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We are an award-winning Wedding Event Planning
& Event Design company based in Lakewood, Washington.
We bring a unique, creative vision that translates to
flawless, stylish and memorable events through the
attention to detail of the clients’ desires.
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- Woman-owned Business
Planning
- Budgeting
- Day-Of Coordination
- Full Service Wedding Planning
Wedding Activities
- Getting Engaged
- Engagement Party
- Rehearsals & Parties
- Bachelorette Party
- Bridal Shower
- Engagement Party
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Hiring Lori and Elegant Affairs was hands-down the best decision we made for our wedding. Lori has been a special person in my life for years, first as my sorority chapter advisor,...
then as a boss during a few unforgettable wedding seasons—so when it came time to plan my own wedding, there was NO ONE else I’d rather have by my side.
Lori is truly exceptional at what she does. She brought her years of experience, her impeccable eye for detail, and her calm, confident presence to every step of the planning process. She thought of things I never would have, kept everything organized and on track, and made sure our day unfolded flawlessly. Worth. Every. Penny. !!!
And on the wedding day itself, Tiphany, Lori’s assistant for the day (incredible planner herself), was an absolute rockstar. She was everywhere at once—coordinating behind the scenes, keeping everything running smoothly, and doing it all with grace and a huge smile. The day felt effortless for us because we were in such good hands.
If you're looking for a wedding planner who is warm, professional, incredibly skilled, and truly cares about making your day perfect, Lori and her team at Elegant Affairs are everything you could hope for and more. We’re forever grateful.
Tiphany and Lori literally saved our wedding day multiple times. Their knowledge and experience shows with every interaction! I was beyond stressed when trying to plan my wedding a...
nd Tiphany and Lori made it a dream come true! They were super flexible with our meetings, had so many helpful suggestions and were so helpful with my many questions! And day of my wedding my wedding dress zipper popped off and they sewed me back in! My husband ripped his pants and they sewed those up without a moment of hesitation. My music system had an issue and they knew a person to call who dropped everything and fixed it up so the wedding could go off without a hitch. Do not hesitate to hire them!!!
Lori & Tiphany saved our wedding! No joke. We were in quite a pickle w/ another planner & I was stressed to say the least. I reached out to Lori because I knew her sister. I didn't...
expect her to help because we were very close to the date & not much was done. Not only did she say yes to helping us, she executed it beyond what I had envisioned. On day one she nailed down pretty much all of it that she could w/o my help. She is clear, precise & straight to the point. Just what I needed. When her & Tiphany arrived they took care of everything & our day was magical. Thank you so much Lori & Tiphany, we are forever grateful!!
About 5 minutes into our initial meeting with Tiphany, I knew she was the PERFECT fit as our planner! She is incredibly organized, very communicative, and while she is so easy to t...
alk to, she is also very professional on the job. She brought lots of great ideas and pulled together the perfect day of timeline, welcoming our input and guiding us when we needed it. She was excellent at wrangling family members throughout the day, she and Lori went above and beyond to make sure our wedding day was perfect! I would plan another wedding just to get to work with Tiphany again!
Working with Lori and Tiphany was a dream! From the first conversation to the wedding day, I couldn’t have asked for a better experience! Tiphany was so easy to work with, highly o...
rganized, and fun to be around! Lori officiated our day and was present all day for wedding coordination. These ladies became instant friends and I wouldn’t hesitate for a second to hire them again. It was a great investment in our day and everything was executed flawlessly!
We are thrilled to share our experience with Elegant Affairs. Since we had hired all of our vendors ourselves and did most of the design aspect of our wedding, we knew we wanted to...
hire someone to help us coordinate our rehearsal day and wedding day. Lori exceeded our expectations in every way possible! She is professional and knows what she’s doing. She was incredibly responsive with every email, made great suggestions on bringing the final touches together, and gives out great energy that gets you excited for your big day. She took the time to understand our needs, created detailed schedules that helped the flow of each day and took charge when necessary. We had 32 people in our wedding party and she handled it like a champ. They took off the pressure and helped insure our day was spent being present and carefree. Working with Elegant Affairs made our wedding day even more magical. They truly went above and beyond to ensure everything was perfect. We would highly recommend them to anyone looking for a day of coordinator. Thank you, Elegant Affairs for being part of our unforgettable day!
We quite literally couldn't be happier with our decision to have Tiphany as our wedding planner. From start to finish, she exceeded all of our expectations and made our special day...
absolutely perfect!! We were so lucky to have Lori on our side as well, she is an incredible resource and person as well.
Tiphany's attention to detail, creativity, and dedication were evident in every aspect of our wedding. Her professionalism and calm demeanor ensured that everything ran smoothly up to and the day-of, and she was always available to answer our questions and provide reassurance. I don't think you can find a more dedicated person anywhere! Tiphany took the time to understand our vision and brought it to life in ways we couldn't have imagined.. Her ability to manage all the logistics and coordinate with vendors was nothing short of amazing. Thanks to Tiphany, we were able to fully enjoy our wedding day without any stress or worries. Truly, the saddest part of the wedding being complete is not seeing her smile on the regular!
