Ruined my wedding.
I spent so much time on details for my wedding. The amount of time I took to make sure to have the right music to create the atmosphere I wanted for our wedding was endless. I made sure to make two separate playlist - as we ...had a mixed culture wedding. All in all, I was very specific with exactly what I needed, songs to be played, songs NOT to be played, and etc.
I communicated with the DJ provided (after being changed 3 times- without reason) in very very close detail- over text, phone, and email. During our close to 1 hour phone conversation- I specified the EXACT vibe we were going for, which then was reiterated via text, phone, email.
I told him specifically I wanted 90s R&B to be played during dinner..absolutely no typical filler music like FranK Sinatra- and the FIRST song he played was Frank Sinatra. I told him that I did not want line dances with the very strict exception of two (cupid shuffle and wobble) and he played the MACERANA after the CHA CHA SLIDE. We asked for a tribute song to be played for my grooms late father, and he completely ended the night on a random slow slong. He did not announce or MC to get my guests attention when need be.
I made a list of around 120 songs, and he played 10-15 songs MAX from my list.
To put so much work, stress, time and attention in my wedding and playlist to have it butchered by the DJ has been nothing less than heartbreaking.
I have also tried to reach out through phone and email to discuss this privately but have had no response.