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A couple is the center of a wedding. We endeavor to make your story- your love, your hobbies, your passions- shine. Whether you want to perform your first dance 50 feet in the air on ropes, incorporate your culture's traditions, or have a wizard duel, we make it happen. It's your party, let's have some fun with it!
We do the heavy lifting, so you don't have to stress! Our team has over a decade of professional experience handling every detail of creating unique, unforgettable events, whether it's for 50 or 700 guests (yes, we really did a wedding with 700 guests). We've done everything from a circus wedding to gorgeous ballrooms, and we love them all!
Equally Wed Certified Professional.
Our pricing ranges from $1,800- $3,000 for coordination, and $6,000 for planning.
LGBTQ+-owned and Woman-owned Business
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Merida
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A public relations professional, Merida fell into wedding planning from an event management position. The energy and love from weddings continued to draw her back to the industry, and she committed to the industry six years ago. She has orchestrated weddings across the United States and internationally since then.
Prior to wedding planning, Merida created corporate and non-profit events around the globe. These high-stakes environments honed her skill set to handle any crisis for any wedding.
Merida delights in alternative weddings, and the small details that make every couple different.
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4.9
out of 5.0117 reviews
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Merida, an exceptional wedding planner, received glowing reviews from couples for her outstanding services. Described as a North Star throughout the planning process, Merida's experience, creativity, and meticulous attention to detail ensured that each couple's wedding day was stress-free and tailored to their vision. From quirky themes to inclusive planning approaches, she flawlessly executed weddings, earning praise for her calm demeanor, industry knowledge, and personal touch in creating memorable and seamless events. Couples highly recommend Events by Merida for her professionalism, support, and ability to exceed expectations, making her an invaluable asset for any wedding.Review photos
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Emily F
5.0
1/19/2026
Merida is the wedding planner we dreamed of for our big day. Right away from our first meeting with her, we recognized her priority was first-and-foremost about our experience as t...
he couple, which we truly valued. In a world where family, friends, social media and the wedding industry can pull engaged couples in every which way, Merida was our North Star through it all! Our months working with Merida were incredibly fun, hilarious and light-hearted while always keeping us on track, taking all the stress out of planning. Merida also VERY experienced, in-tune with venders, industry standards, necessities versus nice-to-haves, while always staying poised and sharp for any and all issues that may have arose.
Our wedding was a quirky venue and theme and she took on our challenge of “A Hobbit Hole Wedding with hints of America Revolutionary War” at our family farm, without missing a beat. Merida was able to start shaping a vision based on her experience almost immediately with dozens of vendors but helped narrow it down we could reasonably choose and tailor our experience to the wedding of our dreams. The choice process was super easy from floral options to photographer, Merida created a very helpful “bracket” to help us find vendors who best fit our style.
Merida ensured that we were able to keep a sense of peace through the process by coordinating the 17 vendors (Merida, thank you and we are so sorry for being so extra). She was always a phone call or text away to resolve any questions that came up super quickly and helpfully and with a super friendly and warm experience. We know we were not her only clients but sometimes it felt like we were with all her attention.
By the weekend of our wedding, it truly felt like we as a couple were able to enjoy every moment of our experience. The experience was joyous not just for us, but for everyone at our wedding and that was all down to Merida and the carefully curated event. Without her guidance, we may have chosen some rogue elements and as a couple who got married the same year as a ton of friends, the stories you hear can be so stressful. We cannot stress enough her industry knowledge absolutely saved us from any worries.
Merida is the absolute GOAT. We cannot recommend her enough, especially for all you creative couples out there. She is the biggest cheerleader, support, the wisest counselor, and King Solomon when you need her to be (sometimes you do two cakes because theres no need to disagree when you need that much cake anyway). Merida, we love you. Truly. Thank you for the best weekend EVER.
Brava Merida! You’re a queen and a wizard.
~Dan & Emily
Carly B
5.0
12/30/2025
Hiring Merida was the smartest thing we did while planning our wedding. We appreciated how she really listened to us about our vision and her willingness to customize the day witho...
ut judgement. She advocated for us during the entire planning process and on our big day. She was responsive to all of our questions and very thorough with her timetable. We appreciated her calm presence during hectic moments and she was considerate of the sensory and neurodivergent needs of our guests. Her staff were just as wonderful and we'll recommend her to anyone who's planning to get married.
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Anna S
5.0
12/29/2025
We cannot say enough wonderful things about Merida! From the very beginning, she was organized, calm, and truly made us feel supported every step of the way. As a lesbian couple, i...
t meant so much to work with a planner who was genuinely inclusive. Everything felt natural, affirming, and thoughtfully handled without us ever having to explain or correct anything.
Planning an out of state wedding while juggling busy schedules can be chaotic, but Merida was endlessly patient and kind. We weren’t always great at sticking to scheduled appointment times, and she never once made us feel stressed, rushed, or pressured. Instead, she met us where we were and helped keep everything moving in a way that felt supportive rather than overwhelming.
On the wedding day, everything ran seamlessly. She arrived with an entire case of emergency supplies, from electrolytes, to double-sided tape for dresses, to straws for drinks so we wouldn’t mess up our makeup. She handled vendors, timelines, and all the behind-the-scenes details so we could actually relax and be present.
Beyond being an incredible planner, Merida truly became someone we looked forward to talking to. By the end, she felt like a friend. We were genuinely sad when the wedding was over and realized we wouldn’t have our regular Zoom check-ins anymore!
Hiring Merida was one of the best decisions we made. We are so grateful for her professionalism, warmth, and care, and would recommend her without hesitation to any couple.
Bree T
5.0
12/16/2025
My wife and I hired Merida less than six months out from our wedding, and our only regret is that we didn't hire her sooner. For our queer, neurodivergent, busy selves, Merida was ...
the perfect vendor to work with. She helped us pull off the perfect fall wedding!