Tiphany's passion for what she does truly shines through in her work - every aspect of working with her brought to life the phrase "made with love". We are eternally grateful for her hard work and expertise. If you're looking for a wedding planner who will go above and beyond to make your dream wedding a reality, look no further than Tiphany. She is simply the best and will forever be in our hearts!
I had the pleasure of working with Tiphany and Lori on my big day (8/25/23). I had met with over a dozen wedding coordinators and Tiphany made me feel the most at ease. Once we had...
our initial meeting I knew Elegant Affairs would be perfect! I personally am quite a planner and Tiphany recognized that immediately and knew that a day of coordinator was all I needed. I felt heard and not pressured at all which is what I had experienced from other businesses or potential coordinators.
The most challenging part about my wedding was that I had a separate location for the ceremony and reception. That didn't seem to be a concern for Tiphany and Lori. Both of them knew of my venues and had tons of experience working at each location. Lori and Tiphany took the time to complete a full walk through at each venue and were amazing help in asking questions I hadn't thought of. We had a plan A-Z for anything that could've happened.
Lori handled everything at our wedding ceremony venue (Thornewood Castle) and Tiphany handled everything at our reception venue (Pioneer Park Pavilion). I cannot praise these women enough. I got to thoroughly enjoy my wedding day from start to finish without anyone pestering me. These ladies handled EVERYTHING. Lori helped me with an alternative send off and constructed a balloon arch in MINUTES! Lori was amazing during all of the photos and had even worked with our photographer (Jerome Tso) many, many times and knew exactly what he was looking for in each of our shots. While Lori was managing Thornewood, Tiphany was hard at work with another assistant decorating our reception venue. Tiphany handled setup and all of our vendors arrival times. She thought of things that I hadn't and made the reception venue look beautiful.
I am Cambodian and it was incredibly important for my family and I to incorporate our culture and tradition into the reception. Tiphany managed everything that was thrown her way, even if hiccups arose. She wasnt afraid to jump in and make it such a seamless event. Tiphany made sure that I had food, water, lipgloss and everything in between!
I received SO many compliments from our guests about how seamless both the ceremony and reception were. I honestly have no idea how these women kept on our schedule, but they did! We were even AHEAD of schedule mostly and the credit entirely goes to Elegant Affairs. I wish we could do iy all again because of how amazing the day was.
Tiphany and Lori, THANK YOU.
Mariah & Adam
Elegant Affairs was an incredible team to work with on our wedding day. Specifically Tiphany Thomas, who we hired as the day of coordinator. She kept prompt communication, schedule...
d meetings and took care of our vendor contracts. Everything turned out better than expected and went so smoothly. She kept us on our timeline, made sure as bride & groom we had a few moments to ourselves and made cleaning up and exiting the venue a smooth process. I would highly recommend her and their team for any and all events. Thanks so much Tiphany, you're the best!
If you are planning a wedding, you absolutely must hire Tiphany with Elegant Affairs. It is not an exaggeration when I say I truly could not have planned my wedding without her. As...
someone who prides myself on being well organized and very type A, Tiphany is even more meticulous than I am. Her communication, thorough planning, attention to detail, and overall positive attitude is truly unmatched. There aren’t many people I would feel confident in handing things on my behalf but Tiphany is at the top of my list. All of our planning was done well in advance to be perfectly organized the day of and everything went so smoothly so we could truly enjoy our special day. Also, using their preferred vendors list made everything so easy because of Tiphany’s experience in working together with all of them. They were familiar with her and trusted her guidance and not having to worry about communicating timeline questions directly with them took a huge task off of our plate during the last couple of months. There were multiple occasions where I remembered something I hadn’t done or asked about and Tiphany had already completed it or answered it on my behalf. We couldn’t recommend Elegant Affairs and Tiphany more- she is the type of person and planner you want in your corner when planning a major event!
We hired Elegant Affairs after touring our wedding venue with Tiphany! From our first interaction, she was so informative, friendly, and appeared genuinely passionate about our pla...
ns and visions for our wedding!
Elegant Affairs was extremely professional and we never felt alone in our wedding process! We hired Tiphany as our day-of wedding coordinator, but she helped us all throughout the final stages of wedding coordinating, vender shopping, and collaborating with on ideas! There were helpful check-ins and reminders through all stages of the planning process and EA was really attentive and responsive to all communication.
On the day of the wedding we did not have to worry about one single thing… From the layout to the setting up of decor, chairs, tables, and every other small bump that came up on the day-of, Tiphany handled it all with calmness and absolute professionalism. Our families RAVED about Tiphany all night long and appreciated how available she was throughout the night and also her willingness to help deconstruct and take everything down in a timely manner. Hiring Tiphany as our day-of wedding coordinator was THE best decision we made for our wedding day!
Tiphany and Lori were absolutely amazing! They were kind, professional, and empathetic. They made us feel confident that our day was going to be great, and they had the skills to m...
ake sure that it was. When there were issues with a catering company on the day of the reception, they took care of it so well we didn't even know there had been a problem until the next day. We'd highly recommend Elegant Affairs—not sure how we would have done this without them!
