Judges for Love, Inc.

Judge Diane Costanzo officiated our wedding on 8/2/25. From the very beginning of speaking with Iris, all the way to speaking to Diane, they were very professional, friendly and helpful. Everyone at our wedding absolutely loved Dianes words and voice and she was so personable and calming for us throughout the whole process. Would highly recommend!

Judge Costanzo officiated our wedding on July 3 and there simply aren’t enough superlatives to describe the job she did. She was the utmost professional from start to finish, including when we needed to move our ceremony indoors as a result of the weather. Several guests even commented to us on how professional Judge Costanzo was. Judge Costanzo truly helped create a memorable wedding ceremony and, in addition to the help of the owner Iris, made us feel at ease during the most important part of the day - the ceremony. Thank you again to Judges for Love. We’d highly recommend them.

Judge Alan officiated our ceremony and it was perfect! He and Iris were very easy to work with and ensured the ceremony was exactly what we wanted (our attendees loved him too!) Highly recommended to anyone looking for an officiant!

From coordination, to counseling and getting to know us, to officiating the day of our wedding, we had an amazing experience working with Iris and Judge Marrus! Our family loved the thoughtful and humorous introduction from Judge Marrus and learned a little bit about us as a result. (Note: he checked with us first as to whether humor would be appreciated, and it was!) Thank you, Iris and Judge Marrus, for being an important part of our special day.

Judges For Love was an absolute pleasure to work with! They made the entire process seamless, easy, and incredibly efficient. Iris was fantastic at communicating every step of the way, taking the stress out of planning and coordinating. She sent helpful reminders and regularly checked in as our big day approached, making sure we felt prepared and supported. Judge Costanzo officiated our ceremony, and she did an outstanding job. She took the time to truly get to know us, and her words during the ceremony beautifully reflected our relationship. Her warm, reassuring presence and positive energy made the moment even more special. We were truly honored to have her as our officiant.

Judge Alan Marrus was a delight to work with! From our initial phone call it was clear that he truly cared about his work and wanted for our ceremony to be very meaningful and personal to us. He did a fantastic job at getting to know us individually, as well as our morals and values as a couple, and made sure to capture what was important to us for our ceremony. His attention to detail was wonderful, and he did a phenomenal job at incorporating everything into our ceremony. He also had all of our guests laughing a lot, which we thoroughly enjoyed! We would highly recommend working with Judges for Love for your wedding!

Judges for Love made our wedding ceremony unforgettable—not just for us, but for our family and friends as well. Our guests were so curious about how we knew Judge Henry, as it was clear (to them) from the ceremony that she had known us for years. Everyone was shocked when we said Judge Henry prepared everything after just two conversations with us. It was such a pleasure to have conversations with Judge Henry before the wedding, answering her thoughtful questions. Even more impressive was how she seamlessly wove our answers and personal story into the ceremony. She captured the perfect balance of tone—both sarcastic and sentimental—reflecting our personalities perfectly. Behind the scenes, I worked closely with Iris, who quickly became my favorite vendor to collaborate with. Iris is incredibly communicative, clear, and proactive—she not only answers every question, but also anticipates ones you didn’t even think to ask. I always knew I wanted to be married by a judge because it felt fitting to have someone with real authority officiate such a momentous occasion. Judges for Love truly brought the gravitas I was looking for, while delivering a ceremony that was deeply meaningful and uniquely tailored to represent our relationship. Thank you for making our day so special!

Judges for Love made our ceremony seamless, personalized, and exactly (if not better) than we expected. 11/10 would recommend.

Judges for Love made our ceremony seamless, personalized, and exactly (if not better) than we imagined. 11/10 would recommend.

Judge Marrus was amazing. He was funny, understood the vibe of our ceremony and made it memorable!

We are absolutely thrilled with how our wedding ceremony turned out, and we owe so much of that to the incredible job done by our celebrant, Judge Marrus. From start to finish, the ceremony was both sincere and joyful, perfectly reflecting our love story. We especially appreciated how he brought our story to life and made sure every member of our family felt involved and recognized. Choosing Judge Marrus was undoubtedly one of the best decisions we made. One of our guests even commented on how he wonderfully set the tone for the day, making our wedding truly lovely and celebratory. Words can hardly express our gratitude, but we want Judge Marrus to know how much we appreciate his efforts and the best wishes he extended to us. Judge Marrus, thank you again for being such an important part of our special day. Take care and God bless! C&M

We were married today by Judge Marrus! He was extremely helpful and explained the process in great detail. Thank you so much for your services on this beautiful day!

Jude Marrus did a wonderful job, my wife and I were very pleased.

We used Judges for Love for our wedding this past June and they were fantastic! Iris was a wonderful help scheduling everything and putting us in touch with Judge Leventhal. We had two meetings with the Judge where he got to know us individually and as a couple prior to the ceremony. He did a phenomenal job capturing our story and incorporating the personal details from our meetings into the ceremony. He struck the right tone of seriousness and humor/levity. We asked for a copy of his 'service' because it was so beautiful, we had many people come up to us after the wedding to say how great the Judge service were! Highly recommend!!