Emily B
5.0
11/22/2025
We hired Events by Merida for day-of coordination, and working with Merida was truly one of the best decisions we made for our wedding. Our wedding was on Halloween and we wanted a...
spooky yet playful vibe, and she completely understood and embraced the vision. On the wedding day, she worked alongside Laura, who was also absolutely wonderful. They both fit right in with our guests and brought such great energy to the entire day.
Merida was incredibly prepared for every possible situation. She steamed our dresses the morning of the wedding (something we hadn’t even thought about) and came equipped with a full emergency kit for anything that could come up. She coordinated with all of our vendors ahead of time and managed everything flawlessly on the day itself. Thanks to her, we didn’t have to worry about a single detail.
She kept the entire day running smoothly and perfectly on schedule, all while making sure we felt comfortable, supported, and genuinely able to enjoy the moment. Merida truly went above and beyond in every way. She was the lynchpin that held everything together and made our wedding day absolutely perfect.
We cannot recommend Events by Merida highly enough.
Alexandra H
5.0
9/07/2025
Merida is exactly who you want to have on your team on your wedding day! I used Merida for her wedding management services, and she is truly invaluable. Merida's services felt like...
I had a friend, who is incredibly organized and knowledgeable, by my side, who can handle anything that came our way. She is so professional but easy to communicate with, and I felt like I could reach out to her for anything. She was there for any little question or dilemma I had during the month leading up to my wedding. Merida helped me navigate all of the final details, and advocated for me when I was confused or unhappy. Merida remains calm and kind to everyone she works with. Despite our 30 person bridal party, she still made sure every person could come to her with any concern, and that they all knew where they had to be to ensure the day ran smoothly. Small things inevitably don't go according to plan on your wedding day, but Merida made sure that every detail was handled without me even noticing what was going on, so that I could enjoy myself! Typically I am the organized planner for myself, so wedding day management was not easy to pass off to someone else, but Merida exceeded every expectation! She is there for you to handle anything, and her team member Laura was exceptional as well! I would recommend Merida to anyone over and over again! Thank you for making our wedding the most perfect day that it was!
Anna C
5.0
9/07/2025
Merida is an absolute powerhouse! She has endless knowledge, is very organized, reliable, and came more prepared than I could have imagined. Having her by my side on our wedding da...
y eased every single worry I could have had. We had to make a last minute change due to the weather, but she was amazing at walking me through it and ensured that the venue had everything under control! Our wedding day would have been 10000000x more stressful without Merida! 100/10, highly recommend!!
Joey M
5.0
7/29/2025
My wife and I were drawn to Merida's work for her untraditional approach, and we were not disappointed. She helped us design the perfect party for us, our friends, and our family. ...
We aren't big dancers, so she helped us find all kinds of fun things for the guests to do through the ceremony.
She was our Emotional Support Planner through the whole process. She keeps her cool when it feels like everything is falling apart (spoiler: it's not). She and her assistant handled family drama skillfully.
Hiring Merida was one of the best decisions we could have made for planning our wedding!
Annaliese P
5.0
6/03/2025
We could not have made our wedding at the Franklin Institute without Merida's wedding planning! She helped us find an incredible group of vendors that created a beautiful queer wed...
ding; was a joy to work with; and was prepared for every surprise, twist, and turn of us traipsing through a science museum.
Adeline L
5.0
12/29/2024
We had the pleasure of hiring Merida for partial planning for our December 2024 wedding. We relied on her heavily for vendor recommendations and of course her impeccable organizati...
onal skills and attentiveness to our needs. It was such a joy to work with her and having meetings typically ended up with long tangents about life and it was so appreciated and felt so personal and genuine. Working her felt like working with a best friend throughout the planning stage and day of wedding. Her one assistant Laura was phenomenal on the day of and went above and beyond as well. Overall, Merida is extremely professional, punctual and a fabulous human being. Would highly recommend choosing Events by Merida for all of your planning needs!
Hope S
5.0
12/26/2024
We could not have made it through planning our wedding without Merida. She was up front about challenges we might face with doing an interfaith wedding (the priest wanting to have ...
the wedding in the church as opposed to at the venue, and with another officiant). She helped us find the right people for us. The band she suggested was absolutely perfect.
When there was family drama, Merida was always there to listen and when asked, offer suggestions to resolve it.
We can't wait to see our photos and video. The teasers we got were amazing! She really knows the right people for the right wedding.
If you're on the fence about hiring a planner, go sit down with Merida and talk about it. She was the best move we made when planning our wedding!
Airen M
5.0
12/16/2024
Merida is, simply put, absolutely amazing. When we first started planning our wedding, we spent a lot of time going back and forth about whether or not we needed a day-of coordinat...
or. We’re both queer and trans, I’m autistic, and my partner is disabled, so finding vendors who really saw us and could meet us where we were at was hugely important. Merida did that and so much more and now that our wedding is over, we literally don’t know what we would have done without her. She’s excellent at reading people, communicates super clearly, and solves truly any problem. Even though we only booked day-of coordination, as we got closer to the day, she was there for all the crucial moments even when we didn’t ask her to be.
Aside from the big things (running the rehearsal, managing the timeline, communicating with vendors, setting up, tearing down, steaming our outfits AND our wedding party’s outfits, and on and on…) (all of which would have been MORE than enough), it is the little details where Merida truly goes above and beyond. When my partner was wildly over-stimulated while getting ready, she offered them a hug. When we were misgendered and we weren’t in the room, she corrected people. At the end of the night when we were both exhausted, she went outside and pulled my partner’s car around to the front door and THEN proceeded to load everything in. When I was waiting outside while my partner took some group photos with their friends, she LITERALLY gave me the coat off her back without me even asking (and it was 25 degrees at night and she was wearing a sleeveless jumpsuit). During our first look, she carried around our two giant winter coats and our two huge Squishmallows (that we wanted on hand for pictures) and never for a moment considered putting anything down in case it got dirty. She held our snow machine at the precise angle so we could get the snowy nighttime photos of our dreams, she bought hand warmers for our ceremony without us even asking her to, she took photos on her phone during our ceremony and sent them to us so we could have photos ASAP, she adjusted my dress I don’t even know how many times, and, to top it all off, she was so kind and good-humored the whole day. Our friends and family raved about her and how well she answered all of their questions and how on top of it she was.
