Charming Country Club Ballroom
AWARD WINNER (9X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Nestled on a 50-acre golf course in Brentwood, NY, Essex Club is an idyllic setting for weddings and other occasions. This property offers an upscale venue experience, with the on-site event spaces ready to transform to fit any theme or décor scheme. Inspired by Lessing's Hospitality Group's over 130-year legacy of innovation and excellence in event design, the Essex Club team is committed to making every gathering they host extraordinary.
From the enchanting gazebo to the blossoming gardens, the Essex Club grounds are a haven for those hoping to exchange vows in the heart of nature. As guests await the happy couple's arrival, they can mingle and admire views of the nearby golf course. Couples and their guests can begin their celebration with a relaxing cocktail hour on the stone patio. There are several stunning photo locations on the property, so newlyweds won't have to travel too far from guests to capture their wedding portraits. Receptions at Essex Club take place in the beautiful ballroom, where up to 215 guests can enjoy a luxurious meal and dance the night away.
Every couple who hosts their big day at Essex Club will have the assistance of a professional planner to bring their vision for their event to life. From setting up ceremony and reception spaces to designing day-of timelines, their expertise extends to all aspects of planning and coordination. Wedding packages include catering, bartending, and equipment rentals. Couples will also have access to a private dressing suite to get ready with loved ones and prepare for their magical celebration at Essex Club.
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Pricing details
Starting prices
Reception:
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Ceremony:
$950
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Starting prices don't include service fees, taxes, gratuity, and rental fees. Guest count and seasonality may also affect prices. Peak season for this venue is May-Oct.
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Amenities
Ceremony Area
Covered Outdoors Space
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Ballroom
Country Club
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks
Cakes & Desserts
Food & Catering
Planning
Se Habla Español
Wedding Design
Rentals & Equipment
Service Staff
Transportation
Awards and Affiliations
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Reviews
4.9
out of 5.0114 reviews
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The Essex Club is highly praised by multiple reviewers for its exceptional service, beautiful decor, delicious food, and attentive staff, including Jessica, Rob, and Jansi. Guests appreciated the venue's affordability compared to others in the area, the personalized attention provided as they only host one wedding at a time, and the flawless execution of the events. The staff, from planning to execution, received glowing reviews for their professionalism, organization, and warmth, with guests describing their experiences as seamless, magical, and perfect. Overall, the Essex Club is highly recommended as an outstanding and unforgettable wedding venue with top-notch service and a welcoming atmosphere.Review photos
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Clarissa F
5.0
12/27/2024
I cannot say enough good things about the Essex Club (formerly Brentwood Country Club). The Essex club is an extremely affordable option compared to most places on Long Island. Living in Suffolk County, this is one of the few venues around that give off ballroom/ country club vibes. I had a bit of sticker shock when first getting quotes from venues and started to re think the whole having a big wedding thing, and then I came across the Essex Club. They have a great package and they are a Lessing’s venue. Not only was I able to get a great package, but because my wedding was the second week of November, I was able to get winter pricing compared to fall. This allowed me to book a Saturday night wedding without needing an insane minimum. Jessica at Essex club is truly amazing, and makes your day flawless with her attention to detail. I had a minor mishap with a different vendor day of the wedding and Jessica called them herself and had them fix it within 20 minutes, no questions asked. Because they only do one wedding at a time, their main focus is you all day and you are able to come to the venue 2 hours prior to your cocktail hour ( so no need for another place to take pictures). The food was amazing, and we got so many compliments. We had a very intimate wedding of about 100 people and the 10 tables of 10 was honestly the perfect fit. We got so many compliments on our choice of venue. The Essex Club is truly a hidden gem with a staff that makes you feel like part of the family.
Ryan S
5.0
10/05/2024
From beginning to end the team at The Essex Club was phenomenal. Jessica was so helpful and communicative and answered our questions. All the included vendors were fantastic. On our wedding day Rob was an impeccable host, and our bridal attendant, Jansi, was super attentive, quick, and very friendly. The Essex was the 3rd venue we looked at and we didn’t need to look any further. I can’t recommend them enough. The space was beautiful and they let us bring a unique photo op and were extremely accommodating with us about it. Thank you Essex Club for everything you did to help make our day amazing.
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Samantha K
5.0
10/05/2024
Nothing beats the essex club! From the beginning to the end Jessica was almost like an angel from above! Any questions no matter how stupid or how silly she always responded! Rob was amazing and Jancey was literally an angel! I would get married again just to have it there and will definitely be having my baby shower there! Even from the beginning where it was all new to us and every step of the way they were there to help!! When I tell you this venue was the best choice we could have made, I mean it !!We love you all!!!💗💗
Carynn S
5.0
9/18/2024
From the beginning with booking the venue with Jessica, through the entire process of planning, to the very end of the evening with packing up- all staff were absolutely amazing to work with! The venue was decorated so beautifully! I can’t think of one thing I would have changed!
Gianna S
5.0
8/27/2024
Our reception on 7/27/24 was amazing. It was the most magical day of our lives! The food and drinks were awesome and the decorations were arranged perfectly. The maitre’d Rob and bridal attendant Jancy were great as well!!
We would like to thank Jessica for all of her help and communication leading up to our special day. We also appreciated her arranging the flowers on our cake! She and the rest of the staff were wonderful and we are truly grateful for everything. We couldn’t have asked for a better experience!
