Marriage Officiant - Duluth Minnesota & Twin Ports
Duluth Minnesota, North Shore , Central MN and Western WI.
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Annette Lahr
PRESIDENT
Typically responds within 24h
AWARD WINNER (10X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Planning that destination wedding or elopement that includes Duluth, Minnesota, or the North Shore? We know the area well and will be glad to answer any questions you might have! You have the location and the date, so let's talk about your ceremony.
Looking for something out of the box or a repeat after me? Or not sure what you want? We can help you figure that out. Whether it is including your story or your favorite song, we provide customized vows for your wedding day.
We love what we do, whether it is a big wedding to a small elopement. We do travel all over the state of Minnesota including Wisconsin and Michigan. We are a preferred vendor for Greysolon Ballroom, Larsmont & many other venues in the area. We have nine officiants available to perform marriages. We love to travel!
Marry Me In The Northland is based in Superior, WI, and offers wedding officiation services.
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Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
Christian
Spiritual
Wedding Activities
Wedding
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Meet the team
Annette Lahr
President
Married to my life partner and best friend, my life is truly blessed! Life is too short to be miserable . I live in the Duluth/Superior area and often travel to perform marriage ceremonies. I have done weddings for 10 years now and have a team - we love to do ceremonies!
I believe Marriage is between two people who love each other period. It is truly an honor to be involved in a couple's big day. It is the best job ever! I strive to give couples the ceremony they wanted or didn't know they could have! I've had my wedding this is yours. Let's Chat
Reviews
4.9
out of 5.0110 reviews
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Annette's wedding services have received high praise from multiple couples who found her to be attentive, knowledgeable, and accommodating. Couples appreciated the stress-free process, customizable packages, and quick responses to their queries. The officiants, such as Kathy and Jean, were commended for their professionalism and for making the ceremonies personalized and memorable. The overall experience with Annette and her team at Marry Me in the Northland was described as positive and highly recommended for couples seeking a seamless and special wedding day.Review photos
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Amy C
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5.0
1/25/2026
I'm so happy we found Annette! We used her services to elope in Minnesota. We are not from the area and had never been, so we relied heavily on her local knowledge and expertise. S...
he listened to our vision and executed a ceremony that was just perfect for us. We used her convenient elopement package that included officiant services, photography, florals, and witnesses - all of which she coordinated for us. She was very communicative and responsive during the whole process. Thanks to Annette, we really had a completely stress-free wedding that was exactly what we wanted.
Blaire H
5.0
12/31/2025
Working with Annette and her Team was the best choice for our wedding and we are so happy with how the day turned out! Annette is so knowledgable and it truly feels like she cares ...
about making it the most perfect experience.
My husband and I did not want a long engagement. We reached out to Annette within a few months of when we wanted to marry and she was able to set up a beautiful wedding, while keeping the process simple and fun. We had minimal stressors and Annette would respond within hours when we had any questions or concerns, no matter the time or day.
We wanted a small wedding along the North Shore and looked into Annette’s micro wedding package. This included planning/coordination, chairs and arch set up and tear down, officiant, music/speakers, a customizable small wedding cake with utensils, sparkling juice toast, customizable flowers for bride and groom (which were beautiful we got so many compliments!), and 2-hours of photography. We were able to chose from multiple photographers who were available during our day and spoke to them beforehand for planning. We had around 15 guests, but I recall more chairs are available. We also added on videography which we 100% recommend. The group Annette works with was amazing and we are so happy with the videos received.
Annette had a list of spots we could chose from, or she was open to someplace we may find. We chose a State Park and Annette met with us there to find the perfect spot overlooking Lake Superior. Our officiant, Jean, was great to work with! We looked through pages of ceremony examples to pick and chose what we wanted said at our ceremony. We sent songs to walk down to and even had our first dance after the ceremony. Cost was upfront and easy to navigate on her website, with payments spread out. Annette and her Team thought of every detail and made sure it was executed to make it seamless for us.
