance and architecture have the power to transport guests through land and time to the Loire Valley. The grand ballroom features polished wooden floors, a voile-draped ceiling, and elegant light settings. Round tables and gold Chiavari chairs complete the elegant aesthetic. The outdoor cocktail area is reached via classic French-style doors and windows. Guests can enjoy drinks and nibbles on the terrace while taking in the scenic surroundings. Picturesque views of Huntington Harbor can be seen from this vantage point. Receptions can be held outdoors amidst nature if desired by to-be-weds. This venue boasts numerous beauty spots for capturing unique photographs. Couples and their wedding parties can use the preparation suites throughout their event.
Couples can exchange vows inside The Chateau Coindre Hall, or on the scenic lawns overlooking the waterfront. The dedicated team can accommodate receptions for up to 200 of your closest loved ones. An in-house coordinator is happy to work with prospective newlyweds to make their day one to remember. The catering team collaborates with couples when it comes to crafting menu items. Guests can procure valet parking for their convenience. This venue has a lot to offer couples seeking a waterfront wedding with a historic feel.
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4.9
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Coindre Hall is a highly recommended wedding venue with exceptional service led by John, the maître d', who is described as warm, flexible, and attentive. The venue itself is breathtaking, with beautiful grounds and historic charm, making it a unique and elegant choice. Guests rave about the delicious food, varied options, and smooth planning process, including an all-inclusive package that simplifies vendor coordination. The layout allows for a seamless flow between different spaces, with separate rooms for dining and dancing that received positive feedback for creating a comfortable and engaging atmosphere. Guests consistently praise Coindre Hall for its beauty, service, and memorable experiences, making it a top recommendation for couples seeking a magical and personalized wedding venue.Review photos
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Juliette D
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5.0
12/03/2023
Coindre Hall is a hidden gem! The location is beautiful, the food is fantastic (so many rave reviews from our guests), and the ambiance is amazing! John was so great to work with. He's attentive, responds quickly to any questions, and is flexible with the timeline. This is clearly not his first rodeo! He has been with Lessing's for over 20 years, and it shows. Many people skip this location because the dance floor is separate from the dining, but they are right next to each other, and many people like how they can sit and have a conversation if they want to without music blasting in their ears. Definitely, a venue that is a must-see!
Pam S
5.0
11/13/2024
"Happily, Ever After…." was the theme our daughter envisioned for her wedding, and thanks to John and the entire team at Coindre Hall, her dream day became a reality. John Schlenke, the maître ‘d, was exceptional from our very first visit, throughout the entire planning process, and all the way through to the wedding day itself. He managed every detail flawlessly, guiding us through the entire process and making our planning experience completely stress-free. This was the only wedding venue our daughter and her fiancé considered because they knew it was the perfect place for them. It is absolutely breathtaking. Our guests can't stop talking about what a beautiful and one-of-a-kind venue it was with superb food, which was abundant, and exceptional service. The overall layout and design of the different rooms worked out perfectly, and we received compliments on the separation. We were initially concerned, but our guests truly enjoyed being able to stroll around, dance if they wanted, or have a quiet conversation in a more relaxed space. It's such a unique place, full of charm and character but it’s John and his amazing staff who make Coindre Hall the first wedding venue you should consider, hands down.
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Carolyn R
5.0
11/08/2024
It’s very hard to put into words just how special Coindre Hall has become to my husband and I. John and the entire team there are absolutely incredible. The staff is warm and inviting. Kelly, the bridal attendant, was amazing. She knew what I needed before I knew! They all went above and beyond to make our special day perfect.
From the first day we stepped into the gorgeous mansion, John made us feel like our day was the most important day. He put our minds at ease with every question or concern we brought to him. Simply put, John is the best!
The venue itself is absolutely breathtaking. The grounds are gorgeous, and a fall wedding with the leaves changing made for a beautiful backdrop for our ceremony. The inside is so beautiful, I barely had to add any decor. We were able to add a few touches to make it unique and special for us, but it truly didn’t need much at all.
The food is amazing!! It’s been 2 weeks since our wedding and we’re still getting calls and texts about how delicious all the food was!! The variety of foods offered are amazing. There is truly something for everyone, and they were very accommodating for our guests with special dietary needs.
One of the things I fell in love with about the Chateau at Coindre Hall is just how unique it is. Very few of our guests had ever been there for an event and everyone was blown away by the beauty and uniqueness of it. Coindre Hall is a true hidden gem on Long Island, and I HIGHLY recommend it to anyone who wants their special day to be different and feel like the most important day ever. Thank you John, Lessings, and the entire team at Coindre for our best day ever!!
Matthew O
5.0
10/25/2024
My wife and I were overjoyed with our experience with the Chateau at Coindre Hall. The place is beautiful, historic, and provided an endless flow of compliments from our guests. But what really steals the show is the maître d', John. John was flexible, supportive, and helped make our wedding perfect. We even had additional "day of" requests that he was always able to address. I appreciated his flexibility, his guidance and his patience with us. If you are looking for a beautiful and incredible experience for your wedding, Coindre Hall will meet it!
Naeemah P
5.0
8/29/2024
Truly a 5/5 experience! This place then rises above 5/5 because of John, who is incredible - kind, gracious, extremely helpful, and willing to go above and beyond to ensure you have the most special day ever.
John truly made this the best venue for our wedding! We had specific requests that he accommodated, and he met with us several times to ensure we were happy with the service.
I am so glad we got married at Coindre Hall. If I could, I would do it all over again!
Thank you to the team and to John. You made this an unforgettable experience.
Amy S
5.0
8/26/2024
My husband and I were thrilled with our wedding at the Chateau at Coindre Hall. The venue offers a beautiful, elegant, and one-of-a-kind setting that perfectly complemented our vision for the big day. The staff were fantastic to work with - communication was always quick, clear, and helpful in the planning process. They had faith that the rain would let up just in time for our outdoor ceremony, and we are so grateful we went for it because it truly did turn out perfectly. The delicious food and drinks had all our guests raving - we received so many compliments! Overall, we highly recommend Coindre Hall for couples looking for a unique and gorgeous wedding venue with wonderful staff.
