Because your love is worth celebrating.
Oregon, Washington
Service area
Anna Socolofsky
OWNER
Typically responds within 24h
AWARD WINNER (1X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Welcome to Ecstatic Ceremonies, a wedding officiating service based in Portland, OR. I'm Anna, and I work with couples like you to design the personalized, reverent, and totally authentic wedding ceremonies of your dreams. I bring to light and put words to the unique story of your love and create from it a jubilant wedding ceremony that engages your community and ushers you into the next phase of your partnership, feeling seen, honored, and wholly celebrated.
Ecstatic Ceremonies is driven by a belief that everyone deserves to transition into married life where they feel confident, supported, and even more in love. I don't use templates. I don't use formulas. My job is to learn everything I can about your story, identify all the beautiful bits that deserve celebration (which there are a lot of, I already know it!), and weave them into a ceremony that honors the sh*t out of you! Because if love's not worth celebrating, I don't know what is.
You can view all of my packages and pricing on my website, www.ecstaticceremonies.com. If you find a package that feels like a good fit, and are interested in working together, please don't hesitate to reach out. I can't wait to meet you!
LGBTQ+-owned and Woman-owned Business
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Ceremony Types
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
Interfaith
Secular
Spiritual
Wedding Activities
Wedding
Ceremony
Awards and Affiliations
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Meet the team
Anna Socolofsky
Owner
Hi there, I'm Anna, and I'm the head and the heart behind Ecstatic Ceremonies!
Ecstatic Ceremonies was born in 2020 after my wife and I got married, and I knew ours was not the last love story I wanted to tell!
I have a Bachelor's degree in Religious Studies, and a Master's degree in Education. I am inspired by the ways folks of all backgrounds make meaning of the world around them, and love finding the perfect texts and rituals to make my couples' ceremonies uniquely theirs. I write all my ceremonies from scratch, because your love is unique and deserves celebration in all its glory!
Reviews
5.0
out of 5.028 reviews
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Multiple reviewers highly recommend Anna as a wedding officiant, praising her warm, personal, and heartfelt approach to crafting ceremonies that feel authentic and deeply meaningful. Reviewers appreciate Anna's attention to detail, willingness to brainstorm and revise, and ability to capture couples' love stories beautifully. They value her professionalism, inclusivity, and the unique, personalized ceremonies she creates, making the wedding day feel magical and unforgettable. Overall, Anna's genuine care, effort, and dedication to honoring each couple's love story shine through in the reviews, making her highly recommended for those seeking a ceremony that is deeply personal and full of love.Review photos
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Ashley L
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5.0
8/29/2025
Growing up with years of "Catholic wedding trauma" the actual ceremony was the part of my wedding I was least excited about. HOWEVER Anna completely transformed things with her amazingly personal, heartfelt, humorous and all around perfect ceremony. Everyone who attended kept asking who "our good friend" that married us was! I am so grateful for this beautiful memory she has given us and I can not recommend her enough. I don't think our wedding would have been the same without her special touch. She was able to capture the spirit of our relationship and who we are as individual people, weaving together a beautiful story for our guests and inspiring us as a couple to savor what has been and what is to come.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 09/01/2025
Ashley, this is so incredibly meaningful to me! You and Steve are so full of joy and love,...
and you deserved a ceremony that was as cool, funny, and sweet as the two of you. I am so overjoyed that we got to share that moment together!!
Marlena N
5.0
9/30/2025
Absolutely Incredible Wedding Officiant – Highly Recommend!
We had the absolute pleasure of having Anna as our wedding officiant, and I truly can’t say enough wonderful things about her. From the very beginning, Anna took the time to genuinely listen to our story, understand what was most important to us, and thoughtfully craft a ceremony that felt deeply personal and authentic.
What sets Anna apart is not only her warm heart and glowing soul, but also the care and intention she puts into her work. Her unique packages allowed us to dive into our love story in such a meaningful way, and she used that insight to create a ceremony that reflected who we are as a couple—not just a cookie-cutter script, but something real, emotional, and unforgettable.
She made the entire process feel effortless and joyful, and by the time our big day arrived, we knew we were in the best hands. It honestly felt like a dear friend was up there with us, guiding us through one of the most important moments of our lives.