We appreciated how easy the process of planning was, and how day of we showed up to a beautiful set up and did not have to worry about all the specific details. Annette truly made our day so special and we would not change a thing!
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Sarah E
5.0
10/02/2025
We are so grateful to have had Kathy from Marry Me in the Northland as our officiant. Kathy’s professionalism is admirable and she helped our ceremony go smoothly. With constant co...
mmunication and meetings, we felt so comfortable with how our ceremony was going to go. We got to pick our own ceremony meaning, which meant a lot to us as well. Kathy took care of us and guided us on our big day which was a BIG help. I recommend Marry Me in the Northland - 5 gold stars!
Keli C
5.0
9/17/2025
Very helpful in planning the ceremony and talking us through options available. Kathy did a great job with the service and making us feel comfortable and relaxed.
Ira S
5.0
8/09/2025
Thanks to Annette and Kathy from Marry Me In the Northland, our wedding on the north shore was perfect. We really appreciated their help in making our day special
Travis L
5.0
7/28/2025
I'm truly grateful I came across Annette and her team! They literally checked every box my wife and I ! We were given such an amazing experience
Reece L
5.0
7/11/2025
Annette was willing to work with us on such short notice, and was completely understanding of our budget and location! I cannot recommend her enough for people being married!
Russell B
5.0
7/01/2025
You will never find a more caring and professional person than Annette to work with. She made everything so easy and even helped us with the flowers.
Courtney L
5.0
10/10/2024
If you’re getting married on the north shore they are a must for you officiating! They are so friendly and pleasant to work with, they have an abundance of customizable ceremony sc...
ripts to choose from, and they can do anything from a 5 minute elopement to a longer formal ceremony. We had Kathy for our wedding and she made sure to check in with us a few time before the wedding to make sure we all got to know each other a little bit and that we had everything for the ceremony to go smoothly ! Another bonus is they will also take care of mailing your License for you so you have one less thing to do! 😊 over all great business and great people! 🩵
Kelley H
5.0
9/29/2024
Our experience from start to finish was nothing but positive. Any questions we had were always answered promptly, and our officiant, Kathy, was great to work with. We got exactly...
the service we had both hoped for.
Sydney W
5.0
8/27/2024
We were able to customize our entire ceremony based on our preferences. Very friendly staff, and a breeze to work with.
McKenna U
5.0
8/02/2024
Jean was the officiant for our small ceremony on Black Beach. She was wonderful and helped us through the process every step of the way! We were able to hop on a phone call with he...
r to talk through various aspects of the ceremony and create a ceremony that was a perfect fit for us. She communicated with us quickly and was very open to hearing our ideas. Jean helped make our day amazing and I would recommend her to any couples looking for their officiant!
Response from Marry Me In The Northland on 08/11/2024
Thank you so much for the kind words, I so enjoyed meeting you and being a part of your da...
y! I wish you every happiness.
Jean
Annah R
5.0
7/06/2024
Very professional and helpful through the whole process. Sarah was our officiant and helped everything run so smoothly. Highly recommend
Pamela E
5.0
7/03/2024
Our officiant, Jean Larson, was so helpful and understanding. We had everything we needed to make our day exactly as we wanted it - from prayers to vows to location to time. It m...
ade for our perfect private ceremony. Couldn't have asked for anything else.
Response from Marry Me In The Northland on 08/11/2024
Thank you so much Pamela, I am so glad I got to be a part of your day and I enjoyed meetin...
g you. I wish you the best!
Jean
Michelle K
5.0
6/17/2024
We had an excellent experience with Annette Lahr! She arrived on time, respectfully and was 100% the professional throughout the ceremony and after! We highly recommend her service...
s!
Sarah S
5.0
5/09/2024
Cannot recommend Marry Me In The Northland enough! Annette was fantastic to work with to plan and coordinate logistics. Jean. Jean was so accommodating and helped calm nerves as we...
prepared for our ceremony. Unexpected but we received so many compliments for our ceremony.
