Kelly Spillman / Weddings

Kelly married my wife and I in October 2025, and I can’t recommend her highly enough. We were so fortunate to have found her, after many weeks of research and communications to find the right energetic fit, eventually our friend got involved and struck gold! There are a lot of wonderful officiants available on Kauai, but Kelly has some very special and unique attributes that set her apart and made her the perfect fit for leading our sacred ceremony. First of all you will find that she is highly professional and an excellent communicator, who responds in a very timely manner - this is key when you’re coordinating from a distance. Her personality is full of light and love, fun and authentic joy and gratitude. This isn’t someone who is just going to go through the motions, she brings full heart, soul, and presence. She sincerely connects with you and authentically cares about details and assists to make your day special in every way. She made us feel so calm and peaceful, even into the lead up to our day and helped to establish an absolute sense of preparedness - which really was crucial to our experience flowing beautifully when the time came. We were blessed with a very special gift and opportunity to rehearse our ceremony the day before the wedding, in a unique and beautiful place that she shared with us. There really aren’t words to fully describe how much gratitude we feel for this kind gesture - other than to say it was absolutely perfect, and so memorable we will never forget it. Kelly helped refine and contribute to our ceremony and delivered it in such a beautiful style and fashion that felt extremely welcoming and open hearted. She was even so thoughtful as to snap a few gorgeous photos with her own cell phone, when we had forgotten to even ask - which proved to be such a blessing because we didn’t have friends and family in attendance to take those. She even learned to tie an infinity knot so that we could include a special Celtic handfasting element into our ceremony. Our kids were present for this and they absolutely loved her in every way too. If you’re looking for someone who brings total presence and a true spirit of Aloha, peace, patience, thoughtfulness, kindness and exudes natural love - you’ve found her! The phrase that we feel is most fitting to describe our experience with Kelly is  “divinely orchestrated.” If you like the idea of co-creating your sacred ceremony with an officiant who is clearly guided and surrounded by Divine beings - you might find your ceremony is divinely orchestrated too. I would encourage you to embrace the opportunity.  - Andrew and Shauna Mackey 

Kelly made our special day in Kauai absolutely perfect! As our officiant, she handled everything with such grace and professionalism that we were able to truly be present in the moment. Her responsiveness and attention to detail took all the stress out of the process. Kelly's warm presence added something magical to our ceremony that we'll cherish forever. We couldn't imagine having anyone else marry us and would recommend her services to any couple looking to tie the knot in paradise! — John and Jack (November 8, 2024, Shipwreck