If you’re looking for someone who will honor your love story and bring true heart, soul, and professionalism to your ceremony, Anna is the one. I’m so grateful we found her and will forever consider her a friend.
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Amanda P
5.0
9/18/2025
I don't think we can recommend Anna enough. The amount of time, effort, thought, and love that she put into our ceremony was incredible, and through the process it felt like we gained a beloved new friend and community member. From the first pre- meeting to the signing of the license, Anna was a warm guiding presence who helped make our day that much more magical. If she's still working when we're ready for a 10 year renewal, I would 100% hire her again.
Athena M
5.0
9/15/2025
I used Anna's services for our wedding, and I honestly can't say enough good things about her. She worked with us every step of the way to make our ceremony exactly what we wanted it to be. Every time I wanted to revise something or think of something different, she was willing to brainstorm with me. She is so loving and positive and patient.
My family and friends absolutely loved every minute of our ceremony and raved about it afterward. I highly recommend her.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 09/15/2025
I just adored every second, Athena! Thank YOU for being so kind, creative, and full of ama...
zing ideas. I am so honored to have gotten to join you and Andres in this journey. Sending all my love to you and your wonderful family!!
Nicol N
5.0
8/14/2025
From the moment we met Anna, she was so genuine and personable. Anna scheduled planning calls and was always there for us to answer any questions. She brought our story to life! Our family and friends loved every word spoken. Some were so deeply moved before our vows with her speech. It was such a beautiful ceremony because of Anna and we are so grateful for her! If you need an officiant, who is down to take a selfie with your family on stage, who feels like she loves your love as much as you do, and who just has the kindest demeanour, you need Anna!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 08/14/2025
Thank you so much, Nicol!! You and Kevin lit up the stage with your kindness and beautiful...
love for each other. It was an absolute honor to get to know you (and to take the selfie of a lifetime!!) ❤️ all my love for the BEST first year of marriage and beyond!!
Meagan K
5.0
8/11/2025
Anna made our ceremony feel deeply personal, warm, and full of love. She captured our love story so beautifully that many guests were shocked to find out we hadn’t known each other for years—it truly felt like we had. Her words were heartfelt and sincere, and she created a ceremony that reflected us perfectly. We highly, highly recommend her to anyone looking for a truly meaningful experience.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 08/11/2025
Meagan-- you and Josh are the real deal. Your love story is nothing short of miraculous. I...
t was an honor to get to know you, to stand with you, and to cheer you on! Congratulations to the one and only Mr. and Mrs. Varon!!
Gracie H
5.0
7/23/2025
Anna made our wedding ceremony so, so special. It truly felt like a ceremony that was representative of our love story. She took the time to get to know us and design something unique. Knowing that our wedding day was completely one of a kind is so magical!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 07/28/2025
Gracie, you and Adam are the BEST. Thank you so much for trusting me with your story. Cong...
ratulations!!
Dana D
5.0
7/19/2025
Exceptional Wedding Officiant - Anna Made Our Day Perfect!
Our experience with Anna was amazing! She took great care trying to learn who we were, how we met, and how we lived to write a beautiful narrative of our story. The ceremony was absolutely stunning and exactly the joyful ceremony that we dreamed of.
We had what is referred to as a progressive elopement ceremony, which means that the story and vows took place in multiple parts of the beautiful botanical garden where we got married. Anna seamlessly guided us through each location, making the entire experience feel magical and deeply personal.
Her attention to detail and genuine care for understanding our relationship really showed in how she crafted and delivered our ceremony. Anna didn’t just officiate our wedding - she helped tell our love story in the most meaningful way possible. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant to make our special day absolutely perfect!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 07/28/2025
Your day will forever be in my heart, Dana! You and Elizabeth deserve the absolute world! ...
Congratulations on your beautiful day and all my wishes for a lifetime of loving adventures together.
Emily M
5.0
6/10/2025
I can’t express how awesome Anna is in just a review, but I’ll try my best. Our whole experience from start to finish you can easily tell Anna is very detail oriented, easy to communicate with, and truly a natural at writing and speaking. She fit right into the family! She was able to incorporate everything we asked for into our wedding day to make it so special. I couldn’t have picked anyone better! Thank you so much for being you <3
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 06/10/2025
Emily, thank you so much! You and Hans had such a clear vision from the start and planned ...
the most beautiful, relaxed, love-filled day. It was such a joy to be a part of it. Wishing you and your families all the best this year and beyond!