Response from Marry Me In The Northland on 05/10/2024
What a pleasure to meet you both and be a part of your special day. Wishing you every happ...
iness life has to offer!
Warmly, Jean
Angie J
5.0
1/31/2024
Annette was fantastic!!! We inquired and immediately received a response from Annette. We scheduled a phone call and discussed our ideas. She listened respectfully and made eve...
rything we wanted happen perfectly. She sent a wide variety of ceremonies to choose from or to use as a guide to write our own. She met us at our destination and professionally and lovingly performed our ceremony. It was perfect!!! As an added bonus, her husband took random photos with his cell phone during the ceremony. It was an intimate elopement on the North Shore on a warm December evening with candles on the rocks and waves splashing on the shore behind us. We will definitely renew our vows in the same place in the future with Marry Me in the Northland. She believes Love is Love with no judgment. She made it very clear that All are Welcome to use her services. It was perfect!
Sarah B
5.0
11/01/2023
Both Marry Me in the Northland and Jill were wonderful to work with. Highly recommend!
Robbin S
5.0
10/26/2023
Marry Me in the Northland was a dream find! Everyone was very genuine and professional. Everything was coordinated over e-mail and the phone until the day of the wedding. Jill w...
as our officiant, so sweet and sincere. We couldn't have been happier with our overall experience and would highly recommend!
Katy J
5.0
10/14/2023
Excellent service, customizable ceremonies, friendly, and professional. Lovely people!
Nick P
5.0
9/29/2023
Kathy (and the company) was super helpful, kind and fun. We were lucky to have her ❤️
Netanya H
5.0
9/28/2023
Marry Me in the Northland was so easy and great to work with! They have a ton of resources to help you piece together your ceremony, for whatever type of ceremony you are looking f...
or! Jill was our officiant and she was very professional and very patient with us. We had a tree planting ceremony, and she actually called around to find us the perfect tree! Very thankful for their services!
Amanda M
5.0
9/28/2023
Annette is amazing! She has many ceremony options to choose from, and we felt like ours was made just for us. She also thinks of everything you would need for your ceremony. She ma...
de us feel super comfortable before we said our vows, and I really appreciated that.
Jenny D
5.0
3/05/2023
Marry Me in the Northland made or wedding uniquely ours and special. It was easy to customize our vows with their help and our officiant couldn't have been more accommodating. We...
had an issue with our video and she completely went above and beyond her duties and offered to redo the entire ceremony so we could have it on video. She was so fantastic! I recommended that everyone uses them for their wedding!
Abby S
5.0
2/26/2023
We had officiant Kathy and she did an awesome job with the ceremony. She even dressed up for our Nordic Viking theme! I can't recommend them enough! It was a very beautiful ceremon...
y. Thank you for the memories!
Gizelle A
5.0
1/18/2023
Our wedding ceremony was precisely as coordinated and much more than I anticipated. If you are on the lookout for a dependable, affable, and one who goes above and beyond to make y...
our extraordinary day even more remarkable than you can envision, I would highly recommend wedding officiant Jill Veech from Marry Me In The Northland!
Katy B
5.0
12/06/2022
Marry Me In The Northland is great! We connected with Jill the minute we spoke with her on the phone. We were initially nervous about someone we had never met marrying us, relating...
to us , and really making our day special. After all, these were people who knew nothing about us. We spoke with Jill on the phone a couple times, we told her about us, our family, our life and it was like she had known us for years. She helped with any questions we had along the way and offered suggestions to us to help us really put together the ceremony we wanted. I would highly recommend Marry Me In The Northland!
Jennafer M
5.0
12/06/2022
They did an amazing job. Very helpful with everything
Haley S
5.0
12/01/2022
Marry Me In The Northland was so great to work with. Annette was so helpful with the early stages of the process and our officiant did a great job getting to know us and helping th...
e ceremony to go smoothly.