Elegant Affairs, and specifically Tiphany Thomas, have been total life-savers when it comes to coordinating my wedding. I hired Tiphany as my day-of coordinator. Tiphany was prompt...
in reaching out to schedule meetings with me and my then-fiancé, took full ownership over communication with vendors, provided vendor discounts, helped with a very detailed itinerary, provided expert advice, and did anything and everything I could have hoped for. I truly did not have any tasks on my wedding day other than to enjoy myself. I consider myself a detailed and organized person, and thought I could handle it on my own, but Tiphany truly made my life so much easier when it came to wedding planning. I would recommend Tiphany/Elegant Affairs to anyone who has any hesitation about planning a wedding themselves.
Lori and Tiphany of Elegant Affairs were absolutely amazing.
We decided to have our destination wedding in Seattle after falling in love with the city after a trip in 2019. Being ...
that we live in Florida we thought that having a wedding planner on the ground would be essential. We interviewed several other wedding planners but immediately clicked with Lori.
She has a very calming yet attentive personality so we could tell that we were in good hands from the first zoom call. The planning process followed her script and she and her team did the heavy lifting of reviewing, contracting and communicating with vendors. We had 5 or 6 zoom calls from the 10 months or so from when we signed with her to the wedding and felt like she had everything under control at all times. Most importantly when our venue had to break our contract about 3 weeks before the wedding she was able to secure a completely new venue that was amazing and everything went off without a hitch.
I'm not certain how long she's been doing weddings in the PNW but she seemed to have relationships with all of the venues, DJs and florists we were interested in. The day off coordination from her and Tiphany was impeccable and again another curveball happened where our Officiant couldn't travel to the wedding at the last minute so Lori stepped up to officiate as well. I can't say enough positive things about Lori, Tiphany and Elegant Affairs. 10 out of 10 stars.
My husband and I found Elegant Affairs after hours of Google searches and review readings. After the initial video chat with Lori it was obvious they were the best choice. From day...
one of our contract, Lori was easy to get ahold of and encouraging of all of our ideas. She made vendor meetings and communication easy and was able to help us land our dream vendors for the wedding day. Our rehearsal was a cakewalk and loads of fun with Lori directing our wedding party and family. When I arrived on my wedding day all I had to worry about was getting ready as I knew our dream was going to be executed. Lori and Tiphany had clearly listened during our planning meetings and got to know my husband and me, which allowed them to put together the dreamiest wedding day. From start to finish the day ran smoothly and effortlessly thanks to them. I would recommend Elegant Affairs to all of my friends and family, as I truly could not have imagined our planning process and wedding day without them!
Lori is an absolute all-star wedding planner. Starting our engagement before the pandemic Lori helped us plan a normal 220 person wedding, an intimate Covid friendly 60 person wed...
ding, and finally our 180 person 3 day Indian wedding that happened in August of 2021. Lori was able to help us navigate the ever-shifting requirements of the pandemic and keep us calm and organized during a time of a lot of uncertainty. Lori is professional, fun to work with, and is a fierce advocate for her clients. She handled all of our vendor contracts and communications, and made sure we got what we were promised. She also has a great list of vendors for you to pick from should you not know who to go with (we ended up using her suggestions for floral, DJ, and linen/tent rentals). If you are looking for someone who allows your wedding vision to shine while making sure all the pieces come together in a perfect package, Lori is the wedding planner you need to seek out.
Lori Losee was an amazing wedding planer! I couldn't ask for anyone that was so on top of organizing and helping us stay on track every month until our wedding day! Also, the day o...
f the wedding Lori made everything so smooth! And handled everything is seconds. So, I highly recommend Lori Losee, Elegant Affairs. <3
If you haven't hired a wedding planner yet, do so asap. But don't just hire any old wedding planner, hire Lori and her team at Elegant Affairs. We first got to see Lorin in action ...
at our cousin's destination wedding in Cabo. We were very impressed that she could throw a wedding in another country. We hired her when the wedding planning became too complicated and stressful. Which it will always be. It was like having a best friend/mom plan everything. She picked up our style right away and was so on top of everything. We had zero worries. Even during Covid, everything went off without a problem. Our wedding was magical and perfect and we owe it all to Lori. She even officiated for us and made me cry multiple times. She wasn't just our wedding planner she became a close friend. Do yourself a favor and hire her and have the wedding of your dreams.
Our experience with Elegant Affairs has really sold us on the idea that retaining a wedding planner is the way to go! Lori and her associate did a fantastic job keeping us at ease ...
throughout the process leading up to our wedding and through the ceremony weekend. Never once did we feel like things were out of control whatsoever. We had not the slightest doubt that if anything began to go awry, Lori would promptly address it. So, we focused on enjoying each other's company and hanging out with our friends and family. As impending newly weds go, our stress levels were so low that our wedding guests were wondering why that was the case. We simply pointed to Lori and said she was the reason why we were so chill! It was so flawless! We highly recommend Elegant Affairs!