Jordan A
5.0
8/25/2024
Booking our wedding at the Essex Club was truly a perfect experience. From beginning to end the communication was phenomenonal, the professionalism and courteousness of the staff was top notch and they really made our wedding better than we imagined. Jessica was amazing helping us plan our perfect wedding. Rob was absolutely incredible throughout the entire day and was on top of everything. Jansi was nothing short of perfect as a brial attendant and made my wife feel at ease and taken care of the entire day. The venue was beautiful and all the food was so delicious. I would recommend anyone looking for a truly prefect wedding to book with the Essex Club. They will make your day better than you could imagine!!
Sam D
5.0
8/25/2024
Jessica, Rob and Jansi were nothing short of incredible. We had the most incredible wedding day. The planning process was seamless. From the day we walked in and toured, to my thousand questions during the planning process, the tasting and the day of it was perfection. They executed every single detail, were present through our entire event. I have absolutely zero complaints!! This place isn’t just a 10/10 it’s a 10000/10
Lisa W
5.0
8/23/2024
Our wedding day at the Essex Club was Amazing! Jessica helped plan a seamless wedding day, the Maitre D and bridal attendant were incredible, the food and drinks were delicious!
Thank you for the Best Day of our lives
Sydney S
5.0
8/22/2024
I had my wedding in July 2024! Throughout over a year of planning the communication and professionalism were both top tier. Our coordinator Jessica always ensured our questions were met and the whole crew made our night perfect. The staff was SO fun and it truly is a hidden gem! I couldn’t recommend Essex club enough !
Katherine A
5.0
7/07/2024
I hosted my wedding on June 21st, 2024 at Essex Club and can't think of another place to do it. The service was exceptional from beginning to end, and the price was affordable. The manager was excellent at helping us stay on track and provided helpful advice leading towards the wedding. The management also ensured the cake, flowers, flower wall, decorations etc., were on time. The maitre d and bridal attendant provided by the venues were live savers. They helped me through the wedding and guided me through the whole process. Let me give you some examples of how efficient they were. My videographer was leaving early, so the matre d ensured I cut the cake early so the videographer could film it. He also helped us rehearse before the wedding so everything was planned out. My dress broke during the reception, and the bridal attendant sewed in. Thank you, Essex, for the Amazing work. I highly recommend Essex to anyone searching for exceptional service.
- Katherine A.
Allison W
5.0
7/03/2024
If you are looking for a venue that is absolutely beautiful without spending a down payment on a house check them out! My husband and I toured 7-10 venues before deciding to tour this place and once we did we both knew we were choosing here. We had a small 107 people wedding because anything more just seemed like too much. We had seen the venue set up a week before for a 140 person wedding and it was so nicely done. This venue offers everything and then some. Beautiful separate cocktail hour rooms (unlike some of the venues we visited that were double the money). Reception room was spread out and so nice! A gazebo area for guests to hang out and take cute pictures. The bartenders were on point with every drink and the food was amazing! The staff was beyond great, so attentive and responsive whenever needed. Their vendors were super convenient and very affordable. All in all I am so glad we chose this venue. It doesn’t get talked about enough and frankly I don’t know why. It is one of the nicest venues I have been to and didn’t make me feel like I was going broke. Take a tour and see what they can truly offer you!
Tiffany P
5.0
5/30/2024
There are no real words to express how much this venue really impressed me we have done a few events with them before and they have always delivered but when we decided to hold our wedding we really got to see how incredible they really were Jessica Robert and Jansi where absolutely perfect, kind, attentive, it feels like in many ways they became a part of our family and we truly couldn’t be more grateful for everything they have done for us the food was incredible best i have ever had. All the staff was very friendly and appreciative. This is really the only stop for events and weddings
We have been frequenting The Essex Club for the last several years. We run small gatherings for our friends on a yearly basis. The thought of having our wedding there had always seemed an unattainable goal in our minds until Robert came to us with everything we'd need to get that done. We were blown away at the deals that were offered, and overnight what had become a distant dream of getting married became something actually obtainable due to the very fair prices and arrangements that the Essex club offered. They were with us every step of the way all the way from hiring the photographer, hiring the florist, hiring the bakery, and even hiring the DJ. They even hosted open nights to try out the various appetizers and food choices that were available to us!
From day one, this venue has always had our best interests in mind. It's why we've been coming back to them for years. They aren't just looking to get the maximum amount of money from you, and it's refreshing in this day and age to find a venue that not only cares that your event goes off without a hitch, but really makes you feel like you're valued members of their family.
Robert and the rest of the staff of this venue stand head and shoulders above any other venue for this quality. If we could get married twice, we'd do it here a second time. EVERYONE told us that something goes wrong on the wedding day. Not ours. Essex Club was perfect. Flawless even. The food was also incredible and they went out of their way to accommodate us if we needed to make any changes or substitutions.
If you're looking for a venue, give this place a visit. We made memories at this venue that will be with us for the rest of our lives, and we hope that you can make memories like ours too.
Stephanie R
5.0
5/28/2024
Jessica Dobbins and everyone at Essex did such a wonderful job at our wedding. It was truly a magical day for us. They made sure that everything went smoothly and nicely. Their communication, professionalism, and creativity was above and beyond. I would absolutely recommend this venue to anyone looking for an affordable venue on Long Island. It was such a perfect day!
