Unique, personalized non-denominational ceremonies
$200 starting price
Northeast Ohio - within 40 miles of Brecksville
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Rev. Shirley MacFarland
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AWARD WINNER (3X)
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Based out of Brecksville, OH, Divine Love Ceremonies is a wedding officiation business that serves Northeast Ohio. Rev. Shirley MacFarland has extensive experience joining couples together in matrimony, having ministered for more than two decades. You may call on this empathic minister to wed you in the manner which best fits your personal love story.
Rev. Shirley was ordained at Fellowships of the Spirit in Lily Dale, NY, in 1998. This non-denominational Spiritualist minister happily serves clients within a 45-minute drive of Brecksville, tailoring a ceremony to meet your values and beliefs. In addition to marrying couples through Divine Love Ceremonies, Rev. Shirley is also a Reiki Master and has studied Qigong and Therapeutic Touch.
Wedding officiant service with Divine Love Ceremonies comes in a range of packages. Rev. Shirley is happy to accommodate your specific spiritual beliefs, taking you through the entire ceremony plan and your options. At all times, this officiant will strive to make your special day a personal and fulfilling experience.
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Rev. Shirley MacFarland
Owner
I was ordained a spiritualist minister in 1998. Since then my ministry has happily consisted of officiating at now over 400 weddings, performing vow renewals, baby blessings and celebration of life ceremonies. I have also been a guest speaker at several Unity churches. Before Covid, I headed up a team of healers for the last 20 years that offered Reiki healings at the Hitchcock Center for Women.
My background is in advertising. I currently write two community columns for cleveland.com and the Sun News and offer marketing consulting exclusively for non-profit organizations.
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out of 5.028 reviews
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Reverend Shirley received glowing reviews from couples who were thrilled with her personalized, heartfelt, and beautiful ceremonies. Her professionalism, kindness, attention to detail, and ability to create a special and emotional atmosphere were highly praised. These couples appreciated her warm and genuine approach, as well as the smooth and seamless execution of ceremonies, making their wedding days unforgettable. Many highlighted her ability to customize ceremonies to reflect their love, values, and families, making Reverend Shirley a highly recommended choice for wedding officiation.Review photos
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Shane and Aly M
5.0
10/27/2024
We had the absolute pleasure of being married by Reverend Shirley this past summer, and we couldnât be more grateful for the experience. From the moment we first met, her exuded warmth, professionalism, and genuine care for making our ceremony special. Reverend Shirley worked with us to create a personalized ceremony that truly reflected our relationship, values, and vision for our wedding day.
On the big day, she delivered the ceremony with grace, heart, and just the right touch of humor, making everyone feel connected and present in the moment. Our friends and family still talk about how beautiful the ceremony was! If youâre looking for someone who will make your wedding day feel uniquely yours, Reverend Shirley is the perfect choice. Thank you for making our day unforgettable!
Alysia & Shane McKenzie
response 10/27/2024
You are so sweet! And what an exceptional your wedding was at one of my favorite venues. I...
'm so happy that your wedding was all you wanted it to be. Yours is one I will always remember. Love and hugs!
Skylar N
5.0
10/08/2024
Rev Shirley was amazing to work with!!! She truly brings something special to all her ceremonies she conducts! Our mom's could not stop crying due to how intimate and special the words she shared during our ceremony (honestly there were only a few dry eyes in the crowd). She is personable, kind, compassionate, and has a beautiful way of words with describing how two people love each other!! Would recommend her, as well as could not imagine someone better, to marry two, individuals who love each other! Thank you again Rev Shirley!
response 10/09/2024
Thank you for your very kind words, Skylar. You and Ted make such a sweet couple. It was c...
ertainly my pleasure to marry two people so much in love, Wishing you so much love and happiness.
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Marianne M
5.0
6/28/2024
Reverend Shirley McFarland performed a beautiful ceremony for our wedding.
So many of our guests commented on how beautiful our ceremony was. It was one of the most touching ceremonyâs that they have attended.
She was punctual, professional attentive and most of all our ceremony/vows were loving and heartfelt. đit was our second marriage and both of our spouses are deceased which made our ceremony even more emotional. Reverend McFarland even helped with that and made something so emotional even more beautiful.