Christie G
5.0
7/17/2024
From start to finish, the staff at Coindre Hall did everything they could to ensure my wedding was the most perfect night! John and our bridal attendant were amazing and attentive throughout the night, and my guests are raving that this is the most gorgeous venue they’ve ever been to! They couldn’t stop talking about the food, either!Thank you Coindre Hall for making my wedding the most special and magical night of my life!
Catherine N
5.0
7/02/2024
From the moment we arrived to tour Coindre Hall last year, we knew this was the right vibe. We wanted a European, non typical venue and this was it. We loved exchanging vows under the trees, having our jazz band in the ball room and fabulous dinner in the next room. Tom and John helped us with planning and executing our day to match our vision. We loved getting married here, thank you John and staff!
Bridget G
5.0
11/04/2023
10/10.
Coindre Hall and the Maitre d', John, were extremely helpful in the planning process due to us living 1800 miles away but this is a hometown venue for both of us. John was able to help walk us through just about anything we were unsure about and make awesome recommendations. He was a blessing to work with. Our wedding went off without a hitch - from the beautiful ceremony, AWESOME food, and service across the board, we do not have one negative thing to say.
If you're on the fence, just go for it!!
Rebecca S
5.0
9/26/2023
My daughters wedding was held at Coindre Hall this September. I have only RAVE reviews to give. Aside from the fact that the venue has that "WOW" factor when first approaching it, the inside is just as magnificent. Working with the staff, especially the maitre d, John, was an absolutely magnificent experience. He was reasonable, understanding, and compassionate to the needs of my highly emotional daughter. I can't say enough about the amazing experience we had with Chateau at Coindre Hall.
Stephanie T
5.0
9/25/2023
Wow! Where do I even begin? Choosing Coindre Hall as our wedding venue was the absolute best decision we ever made and we would choose it time and time again. It is simply stunning inside and out with an elegance and historic charm unmatched by any venue in the area, especially for the great price. Where do I begin to thank John Schlenke? He is a superior, competent, caring and devoted Maître d', event coordinator, planner, tour-guide, hype-man, visionary and quite frankly a magician!! He took our vision and ran with it - he combined his years of expertise and event planning - and grew the party into what we had always dreamed about. It was a fairytale!! And quite frankly went off without at hitch. We owe the success of the entire day and a years worth of planning to him. He is the definition of above and beyond!! Something we enjoyed was seeing how personal every wedding set-up was and how John transformed the space into a unique set-up matching the bride and groom to a T. We were able to visit the venue over the year leading up to our wedding for meetings, etc. and John was always setting up an event and we would just marvel at this creativity and love how different each and every wedding looked! At our wedding, he allowed us to go early, he unloaded our car, he created a donut wall, we even saw him running food from the kitchen to the Asian station during cocktail hour...he was always doing anything and everything! We felt he and the staff really cared about the success of our day and cared about us and we felt that was special. To connect on a personal level really moved us and was really something we had to share. The day was incredible and we owe it all to John, the staff and the beautiful venue at Coindre Hall. Highly recommend for your wedding!
Tullya B
5.0
9/06/2023
My wife and I just recently got married at Coindre Hall and everything was absolutely perfect. From the minute we rolled up for our first tour to the end of our wedding night John and the rest of the staff were attentive, kind, and helpful in making sure that our wedding went off without a hitch. We were very lucky to be able to have our wedding outdoors since the weather cooperated with us, but their indoor option is also beautiful. We booked the complete wedding package which includes all the necessary vendors(photographer, DJ, florist, cake, transportation, and of course food/venue/staff). Having all the vendors packaged into a single payment made to the venue made our planning really easy and all the included vendors were friendly, communicative, and did GREAT work!
Our guests RAVED about the food(which was delicious) and the signature cocktails were an absolute hit! John and their staff made sure that we ate in between running around to greet our guests/make sure all the many events of the day were done. We loved that the dance floor was separate from the dining space because it really encouraged a party space with a nice little getaway to sip your cocktail/have a chat with a friend. Our guests really took advantage of the gorgeous grounds to get tons of selfies. We brought personal touches to decorate the space, but it's so gorgeous on it's own that you really don't need to do much.
As an LGTBQ couple it was important to us to find a venue that really celebrated who we are as a couple, and Coindre Hall did just that. I would HIGHLY recommend for any other couples in the gay rainbow!
Honestly at this point I'm telling anyone who's getting married to do it there so I can have a reason to go back as a guest! It was absolutely magical, a truly perfect day.
Katherine L
5.0
7/20/2023
Our wedding day felt like an actual fairytale. Coindre Hall is such a beautiful location, and feels timeless and romantic. We were able to arrive early enough before the ceremony to get settled, take all of our staged photos (highly recommend a first look in the courtyard!), and still have a little time to relax. John and George were wonderful to work with- they kept everything running smoothly, and were so kind and supportive. The day of our wedding there was a chance of rain, and John was ready to set up either the indoor or outdoor ceremony space at a moment’s notice. We ultimately had our ceremony inside, and even though I had wanted to be outside, the indoor space was so beautiful that I didn’t even mind. The food (Mirabelle catering) was delicious- many of our guests told us how much they enjoyed the food, which is one of the most important factors at a wedding reception. Overall, our wedding was absolutely perfect!
Amanda H
5.0
7/18/2023
We had the perfect wedding at Coindre hall this past June! My husband and I fell in love with the venue at our first tour. We found the character and charm unmatched compared to other more traditional wedding venues we looked at. We loved the layout and the flexibility of the different rooms. We also were able to have our dog stay the whole reception in a room in the front which was a major selling point for us. The planning process was very smooth and communication with John the Maitre d was exceptional. John went above and beyond to make sure the day was just as we envisioned. He is amazing at his job and you an tell how much he truly cares about making the day perfect. Our guests raved about the venue and how unique it was. We highly recommend Coindre Hall!!
