I have given this review a lot of thought. Our wedding was 7/20/19. My husband had worked at the Skaneateles Mirbeau for many years and it was one of our special places. The mornin...g of the wedding, my aunt (who is known to make gorgeous wedding cakes) dropped off the large 3-tiered wedding cake with the bakery. The kitchen staff refused to let her use the fridge space because “our flowers for the centerpieces were taking up too much room in there”. Keep in mind the kitchen ovens were on and the weather outside was 92+ degrees.
Later in the day, at the beginning of the reception, I noticed that half our centerpieces were missing from the tables. Mirbeau staff had forgotten to put the rose pedals around the center flowers on each table and the mound of rose pedals on the head table under the “Mr & Mrs.” Sign. The head table was supposed to have a trail of pedals from the center piece sign trickling all the way down the table around the other flowers. Forgetting these pedals made our centerpieces appear skimpy. By the time I noticed, the staff told me it was too late to put them out and they would do a rose pedal turn down on our bed instead (that they later tried to charge us for, even though they were our pedals).
It was around this time during cocktail hour that my mother-in-law had to go around and fix the tables because they were missing chairs and guest place cards. When it came time for the meal, the starter salads did not come out as they were during the tasting. The “berry salad” that was supposed to be strawberries and raspberries had only blueberries. They forgot an entire tray of butternut squash ravioli for the vegetarians, and the meats did not come out at the same time so some guests missed the turkey all together. Dinner was at the very least a distraction from the 5-minute thunderstorm that passed through and knocked out all the power. The wedding coordinator didn’t even wait 20 minutes to ask us if we wanted to cancel the rest of the reception and “go to the pub in town”. I was appalled. She said they did not have a generator to fix the power issue. Luckily, a guest that lived nearby had a generator at their home and saved the day. We could at least have music and dance since the reception was being held outside in the daylight. Inside however, there were no emergency lights in the building and older guests were worried they might fall and hurt themselves when going to the bathroom.
Lastly, when it was time for the cake, they dropped the gorgeous cake my aunt made. My aunt was in tears and none of the guests were able to see the cake, only the topper they “saved”. They managed to save enough cake for each guest to have a slice, but this was absolutely not the “picture worthy” cake cutting I had in mind. If it wasn’t for the amazing DJ, wonderful guests, and the fact I was marrying my best friend, our wedding would have been completely ruined. They offered us a 30% refund, but showed literally no remorse for the poor quality of care and heartache they caused. I had to literally request them to send my aunt a day pass to try and make it up to her. She still refuses to talk about that day.