For our interfaith wedding, my (now) husband and I were so unsure of what to do. We at first thought that we would have a "combination" rabbi and pastor, but we could not decide if... that was really what we wanted. The first time I talked to Cantor Debbi, she immediately made me feel so comfortable, but besides that, she absolutely "got" us and our situation. She had been through it before, and knew that we wanted to bring our faiths together instead of show how different they were. She said that her goal was to show, by having one officiant that incorporated both faiths, that our faiths were coming together, instead of having two separate officiants that showed the clear differences between us. Our guests have not stopped raving about our ceremony - they say that it was the perfect amount of traditions of both faiths, while being beautiful, romantic, and intimate. Cantor Debbi feels like a friend, and my husband and I feel that our wedding was so special because of her!