Adriana D
5.0
7/03/2023
I do not have the words to explain how amazing our experience with Coindre Hall was. This was the only wedding venue we looked at and we knew it was for us. From the months leading up to the wedding up through and even after the wedding, the level of help and guidance provided by John was impeccable. He would answer all questions and reassure us throughout the process. The package deal was an amazing option which got rid of any headaches in finding vendors. All the vendors that were part of the package deal were also great and easy to work with and super experienced in handling weddings at Coindre Hall. The food was also great and as a picky eater myself, I was happy to have so many options to choose from between cocktail hour and the main entree. The separate rooms worked out great for wedding guests who did not want to dance or were hard of hearing. Our actual wedding reception was like a dream. John and the whole Coindre Hall staff were lovely and diligent in making sure our special day truly was special. I would highly recommend Coindre Hall to anyone who wants a beautiful story book wedding!
Morgan M
5.0
4/10/2023
Where do we start? From the moment we set foot in the foyer, we knew Coindre Hall was IT. Yes, it’s a Lessing’s venue, aka a very well-known hospitality group across the Island. And, yes, we ended up selecting their “all-inclusive” wedding package, but our experience was far from “cookie cutter.” From the moment we walked in, John greeted us with a smile and enthusiasm, and his attention to detail and his knowledge of the property and how to run our event from top to bottom are unmatched.
First, we loved that we got to get married in such a beautiful, romantic, historic waterfront venue – Coindre Hall truly is a hidden gem and I’m so surprised people don’t know about it or haven’t been to more events here. The venue also offers you the opportunity to have your ceremony and reception on premises, indoors or outdoors, and only hosts one event at a time, so you will never be short-changed when it comes to service and attention.
Second, we know some people don’t love that the venue is broken up into several different spaces, particularly the dance floor being in a separate room from the dining tables, but boy did this work out LIKE A DREAM! We could dance our hearts out AND hear our guests and ourselves when we talked. It was so nice to take a breather from dancing with some peace and quiet. Yet, you could still hear any and every announcement our MC made all night long.
Finally, the food and service were truly outstanding! The food preparation is done/overseen by the same chef as the Three Village Inn (hint: if you want to do a “tasting,” go have lunch or a date night there!) and WOW! Everything was DELICIOUS! We served a wide variety of dishes between cocktail hour and the reception and everything was so flavorful and prepared to perfection. The real stars here were John and the Coindre Hall staff!
Even two weeks later, we have people telling, texting, and posting about how much fun they had and telling us it was the best wedding they’ve ever been to. We are thrilled with the choice we made with Coindre Hall!
Arielle W
5.0
4/05/2023
Coindre Hall was the perfect wedding venue. This venue has impressive history built into it and is vastly different than the catering halls on Long Island. Having the dancing separate from dinner was perfect. Cocktail hour was spectacular. John puts his heart and soul into this, as well as the rest of the staff. John was extremely helpful and really takes the time to make sure your wedding is everything you dreamed of. We had a December wedding and the mansion was so beautiful decorated for the Holidays and had such an old world charm that is so unique. We had a piano player at cocktail hour and a live painter. I could never imagine getting married anywhere but Coindre Hall. John and Team - thank you for the wedding of my dreams.
Ray &
5.0
3/10/2023
How long do you need to prepare for your wedding? If you have John and his team, you only need one month! Can you believe it?! We just had our wedding last weekend and it was so beautiful…the service was magical!
Chateau at Coindre Hall reminds us of Disney worlds’ Cinderella’s castle at first sight! It’s unique style and real historical elements just adds so much more character to our story!
We and the venue are so lucky to have the Maitre d’ John, who’s so caring, personable and calming. John and the staff were vital in our successful wedding and the reason we were able to stay calm. John’s expertise and genuine thoughtfulness was consistent. He gave us many planning tips & insightful inspiration. He has great aesthetic taste and was very organized, so John was always on top of the planning process. And on the big day, he and the staff helped us a lot by maintaining our guests and coordinating events. We got tons of compliments on how smooth and intimate the wedding was. There was no rush, no pause, and the day went by so quickly.
The food at our wedding day was delicious! We loved all our selections (bacon scallops, sushi station, roast chicken, lamp chop, duck breast, sea bass and more) and wish we could devoured more if not in our fitted gowns and tuxedo. The chefs designed each dishes well, which made it even more memorable. Thank you John and the rolling pin bakery for helping us creating our dream cake that we’ve always wanted. Schedule a visit and you will love it!
Sue G
5.0
11/07/2022
Absolutely Magical!!! John and his staff were amazing!! I can’t say enough great things about John! He truly made every single part of the wedding perfect and stressless!!!Nicole was wonderful with all the details in setting up. Emily was so amazing in helping my daughter all day and the bridal party with pictures and everything! I highly recommend coindre if you want the best venue experience!!
Michelle K
5.0
10/08/2022
Perfect wedding of my dreams! I couldn't have asked for anything better!
My husband and I got married at Chateau at Coindre Hall in August 2022. The mansion itself is beautiful and unique, definitely different from other more typical wedding venues, and I had so many guests tell me how memorable my wedding was. The food is absolutely delicious, for both appetizers and main dishes. I had a few guests that had to take the main dishes to go, since they filled up too hard on the excellent appetizers.
As for the actual event, trust me when I say that maitre d' John will take care of you. He will call your wedding "his wedding," and he will treat it that way. He will make sure everything runs smoothly. If you're clueless about weddings (like me), he will guide you AND your entire wedding party through it. It will give you a peace of mind to be able to relax, knowing that John is running your wedding. On my wedding day, my florist forgot to drop off flower petals for my 4 flower girls. We found this out about an hour before the ceremony. John casually said, "Don't worry about it," and I still have no idea how, but he had procured flower petals somewhere for my flower girls! John will make sure that the bride and groom gets to eat, rest, and have a great time. As a bride, I was getting way too stressed out during the wedding planning process that I wasn't sure if I would have a good time at the wedding. I can now say that my wedding day was the best day of my life!