If you just got engaged, your first step should be to hire Lori! Words can't even describe how amazing Lori is at her job. Not only did she help us secure all of our vendors and ex...
ecute our vision exactly as we had planned it, she also is an amazing human and became a close friend of ours. All of her vendor recommendations were fantastic and made our lives so much easier! I am a very "Type A" person and I enjoy overcommunication, Lori was great at keeping us in the loop every step of the way. She went out of her way to respond to the late night texts and emails and I knew my wedding was in great hands with her. The day of, her team flawlessly executed everything - even with a few bumps due to ferries causing delays! My husband and I got to be guests at our own wedding with no stress setting up or taking down the event. Our families and friends all loved Lori and we all continue to rave about her amazing skills as a wedding planner! I can't recommend her enough!
Brides, let me start by saying, YOU NEED A PLANNER. As an Event Professional with nearly 20 years of experience I vowed (a decade before I DO) to hire a wedding planner the moment ...
I became engaged.
Fast forward… and I went down the path of hiring someone, but I just didn’t find the right fit.
When it comes to a wedding, it all comes down to surrounding yourself with people you TRUST.
After 19 months of being engaged, three delays, anxiety, and family feuds… I was a my breaking point. I interviewed four wedding planners, called all of my corporate contacts, even offered to fly my own team up to Seattle… Then, I met my fairy god-sister Lori! From the moment we met, I knew she had my back. I could lean on her to keep me accountable to my final details (with less than 8 weeks to go). Odds were stacked against us…180 person wedding in 2021?!? She handled me (my expectations), the catering crew, the band, and all our vendors with a grace and conviction. Lori and her team are the real deal. I hope to forever have Lori in my corner and would highly recommend her to any bride looking for someone to trust on your most special day of your life!
I don’t think we know where to truly begin to describe the amazing experience we had with Lori at Elegant Affairs.
We were one her many couples whose weddings were impacted by th...
e pandemic. We started working with Lori in May of 2019 for what was originally going to be a September 2020 wedding. She professionally and gracefully shifted our entire list of vendors - and even found us an amazing videographer to add to the list - to May 2021.
Obviously, moving our wedding was disappointing - but it meant we got to work with Lori for two full years - and that we would never change! Her ability to organize and coordinate the entirety of our big day created a seamless and stress-free experience for us, our families, and our wedding party.
Having a May 2021 wedding meant it was one of the first big events most of our friends and family had attended in over a year. Everyone only had wonderful things to say and were so impressed by Lori’s attention to every last detail.
If you have ever considered hiring a wedding coordinator - stop thinking about it and hire Lori! You absolutely will not regret it.
We will forever be grateful for the countless hours she spent working with us - and more than that, we are happy to consider her a friend.
Thank you Lori!
If you are planning a wedding hire a wedding planner and if you can, hire Lori!
I had worked with Lori a few times when I worked for a wedding venue so after we got engaged she wa...
s the first call I made. I always knew I wanted a wedding planner but didn’t realize how much I needed one! Lori is AMAZING!! From the start she was on top of everything, recommending amazing vendors, helping pick out our colors, invites, advice on wording, all of it.
When our original wedding date in June 2020 was postponed to 2021 due to COVID; Lori handled everything and made the situation as stress free as possible for us. When it came time to start planning again she was right there, updating us on all the constantly changing rules and regulations, and being the positivity I needed when I was stressed about not knowing what our wedding would end up looking like. The day came and it was perfect! I had zero stress day of because I knew Lori and her team had it covered. My husband and I got to enjoy every second of the day and when anything came up Lori was already taking care of it.
I honestly do not know what I would have done with out her and I can’t say enough great things!
I photographed a wedding recently and worked mostly with Lori, who was amazing! She had reached out before the wedding to make sure I was all set and ready for the wedding, then on...
the wedding day she was very sweet, professional, and on top of everything! She set out flowers and table decor, she knew where the rings were and when they’d be ready for photos, if I had a question I knew I could ask Lori and I didn’t have to bother the bride and groom with those questions on their wedding day. things ran smoothly for us vendors and most importantly the bride and groom! I’m not sure if setting out decor is part of her usual line of duties but she has an amazing eye and made the venue look amazing. If you book with Elegant Affairs you should rest easy knowing they have got you covered! They’re working with your vendors for you, they pay attention to the little things that could easily fall between the cracks, they’ve got you! You just need to party!
When we cancelled our dream wedding 6 weeks out due to the start of the pandemic, I couldn't have been more relieved to have an experienced, professional wedding planner like Lori ...
in my corner. She helped us create a new plan, negotiate with vendors, kept us up to date on restrictions, and ultimately, gave us a perfect, backyard wedding just a year later, that was exactly what we wanted. She was wonderful with our families and guests, and made us feel so special on our big day. We hired her because she seemed like she was ready for anything, and she proved it again and again! After a year with lots of uncertainty, I got to completely relax in the weeks leading up to my wedding, because I knew she had it handled. All the March/April 2020 wedding planners should get trophies!
Due to the pandemic our wedding was changed many many times. Lori was BEYOND understanding and worked with us completely. When the day came she was extremely helpful to the point I...
don’t know what we would have done without her! She was respectful and so pleasant. Loved her and am so thankful we had her on our big day!!