My son and his fiancé used your service, judges for Love, and Judge Henry officiated the ceremony. We all loved her! Her warmth, professionalism and dedication was unmatched!! The ceremony was personal, touching and a beautiful tribute to our couple!! I highly recommend your service and Judge Henry to anyone wanting the perfect ceremony. Thank you for everything! We are all so very happy and glowing in the aftermath of their “tying the knot!!!”

Judge Marrus was wonderful! He was able to get us married on a very short notice & created the perfect wedding atmosphere during the ceremony, as great as it can be at court. We're thankful for his services and getting us married! He's kind, informative, punctual, and will have you wed under 15 minutes. Definitely recommend for your wedding needs!

My husband and I got married yesterday (6/21/24) and we could not have asked for a more beautiful day. We had the pleasure of working with Judge Jeff Cohen who was very kind, funny and made our ceremony so special. Iris, the owner of Judges for Love was also extremely kind and a blast to work with. She explains every single detail regarding the marriage license so you never feel in the dark. I would highly recommend working with them!!

We recently had a wonderful civil ceremony officiated by Judge Marrus from Judges for Love, and we couldn't be happier with the experience. The team was always quick to respond to emails and helpfully emailed us reminders of key deadlines in the marriage license process. Judge Marrus was professional, attentive, and truly dedicated to making our celebration perfect. Both Iris and Judge Marrus took the time to understand our vision and incorporated personal touches that made the ceremony uniquely ours. Judge Marrus's warm and engaging personality put everyone at ease. We highly recommend Judges for Love. It was a true pleasure to work with both Judge Marrus and Iris, thank you all for making our day so special!

We had a great experience with Judges for Love. The team was always quick to respond to emails and helpfully emailed us reminders of key deadlines in the marriage license process. Michael Pesce presided over our wedding, and he gave us templates for the ceremony script, which was a big help. He was a hit on our wedding day. Guests are still talking about how fun and sweet his remarks were.

We had a wonderful wedding ceremony officiated by Judge Henry from Judges for Love and highly recommend them. Judge Henry met with us twice virtually to get to know us, and as a result was able to deliver a personalized, meaningful, and professional ceremony. We are also appreciative of how flexible she was, staying with us a little later than planned to wait out a rain shower and give us the outdoor ceremony we always wanted. We'd like to also praise Iris who helped to put us in touch with Judge Henry and checked in with us regularly in the leadup to the wedding to ensure everything was all set. If you're looking for a non-religious officiant, look no further than Judges for Love!

My husband and I had the absolute best experience with both Iris and Patricia! They both made our elopement so perfect and seamless. We traveled to NYC from Portland Oregon to get married, so you can imagine how many questions we had. Iris was so helpful and caring over the phone. And Patricia was such a wonderful and fun officiant! I can't imagine navigating our elopement without Judges for Love!

Judge Henry and Iris were both a joy to work with! Iris was so lovely and responsive over email, and Judge Henry gave us a beautiful ceremony. She was very detailed during our preparation calls and really got the time to know my husband and I’s story in order to deliver a heartfelt ceremony that spoke to the background of our relationship and what we love about each other. She showed up early, was professional, and took care of mailing our marriage license for us. We’d definitely recommend Judges for Love. Thank you to all!

If you've found Judges for Love, look no further. Iris will provide a service like no other. Her communication and work ethic is second to none and she is an absolute pleasure to work with. Not only does she find you the perfect officiate, she also make sure that you are aware of the process of obtaining your marriage license as well as any other details necessary for everything to go as smoothly as possible. We were lucky enough to be introduced to Judge Cohen as the officiate our wedding. We spoke several times before our ceremony and Judge Cohen took the time to learn about us as well as tell us about himself. Every conversation was a pleasure and felt like we were speaking to a friend or family member. After our conversations, Judge Cohen put together the perfect and most beautiful ceremony and vows that fit us perfectly. It was sent to us before the ceremony for final approval and any adjustments were welcomed. He had all of our guests laughing, then in tears. Thank you Iris and Judge Cohen for your amazing services and making our special day absolutely perfect!

Judge Henry and Iris were a pleasure to work with. Neill and I appreciated their quick, warm, and professional communication. Our ceremony was truly perfect--personal, joyful, and very "us." Many thanks!

Judges for Love is the obvious choice for anyone looking for a non-religious officiant. Iris is incredibly responsive and professional. We had the absolute pleasure of working with Judge Henry, who took the time to learn about who we are as a couple and gave a personalized, meaningful, and moving ceremony. Judges for Love did so much more for us than give us legal confidence in our marriage, Judge Henry brought us to tears and thoroughly impressed all of our guests.

We had a great experience with Judges For Love - they listened carefully and gave us the exact ceremony we asked for, even the last-minute changes. Five stars all around!

