From the start, my husband and I knew that our friends and family would not be packing the dance floor at our wedding. My husband spent hours creating a play list of all the songs we would enjoy listening to, and that meant something to us. We ...heard 3 of those songs. The whole night. We did not want any tacky line dance songs and did not request them, yet we heard the YMCA, Cupid Shuffle, and the Cha Cha Slide along with others that we did not ask for. I will admit, our DJ did play the specific songs that we asked for for our first dance, father-daughter dance, cake cutting, etc. However, he did not consult us on what color we would like for the up-lighting he placed around the reception area... he chose my least favorite color ever - purple... when we clearly stated that our colors were navy blue and green. He also said that we would get a monogram lit onto the dance floor, but we never got that because apparently the dance floor was too small. (it wasn't, unless the monogram was supposed to be weirdly huge). Anyway, I understand that maybe he was just trying to get people dancing by playing those songs, and other certain miscommunications may have happened, but that's why you should always double-check with the bride or coordinator first. They probably have good reasons for their requests!!