About this Vendor
Professional and dignified. Strong eloquent voice.
"Friendly and flexible." "Easy to work with." "We received many compliments on our ceremony." Judge Tom Armstrong has helped over 4700 couples create unique and memorable ceremonies. Tom's Website - www.tgarmstrong.com - has sample ceremonies, vows, ring exchanges, readings, prayers, unity symbols, remembrances, and much more. tgarmstrong.com is a complete Ceremony Guide including "How to Conduct a Rehearsal" and answers to Frequently Asked Questions. It's a great tool for all Ceremony planning. After over 4,700 ceremonies, Tom has seen it all and can give you ideas, suggestions, examples, help and advice in all aspects of your ceremony planning. Weddings are all Tom does - and he does them well.
Civil Union, Commitment Ceremony, Elopement, Interfaith Ceremony, Non-Religious Ceremony, Religious Ceremony, Same Sex Ceremony, Second Wedding , Vow Renewal Ceremony
Catholic, Protestant, Christian, Interfaith, Secular, Spiritual
If you are like me, this was an incredibly important decision. Because my husband and I opted out of a traditional "church ceremony" we wanted to find someone who would make our ceremony special, personal and speak as if he knew us personally. Tom did all of this and so much more! From the moment we booked him, he was involved in every aspect of planning our ceremony. Although we didn't meet him until the day of our wedding, I felt as if he was a dear family friend who made our ceremony a personalized and special event! I cannot say enough about his thoroughness; every detail was included in his communication with us----right down to the pronunciation of names! I have attended MANY weddings where a judge or officiant went through the motions and provided what was legally necessary. This is not Tom. He is friendly, kind, detailed and genuinely happy to be a part of your day. DO NOT hesitate in booking him. There is a reason he is top-rated!!
Tom was such a wonderful choice for our wedding officiant! He did an excellent job of helping us walk through writing our ceremony step by step with the help of his website. We were able to customize everything and choose from a long list of options. On the day of, we did a short walk through right before which was perfect because it kept me from getting too nervous. Everyone commented on how beautiful our ceremony was. Thank you Tom for an excellent day! Amy & Glen
Tom is amazing. He will give you as much feedback as you need and help guide you along in picking a ceremony that is good for you. I was able to write my own ceremony, and he looked it over made some suggestions and fine tuned it, but all without changing it. He was so pleasant and very nice to work with. We found out after our ceremony, that he was the same man who officiated another family members wedding. We had no idea ahead of time. I would certainly recommend him to anyone looking for an officiant!
Best officiant ever! He was fun, funny, helpful, and all around amazing. He helped us put together the ceremony, gave us feedback back about where things should go and what can be left out. He was very nice and I have already started to recommend him to my friends that are getting married!
Tom was a pleasure to work with for our April 2017 wedding. We were planning our wedding from out-of-state, and working with Tom was a breeze. He was always available to answer any questions or give feedback, and the resources he provides to help you create the ceremony of your choosing were incredibly helpful. He was fun to be around on our big day, and you get the sense he really enjoys what he does! I cannot recommend him enough.
Wow! I could not have been more impressed with Judge Tom Armstrong's knowledge and professionalism. Not only do you receive a phenomenal officiant, you receive TONS of information through his website to help you create a ceremony, tweak an existing ceremony and all those questions you have about changing your name and getting your marriage license! I am amazed at the wealth of information he comes with!!! Tom does not come to the rehearsal but do NOT let that be a deal breaker for you. He comes on your wedding ready to go!! He is so personable and it was clear he rehearsed. Our ceremony was just perfect with him as our officiant.
Tom was very easy to work with, and did a great job at our wedding! We were able to customize every word of our ceremony, and his website was a real helpful source of inspiration. Tom offered his advice freely and was responsive to our emails. He showed up early on the day of and explained everything about filling out the license with us, and coordinated with our reader/witnesses to make sure everything went smoothly. Even though we planned from out of state, the whole process was simple and just what we expected.
Tom was very easy to work with as an officiant for our wedding. He has so many useful resources to create a very custom ceremony script, and asks all the right questions to ensure all details are there. Our ceremony went flawlessly - he's done this thousands of times so he is a total expert! He is a funny guy and very friendly. We are glad we chose Tom to be a part of our day!
We had a very small, intimate wedding at the Sunken Garden at Como. Tom did a wonderful job. We organized everything in less than 6 weeks, and he made it so easy to communicate with and craft our perfect ceremony/vows. His reading was clear and warm making his presence at our wedding just what we wanted. He also has a great sense of humor. Thank you Tom for being part of our very special event!
Tom officiated our wedding at Summit Manor in July, and he did great! We highly recommend him. First of all, his website is AMAZING. At first, we were a little worried about the ceremony for the simple fact that we had a very clear vision of how we wanted it to be, but at the same time, had never planned a ceremony before and had no idea where to start. Tom made it easy with awesome advice on his website. In addition, he is very available to answer questions and really wants your wedding to be unique to you and exactly how you want it. He has tons of experience, and it shows! He knows what works and what doesn’t and how to make everything run smoothly. He anticipated our questions before we even asked! In addition to all of this, on the day of our wedding (the first time we met in person), we were very impressed with his professionalism, knowledge, and friendly demeanor. He is flexible and gave the impression that he could handle anything we threw at him. Many of our guests commented on how great of a job he did as well. He seems to really enjoy his job! We definitely recommend you check him out!
