Unfortunately, I had a deeply disheartening experience with Judges for Love. Months ago, I hired a specific judge for my June wedding and paid the company in full well in advance. ...After receiving no communication, I reached out to Iris myself to ask when my next meeting with the judge would be scheduled. Only then was I informed that my chosen judge had experienced a health issue and would no longer be able to officiate my ceremony. I was sympathetic, expressed that I hoped the judge recovered soon, and completely understood the situation. However, because I had already paid in full for that particular judge, and because my wedding is approaching, I politely asked whether any partial compensation would be offered for this last-minute change, and whether another judge from their website might be available.
Iris responded rudely, telling me that most people would have canceled the contract entirely and that I was essentially lucky she was willing to find me anyone at all. She also suggested I should be more concerned with the judge’s health than with finding a solution for my wedding. This was both unfair and unprofessional, particularly given that I had already expressed compassion for the judge’s circumstances. She then provided the name of a replacement judge who was vastly different from the one I had originally selected. When I asked to choose my own replacement and requested the names of judges available on my wedding date, she refused. I was therefore left with no options, despite having paid in full for a specific service I was no longer receiving. After I repeatedly asked about one preferred replacement judge, I was then told I would need to pay an additional $500 for his travel. Given the circumstances, it was surprising that no accommodation or adjustment was offered on the company's behalf. The entire experience felt inappropriate, dismissive, and highly unprofessional. I ultimately requested a full refund, which I have yet to receive.