We highly recommend her to use at a wedding ceremony.
Reverend Shirley McFarland was absolutely wonderfulđ
Tanya R
5.0
6/06/2024
I highly recommend Reverend Shirley. Iâm very happy we chose to have her officiate our wedding. From day one with the initial interview, to any questions or issues we needed answered, she was helpful respectful and professional. Such a positive and beautiful spirit. She paid attention to the details that made the difference we needed.
The day of the ceremony she helped guided us. Her readings blessed our union. I will always remember when she first introduced us as Mr. and Mrs.
Could not have asked for a better officiant. Thank you Reverend Shirley
response 06/06/2024
You are so kind, Tanya. It was certainly my pleasure to officiate at your wedding and I am...
so happy that I got to meet you and Geoffrey. You two are one of the many reasons I love marrying people. It allows me to meet such loving people and to be a small part of such a wonderful time in your lives. Your wedding is one I will always remember.
Cochelle C
5.0
5/23/2024
Rev. Shirley was so great to work with! When we met her, we knew she was perfect for our wedding. She was down-to-earth, yet very professional. Our rehearsal with her was fun and our wedding ceremony was beautifully officiated. So glad we chose her! Divine Intervention!
response 05/23/2024
Cochelle, you are so sweet! Thank you so much for your kind words. It was certainly my ho...
nor to officiate at your wedding - and at the beautiful Fairchild Chapel. You and Tyrone are so meant for each other. I wish you all the happiness in the world.
Paula P
5.0
4/12/2024
Reverend Shirley was amazing! She asked us to meet with her first, and we went over the ceremony which was beautifully worded. She was very accommodating for any changes we needed/wanted as well. The entire ceremony went off without a hitch đ. She was easy to talk to and communicate with, and reached out to finalize details etc. Would highly recommend!
response 04/13/2024
Thank you so much for your kind words! I am so happy that you were pleased with the ceremo...
ny. I loved being part of your special day. You make such a sweet couple. Wishing you many blessings in your new life together.
Julia C
5.0
3/09/2024
Reverend Shirley MacFarland was absolutely lovely! The ceremony was simple, yet beautiful. She was genuine in her kindness and truly made it a special day!
response 03/09/2024
Thank you so much, Julia. I love your love story. You and Manuel were made for each other....
Sending you many blessings.
Emma H
5.0
2/14/2024
Shirley was an amazing officiant for our wedding this past November. We live out of state from where our wedding was located and Shirley was super accommodating and made communication very easy. Her script is absolutely beautiful and she took the time to help us choose special readings for the ceremony. She was always available for questions when needed. I highly recommend having her come for the wedding rehearsal, it makes things run so much smoother. Shirley is the best!!
response 02/14/2024
You are so sweet! Thank you so much for your kind words. I loved performing your wedding ...
because the love you have for each other is so evident. It was such a beautiful venue as well. Wishing you much love and happiness in your new life together! â¤ď¸
Elizabeth C
5.0
1/17/2024
All I can say is WOW. Reverend Shirley gave my husband and I everything we could have wanted and more in a wedding ceremony. We met with her in person several months before the ceremony and realized what an incredibly warm and genuine person she is. We are spiritual but not religious people and Rev. Shirley was able to walk that line perfectly so that we were happy with the amount of spiritual references while also pleasing my Catholic family. The ceremony was the perfect length (18 min) and had so many sweet and personal touches. EVERYBODY came up to us after the ceremony raving about Reverend Shirley. They could not believe that we hadn't known her for years!! I cannot imagine being married by anyone else. She contributed such a large part in making it the wedding of our dreams. If you are looking for an officiant that you can put 100% trust in to deliver a thoughtful and special ceremony, please consider Reverend Shirley!
response 01/17/2024
Oh, my, thank you so much for your very thoughtful and loving words. Your wedding is one t...
hat I will never forget - not only because the two of you are so very special but also because of your incredible family and friends. There was so much joy in that room! How blessed you are to have such loving support. Wishing you so much love, health and happiness in your new life together. I truly hope our paths cross again. Sending love and blessings.