Kelly K
5.0
9/27/2022
John made sure every last detail was correct and that our wedding day ran smoothly! The food was great, the venue package was reasonably priced, and we had a fantastic time all around. Could not recommend this venue for your big day enough. We were able to dance and fully enjoy our cocktail hour and reception which was so wonderful, and the staff was incredibly attentive and helpful.
Nicole M
4.0
8/23/2022
If you are looking for a timeless, unique, and gorgeous location, you should definitely check this venue out!
From the very beginning, John was amazing. He quickly responded to each and every email and phone call to help create our perfect day. We had some people drop last minute due to COVID and he was very flexible with meeting our minimum. I really wanted to get married outside. It was drizzling and raining on and off as we were trying to take pictures before the ceremony. John went above and beyond and set up both inside and outside so that we could have a backup plan if needed. The weather ended up holding out during the ceremony!! There were some decorations I did not love at the venue and John moved/got rid of whatever I wanted. He was so helpful and did a great job adding the decorations I had around the venue.
All of our guests ranted about the food. My family is very picky, but they all had nothing but great things to say! We booked when they still had their old menu. They changed menus before we got married and gave us the choice between the two. We went with the old menu since we felt it had better options and gave us more food during the cocktail hour.
I am a vegetarian and John tried to be accommodating. However, I was extremely disappointed in the vegetarian entree that was served. I picked the cauliflower steak as the vegetarian option, but it was just roasted cauliflower with the sides! Myself and my vegetarian guests ended up just getting a plate full of veggies for dinner. It was not an actual entree for any night, especially a wedding. We were assured the chefs had experience with vegetarian and even vegan guests.I was embarrassed that my vegetarian guests were served that at my wedding.
We added on an Asian Station during the cocktail hour and the food was to die for! Everyone loved it so much. It was definitely worth adding.
We also added a Churro Exit Station. We were very upset and do NOT recommend adding this station. The churros tasted good but my parents saw the man running the station on his cell phone. This is unacceptable. We paid extra for this station and he was on his phone and not advertising it to guests as they were leaving. My parents saw guests walk past him without knowing we had churros and my parents had to tell guests about it. Had they not been there at that time, those guests would have left without receiving a churro. Also, when he was not on his cell phone my husband & I saw him just standing there and again not saying anything to the guests as they walked past him. He should have let the guests know what was being served. We paid extra for this station and many guests walked right past him and left without knowing about the churros.
Jessica M
5.0
6/10/2022
My husband and I had our dream wedding there. I have always loved the location as I grew up in Huntington, in person it’s incredible. I love the horse shoe shape and the separated ballrooms for dining and dancing. It made conversation much easier without sacrificing the party atmosphere. My guests raved about the food (highly recommend the swordfish and duck breast). The wedding package Lessing’s offer was a life saver as we planned in about 9 months. At the heart of this is John and his staff. He is incredibly attentive and really listens. We had a lot of ideas including lawn games, having craft beer kegs delivered, and mochi donuts; John helped us nail all those details. He made suggestions that made the day smooth, and was thoughtful. He even brought my husband pie instead of cake because John remembered we mentioned that he doesn’t like cake. John is great at communication, acts as your day of coordinator, and really was the catalyst that made our day so incredible.
Olivia C
5.0
3/26/2022
My husband and I had our wedding at Coindre Hall a couple of weeks ago. John, the maitre'd was beyond exceptional. A year ago, we were already excited but anxious about everything going well. We were assured then, and reassured over and over again leading up to our big day, that it was going to be perfect. Perfect is not the word - this truly, was the best day of our lives and it wouldn't have run so smoothly without John. Coindre Hall is a stunning venue and I highly recommend it if you are interested in an old world, naturally beautiful castle, with tons of character. Coindre is a special place to us, growing up and living on Long Island, and for our guests as well. Everyone said that the venue, service, as well as the food provided by Lessings, was the best they've experienced. I can go on and on but I must thank John most of all!!!! Thank you for giving us the most beautiful, memorable night of our lives!
With love,
The Newlyweds!
Celestina M
5.0
10/21/2021
This venue was perfect for our small summer wedding. It was more than enough space and the staff was extremely accommodating. John was a joy to work with and was really attentive to our needs. I can not say enough good things about them.
Lindsay B
5.0
10/11/2021
We had the most perfect wedding at Coindre Hall! We had our wedding in August 2021- we were looking for a venue that was unique and wasn't a typical country club or banquet hall, but that was also still affordable for Long Island. We loved the idea of an old mansion / castle type of venue. Coindre Hall is a hidden gem! A huge part of why our wedding day was so perfect was because of John, the maître d'- he truly goes above and beyond. We live in Boston, so John was super flexible about working with our schedules during the wedding planning, and he allowed us to come see the venue with family multiple times before our wedding day, always patiently answering all of our questions and talking us through everything. He was always super responsive over email as well. The day of the wedding, the weather was touch and go, but John allowed us to make the final call to have the ceremony outdoors, and it thankfully ended up being perfect. And if the dancing and dining being in different rooms during the reception makes you worried that no one will dance- don't worry! John and our band were excellent about ushering people into the dancing room. Coindre Hall is run by Lessings, so the food and service was excellent as well. You are in amazing hands with John and the Coindre Hall staff!
Patti C
5.0
9/30/2021
From start to finish , superb care taken by the entire staff, led
By maitre d John Schlenke. Breathtaking and scenic. The chateau is beautiful with numerous spots for picture taking. Decor, food, vendors , all superb.
Menu planning and invaluable advice every step of the way. You won’t be disappointed !
Melissa N
5.0
9/25/2021
John was calm and collected and everything seemed to flow super easily. Everyone had a great time!
My bridal attendant was the absolute best. She always made sure I had everything I needed. She was absolute perfect and excellent at her job.
The venue looked so beautiful with my light decor.