Michele S
4.0
11/28/2022
Marry Me In The Northland and Kathy were wonderful to work with. Very helpful with places to get married and wedding vows. We wanted something simple and personal to us and that ...
is what they provided. Kathy was very friendly and professional.
Megan E
5.0
10/30/2022
My husband and I booked Marry Me in the Northland for our September 2022 wedding and were happy with the services they provided. We booked them because wanted someone who was a pro...
fessional- not a friend or family member- but we wanted a secular ceremony, so didn't want to go with a pastor or priest. The templates Annette provided made it easy to choose a ceremony that felt like "us." Sarah was our officiant and did a fantastic job. We really appreciated how efficient she was, both for the ceremony and the rehearsal the night before. We were in great hands and would recommend her to others as well.
Caitlyn M
5.0
10/23/2022
Annette was helpful in creating a ceremony that was customized for us. She provided some sample ceremonies so we were able to pick and choose from those and add in some of our own ...
material to create a ceremony that fit us as a couple. She even helped us edit our ceremony on the day of due to illness. She brought large print copies of our readings for the ceremony which was very helpful. Annette was responsive and provided helpful feedback so our ceremony fit us and our timeline. She did a wonderful job on the day of making sure that everything still flowed smoothly with the last minute changes.
Heather H
5.0
3/31/2022
Annette was so wonderful to work with! My now husband and I eloped to Duluth and we had the most magical wedding. Annette was central to our amazing experience. She listened, custo...
mized our ceremony to what we wanted and was just wonderful. I'd recommend Annette to anyone!
Marvin K
5.0
1/14/2022
Annette was very personable and intuitive. She guided us in planning our wedding with suggestions we would have never considered ultimately tailoring our wedding to our environme...
nt...she officiated our wedding outdoors at 9 degrees above zero! Annette was very timely in responding to our communications and questions and her fees were more than fair. She arrived for our wedding on time with her husband Herb. Barring that we did not hire a photographer Herb stepped in and guided us in posing our ceremony with the most beautiful backdrop we could have hoped for...Herbs photos were sent via email within 24 hours at no charge and used on Facebook to announce our wedding. Annette and Herb are wonderful people and the best 'coaches' a couple could hope for in planning an outdoor wedding on the banks of a river under snow covered pine trees on a Winter Solstice.
Anna H
5.0
10/25/2021
Annette had such a great personality and did a wonderful job with our ceremony. She gave us the full freedom to personalize the ceremony and really make it our own while still maki...
ng helpful suggestions to keep everything moving smoothly. A great process and outcome, definitely recommend it!!
Samantha T
5.0
10/24/2021
Marry Me In The Nothland (Annette Lahr) constructed and officiated our wedding. She did a phenomenal job - we got so many compliments about how great and personal our ceremony was....
Annette was great at listening to what we had in mind and understanding our vision. Not to mention her husband who was also a HUGE help with the ceremony and making sure it went off without a hitch. Her and her hubby were a joy to work with- very responsive, attentive and personable!
Brianna W
5.0
10/19/2021
Annette was wonderful to work with. She was organized, professional, and answered all our questions in a timely manner. We had a couple out of the ordinary requests for our ceremo...
ny including having our dogs in the wedding and having the groom enter from the pier, Annette was willing to work with us and make them happen, tossing in tips or ways to make things go smoothly when needed. And she was wonderful with our dogs who were an important part of our ceremony! Would definitely recommend Annette to anyone looking for an officiant.
Justin H
5.0
10/16/2021
If your looking for the best officiant then your looking at the right people! Jean and Annette were absolutely amazing! Jean made us so comfortable and the attention to details wer...
e outstanding. I could not have asked for a better officiant for our wedding. Jean also checked in with us many times to see if there was anything we needed and offered support for vendors that we were looking for. Our wedding was amazing and we received so many compliments on our ceremony! Thank you for making our day so special and we were blessed to have you at our wedding. No matter who you love they are there to help with anything and make sure your day goes perfectly!!