Kara M
5.0
11/16/2023
We couldn't have asked for a better ceremony to officiate our marriage! Rev. Shirley MacFarland was wonderful and so accommodating. We wanted something simple to share with my mom, our children, and three of our friends at my mother's house. We didn't want to write our own vows. Shirley handled it all for us and came to my mom's house. Thank you Shirley! We are extremely grateful for you and thankful we found you! We will forever remember you.
response 11/16/2023
It was certainly my pleasure to officiate at your wedding. How fortunate you are to have s...
uch a loving family. And you and Vince make such a beautiful couple. Wishing you much love and happiness.
Jessica J
4.0
10/07/2023
Rev. Shirley did a great job for our wedding. I booked her on The Knot and shortly after we met with her at her beautiful home to go over the ceremony details. Both of us really liked her right away and felt she captured us perfectly. She gave us the idea to do a sand unity which turned out beautiful and our guests really loved it. Those are the pros for us.
There were a few cons that I feel are worth mentioning. First, just to explain the background, my wedding was on a Saturday with both the ceremony and reception being at our venue which was a small barn. The venue required the rehearsals to be during the week on Thursdays. A couple months before my wedding, I received a phone call from the venue owner asking me if I would allow the bride that was getting married the day after me to do her rehearsal on the day of my wedding. They wanted to do it in the early afternoon. Apparently that bride did not want to do it on Thursday like we were supposed to, as it was inconvenient for her wedding party. Which, I completely understand, it was inconvenient for us too, we had to ask some people to take off work! The venue owner went on to say that she tried to tell the other bride that they don't allow that and she was embarrassed to even ask me to share the venue on my wedding day, but apparently the other bride's wedding officiant insisted on it. I thought that was very odd, so I asked who it was. Turns out their wedding officiant was the same as ours, Rev. Shirley. I don't know what other brides would have done in this situation, but for me I was not comfortable allowing another wedding party to do their rehearsal the day of my wedding, as it's just an unknown risk I was not willing to take. Plus, I had paid for use of the venue for the entire day and there's so much that could go wrong when allowing a large group of complete strangers to do their rehearsal the day of your wedding. The venue owner said she completely understood and agreed that was the right decision. She called the other bride to let her know and that was the last I heard of it.
Months later, when it came time for our rehearsal, when Rev. Shirley saw me she made it a point to bring up that I said no to allowing that other bride to do her rehearsal during our wedding. She didn't say it in a snippy way, but I felt it was unnecessary to mention and I still feel it was very rude to even ask a bride to share her wedding space the day of their wedding. I would never have asked that of another bride. It is just disrespectful in my opinion. I think Rev. Shirley was not thinking about that.
Now that my wedding is over with, I am so glad I did not allow it because we were outside setting up for the ceremony the moment we got access to the venue in the morning and we even had issues with our arch falling down, and our photographer also had us out there taking pictures before the ceremony and we were all running around trying to make the place beautiful. I can't imagine trying to do all that while sharing the space with another wedding party who I didn't know.
The last con for me was that we asked Rev. Shirley to not use God in our ceremony and say Higher Power instead. It wasn't our idea, it says it right on her flyer that she can do that if you prefer higher power to be used. It is specifically why we chose her, it said that she will accommodate whatever your beliefs are. During our ceremony, she said higher power consistently but then toward the end she slipped up and said God. Which, really sounded funny because she made it a point to not say God the entire time and then randomly said it at the end which threw everyone off! Maybe some people didn't notice. But my bridesmaid walked up immediately after and mentioned it. My husband and I walked away from the ceremony site and looked at each other pretty unhappy about that part. She has done over 400 weddings but somehow managed to not read the correct words? But, overall, I'm trying look at everything overall as a positive experience. I'm trying to not get hung up on the little mishaps. Other than a few disappointing things, I think overall I really liked Rev. Shirley and I don't regret booking her. I just wish a few things went a bit differently.
response 10/08/2023
It was certainly my pleasure to officiate at your wedding. I enjoyed getting to know both ...