My husband and I have been working with Lori for the past 14 months to plan our wedding. Not only did she plan the perfect day for us, she planned 3 perfect days for us because we ...
were planning a wedding during a global pandemic. We pivoted dates, size, venues, pretty much anything you can pivot, we did, and Lori was the glue that held it all together, including our sanities. She kept telling us "If I'm not freaking out, then you don't need to be," which was all the assurance we needed. Our wedding day turned out to be even better than our original vision and Lori executed it all and made it run so smoothly.
We hired Lori and Elegant Affairs because I wanted to be able to enjoy being engaged and wedding planning and I knew I wouldn't be able to do that if I was constantly worrying about things I didn't have any idea about. Lori has planned so many weddings and is such a pleasure to work with that we knew we were in good hands. If you're thinking of hiring a wedding planner, first of all, do it and secondly, make it Elegant Affairs. It was more than worth it to us!
Lori was absolutely amazing. Very responsive, helpful, had fantastic ideas about everything. She was enjoyable to work with. Lori made the entire event easy. I will be recommending...
her to everyone I know that will be getting married.
What else can we say except... Lori and her team are amazing! We hired Lori in early 2019 for our May 2020 wedding. They were the very first vendor we booked! We knew how good she ...
was and had seen Lori in action at my sister's wedding in 2015 and at another friend's wedding in 2017.
Lori was always available to take our calls/texts or answer our emails. In March 2020, she helped us postpone our wedding date to August 9. Two weeks before our wedding, we lost our venue due to the new COVID rules. She helped us move our ceremony to my dad's backyard with literally days to go. She decorated and cleaned up the whole ceremony space as well as keeping everyone on track the entire day. Not to mention, she's such a treat to be around - so positive and willing to help!
Lori worked so hard to make our special day happen, even during a pandemic. You won't be disappointed when you hire Elegant Affairs! Thank you Lori!
Also, Go Cougs!
Thais Pedro · married on 06/27/2020
Amazing and incredibly helpful wedding planner!! Lori was on top of everything and handled our covid wedding plans with so much positivity and ...
grace!
We initially hired Elegant Affairs as part of our venue's requirements and we are SO glad we did! Looking back, there is no way I could have done it without her. Lori was responsive, flexible and proactive throughout everything! When our first venue dropped after Covid changed things, Lori was immediately on the look out for our next venue. A few days later, we found the venue of our dreams that we couldn't have found without her. During the whole process, she checked in frequently and communicated with us clearly and efficiently. Looking back, if I had to do it again, I would hire Lori to do my whole wedding! So if you're a bride unsure of whether you need a wedding planner, seriously hire Lori. You will not regret it! She is phenomenal. We are so thankful for her support during our wedding and we love her so much!
I don’t think I would have had my dream wedding if it wasn’t for Lisa at Elegant Affairs!! After being engaged and planning a wedding for over a year and a half, getting married in...
the middle of a pandemic was not what me and my husband ever imagined. We had the bumpiest rollercoaster ride of ups and downs, twists and turns, and constantly changing guidelines. Lisa is the #1 reason why our wedding turned out to the be the dream we were hoping for. She was constantly communicating with us about everything and always checking in. Downsizing our wedding, adjusting our original plans, and communicating with vendors was an easy process because she was so involved in every planning part possible. The day of the wedding itself was so seamless. It felt stress free, completely organized, and an absolute dream. She ensured that all of our visions came true but still fit within guidelines for a pandemic wedding. I’m truly speechless about how incredible she was to work with. We hired a planner but ended up with a life time friend. I would 10/10 recommend her for all your wedding needs. (Sometimes I wish she could be my life planner too!)
Lori from Elegant Affairs was the first wedding vendor I hired after finding a venue. I knew I wanted a planner to help alleviate the stress of planning but I did not know exactly ...
in what ways a planner would help as I’d never planned a wedding. In a sense, I hired Lori almost blindly, not knowing what I had signed up for. Now looking back, I was very lucky to find Lori and also very lucky to have a planner from the very beginning
I don’t know about other planners, but Lori is the MOST responsive and organized person I’ve encountered in my personal and professional life. All my texts / Emails were responded within hours, or if she's occupied, she'd tell me she’s busy but would get back to me by xx time / day. The communication style makes life so much easier. She’s also a doer – she executes quickly and decisively
I was engaged in Feb 2019 and the original wedding date was June 2020. Yes, I call it the original because we had to postpone once to late Aug in April, and then had to "cancel" it in July due to COVID. Although we did not end up having the actual wedding day this year, Lori, as the planner, has been by my side along the way and especially helpful when helping me navigate the challenges brought by COVID. I could always text / call her to know what's going on with COVID and the implication to my wedding without having to follow the ever-changing rules and noise in the media myself. She’s also a good listener and counselor when I got stressed out by the rising case numbers
Aside from the graceful COVID help, I’ve also come to realize the value of having a planner in the planning process. Yes, planners help recommend reliable vendors, but there’s so much more to it. Lori has been in the planning business for more than 12 years. The long track record gives her rich resources and knowledge – I had her help on many aspects of planning – from contract review, to navigating conflicts with vendors / venue, to advice on timeline, to thoughts on my random ideas of adding certain decors I saw from ins / Pinterest, etc. Lori has been very open and affirmative to all my random ideas but also not shy of letting me know if something is too wild. Over the course of the past year, we’ve also become friends. We’d talk about things outside of wedding planning.