Everyone had a blast. It was really the best day!
Margaret M
5.0
8/22/2021
I just had my wedding at this venue and WOW, it totally exceeded my expectations! When we initially went for a tour, my now husband and I fell in love with the history behind the venue as well as the French inspired architecture. The venue and decor is unique and enchanting and provides beautiful scenery and spaces for amazing photo ops. With that said, John who is the maitre d' is absolutely amazing and goes above and beyond to make sure your day is exactly what you envision and as smooth as possible. John really was key in making our wedding go exactly as planned. He was always very clear and transparent regarding details and what to expect, he was always easy to reach whenever we had any questions or concerns and always made us feel at ease. Our wedding went off without a hitch and John was on top of everything from start to finish!! The staff at Coindre Hall overall is amazing! We received so many compliments regarding the venue, the food was amazing as well, our guests loved the food!! The Chateau at Coindre Hall is the perfect venue for any size wedding, we wish we could relive our wedding day all over again!!
Lindsey D
5.0
7/18/2021
We had the most amazing experience getting married here. Not only is the venue absolutely stunning but John and his staff are unbelievable. He made sure everything was taken care of so we didn't have a care in the world on the night of our wedding. He took time to meet with us on multiple occasions and hash out all the details. The food was absolutely incredible as well!Mirabelle restaurant is the caterer for the venue and everything we ate was perfection. Guests were so so happy with the food and service. I can't thank John enough!
As for the venue itself, who doesn't want to get married in a French chateau? You get the whole venue to yourself and guests can wander through the many rooms and both floors, as well as go outside. And the best part-they are dog friendly and our two dogs were able to stay upstairs in the bridal suite after the ceremony!
We loved everything about Coindre Hall and highly recommend it!
Daniella S
5.0
6/01/2021
Our mini wedding was simply amazing. Even though it was a wedding of 10, the team at Coindre Hall made us all feel like celebrities. They were over the moon accommodating from planning to the wedding itself. John and George went above and beyond- special touches everywhere and super attentive. I’m so grateful to them and to Lessings/Coindre Hall for being the only accommodating venue we found during the pandemic and for making our day just magical and safe. Thank you John and George :-) I can’t wait to throw another celebration through Lessings! Cheers!!
Alexandra K
5.0
5/12/2020
My husband and I had our wedding at Coindre Hall on 11/2/19. It went as smoothly as I could have ever imagine, which was in large part to the amazing Lessings team at Coindre Hall!
When we first went to see it when choosing venues we met with Dan who was knowledgeable and friendly. We were able to book during the off season and got an amazing deal that was a very reasonable price and included so many great local vendors.
Then once we booked and got to planning, we worked with John who walked us through everything ahead of time. I cannot express in words just how great John Schlenke and his team were, both before and during. Everyone was lovely, helpful, and flexible. The day of John and George ran things to perfection. They not only were able to accommodate all our requests, but they were able to anticipate all our needs which really helped to keep everything moving along. Even though it was a little cold, because it was still nice weather, we choose to have our ceremony out front of the building. I really appreciate that they let me decide that morning if we would have the ceremony inside or outside. It took of the pressure of having to make plans in advance and worry about weather. The ceremony was beautiful and they literally rolled out the white carpet.
The reception was equally lovely. Everything about the venue is beautiful and classy, so we didn't need to add too much additional decoration, just some extra flowers and pictures on the mantles. Lessings doesn't do what I think of as a traditional catering tasting, they have these group events that you can attend, so I was a bit nervous about the food since I didn't get to taste it all. That being said, the food was really good and more than abundant (as was the alcohol!). Also, we had several guests with dietary restrictions, and since all the food is made to order they are able to accommodate all requests.
Overall the Lessings team at Coindre Hall did an amazing job and I would absolutely recommend this venue!
Mariel M
5.0
1/01/2020
Coindre hall was an amazing place to get married. John and his staff work so hard to make sure everyone feels taken care of and happy. The venue is beautiful and unique which we loved! Our wedding was near Christmas and the hall was decorated beautifully. The food was great and everyone was so impressed by the uniqueness of the venue. We loved how the dancing and dining were separate but also connected so the guests who didn’t want to dance could actually hold conversations but still be a part of the party. John really goes above and beyond and we cannot say enough wonderful things about him.
Hanna S
5.0
11/26/2019
John Schlenke and his staff members are the absolute best. They truly made our wedding amazing and it was absolutely flawless. At the end of the night, our guests were asking how we found the venue and were raving about everything from the venue to the food to the courteous staff members! We chose this location because it was so unique and we were sold once John took us on a tour of the place. We had the entire place to ourselves and it was really spacious. We loved the history behind it and we were going for a unique/vintage/elegant feel so this place was
perfect for us. We opted for the wedding package and were so incredibly pleased with all the vendors. We worked with Amanda from Village Florists, AJ from Absolute Entertainment, Pat from Mark of Elegance, John from Park Ave Studio and Rolling Pin Bakery. The flowers were created exactly as we envisioned, the music playlist had everyone dancing on the dance floor all night long, the limo driver was very punctual and friendly, the photographer was incredibly professional and knew of all the right places to take pictures, and the cake was beautifully made and tasted delicious. I can’t thank everyone enough! This is the first time I have ever given an online review. Our wedding was two days ago and I just felt the need to write a review to share my experience with all the newly engaged couples out there looking for a venue in Long Island. I will just say that John helped us so much and took so much weight off of our shoulders. He truly made this wedding happen and this experience would have been totally different without him by our side. I would highly highly highly recommend this venue to anyone! Thank you to John and his team!
Corinne O
5.0
11/25/2019
I just had my wedding here on 11/10/19. I wish everyone could get married here and have the experience I did.
First off, the place is insanely gorgeous on its own. But the staff doesn't let the place speak for itself, the care and love they put into making Coindre Hall shine is amazing. Getting married in the fall we weren't sure if we could have an outdoor ceremony, last minute we did and the employees were out there leaf blowing away to make it perfect. If the seperate dancing and dining makes you nervous (I cerainly was) don't worry! I got so many compliments on how nice it was to have a quite place to relax and the dance floor was still PACKED all night.