I literally don’t know how she did all of these things. My working theory is she has a secret identical twin and can therefore be in two places at once, although frankly even two people doesn’t seem like enough. (Maybe secret identical triplets?) In any case, there is no rating system in the world that would let us give Merida enough stars; five is nowhere near enough. We would hire her a thousand times over, and a thousand more times after that.
(Also, our wedding was only two days ago, so we don’t have the professional photos yet, but Merida did such a wonderful job that I think even the non-professional photos look stunning. And that’s her hugging us at the end of the night. ❤️)
Paul P
5.0
12/05/2024
We’d heard about Merida because she planned my Sister-in-law’s wedding, and it went perfectly. For us, Merida was an absolute necessity for our wedding. Her preparations leading up...
to our date, as well as her day of care and attention to detail, made it possible for us to enjoy the entire process from beginning to end. She was able to bring our vision to reality with her knowledge, experience and network of professionals. She knew exactly what we needed before we needed it and always anticipated potential problems to keep everything stress free. Any time there was an issue, Merida already had three backup plans and the ability to make it even better than it would have been. Merida is kind, attentive and was available whenever we needed to ask a question or get a quick call in. Our wedding was perfect from top to bottom because we had Merida with us.
Rachel R
5.0
7/25/2024
Merida will be your best advocate for the wedding that you want. She was THE integral part of making our wedding day perfect. We knew we wanted to hire a wedding planner going into...
this and after interviewing several planners, Merida was the clear choice for us. If you want an alternative, nerdy, queer-affirming, culturally informed wedding planner, Merida is the woman for the job.
Her knowledge of vendors and intricate details of wedding planning was invaluable. As my husband often said, ‘We are doing this once, you have done this hundreds of times, we trust you!’ You can tell Merida genuinely cares about your event, and it was incredibly reassuring to see her take charge, handling any issues that arose with vendors and solving problems that arose. We were updated with regular video chats and felt like we were heard and affirmed in our choices. She took the time to explain everything and her work ethic and spreadsheets are incredible. It was so helpful to be able to check in with her and be told what we should be focusing on and what we needed to do next. Merida herself is also just a wonderful, fun person who is easy to talk to. She was always just a text away, responding promptly, and handled her work/life balance flawlessly.
If you aren’t looking for a full service planner, she also offers a day-of coordination package which I would recommend to every couple, everywhere. Having someone who is familiar with so many venues, the way they operate, and what you need to do, and when, is the most helpful thing ever. While we were getting ready, Merida was making sure the vendors were on schedule and had what they needed. She was also the contact person for our guests who had any questions so that all we had to do was enjoy our wedding day. Merida and her team made sure we had a plate of food made up for us from cocktail hour, made sure we were hydrated, and ensured that we had a few moments to ourselves directly after the ceremony to decompress in peace.
I often thought, ‘Wow, I’m really not stressed about this wedding!’ because Merida took care of everything so well. 10/10!!
Calvin S
5.0
5/14/2024
If you gave me a million characters in this text box I still wouldn't be able to express just how grateful I am to Merida and her team.
My husband and I have been together for ov...
er two decades and had already spent an enormous amount of time thinking about our wedding over the years, but after coming out as a trans man in 2019, I quickly realized that planning a gay wedding would involve additional challenges I hadn't considered. The thought of reaching out to vendors and getting misgendered as the "bride" over and over was an incredibly anxiety-inducing prospect. I knew we needed help from someone who understood our situation and would ensure we were both treated respectfully by an incredibly cis-heteronormative industry.
From the moment I engaged her, about a year before our wedding date, I knew that I'd made the right call. As a member of the community herself, Merida was my biggest advocate and fiercest champion. Her zero-tolerance policy of anyone who showed signs of homo/transphobia weeded out any problematic businesses and in just a few months she was able to book us an almost entirely queer team of vendors, all of whom did a spectacular job on the big day. I've never been so thankful to have someone like her in my corner.
Each and every call with Merida was an absolute delight. Not only is she an incredible wedding/event planner, but she is one of the most delightful people I've ever had the pleasure to meet. She is brilliant, thoughtful, and hilarious, putting you instantly at ease. No matter how nerdy or esoteric our ideas, Merida was here for it and helped us bring every little detail to life. Anytime I said the words "I know this is kind of crazy but could we possibly..." she would listen attentively, smile, and reply with "We can do that." Week after week things I thought would be impossible came together and fell perfectly into place.
On the day of the event (04/07/24), Merida and her team were like a SpecialOps team, complete with a full arsenal of emergency supplies the likes of which you've never seen. She kept us on schedule but never rushed us, leaving time for spontaneity; for every minor question or concern she had a plan, not one detail was overlooked.
The wedding itself was absolutely perfect. I cannot stress this enough. It was PERFECT. It was everything my husband and I had ever dreamed of since we were 15 years old. Thanks to Merida there was not a single thing we had to compromise on for the sake of someone else, there was not a single bad vibe, it was truly the most beautiful, entertaining, and triumphant celebration of queer love any of us had ever experienced. I was genuinely concerned my face would break from smiling with euphoria all day. It's been over a month now and I'm getting emotional all over again just writing this review.
I never thought I would be able to be my whole entire self on my wedding day.
Thank you, Merida for turning my gay little anime prince dreams into reality.
If you're queer, a huge nerd, or just someone who marches to the beat of their own drum, please hire Merida. She will make all of your dreams come true.
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Y B
5.0
4/14/2024
Merida saved my husband's sanity. This is barely an exaggeration, I don't know how we could have crawled across the finish line without her.
When my husband suggested we hire a w...
edding planner, I was a bit dubious - he's already so great at planning things and it seemed like an unnecessary expense. How wrong I was.