I’d highly recommend Lori to my friends. She’s passionate, energetic, reliable and highly responsive. She’s a great listener and a phenomenal doer. She definitely makes bride’s life much easier in the planning process.
Choosing Lori as our wedding coordinator was one of the absolute best decisions my husband and I could have made to begin our wedding planning process. I must admit, however, as a ...
former Elegant Affairs intern I had firsthand knowledge of the extraordinary organization and attention to detail Lori pays to her events, so when my husband and I got engaged I knew just how huge of a positive impact a coordinator like Lori could have for our big day, and we were so lucky to have been able to book her. There seemed to be tens of thousands of details to consider when we were planning our wedding, and the having Lori to talk to about it all seriously minimized my stress levels. From our first consultation all the way through to the end of our reception and beyond, we knew no detail would be overlooked or ignored or too small.
Having Lori at our wedding meant that my husband and I could truly relax and enjoy ourselves because we were confident that she knew how everything was supposed to go, and if anything came up (which it did) that she would be on it (which she was). I can’t even remember how many times I told friends and family members “Lori’s on it” in the days and weeks leading up to our date, and she truly was. My mom even made a comment that I was much more relaxed than she thought I’d be, and Lori was the one to thank for that. I still don’t know how she does it, but somehow she maintains a perfect balance of professionalism and fun, and at the end of the day she honestly feels like another one of your bridesmaids. She’s upbeat and optimistic and she’s got the exact right personality and energy you want in someone who will be helping you on your wedding day. She never loses sight of what the wedding is really all about and she is effective in understanding what your priorities are and making sure that your vision comes to life. On the morning of our wedding, my mom gifted me an embroidered handkerchief that she had had on her bouquet, her mom had on hers and even her mom before that. 4 generations of women in my family had had this special heirloom on their wedding day and if it weren’t for Lori it may well have been lost forever. I’m so appreciative she kept her eye out, and that she realized it was an important piece of my family history. Thanks to Lori it’s something I might be able pass on to a daughter of my own someday.
My husband and I had an absolutely fantastic time on our day, and we hosted a brunch with our new joines families the next morning. They relayed everything Lori had done to fix a few unfortunate mishaps, but we had been completely unaware that anything had gone awry because she quickly dealt with it on our behalf. We had no idea how busy she had been smoothing out those few unfortunate wrinkles that came up throughout the day, and unbeknownst to us, she was an absolute rockstar and filled in where other vendors dropped the ball. We can’t imagine our wedding day without Lori and I only hope that she’s available so that when my friends and siblings get married I can give them the gift of Lori’s services as well, as she made our day go that much more smoothly. Believe me when I say: You NEED this woman! Love you Lori!
AOE ❤️
True professionals with years upon years of wedding experience. 100% devoted to their clients' best interest. They will deliver you the wedding of your dreams...without a doubt!!!
Wow so much positive to say about Elegant Affairs and Lori who helped us through every step of the way leading up to the wedding and the day of, always got back to me in time, help...
ed me make the best decisions, always kept in contact with all my vendors and made sure everything was on time and perfect for us and MORE. Obviously this is my first wedding and after my wedding I couldn’t have been happier to have went with even getting a wedding planner! We had our wedding when the whole coronavirus was going on and she stood by our side every step of the way, bless her heart, was tough for us but we made it through. If you are planning a wedding I highly recommend Lori! She’s been a blessing to us and I want her to be a blessing to you! Don’t second guess it! Go with them!! Much love from the Adams! Thank you guys a lot!!
Lori was so helpful in bringing our dream wedding day to life! She was unbelievably punctual in her responses to any questions or concerns I had no matter how big or small. From ma...
king planning fun to helping the day go without a hitch, we could not have done it without her. She is a true professional!
Hiring Lori and Elegant Affairs was one of the best decisions my husband and I made for planning and wedding coordination. She is a wealth of information, years of experience and ...
just fun. She took the stress out of the day and honestly we enjoyed planning the wedding with her help. My whole goal for our wedding weekend was to hand over the reins to our wedding planner to maximize distressing the event and being present for the day. Lori exceeded these expectations. She had great ideas and recommendations for vendors and helped us navigate the sometimes daunting task of wedding planning throughout the year. I really cannot thank her enough for helping to make our day as near a fairytale as it could be.
Strongly recommend Elegant Affairs if you are looking for the best wedding planner to plan your big day.
We simply couldn't be happier with our experience with Lori.
Lori was extremely professional and responsive throughout the entire planning/coordinating process. While we got marr...
ied in the Seattle area we were living in California which certainly added some additional stress to our planning. Lori was amazing and helped work around our busy schedules making sure everything was ready for the wedding. She always had a prompt answer to every question and concern. I never had any doubts that she would make sure everything ran smoothly for our big day-and she did just that! From last minute escort card set up to feeding hungry rogue flower girls, Lori was there to handle it all without missing a beat.