of you and was honored to perform your wedding. You will see on my Facebook page under Divine Love Ceremonies, I wrote, âWedding #2 for this weekend was another beautiful day. Michael and Jessicaâs wedding was held at The Barn at Wolf Creek. Such an incredible venue in Copley. I meet lots of wonderful people but some stand out more than others. This is one couple that I will always remember. They are so in love and are very genuinely nice and caring, as were their families. I truly hope our paths meet again.â
After the ceremony you told me how happy you were with everything. You even gave me a gratuity with a lovely note that I was very grateful for. So, I was really shocked to read in this review that you had concerns that I knew nothing about. Please let me clear up some misunderstandings.
First of all, I did not insist to the venue owner or the other couple that you should share space for their rehearsal on your wedding day - I would never do that. Actually, it makes no difference to me when the rehearsal is. I am very flexible and do whatever works best for the wedding couple leaving the scheduling up to them and their venue. The other couple told me that they had tried to get the rehearsal on Saturday and that you said no which they and I totally understood. When you recalled the conversation that we had when I mentioned it, you seem to have forgotten that I said that I didnât blame you for saying no - I totally agreed with you. So now I hope you understand that I had nothing to do with that rehearsal situation.
As for the slip up on inserting God when I pronounced you husband and wife - that I did do. But, I hope that you can understand that the vast majority of weddings that I perform do use the term God. In my usual script, I say God 37 times. So, very occasionally, God pops out of my mouth because I am so use to saying it. And I am not always reading the script, particularly that sentence, since I can practically recite the whole wedding by heart. It was purely human nature that God slipped out there by mistake and was certainly not intentional. I truly apologize that it caused you any distress.
I sincerely hope this helps you to understand what really happened. Please do not let this misunderstanding define the beautiful ceremony we were all a part of. I wish you much love and many blessings in your new life together.
Lauren W
5.0
7/27/2023
Rev. Shirley created an amazing personalized ceremony for our wedding in Sept '23. She listened to what we liked and how we wanted to include our family. She even went along with our crazy drink mixing unity request. We got several compliments about how lovely our ceremony and wasn't too long. Overall very professional and friendly.
response 07/28/2023
Thank you so much for your kind words. The wedding though was in Sept. '22 - how fast time...
flies! Hope you and Victor are well and incredibly happy! Wishing you much love and happiness.
Cheyenne D
5.0
5/31/2023
Shirley was an amazing officiant! My husband and I wouldn't have had anyone else marry us. She I kind, caring and a sweet woman. She is very thoughtful in explaining the process and very helpful!
Elyse O
5.0
5/31/2023
Shirley was great to work with, she was very comforting, informative, and professional. I highly recommend her for your big day, she will make it extra special and there won't be a dry eye in the group!!
response 05/31/2023
Thank you so much for the kind words. It was certainly my pleasure to marry you two. And l...
oved that we had Star Trek in common! Live long and prosper!
Jennie P
5.0
5/10/2023
Reverend Shirley was absolutely amazing. We had an instant connection and she planned the most beautiful ceremony. Her kindness is so evident and the most sincere. Finding LGBT ally wedding vendors is difficult and she made our biggest decision so easy!
response 05/10/2023
Thank you for the very kind words. You two are so sweet - and so meant for each other.
And...
I LOVE my "Reverend with PRIDE " t-shirt so much! I will wear it pride and always think of you when I do. Sending love and blessings.
anonymous u
5.0
4/04/2023
Shirley made our wedding day very special. She was very organized and made sure the ceremony ran smoothly with all of those involved. She made the ceremony for us as a couple and it was such a beautiful ceremony and day! Thank you so much!
response 04/04/2023
Thank you, Taylor and Phillip. What a lovely couple you make. Wishing you much love and ha...
ppiness in your new life together.
Ava B
5.0
3/22/2023
Shirley made our wedding ceremony incredible! She is very professional and tailors everything to you. She was punctual and met the entire wedding party before the ceremony, and made sure everyone felt included. She even took the time and energy to make sure she was pronouncing all of our familyâs Polish names correctly! So many of our guests have reached out to wish us well, and every single one has mentioned how incredible our ceremony was! We could not have asked for a better ceremony, thanks to Shirley.
