We found Michael Backer as a recommendation from our DJ, and after reading some reviews, reached out to set up a meeting. He was very prompt and responsive in setting up a meeting with us at his home office. We can’t stress enough how well Mich...ael dealt with the ever-shifting plans we had due to the COVID-19 pandemic and restrictions being enacted; as we postponed our large ceremony a year, our “minimony” consisted of different readers, a different audience, and a different location, all of which he handled superbly.
In terms of personalization, Michael does an excellent job of getting to know the couple. We initially discussed what the feeling of the wedding was going to be; he captured our “traditional, but not stuffy” request perfectly. Michael also had us each fill out a two-page questionnaire to answer. He was able to pull bits from the responses, and sprinkle them in to create a level of personalization in the ceremony that felt like he was a longtime friend who was presiding over the ceremony.
In terms of customization, Michael offers an unbelievable amount of choice. His approach is to offer a plethora of options for each part of the ceremony, all contained in a binder to be pieced together to form the ceremony. The selections in the binder span a huge range of traditions (Celtic, Norse, Native American) and religions and he was happy to incorporate readings that we found online and small changes to wording throughout the ceremony. He was very open to cracking an inside joke at the beginning of our ceremony and was mindful of all the wording we requested (we did not want any references to the bride being given away, etc.).
We submitted an outline and Michael promptly sent back a complete draft ceremony for review. At our wedding, he brought us a commemorative copy of the ceremony, had printouts for each reader, and took care of mailing in our license very quickly.
Overall, we would not hesitate to recommend Michael as an officiant and we look forward to working with him again next year for our vow renewal!