Second, the food was amazing. I have very picky family and they are still telling me how good the food was.
Saving the best for last, John our maitre d'. After reading all the glowing reviews of John I thought i knew what to expect but he blew us away. He went above and beyond what we could have imagined. He was everywhere. My FIL was ill and needed to sit often, he was joking that John must have pulled chairs out of his pocket because he always had a place for him to sit. I can't express how happy we are that he was part of our day. He took all the stress and guess work out of it, the day went smoother than I could have imagined. My now husband is very hard to impress, and he is still raving over how great John is. You are in amazing hands.
Lisa Marie V
5.0
11/25/2019
Coindre Hall was recommended to us by a close friend who had attended a wedding there- she said it’s worth checking out. We made an appointment to see it and instantly knew this was the place for us. Since we chose 11/23 to get married it was considered off season and we were able to sign up for a package that included the DJ, florist, photographer, limo and wedding cake. The stress of finding vendors was gone!
The hall itself is exquisite. It’s natural decor is enough for all of your photos. And the staff is incredible. Every single person who works there made sure we had the most perfect day. John Schlenke was the main person we worked with there and he was so kind, helpful and accommodating. We added last minute changes to our contract and he made them all with no questions asked. From the moment we walked through the door on wedding day he was by our side guiding us to the next step. George was his assistant and he was also so kind and helpful. I don’t know what we would have done without this team. They were everything we needed and made sure everything was perfect.
I will be recommending Coindre Hall to anyone I can! I’m still getting calls 2 days later telling me what an amazing wedding it was- the food and atmosphere were great. We couldn’t have asked for more!
Robert B
5.0
11/23/2019
Father of the Bride here:
The Chateau at Coindre Hall was the venue for the wedding of our third daughter. Her sisters were married in top tier reception halls here on Long Island, so we are a fairly informed family. Everything about this wedding was superb. Months - I mean two and three months after the event - friends still tell me it was the best wedding they ever attended. Food was excellent. The steaks rivaled steakhouse meals. The setting provided us with warmth and intimacy, while also allowing for us to have a high-energy celebration. Our host, John, was attentive to our needs right from our first visit. I highly recommend this venue. No more children to marry off, but I wonder if John would like to handle our fiftieth wedding anniversary celebration...
Salvatore F
5.0
11/07/2019
At our first meeting at Coindre Hall, my fiancé and I were pleasantly surprised to learn that John, the person in charge of showing us around the venue and explaining to us the details of the wedding packages, would also serve to be our maître d’ at the actual reception. Looking back, that was the first of many indications of the high level of attention and service we would receive at Coindre Hall. Not only is Coindre Hall an enchanting venue, which takes you back in time to a beautiful era on the Gold Coast of Long Island, it is an exclusive one, which means, one wedding party per day. It is a wonderful feeling to walk into a venue at the start of your wedding reception and feel like you own the place—and that was my experience at Coindre Hall. You would be hard pressed to find, on Long Island or really anywhere, another exclusive venue in the same price range. Throughout the process leading up to our wedding, John showed us the utmost attention in answering questions and resolving every aspect of the wedding reception plans. In John, we found the consummate professional and someone who truly cared about making our special day the best it could be. John was even able to do some additional landscaping around the venue, at my request. Do I need to say more?! Oh yes, the food—excellent variety and delicious! Simply put, if you are looking for superlative service and attention to detail; housed within a beautiful and intimate venue; look no further than Coindre Hall! You will not be disappointed!
Daniel P
5.0
10/31/2019
Lessing's Hospitality Group catered our son's wedding on September 1, 2019 and it was fantastic! John Schlenke , Banquet Manager, was instrumental in pulling it all together. He was a very professional, informative and efficient manager who listened, offered advice and personally cared about the wants and happiness of the couple and parents. He met with us, the parents, and the bride and groom to give us the overview of the facility at our convenience. He spoke in detail to the bride and groom and asked them what they wanted on their big day. The entire affair was planned according to their wishes and turned out to be a unique and beautiful wedding! We highly recommend this facility and if possible to request John.
Barbara C
5.0
10/28/2019
My daughter's wedding was held at Coindre Hall 9/28/19, and I only have wonderful things to say about it! The wedding coordinator, John Schlenke , was a dream come true! He was communicative, responsive, patient and accommodating. His thoughtful, quiet presence was exactly what a a bridal party and mother of the bride needs!! He had our backs throughout the entire day. When things were about to happen, such as the cutting of the cake, Jon was there to give me a heads up so I didn't miss a beat.
The ceremony was held outside, in front of the castle. Guests were seated on the lawn and bride and groom and bridal party were in front of an enormous, graceful tree. The majestic castle is just lovely, with ample space to allow the party to flow from room to room. The band was in an attached yet separate room so conversations were easily heard in the dining room-genius idea! Lessings provided excellent, organized service with delicious food selections. It takes a lot for this fussy MOB to find something good enough for my daughter and this was truly magical.
Revi N
5.0
10/27/2019
From the moment we stepped into Coindre hall, we knew this would be our venue. It is beautiful and grand, while also being intimate. We had a small wedding size (80 people) and it still felt cozy - i'm sure it will feel the same with a party of 150 people. The best part of Coindre Hall is John Schlenke and his team. John worked tirelessly to ensure our day went smoothly. You can tell he truly loves his job and cares for each couple that is getting married at Coindre Hall. Our day would not have been the same without him. Thank you John!!
Crystal F
5.0
10/17/2019
John Schlenke gave us our perfect, fairy tale wedding. I could not have asked for a more perfect experience. From 10pm phone calls when we were panicking about little details, to going over every step, being handheld, to ensure that our big day was literally perfect.
The venue itself is the most unique place I've seen for a wedding- the moment we walked through this place, we immediately knew we had to be married here.