Merida is truly exceptional. Her knowledge of all the vagaries a wedding can present saved us endless headaches. She's always ready with a simple explanation or a hilarious anecdote whenever a bugbear rears its ugly head.
Merida cares about your event. I can't explain how gratifying and relieving it is to see her get irritated with a vendor on your behalf and set her jaw as she fixes the problem for you.
Merida will video chat with you periodically for status updates. She will reliably suggest alternatives if a plan isn't coming together. She will go to a venue with you to ask and answer the jargon-filled questions with an ease that can only come from experience. There's no room for hesitation and you won't wonder if you're being exploited with Merida at your side.
Merida is cool. She helped me figure out a side surprise to spring on my husband and she did it gladly. If you - like me - feel like you're constantly in over your head with this sort of thing, you'll be happy to know she can provide a starting point so you can get your bearings.
Merida and her assistants do not mess around when it's go-time. You will be kept on schedule gently but firmly, you will have access to the kit of everything-and-anything-you-might need. You will have a no-BS advocate who knows when to make a call for you to minimize your stress and when to consult you.
Merida is compassionate. Part of the reason my husband picked her is because she's LGBTQ-friendly. When you're queer, it can feel like you're always walking on eggshells and ready to flinch at any point just trying to live your life with dignity and happiness; my husband knew this event would be an enormous undertaking and knew he would likely face more misery if he braved it alone.
Merida was a lifeline. She is sensitive, well-connected, and fiercely dedicated. She made our wedding feel every bit as magical and joyful as we deserved, and we can never thank her enough.
Merida is worth it. Do yourself a favor and hire her. You won't regret it.
Nora K
5.0
12/31/2023
I don’t think words can really describe how amazing Merida and her team are. From the initial phone call looking for planners, Merida’s personality and get it done mentality had u...
s sold! She took the vision we had and not only executed it, but let us enjoy our day - worry-free. Merida is a true professional and well respected in this industry. All our vendors shared that our wedding was so relaxed from getting ready to every event on our timeline. Thank you for such an amazing day. We are grateful to have your guidance and advice professionally and as a friend on our big day!
Nickki D
5.0
12/31/2023
Two words about Events by Merida: HIRE THEM.
Services we utilized EBM for: Full Planning, inclusive of day of services.
Venues: St. John The Baptist, Manayunk; Lark
My husband an...
d I had attempted to plan our wedding on our own and within one week of struggling for transparency with venues to see if they'd even fit into our budget, he had suggested maybe we hire a planner. I crowdsourced for recommendations to friends on Facebook and one suggested Events by Merida. We had 1 call with Merida and - to quote Stepbrothers "Did we just become best friends? Yep!". My husband said, "Hire her." within minutes of hanging up the Zoom. The connection and comfortability with Merida was immediate and lasting. It's easy to talk to Merida and build trust. She truly wants the best for you and your partner. That she is selective in whom she works with and how many weddings EBM takes on each year added to our comfort level. We knew Merida would be focused on us.
Planning: Prior to the wedding itself, Merida became my bridal Xanax. She kept me calm, on schedule, on budget, helped me find and vet venues and vendors, chased after folks for me, offered me suggestions, made sure the contracts were written in our favor, facetimed/zoomed into calls with me, came to my fittings with me, helped me with wording and design choices for our website, save the dates and invitations and was an invaluable resource. Bridal brain is real; I'm probably forgetting a lot of the other ways she helped us during the planning process. Our wedding had Filipino ceremonial traditions and Filipino food included that had to be considered in all of it. There were some wild events that happened during planning with the church and the venue that Merida helped us work through. To say she made me feel like we were her most VIP client is an understatement.
The rehearsal & big day: Merida and her team made sure the rehearsal and day of our wedding was as seamless as possible doing everything from running our rehearsal, reminding Monsignor of important parts, vendor wrangling - all of them. ALL, time management, body taping, dress fixing, reminding everyone to eat and hydrate, guest management... you name it, we could count on Merida and her crew to handle it. There were probably 300 things EBM handled that never came to our attention; we gave them carte blanche to ensure the day was amazing. When I say we worried about nothing, I mean we worried about nothing. Zero worries. Merida and her team had everything under control. Guests are still complimenting us on how friendly and professional the Events by Merida team were at our wedding.
I am a firm believer that the wedding wouldn't have been as awesome without Merida and her crew. THANK YOU a million times over.
**we haven't gotten pro photos back yet!
Cindi L
5.0
8/30/2023
We cannot recommend Merida enough! She was always there when we had questions, even if the question seemed silly to me or I felt like I was overthinking. She never made me feel lik...
e I was dumb for not knowing something. She gave great advice, and always had our best interests at heart. There were many challenges we threw her way, including difficult family circumstances, decor that didn't 100% go as planned, and a dinosaur ring bearer. She was a calm presence, while also keeping us on time, and was a beautifully kind human being throughout the whole process. Honestly, we cannot image that the day would have been as great without her and her team.
Emma S
5.0
7/31/2023
I am a makeup artist and worked on a wedding with Merida and her team. She is fabulous and her team is incredibly helpful and hard-working. Merida is very communicative and commit...
ted to giving a quality experience. I would recommend Events by Merida to anyone looking to have a unique, beautiful and stress-free wedding day!
Mitali S
5.0
7/25/2023
Merida is awesome! As a vendor, we have had a great commraderie working with her. She's a wonderful event planner. She puts people at ease with her fun personality and humor. Both ...
her clients and vendors enjoy working with her because they know she is on top of every detail. She is funny and keeps a wonderful easy energy going when things can start getting tense during crunch time. We would work with her for every event if we could and we recommend her to all clients!
Brian R
5.0
5/26/2023
My husband and I’s wedding party walked out to the Golden Girls’ theme song of Thank You For Being a Friend. We find that there is no other way to also express our thoughts around ...
