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Gary Kelley is a trusted communicator, ordained minister, and celebrant who helps people through life's most meaningful moments.
For more than four decades, Gary has connected with audiences across San Diego through radio, television, live events, weddings, and personal celebrations. Many couples — and often their parents — recognize him from his years on iconic San Diego radio stations including KCBQ, B100, KPRI, and KSON, as well as his work on ABC 10News and CW6.
Long before becoming a wedding officiant, Gary spent years helping couples celebrate some of the biggest moments of their lives through his San Diego entertainment company, providing music and hosting for thousands of weddings and special events. Throughout his broadcasting career, he introduced legendary artists and entertainers including The Beach Boys, The Doobie Brothers, Kenny Loggins, Robin Williams, and Adam Sandler at venues ranging from Jack Murphy Stadium to the San Diego Sports Arena.
Over the years, Gary has learned that the most meaningful ceremonies are never really about scripts or formalities — they're about connection. He begins by listening. By understanding each couple's story, personalities, and vision for their wedding day, he helps create ceremonies that feel natural, meaningful, and uniquely theirs.
Some couples want something heartfelt and emotional. Others prefer light, joyful, and relaxed. Some include personal vows, readings, faith elements, or family traditions. Others prefer something simple and elegant. Gary believes there are no wrong choices — only the choices that feel true to the couple standing in front of him.
His approach combines professionalism with warmth, humor, sincerity, and genuine care. Couples often describe him as calm, reassuring, and easy to work with — someone who helps them feel comfortable from the very first conversation through the moment they say "I do."
His role is simple: to support the moment and help everything unfold naturally.
That moment belongs to you.
His job is to help you enjoy it.
Outside of weddings and minister services, Gary continues hosting Grown-Up Radio, a music station created for the often-forgotten 55+ generation, celebrating the soundtrack of people's lives.
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Christian
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Gary Kelley
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Gary Kelley is a trusted communicator, ordained minister, and celebrant who helps people through life's most meaningful moments.
For more than four decades, Gary has connected with audiences across San Diego through radio, television, live events, weddings, and personal celebrations. Many couples — and often their parents — recognize him from his years on iconic San Diego radio stations including KCBQ, B100, KPRI, and KSON, as well as his work on ABC 10News and CW6.
Long before becoming a wedding officiant, Gary spent years helping couples celebrate some of the biggest moments of their lives through his San Diego entertainment company, providing music and hosting for thousands of weddings and special events. Throughout his broadcasting career, he introduced legendary artists and entertainers including The Beach Boys, The Doobie Brothers, Kenny Loggins, Robin Williams, and Adam Sandler at venues ranging from Jack Murphy Stadium to the San Diego Sports Arena.
Over the years, Gary has learned that the most meaningful ceremonies are never really about scripts or formalities — they're about connection. He begins by listening. By understanding each couple's story, personalities, and vision for their wedding day, he helps create ceremonies that feel natural, meaningful, and uniquely theirs.
Some couples want something heartfelt and emotional. Others prefer light, joyful, and relaxed. Some include personal vows, readings, faith elements, or family traditions. Others prefer something simple and elegant. Gary believes there are no wrong choices — only the choices that feel true to the couple standing in front of him.
His approach combines professionalism with warmth, humor, sincerity, and genuine care. Couples often describe him as calm, reassuring, and easy to work with — someone who helps them feel comfortable from the very first conversation through the moment they say "I do."
His role is simple: to support the moment and help everything unfold naturally.
That moment belongs to you.
His job is to help you enjoy it.
Outside of weddings and minister services, Gary continues hosting Grown-Up Radio, a music station created for the often-forgotten 55+ generation, celebrating the soundtrack of people's lives.
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5.0
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Gary Kelley is praised as a thoughtful, professional, and personable wedding officiant and DJ who customizes ceremonies and music. Clients note his attentiveness—attending rehearsals, helping craft vows, and delivering a calm, clear delivery that made ceremonies intimate. He stays composed during last‑minute issues, fulfills music requests, and is warmly recommended.Review photos
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KERI H
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5.0
5/09/2026
Gary was truly an exceptional wedding officiant, and we feel incredibly lucky to have had him as part of our special day. From the very beginning to the end of the ceremony, he gui...
ded us with such kindness, warmth, and professionalism that immediately put us at ease!!