John and George were attentive, made sure that our every whim was taken care of with white glove service. He ensured we had time to eat, time to take in the little moments in the hectic whirlwind of the day.
The food was amazing. We got to try the duck, the steak, and the shrimp and I don't know which one was my favorite because they were all fantastic.
Lauren C
5.0
10/16/2019
If you're looking to host an intimate midsized wedding, then Coindre Hall is your venue!! The mansion is classic elegance personified and the staff is absolutely amazing! The maitre de was incredibly helpful during the planning process and he made sure everything was just perfect on the big day. The food was delicious and we had guests complimenting us on the menu all night! We booked with Coindre Hall's off-season vendor package and we were thrilled with the DJ, florist, bakery and transportation that was included!! I would highly recommend going this route if it's available. My husband and I are still glowing and we owe so much of that happiness to the staff at Coindre Hall for giving us the most amazing wedding!!
Miranda B
5.0
10/15/2019
Coindre Hall is a Lessing’s Venue catered by Mirabelle, and the outstanding reputation was proven true for our wedding! This was the only venue that my husband and I physically toured and we immediately booked right on the spot! Prior to touring, we reached out to several venues throughout NYC and LI and we either didn’t get a response or the details we received didn’t match our criteria. Within minutes after reaching out to Coindre Hall, we received a response! The second we walked in, we fell in love with the venue.
We loved the fact that it feels like home, and the history behind it! Coindre Hall only allows one event per day which is a huge plus. Our guests also loved being able to explore the entire venue throughout the entire reception and they really loved that the dancing is separate from the dining room!
Part of our criteria during our venue hunt, was being able to have our dog with us during the wedding and Coindre Hall allowed that!
My husband and I were able to book the very last day of their off season all inclusive wedding package. The package includes: a discounted rate per head for the first 100 guests, photography, florist, cake, limo and DJ. We also had the ability to opt out of any of the vendors (we chose not to opt out of any) and we were also able to upgrade any of the vendor packages (we upgraded a few). There are several perks of going with the vendors in the package: all of the vendors know each other, so they all worked well together to make our day amazing, and we also didn’t have to pay extra for any vendor meals.
For couples booked at Coindre Hall, there is a showcase (I believe it happens twice a year). The showcase is a great opportunity to tour around the venue after booking, meet the preferred vendors and have the menu tasting!
We had our ceremony on site. All of our guests arrived prior to our ceremony start time, so we began earlier than expected which allowed us to have an extended cocktail hour!
John, the maitre d is absolutely amazing. He has been in the business for years and was such an absolute pleasure to work with. It’s clear that he loves what he does! He went above and beyond for not only my husband and I, but my entire family. He constantly made sure that we were having a good time and eating!
Our guests can’t stop raving about how beautiful and unique our venue was. For anyone hesitant about the separate dancing/ dining room, it worked out extremely well. We had cocktail tables set up in the room with dancing for anyone who wants to watch, but it was also a big plus for our guests to have the ability to let loose and have fun without feeling like they were on display. Our older guests also enjoyed being able to have conversations in the dining room without having to talk loudly over the music.
Christine D
5.0
10/13/2019
If you are looking for a unique wedding, classy without all the bling, not a cookie cutter wedding, the Chateau is the perfect place. Our guests said it was the nicest weddings they have ever been too.
Our guests could have conversations in the dining room while the DJ, was entertaining the guests in the dancing area.
Our host John and George where very attentive, and made our Daughters special day perfect.
Can’t say enough kind words for the Chateau or John and George.
Reese K
5.0
10/13/2019
We had an amazing experience working with Coindre hall. From the moment my bride and I stepped on site, we had the sterotypical "this is our place" moment. From then, John and Rae Marie were helpful and prompt answering questions, addressing requests, and an overall pleasure to work through all those little wedding details.
The day of our wedding, John and his staff performed above and beyond any of our expectations. They had the venue looking absolutely stunning. John was quick and polite in answering/attending to day of requests and details. He even helped me tie my bowtie!
Once the event began, John was incredible. Guests were pleased and taken care of through cocktail hour. Dinner was presented and served with ultimate professionalism. Through the end of the night, Coindre Hall staff continued to deliver on all expectations.
Absolutely amazing venue, staff, and experience for our big day!
Betty H
5.0
10/11/2019
We chose Coindre Hall for it's beauty, vintage character, and affordable cost for a fully-catered and exclusive venue (only one event at a time!). During the daytime, it is beautiful and a touch quirky and rustic. We instantly loved the whole space, especially Cloisters and Courtyard, and we decided to have our smaller wedding reception in the Crystal Ballroom, which borders both. On our wedding day/night, the whole place looked truly magical. With tables set and candles glowing, and interior was gorgeous, and with sun setting outside, the exterior and courtyard twinkled with little lights. Our guests raved over how lovely and classy our wedding was. John Schlenke (maitre d) is super helpful, upbeat / always smiling, and flexible with plans. He went above and beyond to have stumps removed from the lawn outside, at my husband's request (wow, thanks again, John!). On the night of the wedding, he kept everything running smoothly and was very patient with us even though we were running late due to photos. The food is delicious: we recommend the quiche (homemade crust, delicious!) and the salmon and chicken (both moist and tender)! We had a blast at Coindre Hall and have wonderful wedding memories. <3
Chelsea C
5.0
10/11/2019
If you’re like me you have hit ‘the age’ when everyone around you is getting married. Summer-fall weekends are booked with engagement parties, bridal showers, and of course, weddings. Long Island is filled with Italian halls with views of the great South Bay. They are beautiful venues- don’t get me wrong! But when it came to my wedding I didn’t want it to blend in with all the others. My (very patient) fiancé and I had seen 11 venues before our appointment at Coindre Hall and they all seemed like all of the other local weddings I had been to (again, all beautiful- but the repetition was uninspiring). I was becoming gradually disappointed by the idea that if you want something different you have to pay a vastly higher price to get married out east at a vineyard, or in the city for something industrial, or just leave the island all together. Immediately upon entering Coindre Hall I knew I had found my venue. The grounds, the views, the freaking castle! Everything fell into place. We had our ceremony on the front lawn under the big central tree. Our florist draped white curtains and strands of flowers with twinkle lights intwined from the branches. It was perfect. Our guests raved about the romantic and historical feel inside the venue with views overlooking the harbor from the top of the hill. The food was outstanding and all of the staff treated us like you would hope to be treated on the best day of your life. We were pleasantly unsurprised by this since amazing customer service had been our experience since the beginning. John Schlenke, our maitre d’/wedding coordinator was by our side from the first meeting until the final moments of the reception. He couldn’t have been a better communicator/organizer/orchestrator/and fielder of every ball thrown by us or our (very loving but also very critical) mothers. I can’t say enough about his professionalism and genuine drive to deliver an incredible experience through and through. Our wedding day was truly the best day of our lives and Coindre Hall was the heart of it all. We could not be happier, couldn’t recommend it more, and will certainly be back to visit and relive the memory of the day we became husband and wife.