Response from Marry Me In The Northland on 10/17/2021
Thank you so much for the many compliments! I'm really glad that I met you both, it was a...
n honor to officiate your wedding. I enjoyed the time we spent getting your ceremony ready and feel fortunate to have found two new friends. I wish you every happiness that life has to offer! Jean
Katie C
5.0
10/14/2021
Annette Lahr was a fantastic wedding officiant! Our ceremony was beautiful and she was very helpful. I really hadn't even been to many weddings before our own, and we were a little...
lost on what to put in our ceremony. But there was no need to worry, because Annette has created a detailed E-book to give you ideas and allow you and your significant other to create your perfect ceremony. I would definitely recommend Marry Me In The Northland.
Skyler K
5.0
8/04/2021
Annette was the BEST! Working with her was SOOO easy and she was very understanding.
She was always quick to respond and she made it easy to customize our ceremony in whatever way ...
we wanted.
She really took the time to understand us and what we represented!!!
Her team (Annette and her husband) handled, or at least had all necessary answers for all details regarding our ceremony. They were prepared for anything and everything and they really put our minds at ease during our rehearsal. They walked us through every step and made sure WE were comfortable before moving on.
Our day would not have been as successful and special without them!!!
Kristen S
5.0
8/03/2021
Annette and her team did a fantastic job officiating my wedding. She was very well organized and made the whole process as easy and seamless as possible. She has a whole host of ce...
remony scripts to choose from and will tailor the ceremony to meet the wishes of the couple. I would highly recommend, Marry Me in the Northland, to anyone looking for an officiant.
Jackie J
5.0
6/29/2021
Prior to my daughter finding Marry Me In the Northland, we were getting a little frantic about finding an officiant for an outdoor wedding in the Minocqua, WI area. It wasn't my da...
ughter's vision to have an overly religious ceremony, and non-clergy wedding officiants were proving hard to locate. Thankfully, she found Marry Me In the Northland, and Jean Larson officiated. The ceremony was beautiful. Jean worked with my daughter and son-in-law, and helped them craft a ceremony that was touching, meaningful, and uniquely theirs. Jean was a delight to meet and work with, and we had a wonderful time chatting with her before and after the ceremony. We highly recommend their services!
Megan M
5.0
2/27/2021
We originally started working with Annette for our wedding officiant services and she was a joy to talk to and work with! The attention to getting to know you and your partner was...
great! Through the COVID pandemic, we endured many changes to our original plan. When we changed our date for the third time, Annette was more than willing to make it work. Although she was not available for the date, she assured us she would pair us with another wonderful officiant - Jean Larson. We are SO thankful for Jean, as she was so easy to work with and was very pleasant to be around. Her speaking/officiating was so genuine & heartfelt.
Brittany H
5.0
1/08/2021
Jean was a delight to work with, she was so professional and had a ton of options for ceremonies to choose from and accommodated any changes to the vows we wanted to make our cerem...
ony our own, and on the recording of our wedding she was well spoken and at a great volume we didn't even need microphones!
Response from Marry Me In The Northland on 01/10/2021
Thank you so much Brittany, I really enjoyed working with you both to personalize your cer...
emony. I think it was perfectly suited to you both and I really enjoyed being a part of your day. I wish you every happiness that life has to offer!
Jean
Kevin H
5.0
11/16/2020
Working with Jill was a pleasure for our intimate wedding on 10/10/2020! She was early to our Madeline Island ceremony (which was no small feat when taking into account the ferry s...
chedule) so that we could run through the ceremony on site. Putting together a ceremony that was special for both of us and our family's was easy with Annette's help! I'm grateful we found Merry Me in the Northland and would recommend them to any other couples in the area.
Maxfield R
5.0
11/10/2020
Annette was great to work with. She worked with us to find the ceremony that fit us the best and delivered a great ceremony. Our guests had great things to say and my wife and I co...
uldn't have been happier how it went. We highly suggest working with Annette!