Merida; we truly want to thank her for being a trusted friend throughout this process.
We immediately hit it off in the interview process and the one thing that truly differentiated her and sold us is that she would help us execute on our unique vision and not some Events By Merida cookie-cutter experience; and boy did she absolutely deliver!
We got her for the entire package (full vendor recommendations all the way to day-of execution) and we could not be happier with her partnership throughout the process. Probably one of the best things about her is that she took the time to TRULY understand us as a couple, our idiosyncracies, what we wanted out of our wedding, and our goals and took the necessary time to vet vendors that she thought we’d fit with. Did it sometimes take longer than my impatience wanted - no doubt… but in the end, she was right about everything. She helped us evaluate between two venues, and picked out candidates for DJ and photographer (among other vendors we didn’t care as much about that we just went with our preferred partners for flowers and transportation). We connected with both the DJ and photographer IMMEDIATELY and they were the best partners throughout our experience. We only had to interview one other person in each catgory before picking them; Merida TRULY understood us as a couple and found the EXACT RIGHT people for us.
There are a lot of other positives to note but to keep this review a manageable length, I’ll end to say that her day-of execution was flawless, she kept our vendors in line, stuck to our timeline, and ensured me and my husband, and our friends and family, were all properly taken care of.
Not 100% of every touchpoint was always positive, as no one is perfect; sometimes we had to ask for things more than once. In the end of the day, however, we hired someone who became a friend, who understood how quirky we are, and how to find people who perfectly executed on our vision where we got a LOT of people saying it was the most fun, most personalized, etc. wedding they’ve ever been to; we owe a lot of that to Merida!
Lauri G
5.0
5/20/2023
I can’t say enough good things about Merida and her team. A+++ from start to finish! Merida and her assistant Laura made me feel so taken care of on the big day. They knew what I n...
eeded before I knew I needed it and kept me sane and calm throughout the whole process. I sent Merida about 100 texts on the day of the wedding. She answered Every. Single. One. I get overwhelmed by the big picture and hyper-focused on small details. She really helped keep me on track and sort out what was important and less important.
I didn’t think I needed a wedding planner. We got engaged in February 2022 and bought a house in October 2022. By the time we were moved in (January 2023) I was starting to feel overwhelmed about putting a house together, working full-time and planning a May 2023 wedding all at once. The money we spent on Merida is the smartest $$ we spent on the entire thing! She’s has a sweet nature about her—a calming energy but can be firm when necessary.
Merida was recommended to us by friends of ours who got married and used her services. Everything they told us about her was true! She is excellent! I feel like Merida is our very good friend now that we’ve spent countless hours on Zoom calls with her helping us navigate our way to a damn near perfect wedding. She kept us on budget and on schedule and laughing and having fun with her over the months she worked with us. Love Merida! Highly recommend!!
Jem/Jason C
1.0
5/19/2023
Having Merida as a planner was a disaster. Merida recommended unqualified vendors; for example, the hairstylist she recommended to do straight-backs and romance curls asked me wha...
t straight-backs were during the hair trial. Merida also recommended Nikki Cohen, owner of Mayfaire Moon, to make my dress. Nikki was extremely late for every milestone towards completing the dress and often changed things without consulting me. About two months before the wedding, I discovered that Nikki was making me a skirt and a top instead of a dress. I told Merida that I needed my money back. Merida convinced me that she would make sure that Nikki stuck to the plan going forward. The next fitting went well and I thought the problem was resolved. I was supposed to pick my dress up a week before the wedding, but it wasn’t ready. I went anyway to see the progress. It was MacGyvered together with VELCRO. Merida again convinced me she would get it fixed. When I picked it up three days before the wedding, the places where there had been velcro were sewn instead, if poorly (corners sticking up). Because it was now too late to replace it, I insisted Nikki fix the worst of it and took the dress. When we arrived at the venue I took my dress out of the garment bag, and a piece of the dress fell off, because it was STILL stuck on with velcro, and the velcro itself wasn’t properly attached. Merida neglected crucial aspects of our ceremony, including the placement of fire-based heaters and religious ornaments, despite promises that these things were being handled. Misplacing the ornaments made it hard to tell which flowers needed to go to which tables for the reception. The heaters were not only religiously significant, but sitting in the cold was a danger to elderly guests. Merida attempted to pull curls out of my hair without consent. I had explained how hard it was to keep curls in my hair several times, but she wanted them to be looser. Merida ignored instructions to ask inappropriately dressed guests to change or leave despite earlier promises to do so. Merida had the venue set up for the cocktail hour outside - in the cold with no heaters - in the area where we needed to be taking pictures. Then, she insisted we take the pictures while people stood around shivering and staring. We had discussed that we only wanted to take a few posed photos, but Merida repeatedly pushed us to take “individual photos with everyone” and didn’t stop until my partner told her ‘no’ multiple times. Merida resisted when asked to correct the issue with the flowers and ornaments by getting the flowers to the correct tables, but when we insisted that this was religiously very important she told us she would handle it. We found out later the ornaments were never put on the tables. I can’t imagine any reason for refusing to put these on the tables except a complete disdain for our religion. During the first dance the DJ kept putting on the wrong song and Merida couldn’t be found. Finally my mother-in-law got the DJ to put on the correct song. During the toasts, the wine for the first toast, which was a separate charge in addition to being culturally important, was never poured. When it came time to cut the cake, there were people standing up, blocking the view of others sitting in their seats. I asked Merida if she could walk over to the people standing and ask them to be seated. Merida just refused without giving a reason. There were so many more problems but I can't fit them all here.