John H
5.0
4/22/2024
The evening was better than we could have imagined. Professional staff and great food. Well organized and lots of fun. Jessica, Rob and Jansi were awesome!
Y P
5.0
3/14/2024
I just had my wedding at Essex Club, and it was absolutely amazing! My guests enjoyed the ambiance, service, and incredible food - I am still getting texts from guests saying how it was the "best wedding" they had ever been to! Jessica and Rob were so fun to work with and truly supported my vision, and when it finally came true, it was a dream! I wholeheartedly recommend Essex Club for your wedding (or any event) you will not regret it!
Danielle F
5.0
2/23/2024
We were married here this weekend and have nothing but great things to say. Jessica was amazing to work with, timely and professional with all of our needs. Rob was excellent directing the day with his calm energy and ensured everything was perfect. The staff and food were also wonderful and everyone had such a good time thank you all!
Brittany E
5.0
12/04/2023
I had my wedding at Essex Club on 12/1/23 and cannot stop wishing I was reliving my wedding day just as it was! Everything worked out perfectly and Essex Club played the biggest part in that. From the moment my now husband and I stepped into the venue about a year ago up until our wedding night, Jessica could not have been more helpful, honest, and easy to work with. She was always willing to answer my hundreds of questions and give me an honest opinion. My maitre d, Rob, was the absolute BEST! My husband and family agree. My bridal attendant, Anna, was right beside me any time my bustle was down or my drink was empty. My friends and family all echoed positive sentiment… the food was great, the decor was great, everything came together so beautifully. I can’t recommend the Essex Club and their staff enough. They made our wedding!
Tiffany G
5.0
11/22/2023
Amazing through and through!! From the planning to the day of- everyone was super helpful, and kind! The food was amazing, and the staff as well!!
Sabrina P
5.0
11/15/2023
ESSEX CLUB IS 100/100
I had the best experience with them. Jessica is a sweet heart and she helped us and answered every question or concern we had. Our maitre D Rob took care of everything and everything ran smoothly. My bridal attendant Jancy was so attentive. She fixed my bustle immediately when my sister accidentally popped it . She always made sure I looked perfect for photos. The Venue was decorated beautifully! I couldn’t have been any happier . It was the best day of my life. The food was to die for. My guests are still
Talking about our wedding. You will not be disappointed if you book with Essex club.
Cailin A
5.0
10/27/2023
The day we walked into Essex and met Jessica the stress release I felt from all our wedding ups and downs so far was amazing. From the moment we met Jessica I knew it was meant to be. Jessica made the entire planning process easy, simple and stress free! The day of the wedding the entire staff was accommodating and so beyond sweet! The maître d’ Rob and my bridal attendant Jansi, made everything go so smoothly the day of and we didn’t have to worry about anything. When my fiancé got there early afternoon (since he was using the bridal suite to get ready) we wanted to add additional candles around our guest book etc for the atmosphere, as soon as he brought it to Robs attention, they added the candles right away and then touched base with us as soon as we got there after the ceremony to make sure everything was perfect before cocktail hour. The night was amazing, everyone can’t stop talking about the food and how beautiful everything was set up! We would not have changed a thing at all! Take a chance on this venue, I’m so glad we ended up here because I couldn’t have imagined our wedding anywhere else.
Jack N
5.0
10/21/2023
Jessica and the team at Essex Club created our perfect wedding day! Very easy to work with, affordable, and all around great people. They made the process very simple with helpful guides and vendor recommendations. Jessica answered all of our questions quickly via email, and was always a pleasure to work with.
The night of the wedding was seamless. The staff was very attentive and we only heard positive reviews from our guests. In fact, the guests all mentioned how wonderful the food was (made in house at Essex Club).
All in all, we are so happy that we chose Essex Club as our venue for our wedding. They made it a perfect day for us.
Stephanie G
5.0
9/29/2023
Oh my god. I don’t think there are really any words that can describe how amazing my wedding was here. All of the vendors were amazing and communicated perfectly.
Jessica was so amazing and made planning and everything so easy. She dealt with me constantly emailing her a million and one questions, my guest count changing for 4 days straight. She helped me with everything, and I left her with a list of how I wanted the decorations set up and they exceeded my expectations.
Rob made sure everything went so smoothly wedding day, he was constantly communicating with us on what was happening and always made sure we were okay and was always there to answer any questions we had. Such a sweetheart and calmed me down a bunch before my first look.
Jancy, my heart. She really was a rockstar, held my dress and veil the entire time while we were taking pictures, she had a whole platter of food ready for us in the bridal suite with our favorite drinks. She always made sure me and my husband had food and drinks during the reception. She even surprised us and gave us a sample platter of all 3 foods we chose.
I was so happy with everything and it made my day so memorable. Everyone has been contacting us saying how amazing the wedding was and I cannot thank you all enough.
Isamar G
5.0
9/02/2023
The moment I walked into the Essex Club I knew that my wedding was going to be there. Starting with Lauren my sales rep and event coordinator, she was such a sweet person during my first visit and took her time to explain everything and answer all my questions. Then Jessica the venue manager, she was as amazing as Lauren. She was professional and very responsive. Lauren and Jessica made my wedding planning feel like a freeze. Going with their petite wedding package (including recommended vendors) made my planning so much easier. All the recommended vendors were amazing and exceeded my expectations. Also, the wedding package is one of the most affordable you will find in New York, and it is totally worthy.