Judge Marrus officiated our ceremony in DC and we couldn't have asked for a better experience. We struggled to find an officiant that fit us as a couple - we aren't religious and didn't want just anyone to officiate. Judges for Love afforded us the opportunity to have a meaningful wedding ceremony that signified the commitment we were making. Judge Marrus and Iris were so easy to work with and made planning a breeze. Judge Marrus perfectly balanced humor and heart, and our guests had nothing but rave reviews of the ceremony.

Judges For Love absolutely made my wedding ceremony special, stress free and memorable. From the coordination with Iris to the prep calls we did with Judge Henry I couldn't have been happier. Judge Henry was warm and also brought a gravitas to the ceremony that we were looking for. I couldn't recommend the company more and am so grateful to the whole team at Judges for Love. Whole heartedly recommend them!

Judges For Love was a great company to work with. Our planning calls with both Iris and Judge Patricia Henry were very helpful to know what to expect during our ceremony. Many of our guests were impressed that a retired Justice of the Supreme Court of New York served as our officiant. Their pricing was also very reasonable compared to others.

We could not have had a better experience with Judge Henry and Judges for love. Zero stress, easy to work with. Our space was a little unusual, in that it was a small private room in a restaurant. The judge came in, took charge of the setup, and made great recommendations about where she and we the couple should stand. Many of our guests commented that they were very impressed and happy with the service and how she spoke. Highly recommend!

Judge Marrus was the perfect addition to our wedding day! He was timely, responsible, and wove details about our relationship and our families into the wedding ceremony. He knew how to break the ice and he also kept it a solemn and sacred event: exactly how we wanted it. Working with Judge Marrus and Iris was a joy that truly set us on a path of being excited to join our lives together. We are so thankful that we chose Judges for Love, Inc!

We could not have asked for a better experience with Judge Marrus. He made what could have been a stressful situation at the courthouse into an extremely efficient process and his personality even managed to make it romantic for us.

We are very happy that we went with Judges for Love for our wedding ceremony in upstate NY. Despite not being based in our wedding location, the Judges for Love team was incredibly accommodating and made the entire process a breeze. Our officiant took the time to get to know my partner and I, and as a result, our ceremony felt personalized and special. They really understood what we were looking for and created a ceremony that was exactly what we had envisioned. Thank you, Judges for Love for making our wedding day so special and memorable!

Judge Marrus did an amazing ceremony for us! His ceremony had a combination of romance and humor, and everyone enjoyed. Highly recommend!!

We are thrilled we chose Judges for Love. Iris was so accommodating and professional. She even made sure to remind us about important legal steps in the marriage process. We were fortunate enough to have Judge Alan Marrus as our officiant, and we could not be happier. Judge Marrus was extremely thorough and organized in the process leading up to the wedding. We loved being able to customize our dream ceremony with him. He brought our vision to life with the perfect balance of tradition, sentimentality, and humor. We could not have asked for a better officiant, and our guests are still raving about him!

We had no idea who to contact to officiate our wedding. I ‘googled,’ I searched and landed upon Judges for Love and it was the best decision me and my spouse ever made. The process was so easy and each interaction with both Iris and Judge Alan Marrus was like talking to a family member. I loved talking to Iris, she is the nicest, kindest lady and a great manager. With each phone call, I knew I made a great decision. Justice Alan Marrus asked us questions about ourselves, how we met, our story, etc. and he made our ceremony perfectly tailored for us and our guests. I told him to bring the humor, and boy, he did not disappoint! This man is hilarious. I think more guests were impressed by him, his ceremony and of course, his humor than the reception that followed. People asked if we were related to him, ‘where did you find him?’, honestly, wish we were! Haha! He’s that cool. He had us all laughing and crying in unison. If you’re searching and looking, you don’t have to continue looking if you’re reading my review. Judges for Love is the only choice to start your life off as a married couple. Hire them!

Judge Marrus was our Wedding Officiant and he was fantastic! He performed a ceremony that was exactly what we envisioned, which was funny, lighthearted, and sentimental. It was the perfect combination. He took the time to learn our story as a couple and used those details to give us a personalized ceremony that fit us perfectly. He had us smiling and laughing, and we truly enjoyed every minute of it. Not only were we impressed, but all of our guests went out of their way to say how wonderful Judge Marrus was, and how much they loved our ceremony. We were absolutely thrilled and would highly recommend Judge Marrus/ Judges for Love to anyone looking for someone to officiate their special day. Iris was a pleasure to work with and helped coordinate everything. She is also very quick to respond !

Judge Covello knocked it out of the park and made our special day an even more memorable occasion! I am so happy we came across Judges for Love. They were so helpful in figuring out the process with respect to marriage licenses, etc., which was an added bonus. They were respectful, kind and thoughtful and would highly recommend to any of my friends!

Judge Marrus did an incredible job and we loved our personalized ceremony. Guests were very impressed and really enjoyed the ceremony, even asking us how we knew Judge Marrus. Iris was a pleasure to work with and so responsive. If all wedding vendors were this great wedding planning would be a breeze.