Maddie B
5.0
12/09/2024
Anna created such a magical ceremony experience for us! From our first touch point with her, she filled us with so much warmth and trust, and we feel so lucky that we connected with her. We had a small elopement and wanted a ceremony that was intimate and unique to us but also simple and brief, and she absolutely nailed it. She is an incredibly kind and thoughtful person, and we felt so well taken care of with her services. Thank you Anna!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 12/10/2024
It was an absolute pleasure, Maddie! I am so lucky to have gotten to meet you and Michael ...
and your family!
Sylvan F
5.0
12/04/2024
Anna was an absolute joy to work with! From the moment we got in touch, she brought so much warmth, curiosity, and openness into the process of getting to know us and our vision for the wedding ceremony. Her contagiously buoyant energy made everything feel celebratory even when it could have been stressful, and her pure enthusiasm for the magic of true love came through in such an affirming way in every interaction.
When it came to designing the ceremony, she seamlessly built in the special elements that we'd hoped to include (like the Scottish tradition of pinning the tartan), and she was excited to hear any feedback or ideas that we had while we workshopped the draft text together. As a side note, being a non-binary person in a straight-looking partnership had initially caused me to worry about whether I would feel truly "seen" in the context of a hypothetical ceremony -- but I went into the wedding day feeling so much more joyful and present because Anna had worked with us to hand-craft something that was beautifully, uniquely reflective of us and our love.
On the day itself, Anna was such a sweet and supportive presence to have up there with us. The ceremony she delivered was sincere, mirthful, and elegant -- I lost count of how many of our friends and family came up to us afterward to say how moved they were. Everything was even more wonderful than we had hoped it would be, and we are so grateful that Anna was the one to formalize our marriage!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 12/05/2024
Sylvan!! These words mean so much to me. Thank you!! Your wedding filled my heart up. It w...
as so apparent how much you love your family and friends, because they just poured it all right back into you on your day. You could feel the love in the air. It was magic! Sending so much love back to you both!
DiAngelo M
5.0
11/02/2024
Absolutely thrilled to recommend Ecstatic Ceremonies as a wedding officiant! From start to finish, they exceeded all our expectations and made our special day truly magical. Their kindness and genuine care for us as a couple shone through in every interaction. They took the time to really understand our unique story, values, and personalities, creating a ceremony that was perfectly tailored to who we are.
What we appreciated most was their dedication to inclusivity. They ensured that our ceremony was a reflection of love in all its forms, and everyone felt welcomed and celebrated. Their words were heartfelt, and their presence brought a warmth that resonated deeply with us and our guests. Many of our friends and family commented on how beautifully personal and authentic the ceremony felt.
If you’re looking for an officiant who is deeply invested in making your day special, we highly recommend Anna. She will bring compassion, inclusivity, and a sense of joy that will make your wedding day unforgettable!
Warm regards,
DiAngelo & Marcus
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 11/04/2024
Thank you so, so much for your kind and heartfelt words, DiAngelo. Getting to know you and...
Marcus was a highlight of my year, and witnessing your marriage was an honor! Sending all my warmest wishes for a long and happy marriage, and lots of love to your wonderful family!
Benton B
5.0
10/16/2024
Anna was such an amazing, kind, and beautiful soul to work with. Although I would never need to I would choose her every single time! She became more than just a person we needed she became a friend!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 10/16/2024
Ben! Your and Amy's love was so beautiful and an honor to witness! Not to mention, the hik...
e you chose was out of this world. All my congratulations for a long and happy marriage!
Kevin G
5.0
10/14/2024
Anna is the best. We truly loved the time we spent getting to know Anna leading up to the big day. She made our wedding day so special and in the short time we spent with her leading up to the wedding it was she knew us for years. Anna loves LOVE and all of our guests raved about her!!! We would choose her again in a heartbeat.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 10/15/2024
Kevin!! The feeling is totally mutual! It was such a joy to witness your love and to tell ...
your incredible story. I feel so lucky to call you and Destiny friends! Thank you so much!