Now onto the day of my wedding, Rob the maître d was AMAZING. He took care of everything, and the event flowed without any hiccups. My guests kept talking about how organized the wedding was. And Ana, my bridal attendant also did a great job. Not only did she help me and my husband throughout the night but also helped us with translating from English to Spanish to my parents who do not speak English. Ana and Rob also did an amazing Job at bustling my dress. It was so difficult to do and took some time, but it came out beautiful. I got compliments about the way my dress was bustled during the night.
All the staff was amazing. My guests truly enjoyed the food and the drinks. People loved the taco bar for the cocktail hour and the short ribs for our plated dinner. Everything looked classy and amazing, and everybody felt well taken care of.
The only regret I have was not going for their regular wedding package for 100 people. I ended up way over the guest count for the petite package which is 50 people and had to pay extra for a few things to accommodate the extra people. Their regular package would have probably been cheaper. Lauren had recommended for this to me, and I wished I listened to her. A piece of advice, listen to what they recommend you. The have been in the wedding business for years and they know better.
Finally, a big Thanks to the Essex club for making my planning process stress-free and my wedding day so special!
Jovileen B
5.0
8/30/2023
My wedding was amazing!! I’m so grateful for Jessica and Lauren helping me out with planning everything and making it a very stress-free planning period. Rob and Anna were as amazing and extremely helpful during the actual wedding day, they made me feel comfortable and confident which allowed us to enjoy our wedding to the fullest. I’m also so thankful for the catering staff at the Essex club who provided us and our guests with delicious food! The venue itself is charming with the gazebo and outdoor tent for the cocktail hour.
Arianna S
5.0
8/17/2023
I had my wedding at the Essex Club on Saturday and it was amazing! They've been doing weddings for an impressive amount of years and it shows. They are a well oiled machine. Everything is organized to ensure that you have zero concerns on your wedding day. Their attention to detail is impressive. They think of everything. My husband and I planned our wedding in a little over 2 months and felt no stress during the planning process. Jessica ensured that we understood everything and told us what we needed to get and what they were taking care of (they take care of almost everything, except for your wedding signs and any add ons you want to bring). Their vendors know the place very well so there's no need for you to stress or go through the craziness that's depicted on wedding sites or by Youtubers. Their all inclusive pricing is the best I've seen from my research. They make the place look great for your big day. Great food! Seamless, effortless, everyone is super knowledgeable. Just listen to them and let go. Your day of attendants take care of everything for you. Our photographer got us to look good and we don't even like pictures 😊. We all had a good time! My husband and I prayed for God to give us a seamless wedding with the perfect venue, (with only 2+ months of planning) and He certainly did. Even the weather (forecasted for thunderstorms) was clear and perfect! Super happy and definitely will recommend!
Joann M
5.0
7/06/2023
I just had my daughters bridal shower at The Essex Club. From the second I walked in to look at this venue until the party ended Lauren was absolutely fantastic. She is amazing. So friendly and accommodating and helpful. We had a brunch. The food was so good all of my guests commented that food was delicious. The presentation was perfect. The staff was so super friendly and always smiling and attentive. I have had many parties and I have to say having such a happy vibe from every single person working made an unbelievable experience for all of my guests. People are still talking about the shower. The entire party my matre’d was spot on. Setting up, serving food, helping guests, helping at my flower bar and just coordinating everything in such a warm and friendly way. Everything was perfect. I truly can not say enough.
Alison M
5.0
5/30/2023
Driving back home the day after the wedding and i had to write this review immediatley after such an amazing experience.
The essex club is beautiful and the staff were all pleasant, professional, and attentive. Jessica was great throughout the planning process. Rob (maitre d) and Jancy (bridal attendent) were so good to work with and were very personable and helpful. My guests all raved about the food. The vibes were immaculate. I highly highly recommend having your wedding here.. everything was perfect. Day couldnt have been smoother. This venue was truly a gem and the wedding couldnt have been better. So a big thank you to all the staff that helped make this day so special.
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Tam W
5.0
5/30/2023
Our wedding at Essex Club went off without a hitch and our guests had a great time! The level of service and attention to detail from the entire team was above and beyond our expectations. Guests LOVED the cocktail hour and dinner, compliments to the servers and chefs. Special shout out to the team (especially Jessica, Rob and Jancie) for their willingness to help and pivot to our hectic schedule.
We knew it was our venue when we met with Jessica on day 1 and she helped us envision what our day would look like. They truly delivered! We would recommend this venue to any bride/groom looking to wed in Long Island. The venue is beautiful but the experience/customer service is what really makes it!
Corey J F
5.0
5/24/2023
We just had our wedding at the Essex Club and it was A DREAM! We did the full package including photos, cake, limo, and flowers. We just subbed a band for the DJ they would normally provide. Everything was PERFECT. Jessica and Lauren were our point people, and they were on their game. Our Maitre D Rob was the best. Our bridal assistant Cindy was incredible. The servers, bartenders, chef and BOH staff... all 10/10.
The food was great! Recommend the shortrib, chick asiago and mahi mains... chicken and waffles / pulled pork apps. It actually poured rain on our special day, but that didn't deter ANYONE, and in fact, it may have even made it more fun. Honestly, I can't imagine it being better. The Essex Club and everyone involved get's our full endorsement. THANK YOU!!!
Amanda S
5.0
5/24/2023
We absolutely LOVED our wedding at the Essex club!! Jessica was amazing to work with from the very beginning.