We had an absolutely incredible wedding day and we couldn’t have done it without Lori and her team! We highly recommend Elegant Affairs to anyone planning their next big event
Contacting Lori was the very first 'to do' on my list, post saying "YES!" to an epic marriage proposal. I had known Lori personally for a few years and was SO excited to work with ...
her more closely, get to know her better and have her lead the wedding planning charge for our special day. Lori is worth more than GOLD! She is over the top experienced, personable, smart, very professional and super fun! Many times, throughout our months of planning and prep, my parents, in-laws and friends would share with me how amazing, knowledgeable and how happy they were that Lori was such a huge part of this process and I couldn’t agree more. She listened to every vision I had and every change I wanted to make then did everything in her power to make our wedding day unbelievably perfect. I am honored to call her my wedding planner and my friend! Hiring Lori will be your second BEST decision, after deciding to get married of course!
I've said it a million times and I'll continue to say it -- saying "Yes" the day Michael proposed was the first easiest and best decision I've made -- hiring Lisa with Elegant affa...
irs was the second easiest and best decision I made for our wedding!!! I had gone to a wedding that Lori with Elegant Affairs did the year prior and it was the smoothest flowing wedding I had ever been too and I've been to over 30 weddings in my 26 years of life!
These ladies and their timeline are the piece to the puzzle every wedding needs!!!!
Lisa not only kept me sane throughout the planning processes but she made my elegant wedding vision come to life!!!
During this last year when I would mention to someone that we had a wedding/day of coordinator their response was always, " I wish I would've had one for my wedding." And I don't know how people don't have one!! I seriously just couldn't imagine not having Lisa this last year and especially that day!!!
Leading up to the wedding Lisa never said no to my vision even when I had my own doubts. She assured me even our short set up time before our ceremony was doable! She executed my elegant wedding dream so perfectly!!! If there was a hiccup in that day I had no clue and never knew about it, just as every bride should be! I was able to enjoy the day and it sure was a beautiful and emotional day!
Lisa has become more than our wedding planner over this year, she has become a friend to Michael and I and we can't thank her enough for everything!
Thank you Lisa and thank you Elegant Affairs!
-Mollee & Michael
I can't imagine not having Lori. As the mother of the groom I wanted someone who could make sure everything got done. Lori was amazing, we were in a unique situation where the w...
edding venue double booked and 8 weeks before we had to find a new location. I don't know what we would have done without Lori. She helped coordinate a new wedding in a time crunch. Best investment in your wedding day is a wedding planner!
Lori came along for all appointments and I couldn’t explain all the things I didn’t know I needed! I was so lucky to have her for the wedding prep and on wedding day OMG WHAT A GOD...
SEND! Lori and her team did an amazing job and our wedding was perfect thanks to her
From the beginning, I, more than my husband, wanted a wedding coordinator. It was going to be a big wedding at the Seattle Aquarium so I was perfectly happy to outsource most of th...
e arranging and coordinating to a professional who has done and seen it all. This is what I found in Lori Losee (owner and senior planner of Elegant Affairs) who, by the way, is one of only 7 preferred coordinators in the aquarium’s list. She was extremely responsive, flexible, detailed, highly organized, while managing to be creative and positive throughout the whole process. She reviewed all our vendor contracts, created detailed timelines, did the coordination with our different vendors, while gently reminding us to take lessons for our first dance. Such a joy to work with.
So after 8 months of planning, the day of the wedding came and it was amazing. Talk about sticking the landing! Our families and friends were wowed by the event and the venue. And my husband and I were in the moment to take it all in and enjoy it. The success of the day is due in no small part to the work of Lori and her team. If I didn’t hire Lori for the wedding I would have needed and been forced to hire a therapist. It was vastly more fun hiring her. So don’t hesitate, book her today!
For every couple/bride/groom-to-be, Lori is the planner that you need by your side and she is nothing short of MAGNIFICENT!
Over the last several years, I have had the privilege o...
f witnessing many of the amazing weddings that Lori has been at the helm of planning and coordinating.
Each was very pleasing to the eye, well-orchestrated, and incredibly organized from start-to-finish. With each of those couples, I was able to experience the fun that came with the opportunity to be stress-free, which is how many of the brides felt during their wedding day, and was a 180 degree difference from several other friends experiences. I knew that the most important element of any wedding planning for me would require the ability to balance the stress of a wedding with day-to-day life and work, so as soon as I saw that it was possible, I knew exactly who I was going to call when it was my turn.
We called Lori in the peak of wedding season, and even though we were getting married over a year later, we never felt less important than the bride getting married that upcoming weekend. At the end of every meeting, phone call, or email exchange she leaves you feeling prepared and ready for anything that can come your way. She also brings with her a wealth of fellow collaborative vendors to ease your mind as you are deciding on caterers, photographers and venues. I cannot say enough for the work and love that Lori put into our day, but I do know that I couldn't have done it without her.
When my previous wedding planner quit halfway through the year, I was panicked not having anything booked or any help and it was 7 months until the wedding! I got in contact with L...
ori Losee and I am SO SO grateful I went with this company. Lori made sure I felt confident and relaxed but also was very organized and I knew exactly what had to be done. She was so helpful and we were able to create the most BEAUTIFUL day. I am so grateful for this woman and the company Elegant Affairs. They did an amazing job and I would recommend them to every couple!