David B
5.0
5/07/2023
From start to finish, we couldn't have planned our wedding without Merida. When we couldn't get an appointment to tour our dream venue, Merida made it happen, and we were able to b...
ook it shortly thereafter. When we were stumped finding a florist or musicians, Merida recommended great vendors for us and helped us review all the pricing and contracts. Whenever we had etiquette questions (frequently), Merida helped us navigate tricky situations with the guest list and other sensitive matters. The whole time, she helped us stay positive and joyful about the planning experience - even while we were planning from two different continents and neither of us lived in the city where we were getting married. Where Merida and her team really shined was in the final few weeks of high-stress planning leading up to the big day. Merida helped us make sure no detail was missed. And day-of, Merida and Laura were absolutely invaluable. The whole day went so smoothly because of their expertise. We couldn't imagine having planned a wedding without all of Merida's help. We recommend her enthusiastically!
Emily G
5.0
2/06/2023
Merida was my champion. She made sure my wedding was the best day of my life (so far!) When the hotel double booked and tried to kick us out of the room we were getting ready in, M...
erida took care of the problem professionally and discreetly. When I came to her with a very specific aesthetic in mind, she had a stellar team of vendors that made it come true. When I was stressed and anxious, she was there to calm my anxiety. Hiring her was hands down the best decision we made for our wedding. Merida listens to your ideas, respects your budget, was very easy to get ahold of for any question, and does it all with a great sense of humor. If I could get married again I would, and hire Merida because we had so much fun creating the big day.
Krista S
5.0
1/07/2023
Merida was available whenever we needed her throughout the planning process, providing ideas when we asked, researching options and communicating with vendors. She also let us run ...
with our ideas and the things we wanted to do ourselves. She was so supportive of all our unique ideas while steering us in the best direction to plan a flawless wedding weekend for us and our guests. She came to meetings, helped handle difficult vendors, and kept us on budget. She and her team took care of everything to make sure our wedding was everything we ever wanted- even handling our dogs during the ceremony and photos. So glad to have Merida in my life! Plus her rate was very low for all she did for us.
Michael B
5.0
12/28/2022
Merida and her team went above and beyond making our day PERFECT. Kept us warm, on time, and worry-free! I would highly recommend!
Marlee W
5.0
12/01/2022
Merida and her team were absolutely INCREDIBLE. Being in the industry, I recommend her to all of my clients. Having her there on my wedding day was perfect she knew exactly how to ...
be available when we needed her. She helped troubleshoot every detail that came her way and made sure that we were covered even after our wedding. We had a problem with our venue during our honeymoon and she made sure to jump in and take care of it all. John and I loved having Merida and Laura as our team for the day. I knew I made a friend for life :) Thank you Thank you Thank you!!
Lisa R
5.0
10/27/2022
Merida and I have been working together for almost 2 years on my wedding and it was truly so incredible to work with her. First off, we heavily relied on Merida for her vendor reco...
mmendations that fit with the design and vision of our weddings. When we hired her, we already had our venue and photographer but she helped us with the rest of our team and we could not be more pleased. She is incredibly professional but also was really there for me when I was dealing with some personal family issues with my wedding which I greatly appreciated. She also constantly reassured and checked in with me throughout the process and answered my many questions and emails in a timely manner. In the days leading up to our wedding she went over timelines with me multiple times and made sure everyone knew what they were doing at the rehearsal. The day of, she made sure we were running on time and we were often ahead of schedule because of all the built in time that we had for our itinerary (that she helped us put together!). She also kept our very large wedding party on time and was in constant communication with our other vendors. She also steamed my veil and dress and all of my bridal party's outfits in record time. There was not one thing I had to worry about on my wedding day from set up to break down and I am so so appreciative of her and her hard work. She truly helped us have the wedding of our dreams and she really helped bring our vision to life. We are eternally grateful!
Vicky W
5.0
9/11/2022
Merida is everything you could ever ask for in a wedding planner! She spent so much time getting to know us and the vision for our big day and made sure everything came together pe...
rfectly for our out-of-state wedding. She was always there for calls with vendors to let us know what we should be thinking about and asking, and that it was the right match for us. On our wedding weekend she met us out of state with her assistant to make sure the rehearsal and wedding day went smoothly. Many people said that ours was the best wedding they’d been to in years, and it’s all thanks to Merida and her expertise and hard work. Thank you Merida!!
Regina R
5.0
8/16/2022
Oh Merida, where to start! Choosing Merida was truly the best decision we made, and was an integral part of how smoothly our wedding day went. Merida truly cared about our wedding ...
just as much as we did, from the start. We first spoke in 2020 for our 2022 wedding. Immediately, she put me at ease, and knew we had to have her. We almost chose a different venue, but decided not to as we couldn’t have her there. Over the years, we were back and forth many times, and loved how well we got along. She checked up on me leading up to the wedding, to make sure I was doing okay; Which was so appreciated! From the very start of the wedding day to the end, she had it together!! And I mean super together. She had a kit of anything you could imagine, and we used so much of it. She also answered all of my questions easily, as I had a lot of them, as well as everyone else’s questions. She steamed all the girls dresses, helped with my shoes and bustle, and did more than I could begin to list. She checked on us a perfect amount during the whole day, and always made sure we were fed, hydrated, happy and rested. I also love how she can be firm with others when needed, to stay on schedule. It was exactly what we needed so we were on time! Not to mention she and I clicked, and I felt so comfortable being around her! So was my whole bridal party and family, they all loved her and thought she was incredible too. Her assistant David was also amazing, and we are appreciative of him as well! He saved the day when we left the rings and letters in our airbnb, (which is now funny looking back). Overall, having Merida was such a fantastic decision, and I will miss planning with her so greatly! My running phrase is, everyone needs a Merida. We are so lucky we had ours and are forever grateful.
Shaba F
5.0
4/20/2022
Let me start off by saying, the best decision I made was hiring a wedding planner. More importantly, hiring Merida for full wedding planning. Words cannot describe her kindness, hu...
mor, and overall ability to communicate effectively with vendors and securing what we needed for the big day. From keeping me organized, accountable, and on top of everything for the big day, to coming all my appointments and being the best advisor while being mindful of our vision. I can say without a doubt that without her help the wedding wouldn’t have gone so smooth. She stepped in when I wasn’t able to given the field I work in. She took tasks off my plate and executed crisis management off and on throughout the experience. Most of all, she made this one year of planning exciting and helped us enjoy our engagement. Bonus- Best Vendors-because of her network, and top notch expertise and professionalism in the field. Grateful for everything she did for us and our family! Thank you Merida for everything. I cannot thank you enough.