Jansi and Rob were such a pleasure to work with the day of and kept everything running so smoothly. The rest of the staff was amazing as well! All of our guest loved the venue and the food. They kept saying it’s a hidden gem! Thankfully we had such perfect weather and we were able to use the outdoor ceremony area ( which is my favorite thing about the venue). It truly was the best day ever!
Christina R
5.0
4/25/2023
AMAZING! The manager, Jessica, who helped to facilitate all communications and details is super thorough, kind, & helpful! She helped with overall suggestions, decorations, etc.! Essex Club was able to accommodate our dream wedding with only a few months (5) notice. The maitre D, Rob, was a rockstar too. He was hilarious, knowledgeable, helpful, and personable. He even helped us figure out our wedding entrance! The entire staff truly made the day a JOY for us. I couldn’t stop smiling! We had nothing to worry about. We were told the venue was recently renovated before Covid which was such a plus for the price point! The food was delicious (our guests loved it)! This place is truly worth looking into (& booking). Thanks Essex Club team; you really helped in making the start of our forever great!!!! We hope to have another excuse to come back soon.
Jacqueline M
5.0
3/21/2023
We cannot say enough nice things about the Essex Club. The Sales Manager Jessica was literally a saint the entire wedding planning process. She made our experience great and kept us on track with our planning. She was readily available by call or email and it was reassuring to have someone so experienced and knowledgeable helping us. We are so grateful for her! The Maitre D Rob made sure that our night went exactly how we envisioned it. Even if there were small things that we were stressed about he stepped in and made sure that it was taken care of. It was calming to know that he was there taking care of everything behind the scenes so we could just enjoy our night. The bridal attendant Jansi was so incredibly nice and made sure that I had everything I needed on that day. Whether it was holding my phone or lipstick or reminding me to drink water she made my anxiety about the day decrease significantly.
The food was incredible. Not only did it look amazing but it also tasted amazing. We loved that you got to pick different stations for cocktail hour. Our guests raved about the food for quite a while after saying how good and flavorful it was.
I’d recommend the Essex Club to anybody! There’s a wonderful team, beautiful venue, and amazing food that is definitely worth checking out. Thank you for making our wedding day dreams come true. It was truly the best day of our lives.
Courtney K
5.0
12/14/2022
The Essex Club was a magical experience for my wedding (December 2022). From the very first moment I went to look at the Essex Club, I knew that this is where I could see myself having my dream wedding. From the beginning, Jessica was amazing with keeping in communication with me, even before my fiancé and I chose the Essex Club. She was there throughout the whole planning process, answering TONS of my emails and being so prompt with responses when asking her a million different things.
The day of the wedding was absolutely an ease and stress-free. Jessica had done an amazing job with all of our decor, making sure everything was meticulously placed, which made the venue look extra special. Rob, our Maitre D', made the day of a breeze. Not only did he go over the timeline with my fiancé, he went over it with me separately to make sure nothing was missed. He was so attentive, I am SO appreciative to have had him there with us the whole night.
Jansi, my bridal attendant for the evening, was BEYOND accommodating. Not only was she there to support me with pictures (making sure my veil and dress were in the right space) but when I started to feel very dizzy at one point during our pictures. I was gone and back in 2 minutes flat with Advil and water for me. I am forever grateful to have had her, throughout the night, constantly being there for not only me but for my fiancé.
I cannot recommend the Essex Club enough! Not only was it such an amazing experience to have my wedding there, it also was VERY affordable. My husband and I are so thankful to the Essex Club
Shannon M
5.0
12/08/2022
We LOVED the Essex Club. Jessica was so amazing and easy to work with and she really made my vision come to life. The venue doesn’t look like much when you visit but it really transforms into such a beautiful place to celebrate. It’s definitely one of the more affordable venues on LI but nothing about it seems or looks cheap. The food was AMAZING. Everyone raved about it. The day ran totally smoothly. Jessica used extra florals they had around that matched our colors to make the place even more beautiful. You will absolutely not regrets having your wedding here. It was the best day of our lives. I could talk about how amazing it was for days.
Emily B
5.0
12/06/2022
We had our wedding on 11/04/2022 and we could not have been happier that we chose to have our wedding at the Essex Club. From the beginning Jessica was absolutely amazing to work with. She was so accommodating and was able to make all of our visions come true. We had about 130 guests and everyone fit so comfortable. Jansi was the bridal attendant and she was literally the best. She was always by mine and my husbands side getting us whatever we needed. She was there for us throughout the entire night and was so attentive. Rob, the matrie`d was great and kept the wedding running so smoothly from start to finish. The Essex Club truly made my husband and I`s dream come true for our wedding day. We wish we could relive the day and every second of thanks to the Essex Club staff!! The food was also amazing and our guests still rave about all the food!! We wish we could relive our wedding every weekend! They are the absolute best hidden gem on Long Island.
Emma T
5.0
11/20/2022
Essex Club was amazing from start to finish! This venue really deserves more recognition. We booked in June 2020 for August 2022 and everything we were promised upon signing the contract was fulfilled over two years later. Working with Jessica, the sales manager, was a dream. She was always so kind and quick to respond--even with the million questions I'd send her about the smallest details.
What really blew me away was that we brought in very minimal decorations (framed childhood photos and some extra fake flowers leftover from my bridal shower) and Jessica laid our stuff out and then filled in the gaps with some decorations of their own like a welcome sign and crate for the entryway and even some small lanterns down the aisle in the outdoor ceremony space. It really added a nice touch and looked so beautiful.
