Rhonda was so very sweet and helpful during the process of planning our ceremony. She took time and thought planning out our ceremony. We got to help by picking things we liked and... didn't like, and add our own flare wherever we wanted. She was always so kind and patient. It sometimes took me awhile to get back to her, and she sent reminder emails without any pressure or judgement. We really appreciated the ease of the process with her.
I grew up in the church so was used to weddings with preachers we had known forever. So, picking a non-religious person that we did not know to lead our ceremony was just different from what I had previously experienced. Having never heard her deliver a message or ceremony, I think I was taken aback by her delivery. When hiring an officiant, it would be worth asking for a video of them leading a ceremony so you can make sure their energy and vibe is what you are looking for. No fault of hers of course, I just think her energy was not a great match for ours.
Overall, the ceremony she wrote was beautiful. They are words I will hold dear to my heart forever. I wish I had been able to enjoy them as much in the moment but struggled with the delivery.