Alice H
5.0
10/14/2024
While many of our vendors treated us like clients instead of humans in love, Anna was the soul of our ceremony. She crafted a personalized, beautiful ceremony (it felt like she x-rayed our SOULS) and her thoughtful expression of her understanding of our love inspired us to write personal vows with the same level of poetic intention. She was also super open to edits and changes as we workshopped the ceremony together. Dozens of our guests made sure to tell us how beautiful our vows & ceremony and we couldn't have done it without Anna.
Anna felt like a friend and confidante through the final push of wedding planning--she wasn't just there to do business but was genuinely invested in our love. I can't recommend her enough as an officiant and emotional/spiritual guide through the marriage process.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 10/15/2024
Oh my gosh, Alice, I would do it again a hundred times over! It was an honor to create you...
r ceremony which was so special in part because it truly reflected the best of all of us. You and Miguel were such a joy to collaborate with. Your love made magic!
Melanie V
5.0
10/10/2024
Anna is so wonderful! We were already legally married so we didn't technically need an officiant, but we wanted someone who could capture our 10 years of marriage into a ceremony. She did just that! Anna made us feel safe when being vulnerable and she made us feel heard when we offered feedback on our first draft. The final result was a beautiful ceremony that encapsulated our many years together, while acknowledging that our wedding was also a new beginning. It is also so important as a queer couple to feel comfortable, and Anna is absolutely the right choice for that! Anna felt like family by the end of the process and we are sad it's over! Thank you!!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 10/14/2024
Melanie, it was a huge joy and honor to work with you and Dani! Your wedding was so full o...
f heart and it was a day I will never forget. I'm sad it's over too, and can't wait to keep in touch!
Nicholas B
5.0
9/02/2024
10/10 professional
Anna did a fantastic job with our little wedding.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 09/02/2024
It was an honor and an absolute pleasure getting to know you and Christina! Congratulation...
s!
Siri A
5.0
8/22/2024
I was skeptical about choosing someone to officiate our wedding from the internet, and not someone we knew. Anna blew us away with her entire process of becoming our officiant. We live out of state, and even through Zoom "get to know you meetings", she was able to create the most beautiful, heartfelt, personal love story to tell at our ceremony. Everyone at our wedding commented on how amazing she did, and she felt like family to us. We had a wild weather situation at our wedding and Anna always had a calming smile on her face and made us laugh, without losing her professionalism. We know we have a friend for life now in Anna, and hope to meet again someday. I truly can't imagine having anyone else bring my wife and I into marriage. We love you Anna!!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 08/25/2024
Siri!! Your words mean so much to me! You and Brittney are the kindest, most gracious peop...
le and I am so glad the universe brought us together. I am lucky to call you both my friends! All my love and congratulations to the two of you as you begin this next chapter!
Luke M
5.0
8/12/2024
We originally booked Anna with the hopes of finding someone who would understand our needs and wants for our wedding ceremony. Anna from day 1 went above and beyond for us in every way we could imagine. We couldn’t imagine anyone else officiating our wedding ceremony for us. Anna was flexible and accommodated everything we asked for. From visiting us in our apartment to do a meet and greet to driving all the way out to the coast to perform our ceremony she is truly an incredible person and we will never forget everything she did for us. She will always hold a special place in our heart and we now are honored to call her our friend. If you find yourself lucky enough to find her available for booking your wedding ceremony do not hesitate and book her as soon as you can!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 08/13/2024
Luke!! Working with you and Siara was just an absolute pleasure. I am SO glad you found ea...
ch other and am so happy to call you both my friends! All my congratulations to you both!
Katie K
5.0
8/07/2024
I cannot speak highly enough about Anna’s excellence and magic as a ceremony planner and officiant. Her energy is infectiously sparkly and joyful, yet somehow also tranquil and reverent. Her process is organized, thoughtful, and full of intention. She made a concerted effort to get to know and understand me and my partner and our unique story and connection, and a result the speech she crafted for the ceremony made us both feel deeply seen, and deeply celebrated. Our ceremony was a unique one—a poly wedding—and Anna navigated the non-typical terrain with grace. Both in the planning process and on the big day, she created a beautiful, protective container that allowed us to focus on our love, and let the more stressful parts of the wedding fall away. I am so grateful to her and so glad we decided to hire her!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 08/07/2024
Katie! Your ceremony was nothing short of ecstatic, and it's all because of the intentiona...
lity and openness that you and Brent embody in every way! It was an absolute honor to celebrate alongside you!
mario m
5.0
7/22/2024
We were very happy working with Anna. She was kind and helpful through the entire experience. Anna helped make our day one we will never forget. Our wedding plans changed a couple times and she had no issues pivoting with us. If you are looking for an officiant and she is available we highly recommend her.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 07/22/2024
Mario, thank you!! It was such a pleasure working with you and Meagan. Your day was just b...
eautiful!