Don't hesitate - book Lori right now.
We were one of those couples that didn't think we needed an wedding coordinator. We were required to have a day of coordinator by our venue ...
so after months of planning on our own, we called Lori. From day 1 I wished that I had pulled the trigger months before. She organized what we had previously planned, clarified details, was an incredibly helpful coach at getting through the to do list in the month before, and helped every single one of our vendors show up as their best on the day of.
Most importantly - Lori is the best kind of friend you want to meet. Her selfless nature will blow you away and her professionalism takes so much weight off of the couples' shoulders. I am so so happy that she was next to us in those last few weeks - I only wish it could have been for longer!
Where do I begin. This Crew is top notch top notch from beginning to end. Nothing was forgotten, everything was perfect. Lori and her crew are amazing. She had every little detail...
from a complete moment-by-moment itinerary for all included in the wedding. To every single little detail you can imagine. I felt like I was on the set of the J-Lo wedding planner, something went wrong with my flowers and her crew immediately fixed it perfectly. They were extremely attentive to everyone's needs they made sure everything happened when it was supposed to happen to the letter. They made sure we exited the venue timely, they made sure any issues were properly addressed so there was no stress on the bride, the mother of the bride, the mother of the groom. She made sure that everything went smoothly and any behind the scenes glitches were unrecognizable. She knows her stuff and she's excellent at her job. Everyone that she recommended, outside vendors also top-notch! If you're looking for a wedding planner she's the one!
I have had the fortune to work with Elegant Affairs and specifically Lori - not once, not twice, but THREE times.
I first met Lori when I was the Maid of Honor in my best friend’s...
wedding. It was the only wedding I had ever attended where all the details were handled, and I was able to enjoy the day along with the bride and groom. I left that event knowing that Elegant Affairs had to plan my wedding (I wasn’t even engaged yet).
Fast forward one and a half years, and I was now engaged. We started to plan our wedding and we landed on a destination event and an in-town reception. This furthered my resolve that Lori was going to be critical to making our dreams a reality. Lori not only helped us plan a wedding in Cabo San Lucas (in addition to the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, and welcome happy hour), she also planned out the entire reception back home.
Lori makes her brides and their significant other feel like they are the only two people in the world. When she has a planning meeting with you, she really listens and makes sure that what is important to you is present on your special day.
She also is a negotiation ninja – be it in the markets in Mexico while we were picking out the décor for our reception, or on the phone with vendors who wanted to charge a crazy fee for upgraded chairs, she went to bat for us time and time again.
Without Lori we wouldn’t have been connected with our amazing photographer Eric James whose talents were above and beyond our expectations, or the incredibly talented Shane from Oak and Fig Floral who helped build table scrapes that our family and friends are still talk about. Even her husband Steve pitched in and acted as a bouncer when a group of people tried to crash our small 50-person wedding. Lori built us a team of people who were able to far exceed our wildest dreams and she did it on time, on budget, and in a foreign country.
Having a wedding planner for some people may seem like an added expense. However, I strongly encourage you to consider what you want your day to look like. Working with Lori provides the bride all the fun of planning the wedding without the drama. Through this process my husband and I not only got the wedding of our dreams, but we also gained lifelong friends. I cannot recommend Lori and her team enough, if you are on the fence I would encourage you to at least call and set up an initial meeting. I promise you won’t regret it!
Elegant Affairs is MARVELOUS!
Lori Losee planned and coordinated our September 2018 wedding. You may wonder why it took so long to write a review; honestly, there is no way to de...
scribe all the many details and nuances that Lori covers to give you the best day of your life.
Lori is a bulldog wrapped up in a sorority sister masquerading as a ninja. She created the exact wedding of our imaginations, giving recommendations and design insights. Lori took the stress of dealing with contracts and coordinating vendors; freeing us up to enjoy the design, DYI, friend and family bonding of the wedding planning process. She is the friend you want, the voice of reason you need, and the planner of your dreams!
With Lori helming the staff at Elegant Affairs, they delivered a day that was whimsical, sophisticated, a little quirky and full of love. They delivered a day that was all us! Behind the scenes Lori and her team were so well coordinated that you don’t even notice they are working magic to have your day flow smoothly. Every timeframe was hit, every design element executed to perfection, every detail thought of.
Do yourself a favor and hire Lori at Elegant Affairs. She is amazing. When we first met with Lori, we explained that we wanted a small, simple wedding at our home (20-25 guests). W...
e wanted it to be more like a house party, less like a wedding…and she delivered...big time!
From planning, decorations, seating, recommendations on a photographer, to writing the perfect script for our ceremony and backing us up when the caterer decided to bail...Lori was fantastic. Every one of our guests had a great time, everything came together. Even when we surprised her at the last minute with some minor changes (like when we told her a week before the wedding that he had a live band coming), she was professional, and on top of it all. Nothing fazed her!
Seriously people...if you want a professional who delivers at a great price and provides an amazing ceremony and event...she’s the one I’d recommend!
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