He sent us a voice recording beforhand, and we loved it. At our wedding, his voice was clear, calm, and soothing, which made a huge difference during such an emotional moment. He led us through our vows in a way that felt natural and heartfelt, allowing us to stay present and truly take in every second. Many of our guests later mentioned how much they appreciated his gentle tone and the way he carried the ceremony—it created such a beautiful and intimate atmosphere ´͈ ᵕ `͈ ♡°◌̊
Our wedding day itself was quite hectic, especially with the unexpected challenges of moving between outdoor and indoor spaces due to the heat (100 degreees!). Despite everything going on, Gary remained composed, attentive, and incredibly thoughtful throughout. He handled every situation with grace and made sure the ceremony flowed smoothly, which meant so so much to all of us.
We’re still waiting to receive our wedding photos and videos from the photographer, so it’s a little disappointing that we don’t have those moments captured just yet—but even without them, we clearly remember how wonderful Gary was and how beautifully he led our ceremony.
What stood out the most was not just his professionalism, but his genuine care really. He didn’t feel like just an officiant doing a job—he felt like someone who truly cared about making our ceremony meaningful and memorable ❤︎ꔛ❜
We will never forget this day, and Gary played a huge role in making it so special. We’ve already recommended him to friends and family, and we would wholeheartedly recommend him to any couple looking for a wedding officiant who is both professional and genuinely kind. Thank you so much Gary!!
Rebeca C
5.0
5/29/2026
My husband and I planned our wedding in one day to get married the next day, and Gary was the first one to pick up our call. From the start he was super helpful, and went above and...
beyond to make our day special. He asked me all the important questions, such as expectations, etc, that I had not even thought of. I would have been ok with a basic ceremony, but Gary suggested making it personal to us. He asked us questions to get to know us and our relationship, He sent us links to different vow writing examples, and he communicated with us throughout the whole planning process. I could not be more happier with how our ceremony turned out. He was very professional, kind, and military friendly! I can not recommend him enough. Thank you, Gary, for making our day special!
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Barbara G
5.0
5/22/2026
I have had Gary Kelley host many of my events....from my own wedding, to a military ball, and other social functions. Gary is the utmost professional, and plays the BEST variety of...
music! He welcomes music requests from guests, and fulfills them as much as possible. I would 100% recommend him. You will NOT be disappointed!!
Trever T
5.0
5/15/2026
Gary Kelley was an incredible wedding officiant, and we could not have asked for a better person to lead our ceremony. From the beginning, he was thoughtful, attentive, and genuine...
ly invested in making our ceremony feel personal and meaningful. He attended our rehearsal, collaborated with us on the script, and made sure every part of the ceremony reflected us as a couple.
What stood out most was how Gary kept the focus entirely on the bride and groom. He created a ceremony that felt heartfelt, intimate, and special without ever making it about himself. You could truly tell that our wedding meant something to him too, and that care came through in every word he spoke.
We are so grateful for the role Gary played in our day. He helped create one of the most memorable and meaningful parts of our wedding, and we would highly recommend him to any couple looking for a thoughtful, professional, and genuinely caring officiant.
Gwen J
5.0
5/06/2026
5 Stars for the GOAT of San Diego 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
Gary Kelley is a San Diego treasure! He knows how to connect to the guests! Gary does his homework to make every wedding customized fo...
r the two of you! As far as Music, Gary will get the party going with decades experience on the radio as a very popular DJ. He’s fun, friendly and professional. Gary has done my wedding, our company, Christmas party, three high school, reunions, several friends weddings, my daughter’s, sweet, 16 birthday party to name a few. I would never use anyone else. Plus, he’s extremely knowledgeable with all types of music and artists. and as a bonus, he is even a wedding officiant.
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