Laurel S
5.0
7/16/2024
Anna is a consummate professional and just an all around delightful person to work with. I’ve had both the pleasure of working with her as a planner and attended weddings of friends who she officiated for. Both experiences were amazing. Professionally, she is kind, responsive and flexible. Anna goes above and beyond to really make sure that couples feel seen and that their ceremony reflects what’s most important to them. Every ceremony she crafts is unique and so meaningful. It’s clear that she isn’t working with a standard script, but rather really taking the time to understand her couples and craft something that honors their journey/relationship. She clearly is passionate about her work and goes the extra mile for her couples. Hands down one of my favorite vendors in Oregon to work with.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 07/17/2024
Thank you so much, Laurel! I absolutely love making magic for couples with you-- you're th...
e best!
Mal L
5.0
7/03/2024
Wow, I can’t rate Ecstatic Ceremonies highly enough.
Anna is absolutely phenomenal. Not only did she prepare the most beautiful wedding ceremony for us (I still have friends and family members asking me to get a copy), she was with us every step of the way in preparation and support.
She helped make our wedding really feel like “us”, and brought an extra-specialness to our wedding day that we never would’ve captured without Ecstatic Ceremonies being involved.
Loved Ecstatic Ceremonies for our queer wedding and would recommend to absolutely anyone and everyone!! Truly so special.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 07/03/2024
Thank you so much, Mal! It was an honor and a gift to stand by your sides!
Aleta L
5.0
6/04/2024
Anna was very responsive and kind! She wrote us the perfect sentiment for our smaller elopement-style ceremony. I really appreciate how fast she responded to our requests, and that she tailored our ceremony to be unique to us. I would recommend Anna to anyone.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 06/04/2024
Thank you so much, Aleta! Your wedding was so special and it was an honor to celebrate you...
and Kai with your families!
Genevieve R
5.0
5/02/2024
Anna is a truly gifted officiant. I’m a wedding planner and recently worked on an elopement where she designed and led the ceremony for my couple. From beginning to end, Anna was kind, communicative, professional, and creative. She worked with the couple to get to know them and their unique love story, and was very receptive to any specific requests they made. She designed an absolutely beautiful ceremony and wasn’t afraid to lean into the dark, gothic vibe we were going for. Her ceremony was truly one of a kind and she is a delight to work with. I can’t recommend her enough!
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 05/02/2024
Thank you so much, Genevieve! The pleasure was all mine!
Loren W
5.0
2/13/2024
Anna of Ecstatic Ceremonies was absolutely amazing. She was warm, kind, professional and punctual. She put together a beautiful ceremony that encapsulated my husband and I perfectly from our relationship to our beliefs, and our love really showed through her words. She brought little goodies which was so cute, and she worked wonders when I had some very last minute changes. She was such a pleasure to have at our ceremony. I would highly recommend her for any type of wedding ceremony you’re planning, quaint or elaborate. You will not regret it.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 02/13/2024
Thank you, Loren! It was such an honor! Congratulations to you and Tyler!
Hillary L
5.0
1/09/2024
Anna is kindhearted, compassionate, and super knowledgeable! I have had the pleasure of working with Anna on multiple weddings and my clients have always felt deeply cared-for and seen by Anna.
As an Officiant Anna takes the time to get to know her couples, their stories, and help guide them through creating beautiful stories to share on their wedding day with their community. As a person, Anna is warm, energetic, and professional.
I love knowing that Anna is supportive of all types of love and people from all walks of life, and I always feel confident referring my clients to her.
Response from Ecstatic Ceremonies on 02/13/2024
Thank you so much, Hillary! It is always such a pleasure working with you!
Ellis C
5.0
1/09/2024
Anna of Ecstatic Ceremonies was AMAZING. She helped us organize our thoughts and feelings so that the task of planning a wedding was not overwhelming. I loved how she helped us craft our ceremony into something that was truly unique to us and the people we chose to share it with.
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