A couple of more things I want to touch on— 1. We weren’t thrilled with the food at the bridal showcase; but John ensured us that the day-of food would be perfect and he was 100% right. Our menu choices were the prime rib, duck, and salmon. They gave us one of each plate so we could try everything and all 3 dishes were fantastic. If you’re a food critic I can say with confidence you will be impressed!
2. One aspect of Coindre Hall that bothered my mother-in-law and came up as questionable in some of the reviews I had read was the dancing room being in a separate space than the dining room. Let me tell you that there wasn’t a period of time that our dance floor wasn’t packed. If you have a dancing crowd you will have no trouble getting people out of their seats. It’s one thing hearing it from venue staff but another from someone who experienced it— it won’t be a problem. Rest assured!!
So if you couldn’t already tell I’m a very happy bride who is in love with her wedding venue— all the best luck in becoming the same!! Xo
Jacqueline P
5.0
10/10/2019
My husband and I got married at Coindre Hall this past July and I cannot say enough how it was the best day of our lives. A large part of that was due to the amazing experience John, his team and Coindre Hall provided. We decided to only do photos at the venue because it is that stunning, and the pictures and scenery provided a perfect backdrop to our love. There were lots of different spaces to take beautiful pictures, including the front of the chateau, as well as the stair case and courtyard which we used for our first look. John is the most professional and knowledgable Maitre D. He answered every question I had by email or otherwise and knew exactly how this uniquely set up venue would work for our guests. Our ceremony was on the main lawn under a beautiful tree on the property. It was our dream to get married under a tree, so I am very glad we were able to use that space. The venue has many spaces for cocktail hour, dinner and for dancing. We loved that you didn't get stuck into one big room, you were able to see the historic architecture while you enjoyed hot passed hors d'oeuvre. Our guests were easily moved from one space to another and were able to participate in all of the activities of the evening. The Chateau only has one event at a time and that made me feel better while planning for pictures and deliveries of flowers. We got married on the hottest day in New York this year and all of my guests felt very comfortable during our outdoor ceremony. John made sure guests had a drink as they were waiting for the ceremony to start. They felt comfortable and could not stop raving about the food and ambiance the venue brought. There was SO MUCH FOOD! All of it delicious. Our guests have not stopped talking about how wonderful and bountiful the food was. The menu options are elevated and elegant, making for a very classy event. We opted for a seafood bar heavy on oysters and John and his staff delivered. They were hand shucked to order! I loved that we got one of each entree, which my favorite was the duck. The bar was always well stocked and we even were able to have a signature cocktail, made specially for us. We also got an ice cream bar and my guests (all adults) were loving it. The line wrapped around the ballroom with people waiting for ice cream and various toppings included. Also there was cake and a Neapolitan stack of cookies and desserts. All of the events of the night ran smoothly and everyone was able to have the night of their lives! Anything I asked John for he delivered. If you want a show stopping wedding where all of your guests will be wowed by food and service, plus a gorgeous iconic place to get married than this Chateau is your place!
Alexandra C
5.0
11/24/2018
We had our wedding here 11/10/18 and could not have asked for a more perfect night. We had around 165 guests and everyone fit comfortably. Our maitre d' John Schlenke was the most accommodating, easiest person to work with. We dropped off all of our decor a few days before and left it in his hands to set it up as he saw fit- and our venue looked gorgeous! He reassured us throughout the whole process and when our wedding day came along, it truly was stress free. Along with our captain George, he made sure we had drinks in our hands and actually sat down to eat some of our food!
Our guests cannot stop raving about the expansive cocktail hour- there was SO much delicious food. We added a raw bar which was a huge hit. We chose two signature drinks and the bartenders made them exactly as we requested.
The venue itself is gorgeous... it was too cold to take pictures outside (which was disappointing because the grounds are gorgeous) but luckily there were more than enough areas indoors to take pictures. Guests loved the unique layout. Our wedding was truly a dream and I wish we could do it all over again.
Nicole F
5.0
11/02/2018
John and his team were amazing!!
Adam and I had an amazing and unforgettable wedding. Everything was beautiful, the guests were happy and we were beyond pleased. The food was delicious, and the space and grounds are beautiful. Also, a huge thank you for the improvs and unexpected pieces...we appreciated the patience and understanding.
We feel so fortunate to have been able to celebrate our day in such a beautiful space. Everything was so wonderful, and we couldn’t ask for more ❤️
Meghan H
5.0
10/27/2018
The staff qq as very helpful and kind. John was always available to discuss any questions or concerns. Everything went very smoothly the day of. We are very happy with our choice!
Christina F
5.0
10/14/2018
We had our wedding here on 10/12/2018 and it was SPECTACULAR! The food was delicious and EVERYONE was raving about! The venue itself is gorgeous without having to decorate it ! The entire day was perfect! John truly made all the difference. He was so easy to work with and was there all day if we needed anything! And everything was packed up and ready for us to go at the end of evening! Truly could not be any happier with the day.
Meghan C