Sarah L
5.0
10/07/2022
On our wedding day we entrusted Reverend Shirley to make it a flawless day that we will remember for the rest of our lives. Shirley did not disappoint in any meaning of the word. The both of us have never been to a wedding before ours and Shirley made sure every point and question was answered clearly and smoothly. We really can't say how much it ment to us that Shirley was there and helping every step of ceremony. Highly recommend to anyone who is planning their wedding day. 10/10
response 10/08/2022
Thank you so much for your kind word, Sarah. It was my honor to perform your wedding cere...
mony. Wishing you both much love and happiness.
Melissa M
5.0
9/16/2022
We booked Reverend Shirley after reading her website on what type of service she offered. After meeting with her, we fell in love with her program. Unfortunately, the day before the rehearsal, an emergency came up for Shirley and she was not able to officiate for us on our big day. She did not leave us hanging and was able to have another friend of hers step in last minute. We had the wonderful Karen Shepard for our rehearsal and wedding day. Shirley emailed her the program that we fell in Love with and we cannot be more grateful to both. Weâve gotten so many compliments on how beautiful the program was. Karen learned Shirleyâs program last minute for us and did a spectacular job! I absolutely recommend this company for your wedding day. You will not regret it!
response 09/19/2022
Thank you so much for the very kind review, Melissa. I am so happy that it all turned out ...
so perfectly. Wishing you much love and happiness!
Kimberly E
5.0
8/03/2022
Rev. Shirley was easy to work with and created a beautiful ceremony for us! I highly recommend her to anyone looking for someone to officiate their ceremony.
ashley n
5.0
7/18/2022
Wow! Shirley made this entire experience wonderful. Her ceremony is so beautiful, everyone commented on it. She is flexible and attentive. Allows you to fully customize your experience while giving great input. She made both my fiance and I feel very comfortable while preparing for our special day!
Sue D
5.0
7/13/2022
Calin and I wan to extend a huge thank you to Reverend Shirley MacFarland. Rev Shirley officiated our July 25, 2022 wedding and we could not have asked for a more beautiful, personal ceremony. Our wedding was filled with love, and emotion. The sand ceremony was a wonderful experience! Thank you for helping to make our day so special.
Kate T
5.0
7/13/2022
After 3 years of waiting, my husband and I are delighted to say we were married by Rev. Shirley and it was simply the best day of our lives. Rev. Shirley was accommodating, dedicated, kind and understanding of our unique circumstances facing a COVID delayed wedding. From start to finish, she supported us, held our hand and guided us through to our beautiful union. We couldn't be more grateful for her genuinely kind and loving nature, her way with words and her professionalism. Thank you, Rev. Shirley! From the bottom of our hearts, you made our day complete.
Amy L
5.0
10/21/2017
We had our wedding on 10/14/17 at La Centre. We had a truly amazing experience with Rev. Shirley. She worked with us to create the ceremony of our dreams. She had excellent communication and kept us involved in the planning process. We continue to receive compliments on the beautiful words she spoke at our ceremony. We highly recommend Rev. Shirley.
Emily S
5.0
9/04/2017
Shirley did an awesome job! We lived the ceremony and the guests had so many positive things to say as well
Bridget H
5.0
6/08/2016
Reverend Shirley did an absolutely amazing job officiating our wedding ceremony. She is so personable and really makes you feel special. The ceremony is very well written and was by far my favorite part of the day. Everyone keeps commenting how wonderful she was.
5.0
10/09/2012
We didn't spend that much time with Rev. Shirley before the wedding, but we didn't need to, because we immediately felt comfortable with her! She picked up on my husband's and my quirky personalities and brought that into our ceremony! Everyone had fun and several people told me that they didn't want to fall asleep during the ceremony! (You have to admit, the ceremony is always a little boring!)
Krystal 2 L
4.0
6/07/2011
Rev. Shirley did an amazing job with the vows and prayers for our ceremony. She is an interfaith minister who will gladly work with her clients create the right atmosphere. Definitely would recommend her services.
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