Rob and Cole, maître d and captain, were simply lovely and put everyone at ease the day of with their calm presence. They rehearsed the ceremony multiple times with different groups of family and bridal party members while pictures were being taken. We had a guest fall ill suddenly during cocktail hour and spend a large portion of the evening in the bridal suite recovering. We asked Rob to have food and drinks brought to the suite and this was taken care of quickly and without issue.
The bridal attendant Jansi was AMAZING and by the end of the night felt like my long lost best friend. She joked that she would be my shadow for the day and every time I turned around she was right there, holding my dress or bringing me water. There was already a sampling of cocktail hour food waiting for us in the bridal suite after the ceremony and she packed up a few of the hot pretzels from the exit station for us before they were all taken.
This venue is perfect for couples looking for a beautiful space at an affordable price. I don't see more than 150-175 guests fitting comfortably in the ballroom area without having a small dance floor area, but we had 125 guests and it was a perfect fit. The outdoor ceremony area with the flowers and gazebo is beautiful and our guests raved about the food served during cocktail hour and dinner. The only thing I hope for the future of this venue is a larger bridal suite, or at least an en suite bathroom! Once guests started to arrive I had to stay in the suite since it's located just off the lobby. You won't be disappointed if you trust Essex Club and their staff with your special day!
Eleni D
5.0
11/16/2022
I don’t even know where to start, our wedding at the Essex Club was better than we ever could have imagined! From the beginning and first touring the Essex Club, Jessica made the entire process of planning our day so easy. Jessica was always available for my hundreds of questions I had regarding all aspects of our wedding and was quick to respond. We went with the wedding package which made everything super simple. The day of our wedding I can truly say there was not one hiccup, everything went according to plan. The way the reception area was set up was perfect. The bridal attendant Jansi was an absolute angel, she was always available as soon as we turned our heads to look for her, she kept our drinks and plates full the entire night. We had so many compliments on the food and service throughout the night and even in the weeks after our wedding. The Essex Club is truly a hidden gem, I would absolutely have other events here in the future. We truly had the best day, we are forever grateful for choosing the Essex Club.
Kristen R
5.0
11/15/2022
I can not express into word how thankful and grateful I am that, my husband and I, found jess and the Essex crew! From the very beginning of our wedding planning journey to now post wedding they have been the utmost professional and helpful. Jess the sales manager, is absolutely fantastic and made every step of planning the easiest it can be… Rob the maitre’d was amazing also… from the day of tasting, going through little things just to make us feel better to the day of going thru everything and asking for each specific thing we wanted! The bridal attendant Jansi… OMG we love her and wish we good take her home with us!!! I wish I could articulate this better. But, we are just so blessed to have found this venue and the people that work here made everything, everything we ever wanted! Every vendor ever piece of food every minute was amazing from beginning to end
Stephanie B
5.0
11/13/2022
My wife and I got married here yesterday. We have to say, they made this the best experience!
Jessica helped us from the beginning stages of the planning process. Any question or concerns we had, she was there to help almost instantly. The night of we had Rob as our Maitre’d and he was amazing. He kept the night fun, light and organized. His attention to detail and personality made you feel like your wedding day was in safe hands. Our bridal attendant, Jansi was more than we can ask for. She was there for absolutely anything. Kept us eating and hydrated so we were ready to go at all points. She talked us through any concerns and really just made us feel supported.
Other than the people who helped us have this magical day, the hall on its own is wonderful. You walk in and it’s beautiful. When it’s set up for your day, it is elegant, warm and very inviting. The outside is just as magical as all our pictures were taken by the tree lines, falling leaves, and gazebo. Gorgeous.
The food was outstanding. Serving sizes were more than enough and our guests loved the options. With a vegan and vegetarian menu always available, that was crucial for us because of some food restrictions in the family.
As a whole, this was a magical place for a party. There is nothing we would’ve changed about our day and we owe that to all the staff as Essex for accompanying us
Edain W
5.0
11/02/2022
Jessica and her team is amazing. From the initial interaction, to my endless questions and freak out moments. Jessica ensured everything was beautiful for my wedding. On the day Jansi and Rob ensured that all.my needs were met and that of our guests. They were attentive and ensured everything ran smoothly. The food was A class and kept the guests raving about the meal all night. Essex Club is the place to go if you want a stress free, beautiful wedding. I would use them again and again.
Lois K
5.0
11/01/2022
I want to thank Jessica and her team for a remarkable wedding. They made our day so easy and carefree it was amazing. The maitre and bridal attendant showed me for the first time in my life what personality and professionalism bring to their profession. The guests raved about the wait staff. Please thank everyone for the wonderful job they all did especially as I said the attentiveness of the maitre 'd and my bridal attendant. I will be recommending to everyone the Essex Club as will my guests who couldn't say enough of the great food. Gooo Lessing's!!
Gema C
5.0
10/26/2022
To start off I am so so so grateful to all of the Essex staff for making our wedding day so memorable. I’m still in awe! Jessica was wonderful to work with and answered all the hundreds of questions I had. She was so responsive and helped me in every aspect. Rob- was also so great during the day of the event. He insured we had drinks and kept us in check with our timeline throughout the night. Jansi, the bridal attendant was literally an angel. She made sure I ate, & she ensured I was okay and helped me with my dress all night long. Albert & I are still on cloud nine and are forever grateful to everyone at the Essex Club! Thank you so much! I highly recommend this vendor!