Ellen L
5.0
11/06/2021
I can honestly say that the best decision I made during the wedding planning process (aside from saying “yes” during the proposal) was selecting Merida to be our wedding planner. M...
y husband and I knew that we did not want a basic, cookie cutter wedding, but a big, fun party with a little wedding thrown in there and Merida was the perfect partner to make that dream a reality. During our two years of planning, Merida was always available for all questions, happy to discuss any ideas, function as a sounding board when needed and just be a guide through the craziness that can be planning a wedding. When our original caterer and DJ fell through, Merida was right there to provide recommendations for new vendors who would be on board with our vision. She was instrumental in helping us to orchestra the party aka wedding of our dreams!
Though Merida was a superstar leading up the big day, she really shined on the wedding day! She was there to ensure everyone was on time, had shirts/dresses camera ready, things ran smoothly and just be a calming presence on a hectic day. From our perspective the day went perfectly…if anything did go wrong, Merida made sure we did not know about it and that the day still went on as planned. She far exceeded our expectations…she even let me wipe my sweaty face on her shirt!
Working with Merida was incredibly fun and enjoyable! We would get married every week/month/year, if it meant we got to have Merida along for the ride! Words can not fully convey how thankful we are for Merida and all that she did to make our wedding day the best day ever!
Meghan K
5.0
11/03/2021
Having Merida on our team was absolutely the best decision we could have made for our wedding day! After re-scheduling to a new venue, I just did not feel up to putting the same am...
ount of energy into planning a new wedding. Merida answered all of my emails in a timely manner - helping me make decisions regarding floral & decor, event design, day of timeline, as well as communicating with vendors about these decisions. On the day of, Merida flawlessly executed every single plan we had discussed together and it felt like I had a friend taking care of my best interests on my wedding day. Not only did she make sure all of my DIY decor was exactly where it should be, she also steamed all of the bridesmaids, MOB, MOG dresses as well as made sure my dress and veil were ready to go! She also kept on checking in with me to make sure I was ok/had everything I needed and magically appeared whenever a question or concern popped into my mind. I'm sad that I won't get to see her smiling face anymore and highly recommend her to anyone looking for an incredible planner! Thank you Merida!!!
Response from Events By Merida on 11/18/2021
Thank you so much, Meghan!! I miss your face too!
Dana K
5.0
10/24/2021
Planning a wedding is stressful, especially during the covid era. We hired Merida as our day-of coordinator with an à la carte
services where we had help with the planning process....
We got engaged on July 2020 and I had no idea where to start but wanted to book our venues and vendors right away since so many weddings were going to be rescheduled for 2021. Merida made it really easy for us to pick our venue and vendors because she knew most of the wedding vendors around Philadelphia. We can’t thank her enough for her recommendations with our vendors because they were all wonderful. She gave us her honest opinions and insight on the vendors we asked about and that really helped with our planning process.
Now for the big day we all nervously waited for. Merida and her assistant came first thing in the morning with her wedding kit that had everything we needed for any emergencies possible. She came fully prepared, even a sewing kit for the wedding dress if it ever ripped. Our ceremony was scheduled to start at 5pm but it was raining intermittently all day. I really wanted the ceremony outside because our venue had a beautiful garden. Merida coordinated with the venue director and our caterer to make adjustments to the ceremony schedule and the seating layout. She was running around everywhere working with everyone to make this ceremony happen outside. I was really worried we had to move it indoors but Merida made it happen. Merida even had the clear umbrellas on standby but thankfully the rain stopped. She was really prepared! Throughout the whole day, we really relied on Merida. She absorbed all our stress and worries so we could enjoy our day. We had a little hiccup with the rain but it all worked out in the end. Thanks to Merida and her assistant Alyssa, our wedding day went so smooth and perfect. We wouldn’t have changed anything on our special day, all thanks to Merida. 10.10.21 Dana and Michael
Angela C
5.0
9/27/2021
Merida did an amazing job! My husband and I decided to do a DIY wedding at a family-friend's farm and it was A TON of work. Also, due to Covid, we had a next to impossible time fin...
ding staff to help us during the wedding to do basic tasks. Merida and her team stepped up and did everything from keep us on schedule, deal with some anxious family members in their *not so best moments*, set up out donut table, and much more. We couldn't be more grateful for her and if you're unsure if you need a wedding coordinator - YOU DO, Trust me, just do it and don't look back. Merida's got you!
Alexis D
5.0
8/19/2021
Getting married is stressful. Getting married at a non-traditional venue new to the wedding scene during COVID? Even more so.
Merida – and her team – were the only constant was pla...
ns changed, changed, and changed again. She helped us prepare for our original wedding pre-COVID (which was supposed to be in May 2020), and then navigate with our vendor to secure a rescheduled date (August 15, 2020). When that didn’t pan out, she then helped us navigate our “third time’s the charm” date – June 18, 2021. She helped us manage vendors, a tough but magical venue, and perhaps most importantly, our sanity.
Our final wedding day was better than we could have ever imagined, and while I never thought I’d say this – it was worth the trouble that it took to get us there. While Merida wasn’t able to be there for our wedding day, our day-of coordinator was amazing and seamlessly carried out the vision we had been discussing for years (literally).
Thank you and thank you again!
Lindsay V
5.0
8/15/2021
We hired Merida as our day-of coordinator and I really don't know how we would have gotten through our planning process without her. We had to postpone twice due to the pandemic an...
d she was always there to answer any questions I had in the time leading up to the wedding (there were many!).