Tawna L
5.0
11/01/2020
Decided to elope on short notice! Called Marry Me in the Northland to request an officiant and got super lucky to not only have more than one officiant available on short notice bu...
t that the officiant we were matched up with was just fantastic! Shout out to Annette for finding Akela for us and being rockstars! Beyond satisfied 🥰
Kate J
5.0
10/30/2020
We were so lucky to find Annette as we planned our wedding ceremony. We were having the hardest time blending family desires into our dream day, but with the help of Annette we wer...
e able to create a beautiful ceremony that will be remembered forever. Annette’s commitment to us as a couple made us feel grounded and prepared to enter our wedding day. Her presentation of the material throughout the ceremony was flawless, as if she had it memorized. You will not be disappointed when working with Annette, or anyone from Marry Me in the Northland.
Karen M
5.0
9/30/2020
Though my partner, Josh, and I - both in our early sixties and previously married - shared a keep-things-simple mantra in relation to our wedding, great effort was required, thro...
ugh most of 2020 and its COVID complications, to adapt plans and manage expectations. By September, wedding rings and clothing were in place, but our license was still pending (following a county records error) and we were having difficulty finding a Minneapolis-based officiant whose availability aligned with ours and that of our respective sons and their partners (as witnesses) and a dear friend's who'd offered to make a cake for our backyard, no more than ten, distanced/masked wedding.
With a long-awaited and much-needed North Shore vacation in view, and disappointment-fatigue mounting, I declared that I was tired of wedding planning and was going to focus on vacation planning. However, I found myself unable to resist one last online search for Duluth-area officiants who might be available during the dates of our trip - which led me/us to Marry Me in the Northland (MMN), and Annette.
I submitted a Monday late-afternoon query through the MMN website to the effect of 'it's probably a longshot, but would Annette be available on any of the following dates.' Shortly afterward, Annette replied - positively - with dates and times, and suggested that we talk directly the next morning. Chatting with Annette felt like a conversation with a longtime friend. My spirits lightened considerably - and perhaps synchronously, our corrected wedding license arrived in that day's mail.
Between that Tuesday morning conversation and our early Saturday afternoon ceremony. Annette maintained close contact despite her busy schedule. She was warm, funny, and a good listener, professional and organized. She understood that Josh and I had adapted from a simple wedding plan to an impromptu elopement and made sure that it felt special and expressive of us as a couple. Her colleagues, Jean and Jason, who served as our witnesses and photographers, were equally gracious. Ultimately, our wedding, on the shore of Lake Superior, beneath Leif Erikson Park's rose garden - Annette's suggested location - in unseasonable Fall warmth, felt as lovely and perfect as it could possibly be.
Next week, when members of our original wedding party belatedly gather to celebrate, we will raise a toast to Annette, Jean and Jason for giving us this most memorable day.
Response from Marry Me In The Northland on 09/30/2020
Oh my gosh Karen! I have happy tears as I read your review! My heart is filled with hear...
tfelt thanks and you and Josh’s fabulous Elopement was truly a highlight this year. COVID-19 May be a horrible pandemic but I’m so very thankful that I got to meet you two! Please stay in touch as it seems like we have known each other longer than what it actually is. Best wishes to you
Kellianne R
5.0
9/29/2020
Hands down Annette is the best. She married us in September 2020. She made the whole process super easy. She also helped with recombination for makup, venues, and great places to e...
at (not even wedding related) she also helped me personally (im the bride) when the pandemic threatened i wedding plans Annette was there for me and helped me calm down and helped with back plans. If you want a stress free wedding you need to hire her !! We can't say enough good. She Truly made are wedding amazing.
Response from Marry Me In The Northland on 09/30/2020
Kellianne! I'm going to miss you! You are a pistol and just a truly wonderful person! I...
am honored to be a part of your ceremony and a part of the marriage planning process. I'm always one to offer suggestions! I wish you two only the best! Annette
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