Tom was easy to work with and very practical/down to earth - that fit our style well. He went through many revisions of our ceremony with us, and his online library was incredibly helpful. He was very responsive.
Tom was so wonderful to work with. He made our wedding exactly what we wanted it to be. He will work with you to customize your wedding so it has the tone and mood you are striving for. You will not regret choosing Tom as your officiant. He is very responsive as you are working on your ceremony and is very pleasant to deal with. I can't imagine getting married any other way!
We are so glad that we chose Tom for our ceremony. It was so easy to work with him, and everything went perfectly. We were able to choose the ceremony word for word and Tom gave suggestions and followed what we had agreed upon. I've been to weddings where the officiant adds in things that the couple didn't want included, but this was not the case with Tom. You couldn't find a better officiant if you tried.
Tom was amazing to work with! We live in another state and he gave us recommendations on where to get our marriage license and what to expect after the wedding. He helped make suggestions when writing the ceremony to make everything flow perfectly. We had so many people come up to us after the ceremony and tell us how great of a job he did with the ceremony. Tom is highly recommended by us! - Nikki and Chris Sheppard
Tom was our officiant for our very small and intimate wedding venue. He was easy to contact and helped us with our ceremony. We enjoyed meeting him and greatly appreciated his time and services. We would highly recommend him for any size wedding venue.
Tom was fabulous! He was so great to work with prior to our wedding with questions and suggestions of ceremonies and music. For someone that has never done this before it was much appreciated. He was great the day of explaining how it would flow and was great in front of our guests!
Judge Tom recently officiated our ceremony at 413 on Wacouta. He was great! He provided us with all the guidance we needed and made the process of choosing a ceremony really easy. He was also fun and light-hearted on the day-of, which helped put us at ease. Thank you Tom!
Tom was hands down amazing. We were so happy to have him as our officiant and would truly love to refer him to people we know. We worked with him via email and he was very responsive and offered suggestions to customize our ceremony to the way we wanted it. On the day of the wedding, he arrived with a smile and was so happy the entire time. Friendly, helpful and very funny! One thing I loved the most, was that Tom speaks so naturally. It didn't sound fake or sounded like he was reading straight from a book. It was perfect. Our wedding party and parents commented multiple times at how helpful and friendly he was. Thanks Tom for everything. Blessed to have you as part of our day- anyone else would be lucky to have you be their officiant!
Tom was our officiant at Brackett's Crossing Country Club on 8/13/16. It was truly a perfect day! I love that we were able to customize our very own ceremony with Tom's help. His website is amazing and allows you to pick & choose whatever you would like to include. His templates and info sites were also very helpful. Tom arrived on time and was very professional. He was a pleasure to work with, affordable, and I honestly recommend him for anyone looking for a professional, laid-back officiant!! Thank you Tom!!!!
From the moment we first contacted Tom about officiating our wedding, he was extremely helpful and easy to work with. Tom had numerous sample ceremonies and ideas on his website, so it was very easy for us to create our perfect ceremony without having to start from scratch. Once we thought we had our ceremony complete, Tom reviewed our ceremony and made suggestions before we finalized it. The day of our wedding Tom met us before the ceremony and gave us an overview of how it would all happen just moments later. He was very professional, but not “stiff,” and was very calm and relaxed (which is just what a bride needs before her wedding). Tom spoke not only to us, but the two readers, the DJ, and shook hands with our parents and many family members and friends before the ceremony started. We would highly recommend Tom to officiate your wedding! –Mr. & Mrs. Andersen 8/6/16
Tom was very easy to communicate with prior to our wedding and his website was beyond helpful! He also arrived rather early to the ceremony site and performed a seamless ceremony when the time came. We'd recommend Tom to anyone!
Tom was fantastic! We were a little concerned about not meeting up until our wedding day, but he made all those worries go away after our initial phone conversation. He was easy to work with, and did a wonderful job at our ceremony! His website was great in helping us pick and choose how we wanted our ceremony to go. Tom was extremely friendly and approchable at the wedding. Our family commented on how well of a job he did! We would highly recommend him for your wedding!
Tom was an excellent officiant. We used him for our rehearsal too, and I'm so glad we did. His cut right through the chaos and got everyone to focus during the rehearsal. He's got excellent stage presence and a friendly personality.
Tom pieced our wedding ceremony together perfectly. With the help from his website we were able to chose what we wanted together and had his help to customize it! He is very easy to get a hold of either by email or phone. His personality was just want we wanted, friendly laid back and personable-Highly recommend!
Tom was terrific!! He is funny, friendly and very knowledgeable. He made us feel comfortable and relaxed through the whole process! I would highly recommend him. :)
Meet The Owner
Tom Armstrong, Retired District Judge
In November, 1980, Tom was elected County Judge in Washington County. He served at the Courthouse in Stillwater from 1981 to 2011, when he retired from Court work and decided to only keep doing what he likes best - performing weddings. In 1981, Judge Howard Albertson, known as the "King of Weddings" in Minnesota, was in the chambers next to Tom's. Howard got more calls for ceremonies than he could do, so he got Tom started performing weddings. Tom learned from the master and extended Howard's 12 page handout of samples to over 350 pages in 22 categories on his website - www.tgarmstrong.com