We had to deal with a few last minute hurdles on the day of the wedding and Merida handled it all with calm and grace. She was SO helpful -- her emergency kit is clutch AND she spent the time to help pin up the hem of my dress when my bustle left it far too long and we needed to do a choreographed dance. She took the time to make sure I was doing okay throughout the day and that I didn't need anything. I never felt so looked after as I did on my wedding day, and my husband says the same thing. Hire Merida for your event, you will not be sorry!
- Lindsay and Mike
Katie K
5.0
6/18/2021
Merida did an amazing job! We hired her midstream and she jumped in feet first and got us on track, even with COVID hanging over our heads. She was prompt with communicating with u...
s and left no stone unturned. The whole day went off without a hitch and the best part was that we relied heavily on Merida to make that happen and she exceeded our expectations!
It was a beautiful wedding and we can't thank her enough for helping make that happen!
Antwan M
5.0
6/11/2021
Words cannot really express the gratitude my wife and I have for Merida. From start to end, Merida was very professional, prompt in communication, and very creative. We're so happy...
and grateful having chosen Merida to be our wedding planner. The services Merida provides cannot be matched, hands down.
Aisha B
5.0
5/20/2021
I can't say enough good things. We decided to ditch the traditional route after looking at our budget. Having Merida help plan our elopement (on extremely short notice) was the bes...
t money we could have spent. She's personable, gets it done, and made great recommendations for vendors. I don't know how we would have done it without her!
Juan D
5.0
5/19/2021
Merida was always so helpful. Our wedding was incredible and thanks to her we made it happened.
She is easy to work with and organized. We recommend 100%
Esther R
5.0
10/20/2020
If a global pandemic isn't the ultimate test for a wedding planner, I don't know what is, but Merida was so wonderful and helpful throughout. We couldn't have gotten through it wit...
hout her. Our plans were thrown out of the window (original date was May 2020), and she helped us brainstorm through our backup plan. She thought through everything we didn't think of in terms of the new COVID normal and was a true partner in our wedding. She was our partial wedding planner, but she filled in all the gaps that really brought our wedding together. She always made herself available when we had questions, or she promptly followed up when she was busy. We never felt neglected by her and on the day of, she went above and beyond. For example, on the wedding day the Google document we wanted to use for a group game was corrupted and we could only salvage with screenshots, and Merida stepped in and wrote the questions all out by hand!
We ended up having a microwedding (50 guests) but there was so much to coordinate and stress over that we can say we definitely needed her. Our families praised how organized our wedding was and it was definitely thanks to her. If you don't think your microwedding needs a planner, you are wrong! Merida is great and she won't blink at how traditional or how bizarre you want your wedding. She'll help you make it work.
DJ & Hector F
5.0
10/14/2020
Merida was absolutely amazing and accommodated any of our unexpected needs throughout the entire process. We tried to do most of the heavy lifting ourselves but once she stepped in...
it made everything else much more stress free. She even helped us deal with one of our vendors who wasn't so great in an amazing way. If it wasn't for her time management skills, the bride and her party would have probably been late but she built a ton of time into the itinerary to compensate for that. She also was well prepared with all the little things you don't think about like toiletries and heel stoppers. She was just overall such a lifesaver and we were able to fully embrace the day. The venue coordinator and photographer also commented on how great it was to work her. Thanks Merida and Laura!
Matthew M
5.0
10/12/2020
Top Marks for a Professional Planner:
Planning a wedding is challenging under the best of circumstances. During a pandemic, it was among the most challenging logistical and emotio...
nal hurdles my wife and I have ever encountered. This is why we are endlessly thankful to Merida and her team for all that they did for us. Merida was professional, thorough, responsive, creative, and personable. She helped guide us through some very awkward moments and handled the intricacies of working during a public health crisis with grace. She oversaw everything from our switch of venue, the reduction of our guest list, the procurement of vendors, and the overall flow and details of the day itself. Merida ensured that what we needed was done, full stop.
We are located in northern NJ and Merida’s location did not once impact her ability to meet with vendors or chat with us. She was exactly what we needed and my wife and I believe that she is one of the main reasons our event occurred as planned. We fully recommend her for your event. -Matt and Christina, married 8-28-2020
Shanon U
5.0
9/15/2020
I love Merida! My fiance and I were determined to pull off a wedding during the time of COVID-19 and Merida made it happen. Everything had to be adjusted from table sizes (ranging ...
from 4 to 10), certain people needing very distanced seating, food allergies, a possible hurricane to the timing of everything day of. She helped get things from my house, my mothers house and was the main point of contact with the owner of the restaurant. I couldn't have made this happen without her. The rain even through us a curve ball the night before and Merida had a seating backup plan done at 11pm the night before. I would recommend her to any brides who needs someone that shows up, manages allll crises ( she glued my mother in law's fake eyelash on!! Now that's service!
Sincerely,
An extremely satisfied bride
Sarah C
5.0
7/30/2020
You can't go wrong hiring Merida and her team. I was a BM in my friend's wedding and Merida and her assistent were spectacular. Beautiful job.
Response from Events By Merida on 07/30/2020
Thank you, Sarah! It was great getting to know you!
Marti P
5.0
7/21/2020
We could not have done our wedding without her. Coronavirus made everything such a mess, and we didn't think we were going to be able to have our wedding at all. She helped us make...
a lot of adaptations, and we'd highly recommend her if you're changing your plans due to the plague. Family & friends had a great time!
Response from Events By Merida on 07/30/2020
Thank you, Marti! You rock!!
Amanda P
5.0
7/08/2020
We hired Merida two years out from our wedding, and we couldn't imagine having done it without her. She helped us navigate vendors and lots of other tricky stuff. we needed someone...
open-minded for some of the things that we wanted to do, and a lot of cultural things that she'd already done for other weddings.
The day of the wedding was perfect. everything was in place, everything went smoothly. She's not afraid to sstand up to people to make sure things go right. I can't say enough about how much we love her. Hire her. You can't go wrong. Ty Merida!!!!
Response from Events By Merida on 07/30/2020
Thank you, Amanda! We <3 you!
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