About this vendor
A native of Baltimore and the oldest of 5 boys, after graduating from Archbishop Curley High School, I entered the Conventual Franciscan Order and was ordained a priest in 1981. My education includes a BA in Scholastic Philosophy and a Masters of Divinity. I also have architectural training from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute and was involved with Albany Diocesan Architectural Commission and designed, managed and executed various building projects throughout my years as a Franciscan. While in Theology, I was also certified in Clinical Pastoral Education.
Upon ordination, I returned to my high school as a math teacher and later became the chairman of the department. I was then assigned to the Franciscan seminary in Massachusetts as the Treasurer and Business Manager; I also taught math and Latin in the college.
While in Massachusetts , I came to the decision to leave the community after 18 years of religious life. The reasons were complex; but in a nutshell, I was unhappy living in an all male community, with all the associated inter-personal dynamics and political posturing. I have always been very idealistic and found that there were many things that were contrary to my beliefs.
I came back to the Baltimore area and entered the Custom Home building field in Bethany Beach, DE. After several years, and after I met my wife, I started my own remodeling business in Columbia, The Home Healer, still going strong after 25 years -both the business and the marriage!
Although my background and approach toward wedding ceremonies is that of a Catholic priest, I fully believe that the day is yours. I have witnessed many inter-faith, multicultural, same-sex weddings along with more traditional ceremonies, and always work with you to create a ceremony specific to your needs and dreams. I like to meet with couples several times prior to the ceremony to get to know one another, discuss any issues that may exist and craft the ceremony together. My wife Mallory also gets involved with writing the ceremony and helps with the rehearsal and ceremony as needed.
As a member of CITI Ministries, a group of married Catholic priests, I have authority to officiate weddings and have performed ceremonies in Maryland, Delaware, the District of Columbia and Pennsylvania. Travel to destination or distant locations is also an option.
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Ceremony Types
- Commitment Ceremony
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
- Second Wedding
- Vow Renewal Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
- Christian
- Catholic
- Interfaith
- Spiritual
Wedding Activities
- Premarital Counseling
- Wedding
- Ceremony
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We loved using Father Charles! From our first phone call to the big day and everything in between Father Charles and his AMAZING wife Mallory were extremely helpful. They took the time to really get to know us and our vision for the big day. During Pre-Cana Father Charles takes the time to not only listen but give personal experiences and his wisdom. We especially appreciated how helpful Mallory was getting things done. Our wedding coordinator for the venue was not helpful at all. Mallory recognized that and saved the day. It was so nice to be able to incorporate god and Catholicism in our wedding without the church and the way we wanted things. I cannot thank them both enough for all they did to make our wedding ceremony perfect. I highly recommend Father Charles it will be nothing but perfection.
My now husband and I just got married a couple of weeks ago. Throughout our long engagement process, and through Covid, we struggled with the best way to incorporate our Catholic background into our ceremony. We both grew up Catholic, and always pictured getting married in a church. However, this process, that seemed fairly straightforward, natural and simple to us did not turn out the way we expected. We actually did not have the best experience with the church and decided to look for alternative options. That is when we found Father Charles. Charlie exceeded our expectations and more. He is kind, thoughtful, he listened graciously and was an amazing mentor every step of the way. Charlie was a perfect option for us and made our ceremony so special. I recommend Charlie to any couples who are religious, but for one reason or the other, they are not looking to conduct their ceremony in a church. 10/10!@
Fr. Charles and Mallory are an amazing couple that worked with us to customize our ceremony. We grew to know Fr. Charles during our Pre-Cana sessions because he doesn’t just preach and listen, he incorporated his life experiences into the sessions. Mallory worked with us on the details of the ceremony. She was a Godsend at the venue before the ceremony, helping to keep us calm and have things run smoothly.
Catholic Ceremony for outside the church
Father Charles was a perfect fit for us. We were looking for a ceremony that reflected our Catholic backgrounds, even if we don’t necessarily practice as much as we used to. Father Charles and his wife Mallory were very accommodating towards crafting a ceremony to meet our desires. He also hosts a few “pre-Cana” sessions which helped for us to communicate some relationship concerns together as a couple. On the day of the ceremony, both Father Charles and Mallory helped a great deal towards easing our nerves, and were able to fit into our reception as though they were old family friends. Highly recommended.
Fr. Charlie and Mallory were one of our greatest blessings when looking for an officiant for our wedding. I am Catholic and my husband is Jewish, it was very important for us to incorporate both religions into a ceremony that was meaningful for both sides and families. Fr. Charlie and Mallory welcomed us with open arms, they opened up their home to learn more about us and to help us prepare for matrimony. In the end, we created a beautiful ceremony with their help and we incorporated all important elements. Fr. Charlie and Mallory are extremely knowledgeable about both the Catholic and Jewish faiths and helped us think of things we hadn’t before. Their flexibility, generosity and genuine interest in helping us prepare for marriage and our future life together was very meaningful to us and appreciated greatly. Thank you, Fr. Charles and Mallory for everything!
Having Father Charlie officiate our wedding was the best decision we made. He was able to help us with all the planning for the ceremony, including making sure we knew everything involved and making recommendations for readings. We got married outside on a mountaintop and had some family traditions we wanted to incorporate into the ceremony - Father Charlie was able to accommodate all of our requests. Since we got married on a Sunday, he graciously performed mass for our attendees in the morning before the ceremony. We enjoyed getting to know Father Charlie and his wife and have kept in touch since – he even performed the baptism for our daughter a few years after our wedding. If you want a kind, thoughtful, gracious person to help you before, during, and after your wedding, then I definitely recommend Father Charlie. Thank you so much!
My husband and I cannot thank Father C & Mallory enough for their time spent with us in preparation & celebration of our wedding! Everything about these two lovely individuals exceeded our expectations -- from the first email correspondence to the I do's on the big day, Father Charles & Mallory were beyond helpful, supportive and responsive every step of the way. As Catholics, my husband and I wanted to be married by a Catholic priest while also performing the ceremony outside of a church. Father Charles performed a ceremony that had every traditional component we desired while also making sure to include special notes & extras according to our wishes. We simply cannot say enough about this couple and how amazingly special they helped to make our beautiful day. We have even kept in touch with them after our wedding & can't wait to see how else we can work together for future celebrations. Definitely recommended for anyone looking for a truly wonderful gentleman to officiate on their big day! Thanks, Father C & Mallory!
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Maryland, Delaware, District of Columbia, Pennsylvania
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