Natalia S
5.0
10/25/2022
The Essex club is simply the best. Jessica worked with me for several months to ensure I booked my perfect date. I know no one is lee does that! Unlike so many other wedding locations I visited, there are no hidden fees or gimmicks to worry about. Communication is clear, concise and timely. She offered me so much wise guidance every single time!
The vendors that are part of the packages are incredible. I worked with Dalsmier and they stayed within my budget and brought the most beautiful fresh flowers & decor.
Park avenue offered a competitive package and captured our day!
I could not have planned my wedding in only two months, without Jessica and the team. The day of, I had a few scares (from vendors not in the package) and Jessica came right in to handle my nerves and make my wedding day just perfect.
I loved my incredibly sweet and knowledgeable bridal attendant and super helpful Maitre D. I had 7 children in my wedding party and he knew just how to handle it all.
The venue is just gorgeous and my guests loved the food and drinks. If you are looking for a beautiful venue, with incredible staff and no hassle communication, Essex is your place.
I want to have my 10 year anniversary there and can only hope Jessica is still leading the way!
Nathaly M
5.0
10/18/2022
Jessica from the beginning was a dream to work with. Always available to answer my emails with my tons of questions. My bridal attendant we met her at the venue show case and requested her instantly. She made sure me and my husband ate, had drinks in our hands, and worked so good to make sure we had a great time. Rob the maître’d was phenomenal. Our best man’s entrance had some technical issues due to some proper he had and Rob ran to the rescue to make sure he was able to do his entrance as needed. We also got informed by family how amazing the staff was. Very informative, gave great directions on where guests needed to go or be. There was no complaint insight. Our only regret was not extending the party. Bartenders took care of our guests, there was literally not a single staff member that didn’t contribute to how amazing the day was. Id recommend Essex Club 1000 times over and over.
Jessica H
5.0
10/12/2022
I had my wedding at Essex Club in October and it was honestly one of the best nights of my life! The food and staff were amazing and my guest gave so many compliments overall about the venue. Jessica the manager was amazing over the past two years with helping me plan this event and answering any questions I had right away! Rob my maitre D was on top of everything the day of and Jansi my bridal attendant was there for whatever we needed! I can’t say enough how amazing the staff is and how beautiful and clean this venue is. Highly recommend this venue and hope to have future events here. Also the short rib was amazing lol!
Stephanie H
5.0
10/08/2022
Just had my daughter's wedding at essex club. From the day we booked the venue till after the final everything was just perfect. The vendors that they work with were amazing and the staff Jessica, Rob and Jansi were amazing. Even the guests raved about everything from the food the service. I would have no problem using essex club for any future events
Elizabeth P
5.0
9/28/2022
My son got married at the Essex Club on 9/10/2022. The weather was perfect and Jessica the manager and Rob the maitre d’ along with the efficient staff handled all the details to make their wedding day a memorable day. All our guests loved the food and had a wonderful time. The outdoor space, cocktail area and reception hall were all decorated beautifully. Best day ever!
Sara V
5.0
9/28/2022
Essex Club was incredible! Jessica was on the ball for our whole planning process; she answered all of our questions promptly. Rob and Jansi were AMAZING day of. They coordinated everything perfectly and the day couldn't have gone smoother.
Jeanick M
5.0
9/08/2022
This place is a hidden Gem! Not enough people know about it! From the beginning till the end. Jessica, the sales manager was awesome and always available to answer any questions we had. The staff there made everything seamless. I cannot rave enough about the Maître D , Rob. The service was top notch. The food was great and a lot of my guests called me after to tell me that this was the best wedding of 2022! They made my dream wedding come true
Jassury D
5.0
8/05/2022
My wedding was AWESOME! Thanks to the staff at Essex club. The food was great, Jessica was great and very responsive with all the questions and emails I sent. Rob was great in ensuring that the day went as scheduled and Yanzi was phenomenal (my mom calls her BFF). That is how great everyone at Essex Club was. Finding this venue was truly a blessing, the package deal that includes DJ, Limo, Floral, Cake and Photography is cost effective. I could not have found a better place to host our wedding at. I wish I could do it again soon that is how great it was. Thank you Essex!
Jacqueline M
5.0
7/27/2022
I am still in awe, of the experience that I had a the Essex Club. We had our Family Reunion at the Essex Club on Sunday, July 10. EVERYTHING WAS PERFECT!! The Food was Amazing!
From the first day, that I met Lauren, I knew that I was going to book my Reunion with the Essex Club. Her warm Smile and personal approach, assured me that everything was going to be perfect. Lauren aims to accommodate you and make you feel so comfortable, that just meeting with her calms your every anxiety. During my planning of the Reunion, My aunt passed away. My aunt was one of our Elders, that we were Celebrating. I called Lauren with the news and she instantly, without hesitation started addressing my concerns. Not once did I call or email her, and she didn’t respond within the hour. I am so Grateful to her. This Young Lady is a True Angel. The only way, that I can describe her is “ABOVE AMAZING”.
The Essex Club, has acquired a “True Gem”. She is so young, with a Heart of Gold. She takes care of your catering experience, like she was doing it for herself. Lauren is a one of a kind.
