We hired Cris to be our officiant about 50 weeks before our wedding. When we hired Cris, he claimed we were the only wedding he had scheduled for our wedding date. 3 months before our wedding, I requested our rehearsal be set for the Friday bef...ore. Cris said he scheduled another wedding the same day as ours and that they already requested that day. He asked us to schedule our rehearsal for Thursday, after 5 pm. We did so, and confirmed with Cris. In February, about 5 weeks prior to our wedding, I emailed Cris to re-confirm our rehearsal was set for Thursday, March 8, at 5:30 pm with the time and location. Cris confirmed via email and said he would see us then. Cris contacted me 7 days prior to our wedding and asked me to confirm the rehearsal date, time, and location. When I confirmed, he said he had another rehearsal that evening with the other couple he was marrying the same day as us, and that they were contracted first, and so we could not possibly have our rehearsal that day.
Mind you, we already had our entire bridal party request off work for rehearsal on Thursday, we made a significant down payment to a restaurant for our rehearsal dinner, and we had several family members pay for hotels and rental cars for Thursday based on the previous confirmations Cris made with us. Now he was telling us there was no way we could rehearse. He suggested he refund us the money for the rehearsal fee and said he could arrive to our wedding early to answer any questions. I explained that we didn't understand how the other people were contracted first and could bump us. We also didn't think it was fair to ask us to wing it on our wedding day in front of photographers and videographers. We eventually met the Friday before, but I wouldn't consider what we did rehearsing. We didn't rehearse walking in or where the bridal party would stand. I had to rehearse with my flower girl and ring bearer after Cris left so that they wouldn't be too afraid to walk down the aisle without knowing what to do. We also lost our $1,000 dinner down-payment because we had to change dinner venues since our rehearsal was moved to another day and the original venue was not available for the re-scheduled rehearsal.