America's Oldest Family Farm
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David Hills
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Make Yourself At Home
Nestled amid 130 acres of rolling fields and tranquil woodlands in Durham, NH, Emery Farmstay offers you and your partner a breathtaking blend of history, charm, and rural elegance on your wedding day. Built in 1803, The Big Barn is at the heart of the property, and its fabulous post-and-beam structure provides a welcoming space for both intimate and lavish affairs.
You and a select group of guests will enjoy the luxurious on-site accommodations, thoughtfully appointed for this exact occasion.
A Little Bit of History Repeating
Founded in 1660 by Joseph and Mary Smith, Emery Farmstay proudly holds the distinction of being America’s oldest family farm, now lovingly cared for by the eleventh generation, David and Catherine. Beautifully restored historic homes, surrounded by pastures, blueberry fields, and the gentle rhythm of farm life, combine to create an atmosphere that is both timeless and deeply personal, a truly one-of-a-kind backdrop for a bespoke wedding celebration.
A Choice of Three Magnificent Homes
Each of the three on-site residences possesses its own distinctive character and charm. The Main House, a 5,000-square-foot retreat adorned with original artwork from around the world, offers three inviting bedrooms for couples and their closest loved ones. The Brown House, a recently renovated farmhouse, blends modern luxury with rustic sophistication and comfortably sleeps six guests. The Carriage House, originally built in the 1800s, has been lovingly transformed into a two-bedroom haven brimming with vintage charm.
So Much To Do, So Much To See
The dedicated team at Emery Farmstay is devoted to curating celebrations that embody both the natural beauty of the land and each couple’s unique vision. Guests can wander miles of scenic trails, savor seasonal delights like berry picking or hayrides, and visit the Market and Café to enjoy local produce and artisanal fare. Throughout every season, Emery Farmstay offers an unforgettable setting, where history, nature, and heartfelt hospitality come together in perfect harmony.
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Amenities
Ceremony Area
Dressing Room
Indoor Event Space
On-Site Accommodations
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Backyard
Barn
Farm & Ranch
Trees
Venue Service Offerings
Rentals & Equipment
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David Hills
Co-Owner
David and Catherine Hills are the owners of Emery Farmstay. They are 11th-generation owners and look forward to meeting each new couple.
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