Lauren couldn’t be there on the date of my event. But like I said, she takes her Catering personal. She left me with Rob. What a Joy!! Rob was there, for whatever and whenever we needed him. He catered to our every need. He even helped us, with an issue on our Charter Bus. To say that Rob was AMAZING, is an UNDERSTATEMENT.
Thank you Lauren, from the bottom of my Heart for Everything and Making Our Family Reunion The Celebration of a Lifetime.
Thank you Rob, for putting the finishing touches on our Reunion and making it A Memory that will last Forever.
Elizabeth B
1.0
6/26/2022
Smells like like an old building… like mold.
The food is HORRIBLE.
The flooring is run down in the “ball room”
They told us we can come and set up for our party at a certain time the. Changed it the night before because they booked appointments!??!
They are NOT welling to work with you AT ALL.
And they charge 695$ for the uplighting wtf??
Amanda S
5.0
6/15/2022
The Essex Club was beyond exceptional to my husband and I from start to finish. I planned this wedding in 5 weeks and Jessica, the manager, did literally everything in her power to make my day not only happen but made sure it was beyond beautiful! She really went above and beyond from the first day and was extremely attentive and kind throughout the whole process, I cant say enough about her!!
Jansi was my bridal attendant and she was with me literally every step of the way that night, I had a huge train and she flawlessly handled it as well as made sure I was taken care of and ok the whole night, she made sure i always had a drink in my hand and always had food on my plate too!!
Rob was wonderful as well and helped direct me on the walkout, he dealt with my crazy wedding party very well!
The venue itself was so beautiful, Jessica listened to every decorative vision I gave her and executed it! The food was delicious and my guests are still talking about it.
All in all I give them a 10 out of 10!!! I would 100% recommend!
desiree b
5.0
3/25/2022
Had my wedding on 3/19. From initial walk through to the day of my wedding we couldn’t have asked for a better venue. Jessica is amazing. she made the entire process stress free and enjoyable. answered all my questions and guided me through decisions to make the day a success. Rob the maitre d was on top of everything the night of. he kept us on time & made sure we always knew what was happening next while listening to my requests. Jancy, my bridal attendant was a sweetheart & never left our side. had my dress fluffed & bustled all night & made sure my husband & i had everything we needed. everyone raved about the food & how beautiful the venue itself is. they truly made our day perfect. my husband & i said over & over again they were a 10/10 & we recommend them to every bride out there!
Elizabeth C
5.0
3/08/2022
The Essex in Brentwood IS THE BEST. The staff there Jessica and Loren , Rob Maitre D, Jansi the bridal attendant and wait staff AMAZING. I was so busy that they helped in every way. Jessica and Loren so awesome they helped in everything. Rob was only one to relax us. Jansi actually looked for a ring we lost and the wait staff would refill everyone’s drinks. All my guest said food was delicious but the wait staff and bartenders amazing. If I had to do it again I would go back there.
Odalys A
5.0
12/14/2021
I am so happy that I picked the Essex Club as my wedding venue. Jessica D. and Rob (Maître D) and the rest of the staff went above and beyond to make sure the day was stress free and absolutely PERFECT! I would recommend to anyone to have their wedding here.
Rachel P
5.0
10/24/2021
I had my wedding at The Essex Club in Sept 2021 and it was a perfect day. I want to shout out 3 people. Jessica the sales manager worked with me from the very beginning, and was super responsive to my dozens (And dozens!) of emails and questions. Day of, Rob the maitre'd and Jansi the bridal attendant were so incredibly kind and attentive and helpful, and Jessica was there too and also helping getting last minute things set up as well. Rob and Jansi made sure I had everything I need and even thought of some things I might need/want before I could even ask. All my guests commented on how beautiful the venue was - with the 3 distinct spots - outside for the ceremony, the beautiful indoor/outdoor space for the cocktail hour, and the indoor reception space. And multiple people told me it was the best food they've had at a wedding! It was the perfect day and I can't thank the staff at the venue enough.
Amanda P
4.0
10/08/2021
Lessing’s is truly an amazing company, Essex being newly renovated is such a hidden gem! Jessica is so good at her job and was wonderful to communicate with. She was also a fellow covid bride and was very open and honest during the process. We had the whole place to ourselves on the 17th and so we went there early to take photos and do the first look. We came back after the church for more photos and then the cocktail hour started. Unfortunately, my grandma fell walking out the front steps during the cocktail hour, she wasn’t drinking yet but was talking to others while walking down them. She was rushed to the hospital where she was treated for a head wound and came back (like the trooper she is). Essex was great about it and checked in on her periodically; I do hope they get a railing installed because they are narrow steps with no railing so believe it’s a hazard. My mom is working with them now regarding the hospital bills since they do have insurance for these types of situations. They called a few days after to check up on her. There also was a bartender that was very new, like second day on the job that was very rude to guests and got drunk at my own wedding. My dad mentioned it the next day and they confirmed he was fired. Other than those situations, they were awesome and kept the day running smoothly.
Amarilys T
5.0
8/25/2021
Great experiece here on my wedding 7/24/21. The staff was beyond great on top of everything and super nice. The venue was immaculate decorations were put out exactly how I wanted ! The food was so good I honestly have nothing negative to say about this place. Im beyond happy with everything over all ! Reccomend them 100% for your next event ! Jessica is amazing as well very nice to work with and always makes sure your happy ! Thank you Essex Club !!!! 😊 Happy Bride here !